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- Pehea e loaʻa ai ka wahine
- 1. Loaʻa iā ʻoe ka hoihoi a me nā manaʻoʻiʻo like?
- 2. He hānai maikaʻi paha kāna?
- 3. Ua kūleʻa paha ʻo ia?
- 4. Nani anei ia?
- 5. ʻAno hoʻomākeʻaka paha ʻo ia?
- 6. He lako waiwai paha ʻo ia?
ʻElua mau koho āu, male a hele paha ʻoe me kāu wahine, a i ʻole huli ʻoe i kou ʻanakala ʻo Bob, ka mea hoʻowahāwahā i ka male male ʻana a noho ʻole. Inā ʻo ʻoe ka mea mua a makemake e male koke akā ʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa kahi wahine a laila mai hopohopo, e kōkua kēia ʻatikala iā ʻoe.
Ke loaʻa nei iā ʻoe iho ka wahine kūpono e koi nui ai i ka noʻonoʻo; pono ʻoe e nānā i nā ʻano āu e makemake ai i ka wahine. Pono ʻoe e ʻike i kekahi e maopopo iā ʻoe, e hoʻomaopopo i kou manaʻo a i kona manaʻo ponoʻī hoʻi. Inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i wahine a loaʻa ʻole, a laila e hoʻomau i ka heluhelu ʻana
Pehea e loaʻa ai ka wahine
He mea nui i nā keiki e hoʻomanaʻo i ka paʻa o ka male no ka wā holoʻokoʻa. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke male wale i kekahi no ka mea nani lākou. Makemake ʻoe e loaʻa kahi wahine maikaʻi e mālama i kou ʻohana, makuahine maikaʻi i kāu mau keiki a ʻo ka mea nui loa, ke kiaʻi nei iā ʻoe.
Eia kekahi mau nīnau e nīnau ai e loaʻa kahi wahine kūpono naʻu:
1. Loaʻa iā ʻoe ka hoihoi a me nā manaʻoʻiʻo like?
Inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i kahi hoa, a laila e nānā pono i ka hoihoi i maʻa mau ma waena o ʻolua. Pono i ka wahine āu e male ai i nā hoihoi a me nā manaʻo like me ʻoe; ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke loaʻa i kāna mau hilinaʻi ponoʻī, ʻo ia wale nō ke ʻae ʻo ia me kāu mau manaʻoʻiʻo a ʻo ʻoe pū me ia.
He mea nui e ʻae ʻoe i nā mea nui e like me ka ʻohana, nā keiki, ke kālā, ka wahine, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe.
2. He hānai maikaʻi paha kāna?
ʻO ka wahine me nā waiwai maikaʻi a me ka ʻike maikaʻi i ke ʻano o ka ʻohana e lilo ana i hale i hale.
Inā huhū ka wahine āu e male ai, hoʻopaʻapaʻa i nā mea āpau a kolohe hoʻi a laila haʻalele i ka male ʻana iā ia. E hana ʻino ʻo ia i kou ola a ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hānai kūpono i kāu mau keiki.
3. Ua kūleʻa paha ʻo ia?
E loaʻa kahi kūleʻa a me nā hopena i ka wahine maikaʻi ma mua o kou komo ʻana i kona ola. Ke hoʻoholo ʻoe e male i kekahi, e koho i kekahi i loaʻa nā pahuhopu a me nā moemoeā i ke ola ʻoi aku ma mua o ka male ʻana. E male i ka mea i aʻo maikaʻi ʻia, kekahi, makemake e heluhelu ma mua o ka hoʻolilo manawa ma Instagram a me Snapchat.
4. Nani anei ia?
E noʻonoʻo ʻaʻole mākou e kūkākūkā i kāna mau hiʻohiʻona akā ke kamaʻilio nei mākou inā pili ʻo ia iā ʻoe ʻaʻole paha. Hele ʻoe i ona lā? ʻO kāna ʻano hoʻomākeʻaka, kona minoʻaka a i ʻole kona leo e hoʻoheheʻe ai kou puʻuwai?
ʻAʻole pono kāu wahine e lilo i bomb bomb, akā aia paha kekahi mea e pili ana iā ia e pīhoihoi ai kou puʻuwai.
5. ʻAno hoʻomākeʻaka paha ʻo ia?
ʻAʻole pili ka ola male i nā keiki, ka hana, ka hana, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe. ʻO ke ola ma hope o ka male ʻana he mau ʻakaʻaka, hoʻomākeʻaka, a leʻaleʻa ke ola. Mai male i kahi kaikamahine huhū mau, kekahi huhū a ʻo ka hapanui o ka manawa, makemake ʻole e pili ana i nā mea āpau.
Hōʻalo i ka male ʻana i kahi kaikamahine i hiki ʻole ke loaʻa leʻaleʻa i nā mea lapuwale e like me ka pīkino i ka pāka, kahi mea ʻakaʻaka ʻole ke kau ʻoe i ka ʻaikalima ma ko lākou ihu.
E male i ka mea hauʻoli a me ke ola. ʻO kēia ala ʻaʻole wale ʻoe e leʻaleʻa akā e ʻike kou ola.
6. He lako waiwai paha ʻo ia?
Inā waiwai nui ka wahine āu e male ai a hoʻopau ʻia me ia a ua puni i ke kālā, a laila mai male iā ia. Inā makemake ʻo ia e hoʻolilo i kāu mālama kālā āpau ma ka ʻeke Birkin hou a nīnau iā ʻoe ke kūʻai ʻoe i kahi kāmaʻa he $ 50, a laila holo aku i kuʻu hoaaloha a ʻaʻole ʻo ia ke kumu.
ʻAʻohe kānalua ka male ʻana i kahi hoʻoholo nui loa. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke koho wale i kekahi ma waho o kahi lehulehu no ka mea maikaʻi lākou a hāʻawi iā lākou i ka mahina aʻe. ʻO ka male ʻana kahi mea like no ka hoʻopili ʻana, ke kala ʻana, ka mōhai ʻana, a me ke aloha palena ʻole; makemake ʻoe e kākoʻo i kou kanaka ke paʻakikī nā mea. No laila, e ʻike i kahi hoa ola e kū pū me ʻoe, hoʻomaopopo iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole lawe iā ʻoe no ka mea aloha a aloha i nā mea āpau āu e hana ai. Ke loaʻa koke ʻoe i kēlā kanaka, mai hopohopo hou a male koke ʻoe.