Anter
- 1. Ke hoʻonui nei i nā kamaʻilio
- 2. Pili pili maka
- 3. ʻ Languagelelo Kino
- 4. Ke noi nei i nā kikoʻī pilikino a me nā pili kaiaulu
- 5. Ke kuhikuhi pololei ʻana
- 6. Hoʻopā
- 7. Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei i kāu kamaʻilio
- 8. Nā hāʻawi e kōkua iā ʻoe i waho
- 9. Hoʻolauna iā ʻoe i ka poʻe nui iā ia
Makemake ʻoe i kahi kanaka ʻōpio kikoʻī. Makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe. Aia ʻolua ʻelua ma ka ʻaoʻao hoʻokahi, no laila maʻalahi ka hoʻomaka ʻana i kēia lā, a maopopo a maikaʻi ʻole hoʻi kāu kamaʻilio ʻana.
Hānau ʻia kahi pilina maikaʻi!
ʻAʻole anei maikaʻi inā maʻalahi ke aloha? Minamina, ʻaʻole pinepine ia.
No ka mea he kanaka mākou, ʻaʻole pinepine mākou nā mea kamaʻilio maikaʻi loa, ke hiki mai nei e hōʻike i ko mākou hoihoi i kekahi mea hoihoi iā mākou, a ʻike pū i ka pehea e haʻi ai inā makemake kahi kāne iā ʻoe.
A inā he hilahila a hoʻokomo ʻole ʻia ke kāne āu e makemake ai, hana ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā mea e like me nā hōʻailona āna i makemake ai iā ʻoe ma mua o ka hoaaloha.
No laila, pehea e ʻike ai inā makemake kahi kāne iā ʻoe? A he aha kekahi mau hōʻailona maopopo i loko ou ke kāne?
E nānā pū kekahi: nā hōʻailona makemake kahi kāne iā ʻoe
Eia kekahi mau hōʻailona makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma mua o "nā hoaaloha" wale nō:
1. Ke hoʻonui nei i nā kamaʻilio
ʻO kekahi o nā hōʻailona maʻamau a ke kāne hilahila i makemake ai iā ʻoe ke hminoʻaka ʻo ia i kēlā me kēia manawa ke ʻike ʻo ia iā ʻoe a nīnau i nā nīnau he nui e hoʻolōʻihi i kāu kamaʻilio ʻana.
E ʻōlelo mākou ua hele ʻoe i kēia kāne ma ke alaloa o ke kula a hana paha. Kū ʻoe e walaʻau. Mālamalama kona alo, a minoʻaka ākea ʻo ia i kuʻi ʻia.
He hōʻailona ikaika kēlā makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe. Inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia, a i ʻole nānā ʻo ia i kekahi ʻano ukiuki a hoʻonāukiuki paha. ʻAʻole paha ʻo ia e kū e kamaʻilio.
I kēia manawa he alo a he alo ʻolua, a ke pepa nei ʻo ia iā ʻoe me nā nīnau, kekahi mea e hoʻomau i ke kamaʻilio ʻana. “Pehea kou hopena pule? Loaʻa nā hoʻolālā no kēia pule? Ua ʻike anei ʻoe i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻo Spielberg hou? ”
Kamaʻilio liʻiliʻi, ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā makemake ʻo ia e hoʻopaʻa iā ʻoe i ka lōʻihi e hiki ai. Makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe!
2. Pili pili maka
Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai inā makemake kahi kāne iā ʻoe?
ʻĀ, inā hoihoi kahi kāne iā ʻoe, e nānā nui paha ia iā ʻoe i ke kamaʻilio pū ʻana me ʻoe. (ʻAʻole pololei kēia no nā keiki hilahila a kāne ʻole hōʻoluʻolu ʻole i ka ʻike maka ʻana ma ka nui.)
Ua hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻia ka launa ʻana o ka maka me ka hoʻolōʻihi i ka poʻe i ke aloha.
No laila, inā makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe, e hoʻolōʻihi kona mau maka ma kou alo, kou maka a me kou waha. E minoʻaka ʻo ia i kāna hoʻolohe ʻana iā ʻoe e kamaʻilio ana. E ʻike ʻoe i kona leʻaleʻa ke nānā wale aku nei iā ʻoe, e pulu ana iā ʻoe i loko.
Inā ʻaʻole hoihoi ʻo ia iā ʻoe, e piʻo kona mau maka ma ka lumi āpau ʻoiai e kamaʻilio pū ana ʻo ia me ʻoe ... e like me ka ʻimi ʻana i ka mea maikaʻi aʻe ”a i ʻole ke ala e haʻalele ai i ke kamaʻilio.
3. ʻ Languagelelo Kino
Hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi nui e pili ana i ka manaʻo o ke kāne e pili iā ʻoe ke nānā nei i kāna ʻōlelo kino ke noho pū ʻo ia me ʻoe.
Huli ʻo ia iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole ʻoki i kona kino mai ou aku? Ke kuhikuhi nei kona mau wāwae iā ʻoe? Ke aniani nei kāna neʻe ʻana iā ʻoe, e laʻa, inā ʻoe e hele i kou mau wāwae, keʻa ʻo ia i kona?
