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ʻO kahi pilina kahi ola ola āu i ʻāpana ai a i hana ai ʻoe i kēlā me kēia lā. E like me nā mea ola, i ka wā e ulu ana i ka pilina e ulu a hoʻololi maoli. ʻO ka hōʻailona maopopo loa o kahi loli ka makemake o nā hoa e male. Ke ulu nei ka pilina, ʻoi aku ka nui o kāu kāne male ma mua o kāu ipo wahine - lilo ʻo ia i mea nāna e hoʻolilo i kou koena o kou ola.
E like me ia, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kaupalena iā ʻoe iho i nā pua rose a me nā pahu kokoleka i kekahi manawa. I ka manawa āu e koho ai, e ʻike paha ʻoe i nā mea āpau e pili ana i kāu hapalua i koho ʻia - kāna mau makemake a makemake ʻole hoʻi. ʻO ka manawa kēia e lawe i kahi ʻanuʻu ma mua o nā manaʻo makana makana haʻahaʻa no kāu ipo wahine, ʻoiai ʻo ia i hoʻohauʻoli iā ia, ʻaʻole lawa no kāu kāne hoʻopalau.
I mea e ʻike pono ai, eia nā makana maikaʻi he 5 e kahaha ai i kāu ipo.
1. Nā momi
ʻO ka momi ka makana kuʻuna i waena o ka poʻe e male. Ma mua o nā ʻāpana o nā mea hoʻonaninani i makemake nui ʻia e nā wahine, ʻo ka lei momi kahi mea e hiki ai i ka wahine makua ke komo me ka kūleʻa kupaianaha. Me kēia makana, hōʻike ʻoe iā ia ʻo ia kāu mea nui kiʻekiʻe a e hele ʻoe ma kona ʻaoʻao i kēlā me kēia manawa e makemake ai ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
ʻO kēia ʻano makana ka hopena ke hāʻawi ʻia i ke ahiahi aloha. Ma mua o ka mea maoli, hōʻike nui ka hōʻike ma ia ʻano pōʻaiapili. E noʻonoʻo e hoʻopaʻa iā lākou i kahi pahu momi kūikawā. ʻOiai lākou e mau loa ana, e mau ana ka lei momi a i ʻole ke kaula i ka hoʻomanaʻo i ka manawa a ʻolua i hoʻoholo ai e ola i ke ola.
2. Nā lole
Me kēia mau makana, ke ʻimi nei ʻoe i ke ʻano a me ka pono o ka wā e hiki mai ana. He mea kūpono paha a nele paha i ke aloha, akā ke hāʻawi nei iā ia i kahi mea hiki iā ia ke hoʻohana i ka wā e hiki mai ana me ʻoe kahi hōʻailona o ka hoʻokō.
No laila, ʻo ka lole āu e hāʻawi nei iā ia, ʻaʻole hiki ke lilo i kapa ʻē aʻe. Pono ia e lilo i kahi ʻāpana lole nui e kau pono i kona kaila a hiki iā ia ke komo i nā hanana e hiki mai ana. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē, mai kūʻai aku iā ia i kahi mea maikaʻi loa. E hoʻomanaʻo e ʻike ʻoe i kāna ʻoi loa a ʻo ka makana makamae loa ʻaʻole ia ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa loa.
3. Artwork
ʻOi aku ka maʻa o nā wahine ma mua o nā kāne. ʻAʻohe mea e manaʻo iā ʻoe e lilo i mea hoʻopiʻi kiʻi no ka pō wale nō, akā ʻo ke kūʻai ʻana i kiʻi pena no kāu wahine hoʻopalau kekahi hōʻailona ʻē aʻe i kāu kūpaʻa. ʻO ka pena kiʻi kahi mea nani a paʻa. Eia kekahi, lawe mai i ka nani i kahi i hāʻawi ʻia, e lawe pū ana i ka hoʻohiki o kahi home.
I mea e hoʻopiha ai i ka makana a kahaha maoli ia, e heluhelu aʻe i nā noʻeau āu e kūʻai nei. Ma mua o ka makana maoli, makemake nā wahine e hoʻonāukiuki ʻia i ka naʻau e kā lākou mau hoa. He ʻiʻini kēia e ʻike ʻole ka hapanui o nā kāne - a i ʻole a lākou hoihoi nui ʻole. Mai hana i kahi hana kālā, hana i kahi pilikino e hele i kahi mile keu a hōʻike iā ia e mālama ʻoe.
