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- 1. ʻIke e hoʻomaka kahi male hauʻoli ma mua o ka male maoli
- 2. E koho maikaʻi, a hana ikaika
- 3. E noho olakino kekahi i kekahi
- 4. E hoʻoholo i ka mea e hana i ka mea e hoʻomau i ka hele ʻana o ka home
- 5. Hana i nā hana e pale aku ai i ka "make moe moe wahine"
Ua loaʻa i nā kāne a me ka wahine ʻāpono ke kuleana e mare ai a ʻo ka hapanui o nā ʻAmelika e kākoʻo i ka manaʻo o ka male male wahine a male kāne like paha.
Makemake e hoʻopaʻa ʻia ko lāua pilina a nānā ʻia e like me ke kūpono o nā kāne heterosexual, ua hele a nui nā kāne male i ka hale kaona a i ko lākou wahi hoʻomana e hana ai kekahi i kekahi i mua o nā hoaaloha a me ka ʻohana.
Akā, pehea e pili ana i ka "hauʻoli mau loa"?
Pehea e maopopo ai i nā kāne male wahine e hoʻomau i ke aloha, ka hanohano, ka mahalo a me - like ka mea nui - e leʻaleʻa i kā lāua male, ma hope o ka hoʻolei ʻia ʻana o ka laiki a ua pau ka waihona meli.
Eia kekahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male male wahine maikaʻi. E hoʻohana i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻo pilina pili wahine e maopopo ai pehea e hana ai ka male wahine male a mālama i ka huna ahi i kāu male wahine wahine.
1. ʻIke e hoʻomaka kahi male hauʻoli ma mua o ka male maoli
Hana hope male male wahine paha?
ʻAe, hana hope ka male wahine a ʻo ka mare wahine aloha ʻole kahi moʻolelo kaʻao.
Hiki ke mau ka male male male wahine inā holo ʻoe i kāu pilina me kou puʻuwai āpau. Ma mua o kāu ʻōlelo ʻana "hana wau" makemake ʻoe e hōʻoia ʻo kēia wahine ka wahine.
Ua hōʻike ʻia ka noiʻi e pili ana i nā kāne male wahine e wikiwiki a hana ʻoi aku ka impulsive ma mua o nā kāne heterosexual, kahi e kau pinepine ai ke kāne i nā paleki i ka hana koke ʻana i kahi hoʻonohonoho ola.
He ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ka male male male 50% ʻoi aku ka hopena o ka male male ma mua o ka male male heterosexual. No laila, he mea maʻamau iā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka hana o ka male male wahine.
No ka male male wahine maikaʻi, e hana i ka noʻonoʻo hohonu ma mua o ka nakinaki ʻana i nā kaula, i ʻole pono ʻoe e wehe i nā knot like i lalo o ka laina no ka mea ua lele wikiwiki ʻoe.
He mea maikaʻi mau ia e hana i kahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka male ʻana e ana iā ʻoe a me ka launa ʻana o kāu ipo wahine, nā waiwai, a me ka likelihood o kahi male kūleʻa.
2. E koho maikaʻi, a hana ikaika
ʻO kēia kekahi o nā ʻōlelo aʻo wahine wahine mua ma nā pilina, pono ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo ma mua o ke kū ʻana i kekahi hoʻokō.
I mea e leʻaleʻa ai i kāu male, e koho maikaʻi i kāu hoa. Ke ʻike maoli ʻoe ʻo kēia wahine ka wahine āu e makemake ai e noho i ke koena o kou ola me ʻoe, e hana ikaika e mālama pēlā.
E nānā i kāu wahine, akā iā ʻoe iho nō. E kālai i kāu ʻike ponoʻī, nā hoihoi, a me nā kuko, inā ʻoe e nānā i mua i nā pili wahine aloha wā lōʻihi.
ʻAʻole ʻoe makemake e luhi a ʻaʻohe mea e kamaʻilio ai ke noho ʻoe i kēlā me kēia me ka ʻaha ʻaina.
