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- He aha ka manaʻo o nā kāne ma hope o ka hemo ʻana?
- ʻO nā hopena breakup maʻamau o nā kāne
- Ka hana hoʻokaʻawale o nā kāne - Wehewehe ʻia
- 1. E haʻi i kahi moʻolelo ʻokoʻa
- 2. E lilo i huina nui
- 3. Pāʻālua hoʻōla
- 4. E ke kumu noʻonoʻo
- 5. ʻO ka pāʻani pāʻani
- 6. ʻO ka pāʻani lealea loa
- ʻO ke kumu nui ke kumu o kā lākou hana e like me kēia
ʻAʻole hiki ke pale ʻia nā breakup. Ke komo ʻoe i kahi pilina, ʻaʻole ʻoe e makaʻi wale i kou hilinaʻi akā i kou puʻuwai a me kou noʻonoʻo hoʻi. He maikaʻi ʻole ia, no ke ʻano he hemolele paha ia - ʻaʻole mākou e paʻa i ka mea a ka wā e hiki mai ana e mālama no mākou.
I kekahi manawa, haki wale nā breakup a ʻike mākou e huikau nāu i ka mea i hana ʻia. ʻIke mākou āpau i ka hana a nā kaikamahine me nā breakup, ʻeā?
Eia nō naʻe, pehea mākou e ʻike ai i ka helu maoli i ka hana a ke kāne ma hope o ka hemo ʻana, a pehea lākou e neʻe ai?
Heluhelu Pili: ʻO nā ʻōlelo hōʻoki hōʻino maikaʻi loa i hāʻawi ʻia e nā kāne
He aha ka manaʻo o nā kāne ma hope o ka hemo ʻana?
Pehea mākou e ʻike ai i ka wehewehe ʻana i ka lawena o ke kāne ma hope o ka hemo ʻana a pehea lākou e hana ai me ia? ʻOi aku ka paʻakikī o ka heluhelu ʻana o nā kāne ma mua o nā wahine, ʻoiai nā kāne ma hope o ka hoʻokaʻawale.
ʻAʻole ia he mea ʻokoʻa iā mākou ke ʻike i ka ʻokoʻa o ka hana a nā kāne ma hope o ka haki ʻana i kahi mea hou aku e pili ana i ka hopena o lākou ma hope o kekahi mau pule a me nā mahina.
Wahi a kekahi e lohi paha nā kāne i ka hana a ʻaʻole lākou e uē ke kū lākou alo i kēia kūlana.
E ʻōlelo kekahi kekahi hana a ke kāne ma hope o ka hemo ʻana e hoʻopili pū i nā rebounds a nui a nui nā booze akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ke haki ʻo ia me ʻoe, e pane ke kāne ma muli o kāna ʻano.
ʻAʻole kūpono paha i kekahi akā no nā kāne, pehea lākou e hana ai me ka ʻeha akā ʻoiai he mea nui ko lākou kumu, he ʻano ʻokoʻa paha ia e pili ana i ka ʻano o ka wahine e kū ai i kēia kūlana.
He aha ka manaʻo o nā kāne ma hope o ka haʻihaʻi ʻana iā ʻoe? a ʻeha paha nā kāne ma hope o ka hemo ʻana? ʻIke lākou i ka nui o ka naʻau akā ma muli o lākou he kāne a kāne kāne, koho lākou e hūnā i nā mea a lākou e manaʻo maoli ai - i kekahi manawa, me kā lākou mau hoaaloha.
ʻO nā hopena breakup maʻamau o nā kāne
Pili ka hana a ke kāne ma hope o ka haki ʻana i kā lākou hopena mua ke hiki. Inā lākou i hana kuhi hewa i alakaʻi ai i ka hoʻokaʻawale a i ʻole inā ʻo lākou ka mea nāna i hoʻokumu, e hana pū nā kāne me kēia mau manaʻo.
I ka manawa hea lākou e hoʻomaka ai e nalo iā ʻoe ma hope o ka hoʻokaʻawale e hilinaʻi hoʻi lākou i ka pehea e hana mua ai ma hope o ka haʻi ʻana.
ʻIke koke kekahi mau kāne i kēia me ka pono e launa aku iā ʻoe a hoʻoponopono akā ʻaʻole makemake kekahi a makemake e koho i nā ʻano ʻokoʻa e like me ke kaumaha a me ka huhū.
He aha nā kāne e hele ma hope o ka hemo ʻana?
- Huhū loa
- Huikau
- Nā manaʻo o ke kūleʻa ʻole iā ʻoe iho
- Kaumaha nui a me ke kaumaha hoʻi
- ʻŌlohelohe Emotional
ʻO ka mea maʻamau, e hoʻomaka ka manaʻo o nā kāne ma hope o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i kēia mau manaʻo me ke ʻano kikoʻī ʻole, manaʻo paha kekahi i ka huhū a me ka huikau wale nō, kekahi o kēia mau mea a hiki i ka wā e ʻike ai lākou i ke kumu e neʻe ai akā ma mua o ka hana ʻana i kēlā, he hopena paha kā lākou i kēia mau manaʻo.
No laila, ke kumu a mākou e ʻike ai i ka hana a kēia kāne ma hope o ka haʻihaʻi.
