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- 1. E hoʻomanaʻo he aha ka pilina maʻamau
- 2. E launa pū me kou mau naʻau
- 3. E nānā i ke kaulike o ka kaohi ma waena o nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua
- 4. ʻAe ma kekahi mau huaʻōlelo
- 5. Mai ʻōlelo ʻoe aloha iā lākou
- 6. Mai hoʻopunipuni a manipulate paha i kāu hoa
- 7. Mai lilo i freak kaohi a i ʻole kaohi ʻia
- 8. Hōʻalo i nā pō pule e hoʻonoho i kahi palena ʻokanika maikaʻi
- 9. Hoʻomaopopo i ke ʻano lele o ka pilina
- 10. E mahalo kekahi i kekahi
ʻOi aku ka makemake o kekahi poʻe i nā pilina pili kino ma mua o nā pilina paʻa. No ka poʻe uninitiated, pehea ʻoe e wehewehe ai i nā pili pili ʻole?
ʻO kahi pilina pōkole a lōʻihi paha kahi laulā ākea, mai ka pō hoʻokahi e kū ana, kahi hoʻonohonoho "hoaaloha me nā pōmaikaʻi", kāhea waiwai pio, ʻaʻohe hanana moekolohe a i ʻole ka pili aloha maʻamau.
ʻOiaʻiʻo i kekahi manawa, inā he moeʻuhane ke kanaka e noho a noho i ka male, pono paha lākou e hoʻomaka e noʻonoʻo pehea e hoʻololi ai mai ka leʻaleʻa wale ʻana i kahi pilina maʻamau i hiki ke ʻoliʻoli i ka pilina paʻa e like me ka nui.
Aia kekahi mau kānaka nona ka pilina maʻamau e hoʻopau i ka hana nui, ʻoiai me kekahi hakakā ma mua o ka hoʻolālā mua ʻia.
Akā aia kekahi mau manawa ke komo kekahi kanaka i kahi pilina maʻamau e hoʻomohala i nā manaʻo hohonu no ke kanaka a lākou e leʻaleʻa nei a lana a manaʻo e hoʻolilo ia i pilina pili.
Akā, ke leʻaleʻa nei kekahi i ka leʻaleʻa puʻuwai māmā, e leʻaleʻa nei i ka pili pili ʻole.
ʻO wai ka mea e alakaʻi i ka nīnau, he aha nā alakaʻi no ka pilina maʻamau? Pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke ʻike inā e holomua ana nā mea i mea nui aʻe? a pehea ʻoe e hana ai me kēlā inā ʻaʻole ia kāu makemake?
He ʻōlelo maʻalahi ka ʻōlelo aʻo pilina maʻamau e ʻike i nā pane āpau i kēia mau nīnau mai ka offset, nā kānaka like ʻole a ʻokoʻa nā kūlana āpau.
Akā inā ʻoe e hāhai i kēia mau kulekele pehea e pili ai i kahi pilina maʻamau, ʻike paha ʻoe ʻaʻole āu e nīnau hou.
1. E hoʻomanaʻo he aha ka pilina maʻamau
ʻAe, no laila ʻike mākou ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kaohi mau i kou mau manaʻo, a inā he maʻalahi kou e aloha maʻalahi, ʻaʻole paha no ʻoe kahi pili pili ʻole.
He mea maʻamau ʻole wale nō ia.
ʻO ia ka pilina maʻamau, kahi pilina moekolohe, kahi ʻaʻohe lula a i ʻole nā hoʻokō wā lōʻihi i kekahi i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
Inā manaʻo ʻoe e hiki ana iā ʻoe ke lawelawe i kahi pilina maʻamau ma ke ʻano he ala e hoʻokokoke aku ai i kahi kanaka, ua loaʻa mua kou mau manaʻo i ke kanaka, a laila ʻo ka launa pū ʻana me lākou he kumu hoʻolālā kiʻekiʻe loa ia e hopena ai iā ʻoe ʻeha ʻia ʻana.
ʻO kāu koho inā makemake ʻoe e lawe i ka pilikia a ʻaʻole paha akā ʻōlelo mākou iā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka makaʻu o ka noho ma kahi pilina maʻamau.
2. E launa pū me kou mau naʻau
Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi pilina pili ʻole a pūʻiwa ʻoe i kēia manawa i ka ʻike ʻana ke hoʻomaka nei ʻoe e hopu i nā 'manaʻo āpau' no ke kanaka āu e leʻaleʻa nei, e haʻalele i ka ʻike ʻana iā lākou no kekahi mau pule i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i kou mau manaʻo.
Inā ʻoe e nalo iā lākou, a laila ʻelua āu koho e pili ana i ka lawelawe ʻana i kahi pilina maʻamau.
