Anter
- 1. Aloha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho
- 2. E hauʻoli i ka noho kaʻawale ʻana
- 3. E kiʻi i kahi ʻike
- 4. E hoʻoholo i nā ʻano āu e ʻimi nei i ka wahine
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o ka wahine a kāne a i ʻole ka pakanā ʻaʻole ia e like me ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kanaka kūpono e lilo i ke kauwela mehameha me.
ʻO ia ka ʻimi ʻana i kahi kanaka āu e hiki ai ke aloha a ʻelemakule me kahi kanaka āu e ʻike ai iā ʻoe iho e aloha ana i kanahā, kanalimakū, a me nā makahiki hou aku ma ke ala.
ʻO ka loaʻa a koho ʻana i kahi kanaka āu e makemake ai e male a hoʻolilo i kou ola me ia he hoʻoholo paʻakikī loa ia, a he mea ia e koi ai i kekahi kuleana koʻikoʻi, a me ka nui o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka noʻonoʻo mua.
Akā, e uku nō ka hana nui a pau ke ʻike ʻoe i kēlā kanaka kūikawā a hoʻomaka i ke ola hauʻoli.
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hoa maikaʻi ʻaʻole pili i ka laki, akā e pili ana i ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i kahi pahuhopu a me ka ʻimi ʻana e hoʻokō.
Hiki i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo aʻe ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻike i ka wahine a pākahi paha
1. Aloha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho
ʻO kekahi o nā ala maʻalahi o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka wahine a hōʻoia i kou hoʻopaʻa ʻana iā ʻoe iho i ke kanaka kūpono no nā kumu kūpono ke aloha iā ʻoe iho ma mua o ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kanaka e lilo i kou koena o kou ola.
ʻO ke aloha ʻana iā ʻoe iho ʻaʻole ia he kumu e lilo ʻoe i 100% hauʻoli me ʻoe, akā inā ʻaʻole hauʻoli ʻoe iā ʻoe iho, malia paha e komo ʻoe i kahi pilina me kekahi mea no ka mea e hōʻoluʻolu kēlā kanaka iā ʻoe iho. .
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo ke kanaka āu e koho ai e hoʻolilo i kou ola me ka pono e hoʻopiha iā ʻoe, e hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe iho ma ke ʻano he kanaka, akā he mea nui nō e aloha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke mahalo piha i ka manawa āu e makemake ai e male. !
I ka pōkole, he mea nui e hauʻoli ʻoe me ʻoe, pehea kou ʻano, a me kāu hana.
ʻAʻole kēia e hoʻonui wale i kou hilinaʻi, e maʻalahi ai iā ʻoe e ʻumeʻume i ka poʻe, akā e kōkua pū ia iā ʻoe e ʻike i kahi kanaka kupaianaha like nāna e hoʻomaikaʻi a hoʻomaikaʻi i kou ola, ʻaʻole kahi mea ma laila e hoʻopiha i nā āpau i loko. kou ola hauʻoli, ke hele ʻoe i ka huakaʻi o ka loaʻa ʻana o kāu wahine.
2. E hauʻoli i ka noho kaʻawale ʻana
ʻO ka noho male ʻana ke male ʻoliʻoli kāu mau hoaaloha a pau, a i ʻole ke aloha ʻana kekahi o nā manaʻo maikaʻi loa o ka honua.
Makemake paha ʻoe i ke aloha ma mua o nā mea āpau, a kūlohelohe maoli ia e kaumaha a mehameha inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa. Akā, ʻo kahi ʻāpana nui o ke aloha ʻo wai ʻoe e aloha nei i ka hoʻolilo manawa ʻana me ʻoe iho.
Pono ʻoe e ʻike i nā ʻano ʻokoʻa a me nā mea e hauʻoli ai a hoihoi hoʻi me ka ʻole o kahi mea ʻē aʻe.
E kōkua pū kēia iā ʻoe e hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe iho ke hele mai kēlā mea kūikawā!
Kuhi hewa nā poʻe he nui i ka noho aloha ʻana me ke aloha. Inā kaumaha ʻoe a ʻinoʻino ʻoe iā ʻoe iho, a laila maʻalahi paha ʻoe e ka poʻe e komo i kou ola a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi mea e hana ai.
3. E kiʻi i kahi ʻike
Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i kāu aloha mua i ka makahiki ʻumikūmāono, a laila ʻano laha ʻoe a he lāhui laki loa ʻoe. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻohe nui ka poʻe e male i kā lākou mua, lua, a i ʻole i kā lākou ipo wahine ʻelima a ipo paha.
Kōkua ka launa ʻana i nā poʻe he nui i ka ʻike i nā ala like ʻole e hiki ai i kahi pilina ke hana, a kōkua pū kekahi iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i nā dinamika pau ʻole a me nā ʻano i loaʻa i kahi pilina.
ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo e haʻalele ʻoe i ke kanaka āu e aloha ai e ʻike wale i nā mea ma waho.
Akā, inā manaʻo ʻoe he "hauʻoli wale" ʻoe me kāu hoa a ʻaʻole i launa pū me kekahi mea ʻē aʻe, a laila ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e launa me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka noho ʻana.
Kōkua pū ka launa pū ʻana i nā poʻe he nui iā ʻoe e aʻo pehea e hoʻopili ai, a ʻoi aku ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo kāu hoa o ka wā e hiki mai ana ʻo ia ka 'hoʻokahi' a he mea kūikawā maoli ka mea āu e manaʻo ai no lākou.
ʻAʻole maikaʻi ʻole ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ʻike moekolohe.
Inā ʻoe i noho pū me kekahi mau hoa ma mua o ka hui ʻana i kāu mea kūikawā, e kōkua ia iā ʻoe e ʻike ʻoi aku ka kemika ma waena ou i kekahi mea kūikawā maoli.
Eia kekahi, inā hoʻoholo ʻoe e hana i ka mea mua āu i noho pū ai me ka hauʻoli ʻole ʻole, lilo paha ʻoe i ke koena o kou ola e haʻohaʻo nei i ka mea e hiki ke hana inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hana pēlā.
4. E hoʻoholo i nā ʻano āu e ʻimi nei i ka wahine
ʻOiai ʻaʻole paha ʻoe e ʻike kikoʻī ʻo wai kāu ʻuhane a hiki i kou laka ʻana i nā maka me lākou a ʻike i ka kū ʻana o ka honua holoʻokoʻa, hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo pono i nā ʻano āu e ʻimi nei i kāu ʻimi ʻana i kahi wahine.
He mea nui paha kekahi o kēia mau ʻano pono ʻaʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ke kanaka ma ke ʻano he kāne male inā ʻaʻohe ona ʻona iā lākou.