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- 1. Kōkua ia iā ʻoe e ʻike i kāu kuleana
- 2. Aʻo ia iā ʻoe i nā mākau hoʻonā hoʻonā
- 3. Kōkua ia i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kāu pakanā
- 4. Kōkua ia i ke aʻo ʻana i nā mākau kamaʻilio kūpono
- 5. Kōkua ia i ka mālama ʻana i nā kālā
- 6. Kōkua ia iā ʻoe e hoʻokumu i nā palena
- 7. Kōkua ia iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ko lākou mau ʻohana
- 8. Kōkua ia i ka hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻana i kāu male male
No nā kāne paʻa i hana mua i nā mahina mua o kā lāua pili, paʻakikī e noʻonoʻo i kahi mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka male nui, a ʻaʻohe wahi aʻoaʻo ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka male ma nā kāleka. Ke kakali nei nā poʻe āpau i ka lā nui a maʻalahi hoʻi e poina inā mākaukau maoli ʻoe no ka male.
Eia nō naʻe, ke hoʻokokoke ʻana i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka male ʻana a i ʻole ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa mua ma mua o ka loaʻa ʻana o nā pilikia liʻiliʻi he hopena naʻauao. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo nā kāne i hele i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo male ma mua o ka male ʻana e loaʻa nā kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe o ka leʻaleʻa male a ʻaʻole hiki ke hemo.
Inā ʻoe e haʻohaʻo nei i ke ʻano o ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka male, a no ke aha e pono ai ka ʻōlelo aʻo mua ʻana, hōʻike mākou i ʻewalu kumu kumu e kākoʻo ana i ka nui o ka ʻōlelo aʻo ma mua o ka male ʻana. E ʻike pū ʻoe i kekahi mau haʻawina nui e aʻo ai mai ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo aʻo mua ʻole.
1. Kōkua ia iā ʻoe e ʻike i kāu kuleana
ʻAe, nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka male ma mua e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio a kūkākūkā i nā mea i manaʻo ʻole ʻia i loko o ka male. ʻAʻole manaʻo ka hapa nui o nā kāne i kā lākou kuleana i ka male e pili ana i ka ʻoihana, ke kālā, ka pilina, a me nā keiki.
Hiki i kāu kākāʻōlelo a mea hoʻoponopono paha ke paipai iā ʻoe a me kāu wahine e kūkākūkā pono e pili ana i ka mea āu e manaʻo ai mai kekahi i kekahi. Eia kekahi, ʻoluʻolu paha ʻoe a me kāu wahine e pili ana i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ke kākāʻōlelo ʻoiai ʻelua e hilinaʻi nei i ko lākou manaʻo he ʻoiaʻiʻo a kaulike ʻole hoʻi.
ʻO kēia kaʻina aʻo ʻana ma mua o ka male ʻana hiki ke alakaʻi i nā pūʻiwa kamahaʻo a me ka male nui pū kekahi.
2. Aʻo ia iā ʻoe i nā mākau hoʻonā hoʻonā
ʻO wai ka ʻole o nā tiff a me nā paio i kā lākou pilina? I kekahi manawa ʻaʻole maopopo i nā kāne a pehea e hana ai i kēlā mau manawa wela kahi a kekahi e ʻuā ana a i hōʻino ai paha.
ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻopau ʻia nā hakakā mai ka male ʻana, akā hiki i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka wahine ma mua o ka male ke hoʻoiho iā ʻoe me nā mākau kūpono e hoʻoponopono ai iā lāua. Aʻo ia iā ʻoe e hoʻonā i nā paio ma ka huahana a me ka maikaʻi.
Na ke kākāʻōlelo e alakaʻi iā ʻoe pehea e launa maikaʻi ai i mea e hiki ai i kahi hopena. ʻOiai ʻo ka ʻōlelo aʻo a nā kāne ma mua o ka male ʻole he mea hoʻokalakupua, hiki nō ke hana i nā hana mana i kāu pilina.
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3. Kōkua ia i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kāu pakanā
Hele mai kēlā me kēia kanaka mai nā ʻohana ʻokoʻa, me nā kuanaʻike like ʻole i ke ola a me nā ala e hana ai i nā hanana. No laila, ʻaʻole ia he hopena kūpono e hōʻino ai i kāu mau hoa a manaʻo paha iā lākou e hoʻololi i kā lākou hana me ka ʻike ʻole i ko lākou kumu.
Me nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka male ʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi i kou nānā ʻana mai kā lākou ʻano hoʻonāukiuki i nā ʻano maikaʻi o kāu pakanā a hana pū ma nā wahi ʻē aʻe ma hope o ka male ʻana. ʻO ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka pilikino o kāu hoa e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i kā lākou hana a me nā kaʻina noʻonoʻo.
I ka manawa like, hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo pono iā ʻoe iho a ʻike i nā wahi āu e pono ai e hana e hoʻomohala i kahi ʻike maikaʻi aʻe o kāu hoa.
4. Kōkua ia i ke aʻo ʻana i nā mākau kamaʻilio kūpono
ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona nui o ka male olakino ka kamaʻilio kūpono. Hiki i ke kamaʻilio kūpono ke kōkua i ka hōʻemi ʻana i nā pilikia he nui. I ka manawa, manaʻo paha nā kāne ua lawe ʻia lākou no ka hāʻawi ʻole a oki paha i ka mālama ʻana i nā pono o kekahi.