- E hoʻohuli iā ʻoe iho a neʻe i kēia kanaka.
- E haʻi iā lākou i kou ʻano(akā e mākaukau no ka loaʻa ʻole o ka manaʻo i ka mea ʻē aʻe a i lilo paha i pro ma nā pilina maʻamau).
Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe ka pane hope, mai lawe iā ʻoe iho a i ʻole me ke kīkēkē e kūʻē i kou hilinaʻi a mahalo paha, neʻe a aʻo mai iā ia.
E ʻike koke ʻoe i kekahi āu e makemake nui ai, ʻaʻole e leʻaleʻa wale i nā pilina maʻamau.
3. E nānā i ke kaulike o ka kaohi ma waena o nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua
I loko o kahi pilina maʻamau, loaʻa ka mana o kekahi i kekahi.
ʻO lākou paha ka mea e mālama liʻiliʻi ana akā maʻamau, ʻo ka mea i ʻoi aku ka mana, kāhea i nā pū. Hoʻoholo lākou inā kūpono ke kau, a ʻaʻole e hoʻokuʻi inā ʻaʻole lākou makemake.
Inā ʻoe e hele pū me kēlā a ʻike iā ʻoe iho e makemake nei a e haʻohaʻo ana i kou wā e ʻike hou ai i kāu hoa helehelena, a laila ʻo ia kekahi o nā hōʻailona maopopo e lilo ana kāu pilina pili pilikino i mea koʻikoʻi a he manaʻo kou no kēia kanaka.
No laila, he manawa paha kēia e hele wāwae. ʻ aʻe, e hāhai i nā ʻōkuhi ma ka helu ʻekahi.
E nānā pū kekahi:
4. ʻAe ma kekahi mau huaʻōlelo
ʻAe, ua ʻōlelo mākou ʻaʻohe kānāwai i ka launa maʻamau, akā aia kekahi mau rula pili aloha.
I ka hapanui o nā hihia, makemake kekahi hoa i nā mea hou aʻe mai ka pilina, no laila ke hiki mai ia, ʻaʻole ʻeha ke loaʻa nā lula i kahi e pale ai iā ʻolua.
Nā lula e like me ke kāhea ʻana o kekahi o ʻoukou i ka manawa, mahalo nā mea ʻē aʻe iā ia a ʻaʻole e kāhea hou aku i nā waiwai pio iā ʻoe.
Hiki i nā lula maʻamau ke kōkua i ke kōkua iā ʻolua.
O kahi laʻana, inā hui kekahi o ʻoukou i kekahi mea ʻē, pono lākou e hoʻomaopopo i kā lākou hoa helehelena. A i ʻole ʻae paha ʻoe i nā ʻōlelo pehea ʻoe e hui ai - malia ʻaʻole makemake ʻoe i nā kāhea waiwai pio, a no laila ʻae ʻoe e hui hoʻokahi i kēlā me kēia pule.
ʻO ke kamaʻilio wale ʻana i kāu hoa hana maʻamau e pili ana i kā lākou mau mea e manaʻo ai e kōkua iā ʻoe ʻelua e kūkā i nā ʻōlelo i ʻae ʻia a me ka mana no nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua.
Eia kekahi mau laʻana o nā nīnau āu e nīnau ai kekahi i kekahi -
- Pehea kou manaʻo e pili ana i ka pili aloha ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ke pili nei i kahi pilina maʻamau?
- Pehea mākou e hana ai i nā mea inā aloha kekahi i kekahi, a i ʻole kekahi?
- Ehia mau manawa a mākou e hui ai?
- E hūnā paha kēia pilina?
- He aha kā mākou e hana ai inā e hopu kekahi o mākou i 'ka manaʻo'?
- Pehea mākou e hoʻopau ai i nā mea i ke ʻano a mākou e maopopo ai ua pau inā ʻaʻole kekahi o mākou e manaʻo hou?
He nīnau huewehi paha kēia e nīnau aku ai, akā e hauʻoli nō ʻoe i kāu hana ʻana i loko o ka manawa o kāu pili, a i ʻole inā huikau nā mea i nā mahina e hiki mai ana.
5. Mai ʻōlelo ʻoe aloha iā lākou
Mai ʻōlelo ʻoe aloha ʻoe i ke kanaka āu e leʻaleʻa nei i kahi pilina maʻamau, ke ʻole ʻoe i ukali i nā helu āpau ma luna, ʻo ia hoʻi ka mea mua.
Inā ʻoe e kamaʻilio pū me kāu hoa helehelena a manaʻo pū kekahi lākou a makemake e lawe i nā mea i kahi ʻokoʻa wale nō, a laila ʻo ia paha kahi manawa kūpono kūpono e hoʻololi ai aloha wau iā ʻoe.