E hana ikaika e mālama i ke kumu aloha o kāu male: hōʻike i ke aloha, ua liʻiliʻi ʻelua — kahi palapala aloha i koe ma ka pā no kāu kāne e loaʻa ai ma hope o kou hele ʻana i ka hana — i kahi nui — kahi huakaʻi hopena hope loa o ka hopena pule i kou peʻe huna aloha.
ʻO ka mea āu e makemake ai e hōʻalo i ka lawe wale ʻana i kekahi i kekahi. He ala kūpono kēlā e hoʻopau ai i ka leʻaleʻa mai kahi pilina.
3. E noho olakino kekahi i kekahi
Kūpono ka poʻe olakino i kahi kūlana e leʻaleʻa ai i kā lākou male i kēia manawa a me ka wā e hiki mai ana. Ma ka pae kino, ʻo ia hoʻi ka ʻai ʻana i ke olakino e hoʻonui i kou ʻōnaehana pale maʻi a pale aku i ka maʻi.
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hoʻoikaika kino i kēlā me kēia lā no laila e hoʻonui ai ʻoe i kāu mau hormones ʻo "mood maikaʻi" he mea nui pū kekahi.
Mālama i ke kino olakino a me ka noʻonoʻo e hāʻawi i ka olakino noʻonoʻo āpau, a ʻo ia hoʻi, hāʻawi i kahi kiʻekiʻe o ka leʻaleʻa i kāu male.
4. E hoʻoholo i ka mea e hana i ka mea e hoʻomau i ka hele ʻana o ka home
I ka male male wahine, ʻaʻole wehewehe iki ke ʻano o ke kāne a hoʻohālikelike ʻia me ka male heterosexual.
Hōʻike nā noiʻi i nā kāne a me nā kāne a me nā kāne a me nā kāne a me nā kāne a me nā kāne a me nā kāne hexosexual.
No laila he mea wale nō ia o ʻolua e kamaʻilio nei i kahi e makemake ai e hoʻokaʻawale i nā hana hoʻomalu hale ma ke ala ʻoi loa.
ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o kekahi o ʻoukou ma nā hana DIY, e like me ka unclogging ʻana i kahi poho i kākoʻo ʻia a i ʻole ke kau ʻana i nā kiʻi? ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o kekahi o ʻoukou i ka lumi kuke, e ʻoluʻolu ana i ka hoʻolālā papa ʻaina a me ka hoʻokumu ʻana i nā meaʻai ʻono?
I mea e mālama ʻole ai i ka male, makemake ʻoe e hoʻoikaika e ʻike like i ka hāʻawi like ʻia o nā hana o ka hale a ke hāʻawi nei ʻolua i ka holo pono o kou ola home.
Hiki ke ulu ka huhū inā hoʻokahi wale nō o ʻoe e hana nei i nā kālepa āpau, kuke ʻana, hoʻomaʻemaʻe a me nā hoʻoponopono home. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe ka moʻohelu kālā, e noʻonoʻo e uku i nā lawelawe i waho (kahi kanaka hoʻomaʻemaʻe, kahi lima lima) inā ʻaʻole kekahi o ʻoukou e makemake e lawe i kekahi mau hana.
Ke hoʻopuka nei i kekahi o nā kuleana ʻoluʻolu ʻē aʻe o ka male ʻana hiki ke mālama iā ʻoe i ke kaumaha nui.
5. Hana i nā hana e pale aku ai i ka "make moe moe wahine"
Wahi a ka American sexologist Pepper Schwartz e aʻo nei ma ke Kulanui o Wakinekona, i ka male male wahine, e noho ka wahine i ka noho hope ma mua o ka pili - ma mua o ka heterosexual a me nā kāne male kāne. ʻIke ʻia kēia hanana he make moe moe wahine.
Akā ke kākoʻo ʻana i kahi pilina aloha lōʻihi me ka pili ʻole o ke kino ke paʻakikī. I ka male wahine, nui ka nui o ka wahine i ka male male a i ka male heterosexual.
