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- 1. Piha ke ola i ka hauʻoli
- 2. Hoʻolilo i kahi manawa kupaianaha pū a kaʻawale
- 3. Kākoʻo manaʻo āu e makemake ai
- 4. Ke nānā nei iā ʻoe
- 5. E hoʻomaopopo iā ʻoe ma mua o kāu hana iā ʻoe iho
- 6. Hilinaʻi ʻoe iā lākou i kou ola
- 7. Ke kanaka hele
- 8. E ʻae i ke ʻano o lākou
- 9. Ka pahuhopu a i ʻole ka ʻiʻini maʻamau
- 10. Ka wahine kamahaʻo
ʻAʻole emi iki ka male ma mua o ka piliwaiwai.
ʻIke paha ʻoe i kahi kanaka mai nā makahiki akā hiki i ka hopena ke hopena me kahi kanaka hewa. A i kekahi manawa, hopena paha ʻoe me ke kanaka kūpono me ka ʻike ʻole iā lākou no kekahi manawa. He hana paʻa ia a ʻaʻole makemake ʻoe e kuhihewa.
Hiki i ka male ʻana i ke kanaka kūpono ke lawe mai i ka hauʻoli a me ka ʻoluʻolu i kou ola. Hiki iā lākou ke kākoʻo iā ʻoe e lilo i kanaka ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. E noho pū lākou me ʻoe i ka maikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi ʻole. Eia naʻe, ʻo ka noho pū ʻana me kahi kanaka hewa e hoʻopuka i nā mea ʻino i loko ou.
E ʻike pehea e male ai i ke kanaka kūpono
1. Piha ke ola i ka hauʻoli
Ke noho ʻoe me ke kanaka kūpono, e maluhia ʻoe.
Aia nō paha kekahi mau paio a me nā manaʻo ʻokoʻa a i ʻole ke ʻano, akā ʻaʻole ia e hoʻopilikia i kāu ʻike noʻonoʻo. ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e ʻike ia akā akā ʻike maoli kou kino a me kou ʻuhane.
ʻAʻole hāʻawi nā kānaka āpau iā mākou i kahi ʻano ʻoluʻolu a hauʻoli paha. No laila, inā e haʻohaʻo ʻoe ʻo wai ke kanaka kūpono nāu? E nānā i kāu ʻōlelo kino a hoʻolohe i kou puʻuwai. ʻIke ia i nā mea āpau.
2. Hoʻolilo i kahi manawa kupaianaha pū a kaʻawale
ʻO ka mea mua, makemake ʻoe e noho manawa me ke kanaka kūpono. ʻIke loa, ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hāʻawi me kahi mea āu e makemake ʻole ai. Eia naʻe, ʻoi aku kēia kanaka kūikawā ma mua o nā hoa aloha iā ʻoe.
E hauʻoli ʻolua i ka hana pū ʻana i nā mea. E nānā wale paha i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni a hele wāwae paha i ka pāka. He mea ʻole ia. He mea nui ko lākou alo a me ka hoʻolilo manawa ʻana me lākou.
Eia kekahi, inā ʻaʻole ʻolua pū, ʻaʻole ia e pilikia nui iā ʻoe. ʻO kahi laʻana, hoʻoholo kāu hoa e hoʻolōʻihi i kahi manawa me kā lākou hoaaloha. Maikaʻi loa ʻoe me ia. ʻO ke kumu o ka ʻike o kou puʻuwai e pili pono ana ʻolua i kekahi.
Makemake ʻoe e ʻike hauʻoli iā lākou e like me ka hauʻoli o kou alo i ka hauʻoli.
3. Kākoʻo manaʻo āu e makemake ai
Pehea e male ai i ke kanaka kūpono? E male i kekahi e lawe ʻole i ka minoʻaka ma kou alo akā ke kākoʻo pū kekahi iā ʻoe me ka naʻau. ʻAʻole ia mākou e ake nui no ia, akā ʻo kēia ka mea a mākou e makemake ai i loko o ko mākou ola, kahi mea hiki ke kākoʻo iā mākou i ka noʻonoʻo a me ka naʻau.
E hāʻawi ke kanaka kūpono iā ʻoe i kēlā kākoʻo.
E kū lākou ma hope ou i ka maikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi ʻole. E kiʻi aku ʻoe iā lākou i nā manawa a pau āu e makemake ai i kahi kākoʻo. ʻO ka hilinaʻi a me ka hilinaʻi aia lākou ma laila he mea nui ia iā ʻoe.
4. Ke nānā nei iā ʻoe
ʻAe mākou e aloha mākou ke nānā ka poʻe.
