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- ʻO ka hoaaloha maikaʻi ke kāne maikaʻi loa i ka male ʻana:
- ʻO nā hoa aloha a me nā hoa ʻoihana:
- ʻO ka hoaaloha maikaʻi loa a me ka papahana he 12:
- ʻAʻohe wau mau hoa aloha ʻoi aku:
- ʻO ka hoaaloha maikaʻi a me ke kīnā ʻole:
He mea maikaʻi anei ka noho pū ʻana me nā keikikāne ke male ʻoe? Manaʻo nā kāne he nui e lilo ana ko lākou kūʻokoʻa ke hiki ʻole ke kau pū me nā kāne. He kumuhana paha ia o ka lilo ʻana o ke kūʻokoʻa a i ʻole ka hoʻololi ʻana i ke ʻano o ka nohona e hoʻokipa ai i kahi hoa no ke ola holoʻokoʻa? Pehea e ulana ai kēlā aloha aloha kāne i loko o kahi male maikaʻi? ʻIke nā kāne he nui e hoʻomaka ka pau o ka pilina me kā lākou mea maikaʻi loa ma muli o nā paʻa male. Ua hoʻomaikaʻi kekahi mau kāne i kā lākou pilina me kā lākou mea maikaʻi loa ke komo lākou i kahi pae hou o ko lākou ola no ka mea pono lākou e kamaʻilio me kekahi e pili ana i nā mea makemake ʻole ʻia e kā lākou wahine, e like me nā haʻuki. ʻImi pū lākou i nā kuanaʻike kāne ʻē aʻe me ka pili ʻole o ka naʻau.
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ʻO ka hoaaloha maikaʻi ke kāne maikaʻi loa i ka male ʻana:
ʻO Jonathon, 40, i male iā Carrie no 20 mau makahiki e paʻa mau ana i kāna hoa aloha ʻo Mike i kona puʻuwai. “He mau hoaaloha maikaʻi loa māua ʻo Mike a ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomanaʻo i ko māua hui ʻana. Eia naʻe, ua male māua ʻo Mike me nā kaikuahine ʻelua. No laila hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ka pono a mākou e ʻaihue ai i kahi manawa kāne. Kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i kā mākou male ʻana a me ka neʻe ʻana i ka ʻoihana a me ka mālama ʻana i kā mākou keiki kāne. Aloha mākou ʻelua i ka hockey a me ka baseball. Manaʻo wau ʻaʻole wau e male inā ʻaʻole wau e kamaʻilio pū me Mike. Ua kamaʻilio ʻo ia iaʻu e noho mau i nā manawa ke manaʻo wau makemake wau e hele. Hauʻoli au i koʻu noho ʻana. ʻO Mike ke kāne maikaʻi ma ka male male.
ʻO nā hoa aloha a me nā hoa ʻoihana:
ʻO James 35, male iā Karen no 10 mau makahiki. ʻO koʻu hoapili ʻo Victor, he hoa noho me ke koleke. Hoʻomaka like mākou i kahi ʻoihana lako pono. Hoʻomaka kahi ʻoihana me kekahi e like me ka male male. ʻAʻaka kaʻu wahine e pili ana i kēia. Kamaʻilio mākou i ka hana i ka lā holoʻokoʻa a laila hoʻi mākou i ka hale. ʻIke mākou kekahi i kekahi ma nā hālāwai ʻoihana a me nā ʻaha kūkā. I kekahi manawa hele mākou i nā hale o kēlā me kēia mea inā piʻi aʻe kahi mea nui pono mākou e kamaʻilio. Eia nō naʻe, kūkulu ʻia ko mākou aloha ma ke aloha a me nā hoʻomanaʻo o ke koleke i hala. I kēia lā, ʻoi aku ka nui o kā mākou pili aloha ma mua o ke kau pū ʻana me nā kāne. Akā mai kuhihewa e pili ana iā ia, pono ʻoe e hilinaʻi i kāu hoa ʻoihana a pono ia e hilinaʻi ʻia i mea e holo pono ai ka ʻoihana. ʻO ka ʻoihana ko mākou ola a me ka nohona. ʻO ko mākou aloha aloha he mea nui ia iaʻu ma mua o ka wā ma mua.