Ka hana hoʻokaʻawale o nā kāne - Wehewehe ʻia
ʻAʻole pehea lākou e neʻe ai, akā, pehea lākou e pane ai i ka mea a lākou e manaʻo nei e kumu iā lākou:
1. E haʻi i kahi moʻolelo ʻokoʻa
Pehea ka manaʻo o nā kāne ma hope o ka hemo ʻana?
ʻO ka hōʻeha ʻoiaʻiʻo, no ka ʻano like o ke ʻano o lākou a me ka naʻau ʻole no kekahi, ʻeha mau nō ia.
ʻO ia ke kumu i koho ai kekahi mau kāne e hana i kahi moʻolelo ʻē aʻe e like me ka hoʻoholo ʻelua a ʻo ia paha ka mea i hoʻolei iā ia.
2. E lilo i huina nui
ʻAʻole paʻakikī loa ma aneʻi, akā he aha ka manaʻo o nā kāne ma hope o ka hemo ʻana?
Manaʻo lākou ua hana ʻino ʻia lākou a ʻeha a i kekahi manawa, hana ʻia ia a ʻoiai ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke uē me ka leo nui a i ʻole ke noi ʻana i kahi hoa e hoʻolohe, pane mai kekahi mau kāne ma ke ʻano ʻino.
He ala ia e pale ai iā lākou iho mai ʻeha hou.
Hiki iā ia ke leka a kamaʻilio i kāna wahine ipo aloha i nā huaʻōlelo nona wale nō e hoʻokuʻu ai i kēlā ʻeha.
3. Pāʻālua hoʻōla
ʻAʻole makemake nā kāne iā ia ke hoʻohenehene ʻia lākou e pili ana i ka nalo ʻana o ke kaikamahine maikaʻi a i ʻole ke noi ʻia ʻana no ke kumu i hoʻolei ʻia ʻo ia pēlā. e hōʻike ʻo ia i kahi ʻano maikaʻi ʻole i hoʻopilikia ʻia a lele koke i loko o kahi pilina ʻē aʻe e hōʻoia ʻaʻole i loaʻa iā ia ka nalo a me ka ʻeha.
4. E ke kumu noʻonoʻo
Pehea e hana ai nā kāne i ka haʻihaʻi ke hoʻomaka lākou e nīnau i kā lākou hoa aloha? ʻĀ, ʻo kekahi ʻano e hana ai nā kāne ma ka noʻonoʻo ʻana.
ʻLelo paha lākou he hoʻoholo ʻelua ia a i ʻole pono ʻo ia e hoʻokuʻu iā ia no ka mea ua nui loa ka ʻilihune. Hoʻopaʻa kēia e hōʻike i ka poʻe āpau he ikaika ʻo ia a ʻo ia ka mea nui e hoʻokuʻu.
5. ʻO ka pāʻani pāʻani
Hoʻomaopopo ka hapanui o mākou i kēia ʻano o nā hopena ma ke ʻano o ka hana ʻana a nā kāne me ka haki. ʻIke mākou i ke koho ʻana o kekahi mau kāne i ka ipo no ke kumu i pau ai ka pilina ma kahi o ka ʻae ʻana ua nalowale a huikau wale nō ia.
E hōʻino lākou i kā lākou mau ex no ke kumu i pau ai ka pilina a pehea ʻaʻole maikaʻi ʻo ia nona.
6. ʻO ka pāʻani lealea loa
ʻO ka mea hope loa, no ke aha e anuanu ai nā kāne ma hope o ka hemo ʻana a laila hele a hōʻino?
ʻO kēia kekahi o nā mea a mākou e ʻike maʻamau ai i nā haʻihaʻi kahi i ʻeha loa ke kāne e ʻae i ka pau ʻana o kā lāua pili e hānai ʻo ia i kona huhū a huhū hoʻi e loaʻa ka manawa kūpono e loaʻa ai ma kahi o ka neʻe ʻana. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, aia wale nō ia i ka ʻeha nui.
Heluhelu Pili: Pehea e pau ai ka male ʻana o nā kāne?
ʻO ke kumu nui ke kumu o kā lākou hana e like me kēia
E like me nā wahine, ke ʻano o ke kāne ma hope o ka haki ʻana e kaukaʻi ʻia i kāna kaiapuni, ka poʻe a puni iā ia, pehea ʻo ia e hana ai me ke koʻikoʻi, ka hiki i ka naʻau, a me ka pae hilinaʻi hoʻi.
ʻO ke kāne ʻaʻohe ona ʻōnaehana kākoʻo ikaika a kūpaʻa paha i ka hilinaʻi i ka naʻau e koho ia i ka ʻāhewa, ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana a me ka kaulike ʻole me nā mea āpau.
ʻO ke kāne i hoʻokumu i ka manaʻo ikaika ikaika, ʻoiaʻiʻo, e ʻeha pū kekahi akā e hoʻomaopopo a lawe i kona manawa e neʻe i mua o ka mākaukau e komo hou i kahi pilina.
He mea weliweli ke aloha a no ka paʻakikī paha e ʻike ai, inā ʻike ʻoe ua hāʻawi ʻoe i kāu āpau a ʻaʻole nō ia i holo, a laila pono ʻoe e ʻae i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka ʻeha e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka manawa neʻe aku.