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- 1) ʻAʻole lākou i hoʻolālā
- 2) Hāʻawi lākou
- 3) ʻapo lākou i kā lākou kīnā
- 4) Kūpono lākou e pili ana i ko lākou ʻano
- 5) Manaʻo lākou i ka mahalo
- 6) ʻAʻole lākou e kala no ka loaʻa ʻana o ka naʻau, a i ʻole ke aloha
- 7) Mālama lākou i nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole
- 8) ʻAʻole hoʻowahāwahā lākou iā lākou iho
- 9) Noho lākou i kā lākou ala
- 10) ʻAno lākou iā lākou iho
Aia kekahi mahele maʻamau ke maopopo i ka mea e kūleʻa ai ka wahine i ka ʻoihana, a he aha ka mea e kūleʻa ai ka male. ʻO ka nānā ʻana a ka wahine e uku ai i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i kona ola a me kāna ʻoihana e like loa me nā hihia ʻelua.
A puni ia i ka mahalo iā ʻoe iho, ka hoʻoikaika ʻana iā ʻoe iho, ke aloha a me ka hoʻokele manawa a pau e like me ka hana o ka mālama pilikino.
Hoʻomaopopo ka hapanui o nā wahine akamai i ka ʻoihana pono lākou e mālama iā lākou iho. No ka mea inā ʻaʻole lākou, a laila ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke mālama i nā mea āpau a me nā mea āpau āpau e koi ana i kā lākou nānā i kēlā me kēia manawa me kā lākou male ʻana.
Akā inā ʻaʻole ʻoe he wahine i ka ʻoihana, hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo, a me nā hoʻolālā mai nā wahine i ka ʻoihana e kūkulu i kāu male a me kou ola home, i hauʻoli ai ʻoe, kāu kāne a me kāu male a paʻa paʻa no nā makahiki he nui. .
ʻOi aku ka mālama ʻana iā ʻoe iho ma mua o kahi huakaʻi i nā kauka a i ʻole ka lauoho. Ke lawe nei i ka manawa i waho e hoʻolālā no ka kūleʻa i ka ʻoihana a me kā lāua male ʻana i ka manawa like. Ke hoʻokumu nei i nā hoʻolālā no ka mālama ʻana i nā hemahema a me nā pilikia. Ke hana nei i ka manawa no lākou iho, ko lākou ʻohana, kā lākou hana a me ko lākou mau makemake. E pili ana i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā mea āpau, i kahi ala e hōʻoia ai i ka mālama ʻole ʻia o kekahi.
No laila, he aha ka hana a nā wahine i ka ʻoihana? Pehea lākou e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ai iā lākou iho i kēlā mau manawa ke pupule iki nā mea? Pehea lākou e pale ai i ko lākou noho maikaʻi ke iho ana nā ʻāpana?
Eia nā mea he 10 a nā wahine i ka ʻoihana e hana ai e mālama iā lākou iho, kā lākou male a me kā lākou ʻoihana, ma o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā lākou iho.
1) ʻAʻole lākou i hoʻolālā
Nui wale nā hola i ka lā, a nui wale hiki iā ʻoe ke hana. ʻAʻohe mea e hana i ka illusion o ka hoʻokō ʻole ma mua o kahi unticked 'e hana papa inoa' i ka hopena o ka lā. Hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi nā wahine i ka ʻoihana i kēia a ʻike e ʻike maoli lākou e pili ana i kā lākou hoʻolālā.
ʻ Tiplelo Aʻoaʻo! Mālama i kāu huahana me ka hoʻolālā ʻana i ʻekolu mau mea liʻiliʻi e hoʻopau i kēlā me kēia lā a e haki i nā papahana nui i nā ʻanuʻu 'nahu' liʻiliʻi. Ke hoʻopau ʻoe i kāu mau hana ʻoihana ʻekolu, kū a nānā i kou ola home e ʻike i ke kaulike kūpono ma waena o ka hana a me ka home.
2) Hāʻawi lākou
Pono kāu ʻoihana iā ʻoe, pono kou ʻohana iā ʻoe a inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hāʻawi i ka hana i hiki i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ke hana no ʻoe-hōʻole ʻoe i kāu ʻoihana a me kou ʻohana. Ma hea e hiki ai i nā wahine akamai i ka ʻelele ʻoihana a ʻaʻole mākou e manaʻo pinepine i ke kāne.
ʻ Tiplelo Aʻoaʻo! Mālama mau i kahi papa inoa o nā hana i hiki iā lākou ke hoʻouna ʻia i ka wā e ʻae ai ka manawa a me nā kumuwaiwai.
3) ʻapo lākou i kā lākou kīnā
Ua noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe i ka nui o kou ikaika e hoʻonele ai ke nānā ʻoe i kāu kīnā a i ʻole nāwaliwali? He nui nui ia. ʻO nā wahine akamai i ka ʻoihana ʻike i kēia! Inā kū ʻoe i ka nānā ʻana i kāu kīnā ʻole, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolilo i kēlā ikehu i nā hana uku nui aʻe.
ʻ Tiplelo Aʻoaʻo! Kūpono ʻole - hemolele ka hemahema! Loaʻa kāu mau kīnā, e aloha ʻia ʻoe no ia!