I kekahi manawa a hoʻohoka nui paha ʻoe.
6. Mai hoʻopunipuni a manipulate paha i kāu hoa
Mai ʻōlelo huikau iā lākou, kahi e oscillate ai ʻoe ma waena o ka haʻi ʻana iā lākou he maikaʻi ka wehe ʻana i kāu mau koho, ʻoiai e lili a i ʻole teritori.
Hoʻohilahila ʻoe iā lākou.
Eia nō naʻe, mai hāʻule i loko o ka pahele o ka manipulation kahi a lākou e haʻi aku ai iā ʻoe e hui a hoʻomaka me ka pilina me kekahi mea ʻē aʻe, a e hōʻike pū nei hoʻi i ko lākou hemahema nou.
Inā makemake ʻoe e holo pono ka pilina maʻamau, hoʻolei i ka hana i waho o ka hoʻohālikelike.
7. Mai lilo i freak kaohi a i ʻole kaohi ʻia
Pili ka pilina maʻamau i ʻelua mau kānaka ʻae.
ʻO ka manawa pinepine, hoʻopau kekahi hoa i ka hāʻawi ʻana i kā lākou kaohi mamao i ka poʻe ʻē aʻe i kāhea i nā pana i ka hoʻoholo ʻana e hoʻopaʻa a pale paha i ka ʻike ʻana o kekahi i kekahi.
Mai hāʻawi i kaʻae i kekahi mea a lākou e ʻōlelo wale ai no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomanawanui i ka hoʻokuke ʻana iā lākou. ʻO ka mea like kaulike ka mālama ʻana i ke kaulike kahi āu e hoʻokau nui ʻole ai ka kaohi ʻana me ka huli o nā hanana.
Inā makemake ʻoe e huki ana lākou i nā kaula, hele.
8. Hōʻalo i nā pō pule e hoʻonoho i kahi palena ʻokanika maikaʻi
Hoʻokaʻawale i ka pule e nānā i kou noʻonoʻo a me kou ikaika i kēlā me kēia mea e pono ai ʻoe e kia. Hana, ʻohana, hana, hana mākau, e ʻimi nei i kāu mau makemake a me nā leʻaleʻa.
Ma ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kekahi mea ma ke ʻano “hopena pule wale nō” ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻokau i kahi mau manaʻo kūpono ʻole a i ʻole ke hoʻonui ʻana i ka pilina.
Eia kekahi, e hōʻalo ana ʻoe i nā ʻehaʻeha o ka naʻau, ke kokoke loa ʻoe a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi me kāu mau pakele maʻamau me kekahi.
Mai hoʻokumu i nā hoʻolālā he nui a puni iā lākou a i ʻole ka hapa nui o kāu hoʻokaʻawale manawa e aloha ai iā lākou.
9. Hoʻomaopopo i ke ʻano lele o ka pilina
I kekahi manawa, pono ʻoe e hoʻokuʻi i kēia hoʻonohonoho pili ʻole i nā aho, neʻe i kou ola, a ʻae e kūkulu lākou i kahi ola kaʻawale, nani no lākou iho.
E aloha i ka ʻoliʻoli hauʻoli a nani hoʻi āu i hauʻoli ai, ʻoiai inā he holo wale.
10. E mahalo kekahi i kekahi
ʻAʻohe o ka resonant maʻamau me ka ʻole o ka mahalo o kekahi i kekahi.
ʻAʻole kūkākūkā ʻia i kēlā me kēia pilina, o kēlā me kēia ʻano. Hana maʻamau, hana paʻa, a i ʻole ma kahi ma waena.
He mea nui ia mālama i kāu hoa helehelena me ka mahalo, ke akahai, a me ka lokomaikaʻi āu e mālama ai i kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe-ʻEmi wale i ka hoʻokō o kahi pilina lōʻihi.
ʻO ka hope, hoʻomanaʻo e hoʻopono me ʻoe iho, a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo.
He kanaka ʻoe, a ʻaʻohe mea maʻamau ke kiʻi i nā manaʻo no kekahi. Pono ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo ʻaʻole e hoʻihoʻi ʻia kēlā mau manaʻo i kēia kūlana.
He mea nui ia e hoʻomanaʻo he hiki i kahi pilina ke lilo i mea maʻamau inā lōʻihi nā manaʻo o nā lālā ʻelua.
Ma ka ukali ʻana i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pilina pili pono e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke ʻohi i nā pōmaikaʻi o kahi pilina koʻikoʻi ʻole me ka hōʻino ʻole ʻana i kou maluhia o ka noʻonoʻo a me ka mālama ʻana i nā mile keaka pono ʻole mai kahi mamao aku.