4. kou hala pū kekahi
ʻAʻole hiki ke lilo i makana i kēia makana ke pāʻani nei ia i nā hanana hanana a i loko o nā mea hoʻomākeʻaka āu i puana ai me kāu mea i aloha ai. Loaʻa i nā kāne āpau kahi mele, kahi a i ʻole kahi ʻōlelo e hoʻomanaʻo iā lākou i ka wā a lākou i hui ai. Hiki ke hoʻopili ʻia kēlā manawa i kahi makana no kāu wahine hoʻopalau.
Ke ulu nei kāu pilina a ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e makemake e lawe i kahi ʻanuʻu hou, mai poina e pili ana i kāu mea i loaʻa ai. Lawe iā ia i kahi makana nāna wale nō e mahalo. Ma mua o nā mea kūʻai aku pipiʻi, hiki i kēia ʻano makana ke hele lōʻihi i nā maka o kāu wahine. ʻOiai kahi mea lapuwale e manaʻo ʻole ʻole ʻia he makana hiki ke kūpono no kēia hanana.
ʻO ka wā i hala e kaʻana like ai me kāu ipo ʻo ia ke kumu o kāu pili. Nā manawa like o ka paʻakikī a i ʻole ka hauʻoli e hoʻokumu i ke ala e maopopo ai a aloha ai kekahi i kekahi. E mālama nui ʻia kekahi mea hana o kēia ukana e kāu ipo ma mua o nā mea āpau.
5. Hoa
Ke hoʻokaʻawale kekahi i kekahi, hāʻawi like lākou i nā kuleana. ʻO ke ola i loko o ʻelua i maʻalahi i kekahi mau mea, akā paʻakikī i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Hiki i kahi pīpī ke hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi loa i ka pili e hoʻopili iā ʻoe a me kāu kāne wahine. Ma mua o kēlā, he mea ola ia nāna i hāʻawi i kou ola ʻelua, kahi hana like e lawe ai i nā hopohopo akā me ka hauʻoli nui i kēlā me kēia lā.
Inā he mea aloha holoholona kāu kāne hoʻopalau, he ʻīlio a i ʻole he pōpoki paha ka makana maikaʻi loa e hoʻopūʻiwa iā ia. Ma mua o nā hiʻohiʻona a me nā ʻano ʻē aʻe, mahalo nā wahine i ka kūpaʻa mai ka ʻaoʻao o kā lākou mau hoa, a hōʻike wale kahi holoholona hānai - aia ʻoe i loko no ka holo lōʻihi. Hāʻawi kēia ʻano kūpaʻa i ka palekana o ka naʻau no kāu wahine hoʻopalau, me ka hoʻomanaʻo ʻana iā ʻoe i kou aloha iā ia i kēlā me kēia manawa ke kau nei nā maka i ka ʻīlio a i ʻole keikikāne.
ʻO kēia nā makana ʻelima i hiki iā ʻoe ke kāhāhā i kāu wahine hoʻopalau a hōʻoia iā ia i kou hoʻolaʻa ʻana i kāu wā e hiki mai ana. Hāpai lākou i ka kaumaha kaumaha a me ke ʻano ma mua o nā makana maʻamau i hāʻawi ʻia i kahi ipo wahine. Me kēlā me kēia o lākou, ʻaʻole e loaʻa i kāu mea hoʻāo i kahi mea wale nō, akā he mea hoʻomanaʻo a me kahi hoʻohiki o ke aloha.
ʻO Luiza Kensell
He makuahine ʻo Luiza Kensell no ʻelua mau keikikāne ʻeleu loa. I kona manawa kaʻawale, makemake ʻo ia e akaaka i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Makemake ʻo Luiza i ka haʻi ʻana i nā mea hoʻomākeʻaka, pāʻani i nā Charades, a me ka wehe ʻana i nā makana Kalikimaka. Makemake ʻo ia i ka hāʻawi ʻana a me ka loaʻa ʻana o nā makana a ʻo ia ke kumu i kākau ai ʻo ia no nā Manaʻo Manaʻo he ʻumi.