4) Kūpono lākou e pili ana i ko lākou ʻano
Poina e pili ana i nā mea āpau i aʻo ʻia ai ʻoe i ka wā i hala, poina i nā mea āpau i hoʻokau ʻia iā ʻoe. He maikaʻi maikaʻi ke ʻae a ʻapo i kāu mau ʻano. Haʻaheo ʻoe iā lākou, pono ʻoe e hōʻike iā lākou i kou ʻohana, kāne, nā mea kūʻai aku a me nā hoa. ʻAʻole maikaʻi ia e hūnā i kāu mau ʻano (a i ʻole kou alohi) mai ka honua, nā wahine i ka ʻoihana, maopopo leʻa i kēia.
ʻ Tiplelo Aʻoaʻo! E hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa e ʻike ai ke hūnā ʻoe i kāu 'alohi mai ka honua a noʻonoʻo i nā ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kāohi iā ʻoe iho mai ka hana ʻana i kēlā.
5) Manaʻo lākou i ka mahalo
Pono ʻoe e mahalo ʻia, a ʻae, pono ʻoe e hōʻike i ka hoʻohanohano e loaʻa ai ka mahalo aia kekahi kumu e ʻōlelo pinepine ʻia ai kēia huaʻōlelo. No laila, inā ʻaʻole mahalo kekahi iā ʻoe, a i ʻole ma ka hope paha e pilikia ana ʻoe i loko a i waho o kāu ʻoihana.
ʻ Tiplelo Aʻoaʻo! Mai ʻae e wāwahi i kēia palena!
6) ʻAʻole lākou e kala no ka loaʻa ʻana o ka naʻau, a i ʻole ke aloha
ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole lākou e kala aku, na nā wahine i ka ʻoihana ponoʻī. A e aʻo pono ʻia ʻoe e hana pū kekahi. E hoʻomālamalama kou haʻahaʻa a me kouʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe a puni ʻoe e mahalo ai iā ʻoe.
ʻ Tiplelo Aʻoaʻo! E hana i kahi maʻa o ka hoʻolālā ʻana ma mua, e like me ka hiki - i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hopu i kahi hoʻomaha i kēlā mau manawa ke paʻa ka naʻau i kahi hanana weliweli e like me ka hālāwai.
7) Mālama lākou i nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole
ʻO nā wahine akamai i ka ʻoihana ʻike ʻoi loa ka weliweli a hōʻino hoʻi i ka ʻae ʻana i nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole e kū i kā lākou ʻoiaʻiʻo. Hoʻopau lākou iā lākou.
ʻIke ʻoe i ke ʻano o nā manaʻo 'ʻaʻole lawa wau', 'ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu pehea e hana ai i kēia' etc. nā wahine akamai e pani i kēia mau manaʻo me kahi ʻōlelo maikaʻi - no ka mea he waiwai lākou i kēlā hana a ʻike lākou ia.
ʻ Tiplelo Aʻoaʻo! E hoʻololi i nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole me kahi ʻōlelo maikaʻi a i ʻole kahi nīnau kūpono. E.g Inā manaʻo ʻoe 'ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu pehea e hana ai i kēia', e hoʻololi i kēlā manaʻo i 'Pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke ʻike pehea e hana ai i kēia?'.
8) ʻAʻole hoʻowahāwahā lākou iā lākou iho
ʻO ka wahine i ka ʻoihana ʻike ka ʻoi aku ke kiʻekiʻe o kā lākou kumukūʻai i kā lākou lawelawe, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka hanohano. ʻAʻole lākou e hoʻāpono i kā lākou uku, a no ka mea hana lākou mai ka pololei i ka uku kūpono no kā lākou lawelawe.
ʻ Tiplelo Aʻoaʻo! Loiloi i kāu kumukūʻai, nānā i kāu mau hoʻokūkū, hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi i ka maikaʻi o ka lawelawe, a ʻoi aku paha - inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoponopono i kāu kumukūʻai.
9) Noho lākou i kā lākou ala
ʻAʻole ʻae nā wahine i ka ʻoihana pinepine i nā manipulate naʻau, noʻonoʻo a i ʻole ke kino e huki iā lākou mai kā lākou mau pahuhopu. A ʻaʻole lākou e nānā i ka kūleʻa o haʻi a ʻae iā ia e hoʻokalakala i ko lākou mau hemahema.
ʻAʻole lākou i aloha i ka nohona o haʻi. ʻIke lākou ʻaʻole i loaʻa i kekahi kanaka ka 'maʻalahi' i kahi ola kūpono, a ʻaʻole lākou e ʻoliʻoli i ka poʻe naʻaupō me ka hauʻoli. Ma ka noho ʻana i kā lākou ala, mālama lākou i kā lākou ʻoihana ponoʻī a me kā lākou mau pono ponoʻī i hiki ai iā lākou ke lawe mai i kā lākou pāʻani 10 pae ma kahi e pono ai ka hapa nui.
ʻ Tiplelo Aʻoaʻo! Kāohi i ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana iā ʻoe iho i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe !!
10) ʻAno lākou iā lākou iho
ʻAʻole kūleʻa nā wahine kūleʻa i ka ʻoihana iā lākou iho i ka noʻonoʻo a me ka naʻau, ʻaʻole lākou i hōʻole iā lākou iho, nānā lākou i kā lākou mau pono a kamaʻilio pū me lākou. ʻIke lākou ʻo ia ka pehea e hiki ai iā lākou ke lawe mai i nā hopena epic