Anter
- Pau ke kaua
- ʻO ka makaʻu liʻiliʻi o ka wā e hiki mai ana
- Hoʻokaʻawale kino
- ʻAʻole i loli nā mea
- ʻAʻole pili kou wā e hiki mai ana i kāu wahine
Ma ke kakahiaka nui, ma mua o kāna kāne no ka hana, ala ʻo Sandy e aloha i ka lā. Ua hele ʻo ia i ka lumi kuke a hana i kahi kofe, noho ʻo ia me ka hāmau e mikiʻi ana, a haka pono akula i ka puka aniani. Nui nā mea hiki ke loaʻa iā ia i kēlā manawa.
A laila, i kona hoʻi ʻana i ka lumi lumi nui a hala i kāna kāne hiamoe, ua manaʻo ʻo ia — ʻaʻohe mea. No nā mahina he nui i ʻike ʻo ia i ka huhū a me ka huhū no nā mea āpau i hana ʻia ma waena o lākou. Ua hakakā lākou ma luna o kēlā me kēia mea liʻiliʻi. ʻAʻole i loaʻa iki iā ia, a i ʻole hoʻāʻo paha. ʻAʻole loa ʻo ia i makemake e hana i kā lāua pilina a i ʻole lilo pū i ka manawa. A ʻo ko lākou ola wahine he ʻano ʻole. Ua aloha ʻo ia iā ia i hoʻokahi manawa, akā i kēia manawa ua ʻano like ia me kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe.
I kēlā kakahiaka ua pīhoihoi ʻo ia no ka lilo loa ʻana o kona huhū, a ma kahi o ia he hakahaka wale. I kēlā manawa ua ʻike ʻo ia i kona ola e hele nei i mua ʻaʻole e hoʻokomo i kāna kāne. ʻAʻole weliweli hou ka huaʻōlelo "wehe male" no Sandy. Pēlā ʻo ia i ʻike ai ua pau kāna male.
ʻOiai he mea maʻamau ia i ka male ʻana he nui nā piʻi a me nā lalo, inā ʻoe i ʻoi aku i lalo nā mea i luna e loaʻa paha iā ʻoe kahi manawa hakakā. ʻO kahi manawa e hoʻololi ai a ulu pū hou. He paʻakikī, akā hiki ke hana ʻia inā makemake nui ʻolua a makemake hoʻi. ʻO ka wā e holomua ai nā mea i hala — ma mua o ke kahua hakakā - ʻaʻole hiki ke alo ʻia ka hemo ʻana. E ʻike ʻoe ua pau kāu male ʻana inā ʻoe e hōʻea i kēia mau hopena:
Pau ke kaua
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe a ʻo kāu ipo e hoʻāʻo hou nei e hakakā no ka male, a laila aia paha ia ma ke ala o ka pau. Inā loaʻa kahi manawa hakakā inā koe kekahi mea e hoʻopakele ai, e uē paha ʻoe a i ʻole ʻo kāu wahine, ʻeā, nonoi, noi, a i ʻole hana i kekahi mea koʻikoʻi e hoʻāʻo e hoʻopakele. Hiki iā ʻoe ke faila no ka hemo male ma kēia manawa ma ke ʻano o ka ʻauwai hope loa e hoʻohoka kekahi i kekahi i ka hoʻohuli ʻana i nā mea-aia nō kekahi mea e mālama inā ʻo ia ka hihia. Akā ke nui a emi iki paha ka mālie, ahonui, nānā ʻole, mālama ʻole, a ke nānā nei i mua i ka hopena, a laila ʻike maikaʻi paha ka hopena.
ʻO ka makaʻu liʻiliʻi o ka wā e hiki mai ana
Ke waiho kekahi mea o ka pilina e mālama ai, a laila e hopohopo a makaʻu paha ʻoe a me kāu wahine e pili ana i nā hiki. E hopohopo ʻoe i nā kikoʻī o ka pehea o nā mea. Mālama nui loa ʻoe e pili ana i ka pili āu e hopohopo ai e pili ana i nā mea keakea āu e hele ai e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i nā mea. Inā ua pau ka male, eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole ʻoe e nānā iki i ka mea e hiki mai ana. ʻike wale ʻoe e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o kāu kūlana o kēia manawa. A maikaʻi ʻoe me kēlā. Eia kekahi, inā ua pau ka male, mākaukau ʻoe e hele ma waena o nā mea āpau e pau a pau.
Hoʻokaʻawale kino
Ke pili ʻole ʻoe ma ke ʻano he kāne, maopopo ia i kou nalo ʻole. ʻAʻole ʻoe moe kolohe, ʻaʻole cuddle, ʻaʻole honi - ʻaʻole noho pū kekahi me kekahi. ʻAe paha ʻoe i ka pale ʻana i kekahi i kekahi. Ua hala ke kuko a ʻano pīhoihoi wale nō ia. Inā kū kēia, e hoʻāʻo paha ʻoe e ʻimi i ka pili kino i kahi ʻē aʻe, a inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka hopena o kāu hana i kahi hihia kūpono, a laila hiki i ka male ma kahi o ka hoʻi ʻole.
ʻAʻole i loli nā mea
Ke makemake ka poʻe hoa e loli, a laila ʻaʻole pau ka male. Aia nō nā mea e hoʻāʻo ai, nā ʻano hana hou e hoʻokokoke aku ai, nā ʻano hana hou e hoʻomaikaʻi ai ka pilina. Aia kekahi mau male ʻana, he hoʻi hope, he mau lā aloha, he nui nā kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea āpau, a pēlā aku. Akā inā ua luhi ʻoe i nā koho āpau, ua hoʻāʻo i nā mea āpau āu e noʻonoʻo ai a ʻoi aku akā ʻaʻole i loli nā mea, a laila pau ka male. Inā ʻaʻole e holo pono me kāu mau hana āpau, a laila ʻaʻole e loli mau nā mea. E ʻike ʻoe ua hiki i ka manawa e neʻe ai.
ʻAʻole pili kou wā e hiki mai ana i kāu wahine
Ke male mua ʻia mākou, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke noʻonoʻo i ko mākou ola me ka ʻole o kā mākou wahine; ʻoiaʻiʻo hiki iā mākou ke noʻonoʻo e ulu pū ana me ka ʻelemakule. I kēlā me kēia hanana o ko mākou ola e hiki mai ana, he hapa nui kā kā mākou wahine. Akā inā ua haki nā mea i loko o ka pilina a lawa, a laila ua loli nui paha kēlā ʻike i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Inā ʻoe inā kou mau manaʻolana a me nā moemoeā e hiki mai ana - e like me ka hele huakaʻi ʻana, ʻike ʻana i nā moʻopuna, hana pū i nā mea leʻaleʻa - ʻaʻole e hoʻopili hou i kāu wahine, a laila aia paha i ka wā e hiki mai ana ka male male. I kou noʻonoʻo, ke kiʻi ʻē nei ʻoe i ke ʻano o ke ola me ka ʻole o lākou, a he hōʻailona maikaʻi ia e pau ana kāu male.