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- 1. ʻAeʻae
- 2. Manaʻo maikaʻi
- 3. E aloha a piʻi i lalo
- 4. Hoʻomaopopo e loli ka moekolohe i ka manawa kūpono
- 5. E ʻae i nā ʻokoʻa
- 6. Mākaukau e kū i nā pilikia
- 7. E mahalo kekahi i kekahi
- 8. Manaʻo palekana
- Mele aloha mau
- ʻO ke aloha aloha mau loa
Moemoeā mākou āpau i ke aloha mau loa. He moʻolelo aloha e pili ana i nā makahiki e hiki mai ana. ʻO ka hilinaʻi a me ka manaʻo o ke aloha e noho mau no nā makahiki a me nā makahiki e hiki mai ana. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole hiki i nā mea he nui ke hoʻokō i kēia; ʻike ʻole kekahi inā ua hoʻokō lākou.
No laila, e hoʻolauleʻa i ke aloha a nānā i ke aloha mau loa i ke ʻano, kekahi o nā mele nui loa a me nā puʻuwai e pā i ka naʻau.
ʻO ke aloha ke aloha wale. ʻAʻole ia he mea e manaʻo ai i kekahi mea i ka hoʻihoʻi. ʻO ia e hōʻoluʻolu, hauʻoli a kūpaʻa hoʻi nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. ʻO ke aloha e pili ana i ka haʻi ʻole. Ua hāʻawi mai ʻo Hollywood iā mākou i kekahi o nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni moʻolelo aloha o ko mākou manawa e like me The Notebook, P.S. Aloha au iā ʻoe i waena o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. I nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni e kamaʻilio lākou e pili ana i ke aloha maoli a mau loa paha kekahi i kekahi, akā pehea e ʻike ai inā ʻoe i ke aloha 'maoli'? E nānā wikiwiki kākou ma mua o ka neʻe i mua.
Pehea e ʻike ai inā he aloha mau ʻoe?
1. ʻAeʻae
ʻO ke aloha mau loa e wehewehe maikaʻi a hōʻike pehea e ʻike ai ke aloha ʻoe. Ke aloha ʻoe, i ke aloha mau loa, ʻae ʻoe i ke kanaka e like me lākou.
ʻAʻole makemake ʻoe e hoʻololi iki iā lākou; nānā ʻole ʻoe i kā lākou ʻaoʻao maikaʻi ʻole, ʻokoʻa ʻoe e aloha nui i kēlā me kēia. Hana wale kēia ke hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike ma o ko lākou puʻuwai a ʻike ʻo lākou nō nāu. He mea nui nō ke aloha lōʻihi. Ma kahi ʻaʻohe ʻae ʻia o ke kanaka no lākou, ma laila e loaʻa ai kekahi mau hakakā ke hala aku ka manawa.
2. Manaʻo maikaʻi
I ka manawa hea kou manawa e ʻike ai i ka hauʻoli lōʻihi loa ke aloha ʻoe i kekahi? ʻAʻole hiki.
Ke loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻāʻī, noho mau ʻoe me ka hauʻoli a hauʻoli no kēia manawa a laila hele a mae wale. Eia nō naʻe, a laila aloha ʻoe i ke aloha mau, ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e hoʻopuni ʻia me ka hauʻoli no nā lā, nā pule a me nā mahina.
E loli nā mea a puni ʻoe a e nanea wale ʻoe i kēlā me kēia lā o kou lā, me kēlā kanaka a i ʻole me ka manaʻo o kēlā kanaka.
3. E aloha a piʻi i lalo
ʻIke mākou āpau i ka pilina ma waena a me nā lalo akā ʻaʻole nui ka mākaukau e aloha i kēia a ʻae iā ia ma ke ʻāpana o ke ola. Eia nō naʻe, ke aloha mau ʻoe, aloha ʻoe i nā ʻāpana āpau o ka pilina, ʻo nā mea maikaʻi ʻole hoʻi.
No laila, ʻike koke ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i kahi kūlana i piʻi a i lalo ʻaʻole e hoʻopili i ka ikaika o kāu aloha i kāu hoa āpau.
4. Hoʻomaopopo e loli ka moekolohe i ka manawa kūpono
ʻO ka moekolohe kahi mea nui o nā pilina.
Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole maopopo ka hapa nui e like me kāu pilina, ʻoiai ke hele ka moekolohe ma nā ʻano ʻokoʻa. Nui ke aloha i ka hoʻomaka a laila ma hope o ka noho makua ʻana e kīloi a ma hope i nā makahiki he pinepine ka hana ʻana. Eia nō naʻe, ke aloha mau ʻoe, nānā ʻole ʻoe i nā mea āpau a aloha i kēlā me kēia wā o ka moekolohe. No ka mea me ʻoe pū me kāu pakanā mea ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe.
5. E ʻae i nā ʻokoʻa
ʻAʻohe o ʻelua mau mea like. Minamina, ʻaʻole hiki i ka hapa nui ke maopopo i kēia ke komo lākou i loko o kahi pilina. Eia nō naʻe, ʻokoʻa ka mea ke aloha mau loa kekahi. Hoʻomaopopo lākou i kēia a ʻae i ke kanaka inā paha he ʻokoʻa ko lākou. ʻAʻole pilikia nā ʻokoʻa iā lākou. Aloha aloha lākou.
6. Mākaukau e kū i nā pilikia
He ala pilikia kahi pilina.
I kekahi manawa he lā lā a piha kekahi mau lā i nā ao ʻeleʻele. Hoʻokomo ʻia ke aloha i nā hoʻokolohua pinepine a ʻo kahi mea i ke aloha mau loa e hele maʻalahi ma mua o nā pilikia i hāʻawi ʻia e ke ola iā lākou. Kaua lākou i hope a loaʻa pū paha i kahi hopena i kā lākou pilikia pū. ʻO nā mea āpau iā lākou ka hui pū ʻana ma ka hopena o ka lā.
7. E mahalo kekahi i kekahi
ʻO ka mahalo i kahi pilina e hele wale mai ia.
ʻAʻohe mea e koi a koi ʻia paha i loko. I ke aloha mau loa, hele wale mai ia. ʻIke ʻoe i nā mea maikaʻi i kāu pakanā a hauʻoli no ka noho pū ʻana me lākou.
E ʻike pinepine paha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e kamaʻilio pū ana e pili ana i nā mea maikaʻi a kāu hoa i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe pū kekahi. ʻLelo nui kēia iā ʻoe a pehea kou aloha i kāu hoa. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole ʻoe e kaena wale no, no ka mea, ʻike hohonu ʻoe i kou aloha i kāu hoa.
8. Manaʻo palekana
E lilo kēia i aloha aloha mau loa. He mea nui ka manaʻo palekana. Hiki i kahi kānalua ke hoʻopau loa i kou pilina. No laila, i ke aloha mau loa, ua ʻoi aku kou palekana ma mua o ka wā ma mua. ʻIke ʻoe, ʻaʻohe mea, e pili kokoke ana kāu hoa iā ʻoe i nā manawa āpau.
Mele aloha mau
- ʻAʻole wau makemake e lilo i kou aloha - John O'Banion
- Kai o ke aloha - The Honeydpers
- The Best of Me - Olivia Newton-John / David Foster
- No kou aloha iaʻu - Celine Dion
- Aloha pau ʻole - Lionel Richie & Diana Ross
- ʻO ke ahi mau loa - Bangles
ʻO ke aloha aloha mau loa
- ʻO nā hōkū, ua kau kēlā ʻano i ka lani a hoʻopiha i kā lākou mau kukui me ka aila mau loa, e hāʻawi i ka mālamalama kūpono no ka mea hele hewa a mehameha. - John Milton
- He mau loa ka ʻuhane, a ʻo kāna ʻike aʻo i ke ola holoʻokoʻa ma hope o ke ola holoʻokoʻa
- Makemake wau e ʻike ʻoe i hoʻokahi mea, e ʻoiaʻiʻo wau iā ʻoe, a e ʻōlelo mau wau iā ʻoe, aloha wau iā ʻoe. - ʻO ʻAuliq Ice
- ʻO ʻoe nā kumu āpau, kēlā me kēia manaʻolana, a me kēlā me kēia moeʻuhane i loaʻa iaʻu. - Nicholas Spark