ʻO ka hoaaloha maikaʻi loa a me ka papahana he 12:
ʻO Carl 27, male iā Bet no ʻehā mau makahiki. Ua hālāwai au me kuʻu hoaaloha ʻo John i kahi papahana he 12 no ka poʻe ʻona, ʻelima mau makahiki i hala. Paipai mākou kekahi i kekahi i loko o nā makahiki a ua noho makaʻala mākou. Ua ʻoi aku koʻu ikaika i kēia manawa. Hiki iaʻu ke hana me ka ʻole ʻo ia akā ʻaʻole wau maopopo inā hiki iā ia ke ʻole wau. Haʻaheo ʻo Bet iaʻu. ʻO John kahi ʻohana. Ua like ʻo ia me ke kaikaina. He kaikamahine kāna e pili nui ana. He mea inu ʻole ʻo ia. Hauʻoli wau nona. ʻLelo ʻo ia inā he keikikāne kāna keiki mua e kapa ʻo ia iā ia ma hope oʻu. Ua mahalo ʻo ia i kaʻu male a kākoʻo iā ia. Maopopo iaʻu, e ʻike nō kāua no kekahi manawa lōʻihi.
ʻAʻohe wau mau hoa aloha ʻoi aku:
Ua male ʻia ʻo Eric 39 iā Janice no 18 mau makahiki. He male maikaʻi koʻu. ʻO kuʻu kaikamahine kuʻu hoaaloha ʻoi loa. Hana pū mākou i nā mea āpau. ʻAʻole wau hilinaʻi i kahi kāne a puni kaʻu wahine. ʻAʻole pono wau i kahi pō o kahi kāne. ʻElua oʻu kaikunāne e pili pū wau me kekahi manawa. ʻAʻohe oʻu mau hoaaloha i ke kula no laila ʻaʻole wau i kau ʻia me ke ʻano o ke kāne. ʻO nā kāne aʻu e ʻike ai, hoʻāʻo lākou e moe i kēlā me kēia wahine a puni lākou a ua male lākou. I kēlā me kēia manawa ke ʻike ʻoe iaʻu, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e ʻike i kahi buddie. Ke ʻike ʻoe iaʻu, ʻo wau wale nō a me kaʻu wahine. Maikaʻi wau me kēlā.
ʻO ka hoaaloha maikaʻi a me ke kīnā ʻole:
Ua male ʻo Abe 53 i kāna ipo kula kiʻekiʻe, ʻo Patricia no 30 mau makahiki. He koa kīnā ʻo Abe a pēlā pū kāna hoa aloha ʻo Sam. “He mau hoa aloha loa māua ʻo Sam. Hana pū mākou i ka pūʻali koa. Ua kīnā mākou ʻelua i ka lawelawe ʻana i ka manawa like. Hele mākou mai kahi hoʻokahi. Ua male ʻo Sam i kahi lede maikaʻi. Hoʻopaʻa mākou ma luna o ko mākou kīnā a hana nui mākou me nā hana a ka poʻe koa kīnā. ʻAʻole hiki i kā mākou mau wahine ke hoʻomaopopo i ka mea a mākou i hele ai a ua loli ko mākou ola no ia mea. Mālama mākou i nā mea i ke kuanaʻike no laila ʻaʻohe pilikia. Nānā mākou i nā pāʻani, kamaʻilio ma ke kolamu, a hele i ka lua wai hoʻoinu kaiāulu, ʻelua a ʻekolu paha manawa o ka mahina. ʻAʻole ia e loli. E haʻi aku iā ʻoe i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, manaʻo wau ua hoʻomaha kaʻu wahine. ʻAʻole pono wau e hilinaʻi iā ia no nā mea āpau e like me ke keiki kao. Hoʻomaha ʻo ia. ”
I ka hopena, lawelawe nā hoaaloha i nā kuleana he nui i ke ola o ke kanaka a hāʻawi pinepine i ka male i ka hanu no ka mea ʻaʻole pono nā mākua e loaʻa i kā lākou ʻikepili a i ʻole ka manaʻo kanaka e pono ai mai hoʻokahi kanaka. He mea kaumaha paha kēlā no ka wahine. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hana ʻia kekahi mau male e ka hoʻolālā no kēlā me kēia hoa e hilinaʻi loa kekahi i kekahi.