Ke mālama nei kekahi iā mākou a i ʻole e hōʻoia ʻoluʻolu ana mākou, he mea nui ia iā mākou.
E mālama ke kanaka kūpono i kou hōʻoluʻolu a e nānā i nā kikoʻī minuke.
ʻO kahi laʻana, pehea ʻoe e makemake ai i kāu kope, he aha nā mea e huhū ai iā ʻoe a i ʻole mea e ʻakaʻaka ai i kou alo. E male i ke kanaka e nānā nui i kāu hōʻoluʻolu.
5. E hoʻomaopopo iā ʻoe ma mua o kāu hana iā ʻoe iho
ʻAʻole anei e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka noho pū ʻana me kahi mea e hoʻomaopopo pono iā ʻoe e ʻōlelo ʻole ai i kekahi mea? Kupanaha paha ia, ʻeā?
ʻĀ, kou Mr / Ms. E ʻike ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi iā ʻoe ma mua o ka mea ʻē aʻe. Maikaʻi lākou i ka heluhelu ʻana i ka ʻōlelo o kou kino, e ʻike pehea ʻoe e pane ai i kahi kūlana, a hiki ke heluhelu i kou mau maka a hoʻolohe i kāu hāmau.
He mea nui kēia mau mea i ka pilina. ʻO ka noho ʻana me ke kanaka e waiwai ai ke ola.
6. Hilinaʻi ʻoe iā lākou i kou ola
ʻAʻole maʻalahi e hilinaʻi i kekahi.
Hilinaʻi wale mākou i kekahi poʻe i ko mākou ola holoʻokoʻa, nā mākua a me nā hoa ola ma waena o lākou. No laila, inā hilinaʻi ʻoe i kekahi me kou ola, ʻo ia ka mea kūpono iā lākou.
ʻO ka hilinaʻi i kekahi kanaka he ʻano kūlohelohe ia. Hele kūlohelohe ia. E nānā i kēia hōʻailona a inā manaʻo ʻoe he hilinaʻi kāu i kāu hoa makemake, a laila laki ʻoe i loaʻa iā lākou.
7. Ke kanaka hele
ʻAʻole mākou e kaʻana like i ko mākou hauʻoli pilikino a kaumaha ʻole a pilikia paha me nā mea āpau.
Holo mākou i kekahi kokoke iā mākou. Inā aia kekahi mea āu i hele mua ai i ka manawa hauʻoli a kaumaha paha, a laila ua ʻike ʻoe i ke kanaka kūpono. ʻAʻole ʻoe ʻike ia akā e nānā ʻoe ia a ʻike ʻo wai ʻoe e kikoʻī ai i kēlā mau hanana.
8. E ʻae i ke ʻano o lākou
Loaʻa iā mākou kahi nui o nā mea i manaʻo ʻia mai kēlā me kēia kanaka a puni mākou.
Makemake paha mākou e ʻaʻahu lākou i kahi ala. A i ʻole makemake iā lākou e hana i kekahi ʻano. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole hiki ke ʻae i ke kanaka e like me lākou. Ke loaʻa ʻoe i ke kanaka kūpono, e ʻae ʻoe i ka maikaʻi.
ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e ʻike i kekahi mea hewa i loko o lākou. E ʻike ʻoe iā lākou he hemolele, hemolele loa.
9. Ka pahuhopu a i ʻole ka ʻiʻini maʻamau
Ke noʻonoʻo nei pehea e male ai i ke kanaka kūpono? E ʻike inā pili like ʻolua i kahi pahuhopu a i ʻole ka ʻiʻini.
E kōkua ka hoa kūpono iā ʻoe e hoʻokō i kāu mau moeʻuhane a e kākoʻo iā ʻoe i kēlā me kēia ala kūpono. Aia lākou ma laila e kākoʻo iā ʻoe a pahu iā ʻoe. Lawe lākou i nā mea ʻoi loa i loko ou. Pālua kēia inā loaʻa iā ʻolua nā pahuhopu pilikino a pilikino.
10. Ka wahine kamahaʻo
ʻAʻole hiki ke nānā ʻole ʻia ka wahine i ka pilina.
He mea nui ka pili kino e like me ka pilina a me ka pilina. Ke hauʻoli nui ʻoe i ka noʻonoʻo a me ka naʻau me kahi kanaka āu e ʻoliʻoli ai i kāu moekolohe. Eia pū kekahi, mai kānalua i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i loko o kahi moe. ʻO ka wahine kupaianaha e hoʻokokoke iā ʻolua i kekahi i kekahi, ʻaʻohe mea.