No laila, pono nā kāne male wahine e hoʻoikaika mau i ka mālama ʻana i kā lākou ola wahine. He mea nui loa kēia ʻōlelo aʻo male wahine ma muli o ka make ʻana o ka moena wahine ma ke ʻano o nā kumu maʻamau no ke kaʻawale ʻana o lākou ma mua o nā kāne male a heterosexual.
No laila, ʻo ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo moe wahine nui ka mea hoʻowalewale me ka hana moekolohe a hoʻāʻo i nā mea hou e kōkua ai i ka mālama ʻana i ka moekolohe no ka manawa lōʻihi.
- E hoʻomanaʻo i ka mana o ka hoʻopā
I nā lā mua o kou pili aloha, ua pā pinepine paha kekahi i kekahi. Akā i kēia manawa aia ʻoe i loko o kahi male paʻa, hoʻopoina paha ʻoe i ka nui o ka ʻili i ka ʻili.
Lawe i ka lima o kāu wahine ke hele aku a puni; lomilomi i ko lākou poʻohiwi ke nānā nei ʻoe i ke kīwī. Hiki i ka pilina kino ke hoʻokuʻu i ka hormone manaʻo maikaʻi i ʻike ʻia he ʻoxytocin e kōkua iā ʻoe e pili i kekahi i kekahi.
E hōʻoia e hoʻopā, ʻoiai ma ke ʻano moe kolohe, ma ka liʻiliʻi hoʻokahi manawa i ka lā. He mea hoʻomanaʻo hoʻomanaʻo ia no ka nui o kou hoʻomana ʻana i kekahi i kekahi. ʻO kēia kahi ʻōlelo aʻo pili pili wahine ʻē aʻe e hoʻomanaʻo!
- E hōʻoia pinepine me kekahi
E hoʻokaʻawale i kahi manawa e hana ai i kahi hōʻoia "olakino olakino a me ka pono". Kēia kamaʻilio hiki i kēlā me kēia mahina.
E hoʻomaka me kahi nīnau e like me "He aha kaʻu e hana ai e hana i kou ola maʻalahi / ʻoluʻolu hou aʻe?" Wehe kēia i ke kūkākūkā i kahi ala maikaʻi, e hōʻike ana makemake ʻoe e lohe pehea ʻoe e kākoʻo ai i kāu wahine.
ʻO ka pahuhopu o kēia mau check-ins ka mea e pale aku i nā hakakā liʻiliʻi mai ka ulu ʻana a lilo i hiki ʻole ke hoʻokele.
He ala maikaʻi loa ia e lawe i ka mahana o kāu male a e hōʻoia i ka ʻohi mau ʻana o ʻolua i nā pōmaikaʻi o kā ʻolua hui ʻana.
- Mai hōʻalo i ka pono e noho kaʻawale i kēlā me kēia manawa
ʻO ka huaʻōlelo "ka hakahaka e ulu ai ka puʻuwai puʻuwai" ʻoiaʻiʻo no nā pilina āpau, hetero a me nā kāne kāne. ʻAʻole ka manaʻo o ka male ʻana i ka hoʻopili ʻia i nā manawa āpau.
E kūkulu i ka manawa kaawale mai kēlā me kēia i kāu papa kuhikuhi. He hopena pule wale nō paha ia ma ka spa, a i ʻole ke ahiahi me kou mau mākua, ʻo ʻoe wale nō.
E haʻi aku nā kāne lōʻihi āpau iā ʻoe he mea nui e hoʻokaʻawale i ka manawa ma kahi kaʻawale, inā wale nō no ka hui momona i mālama ʻia i kou hoʻi ʻana i ka home.
ʻO kēia kekahi mau ʻāpana pono o ka ʻōlelo aʻo wahine i ka pili pili. ʻO ka mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo ai i ka male male wahine ʻaʻole e lawe wale i kāu hoa a e aloha mau kekahi i kekahi me kou puʻuwai āpau.