ʻO kēia mau mea liʻiliʻi a pau he "haʻi" a me nā hōʻailona ke makemake nei kahi kāne iā ʻoe. ʻLelo lākou iā ʻoe makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
4. Ke noi nei i nā kikoʻī pilikino a me nā pili kaiaulu
Nīnau ʻo ia i kāu helu kelepona, inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoa aloha ma Facebook, a i ʻole kuhikuhi pololei ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma o kāu moʻokāki Instagram.
ʻO kēia mau hōʻailona āpau e makemake ai kahi kāne iā ʻoe.
Makemake ʻo ia wehe hou i nā kahawai o ke kamaʻilio pilikino me ʻoe. No laila inā noi ʻo ia iā ʻoe no kāu helu kelepona, e manaʻo koke i kahi leka uila. Inā aloha ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi ma Facebook, e hoʻomaka ʻo ia e leka iā ʻoe ma laila.
Ke ʻōlelo nei ʻo ia ma kāu Instagram a me nā memo Facebook? He hōʻailona maikaʻi kēlā iā ʻoe i loko ou.
5. Ke kuhikuhi pololei ʻana
ʻO kahi hōʻailona ʻē aʻe e makemake ai ke kāne iā ʻoe ke nīnau pololei ʻo ia iā ʻoe inā ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina.
ʻO "He ipo kāne kāu" kahi hōʻailona maikaʻi loa e pili ana i ka hoihoi iā ʻoe. Ke nānā nei ʻo ia i ke kūlana inā ʻike manuahi ʻoe a loaʻa paha.
Ke haʻi ʻoe iā ia ʻaʻole, e ukali paha ʻoe me "Akā hāmama loa wau i ka ninaninau ʻana i nā moho hou no ke kūlana!" a i ʻole kekahi kono kono pāʻani e hōʻike i kou hoihoi iā ia pū kekahi.
6. Hoʻopā
Ke noʻonoʻo nei pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai i kahi kāne makemake iā ʻoe?
Inā makemake kahi kāne iā ʻoe, e ʻike ʻo ia i nā ʻano maalea āpau e hoʻopā iā ʻoe; ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kōkua.
Ke hoʻopā nei paha i kou lima i kāna kamaʻilio ʻana me ʻoe, me ka hoʻokō ʻana i kahi kuhi āna e hana nei. Hiki iā ia ke palaki i kahi lauoho hele hewa mai kou alo aku. Lawe paha ʻo ia i kou lima, me he mea lā he mea heluhelu palama ʻo ia.
Ke hoihoi kekahi kanaka iā ʻoe, he pono primal kāna e hoʻopā iā ʻoe, i kahi ʻano kūpono.
Inā kūpono ʻole kāna hoʻopā, e ʻōlelo pono iā ia ʻaʻole maikaʻi ia. ʻOiai makemake ʻoe iā ia, ʻaʻole pono iā ia e ʻae i kou kino i kēlā me kēia ʻano e hōʻoluʻolu ʻole iā ʻoe.
7. Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei i kāu kamaʻilio
Ke makemake kekahi kanaka iā ʻoe, kau ʻo ia i nā mea liʻiliʻi āu e kaʻana like ai. Ma hope o kāna kamaʻilio ʻana me ʻoe, hele ʻo ia i kāu kamaʻilio ʻana i kona poʻo. Mālama kēia iā ʻoe kokoke iā ia.
No laila, mai pūʻiwa ʻoe inā ʻoe hui hou, e hāhai ʻo ia i kahi mea āu i ʻōlelo ai i ka manawa hope āu i kamaʻilio ai.
ʻO kāna ala ia e hōʻike ai e hoʻolohe ana iā ʻoe, a he hōʻailona nui kēlā no kāu pili e hiki mai ana.
8. Nā hāʻawi e kōkua iā ʻoe i waho
Inā makemake kahi kāne iā ʻoe a inā makemake kahi keikikāne iā ʻoe, Makemake ʻo ia e hōʻike iā ʻoe i kāna kākoʻo.
Hoʻomanaʻo, i mau makahiki i hala aku nei, i ka manawa e hāʻawi ai kahi keikikāne e lawe i nā puke kaikamahine i ka home mai ke kula? (Pehea ka nani o kēlā ʻano flirting?)
I kēia mau lā, kāna hāʻawi e kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻoi aku paha ka ʻike IT, e like me ke kōkua ʻana iā ʻoe e hoʻonohonoho i kahi polokalamu hou a i ʻole pāʻani paha ma kāu kelepona, a hoʻonohonoho i kāu kamepiula hou.
A i ʻole, inā he pilikia ʻoe me kahi papa, hāʻawi paha ʻo ia i kona mākaukau a kōkua iā ʻoe e aʻo iā ʻoe.
9. Hoʻolauna iā ʻoe i ka poʻe nui iā ia
ʻO ke kāne nāna e hoʻolauna iā ʻoe i kāna hui o nā hoaaloha maopopo iā ʻoe.
Haʻaheo ʻo ia e launa pū ana me ia a makemake e hōʻike iā ʻoe i kāna mau hoa. Kono aku ʻo ia iā ʻoe i ka hale e launa me kona mau mākua?
He koʻikoʻi koʻikoʻi kāna iā ʻoe!
ʻO kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo 9 e pili ana pehea e haʻi ai inā makemake kahi kāne iā ʻoe e kōkua iā ʻoe e heluhelu i nā hōʻailona a ke keikikāne e makemake ai iā ʻoe.