Eia nō naʻe, ma ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻana, hōʻike i kou aloha, a me ka lilo i mea hoʻolohe maikaʻi i kekahi i kekahi, hiki i nā kāne ke hoʻopau loa i nā pilikia a hoʻomaikaʻi maikaʻi i kā lāua male.
I ka wā aʻo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka male, noho pū a kūkā i kāu mau pilikia me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Hiki i kēia ke lilo i kī i ke kamaʻilio kūpono i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
5. Kōkua ia i ka mālama ʻana i nā kālā
ʻO ke kālā ka hopohopo nui loa ma waena o nā kāne a ka wahine i ka male. No laila, nā nīnau e pili ana i ke kālā a me ka hoʻokele ʻana i kahi kālā e noho i kahi ʻāpana o kāu papa inoa o nā nīnau aʻo aʻoaʻo mua.
Paipai ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka male ma mua iā ʻoe e hana i kahi moʻohelu kālā, e aʻo e pili ana i ka noho maʻamau o kāu wahine, a kōkua iā ʻoe e hōʻalo i ke komo ʻana i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa pili kālā.
Hiki i nā mea aʻoaʻo ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻike i ka hōʻaiʻē o ke kanaka, nā hōʻaiʻē, a me nā kaulike poʻokela āu e ʻike ʻole ai. Hiki ke hana ʻia nā pilikia kālā ma o ka hoʻokokoke ʻana i kahi kākāʻōlelo male i hiki ke alakaʻi iā ʻoe i ka lawelawe ʻana i nā waihona panakō a me nā kuleana like ʻē aʻe.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke koho no ka ʻōlelo aʻo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka pūnaewele inā ʻoe e holo pōkole ana i ka manawa a i ʻole kekahi mau papa ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka male ma ke alo a he alo no ke kamaʻilio ʻana i kēia mau pilikia.
6. Kōkua ia iā ʻoe e hoʻokumu i nā palena
ʻO kekahi o nā pono kūpono o ke aʻo ʻana ma mua o ka male ʻana he kōkua ia iā ʻoe e hoʻomohala i nā palena olakino i kāu pili.
Manaʻo pinepine mākou ʻike maopopo mākou i kā mākou mea aloha, akā ʻaʻole paha mākou e ʻike e pili ana iā lākou. ʻAʻole paha mākou e ʻike piha i ko lākou wā i hala a i ʻole nā mea a lākou e manaʻo ai mai ka male ʻana.
Nā kau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka male ʻana, a i ʻole ma ka aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo ʻana ma mua ma ka pūnaewele, e ʻike pono e kūkākūkā i nā mea i kū ʻole i nā kamaʻilio maʻamau. Hiki i kēia mau kau ke kōkua iā ʻoe i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i nā palena olakino e paipai ai i ke ola holoʻokoʻa iā ʻoe a me kāu hoa.
ʻO ia ka mālama ʻana iā mākou iho me ka mahalo a me ka mahalo mau i kāu hoa pū kekahi. ʻO kēia ke alakaʻi i ka hauʻoli a hoʻonui i ka male maoli.
7. Kōkua ia iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ko lākou mau ʻohana
Hele mai mākou a pau mai nā kumu ʻohana ʻokoʻa. ʻIke mākou i nā mea he nui mai ko mākou mau mākua a me nā mea ʻē aʻe ʻē aʻe paʻakikī i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka ʻike o kēlā me kēia. No laila, mālama mākou i ka mea i mua a alo i ka hōʻole ke kū ʻole kā mākou mau mea i manaʻo ʻia.
Komo ʻoe i loko o ka male me nā ʻano ʻokoʻa a me nā ala kahiko o ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā pilikia ma hope e paʻakikī e hoʻokele. Kōkua ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua i kēia wahi.
Hāʻawi nā mea aʻoaʻo i ke alakaʻi i kēlā me kēia kanaka i hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomohala i ka ʻike ʻoi aku o ka lawena a kēlā me kēia a me ka hopena o ka hopena o kā lākou ʻohana i kā lākou hana.
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8. Kōkua ia i ka hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻana i kāu male male
Hōʻoia ʻia ka ʻōlelo aʻo a ka male ma mua o ka pale ʻana i ka male male. Ua hōʻike nā kāne e koho i ka aʻo ma mua o ka male ma mua o ka pae kiʻekiʻe o ka ʻoluʻolu o ka male. ʻIke pū lākou i ka emi ʻana o 30 pākēneka i ka likelike o ka hemo ma luna o ʻelima mau makahiki.
Kōkua ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa male a i ʻole ʻolelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka male ʻana iā ʻoe i ka ʻike ʻana i kāu mau makaʻu, a aʻo iā ʻoe i nā mākau e kamaʻilio maikaʻi, a hoʻoikaika iā ʻoe me nā ʻenehana i hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe e kākoʻo i kekahi i kekahi.
Paipai nui ʻia ka ʻōlelo aʻo mua no nā kāne - Kōkua ia iā ʻoe e ʻae i nā ʻokoʻa a kekahi a aʻo iā ʻoe e mahalo i kāu mea ʻē aʻe me ka lokomaikaʻi.
Hiki i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka wā ma mua ke lilo i pōhaku kihi o kāu pili a kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻopakele i kāu male inā pilikia loa nā pilikia e hiki mai ana.