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- 1. E wehewehe i kāu makemake
- 2. Hoʻomaopopo i ka ʻokoʻa o ka pūnaewele
- 3. Hoʻomaopopo i ka moʻomeheu “pūnaewele”
- 4. E aʻo pehea e hōʻike ai iā ʻoe iho ma ka pūnaewele
- 5. E aʻo i ka leka
- Mai hopohopo
- E kuhikuhi pololei, akā ʻaʻole hewa "
- ʻAʻohe lālau koho (no nā kāne)
I kekahi mau makahiki i hala aku nei, e kiʻi ana i nā hookup i koi ikaika. Ola ʻoe, hoʻokahi wale nō, a i ʻole me ke kōkua o kahi hoa.
I kēia lā, hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i kahi hookup i ka manawa manawa ʻole. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana ma ka launa pūnaewele ʻana. A hiki iā ʻoe ke hana pēlā mai ka hōʻoluʻolu o kou lumi moe. Eia nō naʻe, inā ʻoe e hana nei ma ka pūnaewele, e hoʻomaopopo he ʻokoʻa nui ia mai ka honua maoli. A ʻo ia hoʻi ʻaʻole holo pono ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ʻohiʻohi kuʻuna (no ka hapa nui).
No laila, he aha kaʻu e hana ai? E hoʻomau i ka heluhelu ʻana, a e kōkua aku mākou iā ʻoe.
Ma lalo iho nei nā ʻanuʻu 5 e ʻike ai pehea e ʻike ai i ka hookup maʻamau ma ka pūnaewele (ʻoiai ʻo kāu manawa mua ia)!
1. E wehewehe i kāu makemake
Kupanaha, ʻaʻole nā poʻe āpau e wehewehe i nā hookup i ke ala like. Eia naʻe, maopopo e pili ana i kekahi ʻano o ka physicality. No laila ka honi, ka moekolohe, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka ʻimi ʻana ma ka pūnaewele, e wehewehe i kāu mau palena (ʻo ka mea nui no nā wahine).
Hoʻomaopopo i ke kumu o ka hoʻopili ʻana, a pehea ʻoe e wehewehe ai. ʻO kahi laʻana, ke hana nei ʻoe iā ia e ʻike i kahi mea e kamaʻilio pū ai? A i ʻole e hana ana ʻoe ia mea i kahi "hoa me nā pono?"
2. Hoʻomaopopo i ka ʻokoʻa o ka pūnaewele
ʻAe, ʻaʻole hoʻokahi wale nō ʻano pūnaewele hookup. Loaʻa iā ʻoe he "mau pūnaewele hookup niche," i hoʻolālā ʻia no nā makemake like ʻole. ʻO kahi laʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo i nā pūnaewele pili waena waena. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻano exotic paha kāu mau ʻono, a i ʻole, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo i nā pūnaewele BDSM (inā ʻo ia kāu mea).
ʻAʻohe Hilahila - He Open Buffet. A ʻo ia kekahi o nā mea nani o ka pūnaewele.
Ke aʻo pehea e ʻike ai i ka hookup maʻamau ma ka pūnaewele, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hūnā i kekahi mea. E ʻike wale i nā pūnaewele pono, a ʻōlelo ʻo wai ʻoe. A loaʻa koke, ʻike ʻoe i ka poʻe e kaʻana like i kāu makemake.
A ke kamaʻilio nei no ka loaʻa ʻana o nā pūnaewele ...
3. Hoʻomaopopo i ka moʻomeheu “pūnaewele”
ʻAʻole hana ʻia nā pūnaewele āpau no ka hookup. ʻO kekahi no ka pili lōʻihi a me ka male ʻana. ʻO nā mea ʻē aʻe he loea (lawelawe i nā kaiāulu e like me LGBTQ).
No laila koho i nā pūnaewele kūpono. ʻAʻole ʻoe makemake e hoʻonele i nā hebedoma e hoʻāʻo nei e loaʻa kahi hookup ma kahi hewa.
Nā laʻana -
Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi pūnaewele e like me Tinder. ʻAʻole ia he pūnaewele no ka pili lōʻihi. Inā he mea, ʻano like ia me ka mea kūʻai aku “ʻai wikiwiki” no ka launa pū ʻana. No laila ʻike ʻia i ka honua pili pūnaewele me he pūnaewele hookup.
Huli Kūloko! ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e huakaʻi i waena no ka hookup. E nānā pono i ka wā e ʻimi ana, aia i loko o kahi helu wahi kokoke. Mālama ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i ke kālā kūpono ʻole a me nā hola i nā ʻōnaehana halihali.
4. E aʻo pehea e hōʻike ai iā ʻoe iho ma ka pūnaewele
ʻO ia ke kī i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā pāʻani. Inā ʻoe e nānā palaualelo a dispassionate, ʻaʻohe mea e makemake e noho pū me ʻoe. Akā inā hoihoi ʻoe, e launa pū nā kānaka me ʻoe.
He aha inā ʻaʻole hoihoi wau? A laila e hana iā ʻoe iho ma mua o ka ʻimi ʻana i nā hookups pūnaewele. Inā ʻaʻohe ou helehelena, hana i kēlā. A i ʻole, inā manaʻo ʻoe ua nele ʻoe i nā leʻaleʻa hoihoi, e hana pū me ia.
ʻO ke kuhi, ke hoʻopili ʻana, ke hana nei ʻoe ma muli o 1 o 2 mau mea -
- ʻO kou mau hiʻohiʻona
- ʻO kou nohona
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hoʻopōmaikaʻi ʻia me nā hiʻohiʻona kaulana, a laila ʻike i kou nohona kāu hoʻomau. A ʻo ka nele i kahi ʻano hoihoi e hoʻokahuli i ka nui o ka hookup āu e hoʻāʻo ai e loaʻa.
5. E aʻo i ka leka
ʻAe, ke kikokiko ʻana (e like me ka ʻōlelo kino) kahi mākau e hoʻopololei. Aia kahi manawa, pehea ʻoe e kākau ai, a me ke kani ma hope o kāu mau ʻōlelo. Ma lalo iho nei kekahi mau rula maʻalahi e noʻonoʻo ai i ka wā leka ...
Mai pane i loko o kekona o ka hoʻouna ʻia ʻana i kahi leka. ʻAʻole ʻoe he limahana lawelawe mea kūʻai aku. Ma kahi o, hāʻawi i kahi manawa. He mau minuke (a hoʻokahi hola paha) ma mua o ka maikaʻi o ka pane. E hoʻololi i kāu manawa pane. A i ke kaʻina hana, e hōʻike he papa manawa kāu, kahi āu ma ka pūnaewele ma nā manawa kikoʻī.
Pololei wale. E hoʻopono, a e ʻōlelo i nā ʻōlelo maopopo. Loaʻa iā ʻoe i ka mahalo hou aʻe mai nā prospect. Ke kuhikuhi pololei nei i nā mea i maopopo ma waena ou a me ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe. No laila ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā pono a kekahi a me ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā lā.
ʻO ka mea mua, ʻaʻole lākou e hana i ke kamaʻilio. Hana wale lākou (inā mau).
ʻO ka lua, corny a kamaliʻi lākou. ʻO Pickup kahi taktika kahiko i hoʻohana ʻia i mau makahiki i hala aku nei a ke make nei i kahi mau make no nā makahiki.
ʻAʻole ia e kōkua iā ʻoe e kiʻi i kahi lou, ke ʻole ʻo ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe e like me ka makemake nui.