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E mahana a me ke aloha
Inā ʻoe e nānā ʻole i ka ʻōlelo i kākau ʻia ai ka ʻatikala i ʻōlelo ʻia, aia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo maikaʻi ma laila. ʻO kekahi o nā mea nui i kēia pūʻulu alakaʻi e hoʻohuli i ke kiʻi o ka wahine mehana a aloha, kahi mea e ʻike pehea e hōʻike ai i ke aloha i kāna kāne.
He ʻōlelo paipai kēia i hiki ʻole ke hala i ka lā. ʻOiai ke hōʻike nei i kou aloha i kāu kāne ʻaʻole paha e noho i ka hāʻawi ʻana e wehe i kona kāmaʻa hou, pono ʻoe e ʻimi i nā ala e hōʻike ai i kou aloha iā ia. Hoʻoneʻe pinepine mākou i ko mākou naʻau a nānā nui i nā kuleana o kēlā me kēia lā, i ka hana a i ʻole nā hopohopo. No laila hiki iā mākou ke koho i kā mākou poʻe aloha i ka nui o kā mākou mālama nui iā lākou. Mai waiho i kēia hihia i loko o kāu male.
E hoʻomaopopo
ʻO kekahi mākau koʻikoʻi a nā wahine 50 e hānai ai i ka ʻike. Hoʻowalewale ʻia paha mākou e ʻōlelo iki aʻe i ka ʻike inā manaʻo mākou i ka mea i paipai ʻia e ka ʻatikala. ʻAʻole e haʻi ka wahine 50 i kāna mau hoʻopiʻi inā ua lohi kāna kāne a hele paha i waho e leʻaleʻa ana iā ia iho.
ʻOiai ʻaʻole mākou e ʻaelike me ka pae o ke ahonui i kēia manawa, aia kahi ʻano makemake nui ʻia ma laila. ʻAʻole maikaʻi kekahi o mākou, a ʻaʻole ʻo kā mākou kāne. ʻAʻole ʻoe e ʻae i ka waiho ʻana i kahi kūlana hoʻolohe, akā me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā nāwaliwali a me nā hemahema o kāu kāne i kahi mākau kūpono e pono like i kēia lā e like me 60 mau makahiki i hala.
Hana i nā pono o kāu kāne
Ke kuhikuhi nei mākou e kuhikuhi nei i nā wahine hale e mālama i nā pono o kā lākou kāne ma nā ʻano like ʻole. Akā, ʻo ka mea nui, ʻike mākou i ka manaʻo o kēlā mau kāne e pono nui ana i ka maluhia a me ka mālie, a me kahi ʻaina awakea mehana. E ʻōlelo mākou i kēia mau lā he mau mea hou aku kā ke kāne o kēia mau lā ma mua o kēlā, akā like ke ʻano - e lilo i wahine maikaʻi, pono ʻoe e hoʻokau i kāu kāne e pono ai.
ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo ke ʻano maʻemaʻe, ʻakaʻaka, a maikaʻi ʻole ke nānā aku. Akā, he manaʻo ia i ke aloha no ka mea e pono ai a ʻimi paha i nā ala e hoʻolako ai iā ia a kākoʻo iā ia ma kāna ala. Nui nā mea hiki iā mākou ke aʻo mai nā 50 wahine, a ʻo ia ka mea e manaʻo ai i kāu hoa ola e mālama ʻia a mālama ʻia hoʻi.
Ua loli nā mea i hana
Ua hoʻolaha ke alakaʻi o ka wahine hale 50 i kahi kiʻi kahi i mahana ai ka wahine a me ka hoʻomaopopo mai ka honua koʻikoʻi no kāna kāne - maikaʻi loa. ʻOiai he mau manaʻo maikaʻi i loko o ka ʻatikala i ʻōlelo ʻia, aia kekahi mea i hiki ʻole i kekahi ke ʻae i kēia mau lā. A ʻo ia ka nele loa o ke kamaʻilio pololei a pānaʻi ʻia.
ʻO ka'ōlelo aʻo i hāʻawi ʻia i loko o kēia alakaʻi alakaʻi koi ʻana i ka wahine maikaʻi ʻaʻole e hōʻike i kāna mau makemake, pono, kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāna mea hoʻonāukiuki, hōʻike i kona luhi, leo i kāna hoʻopiʻi. A ʻoiai ke ʻiʻini nei paha kekahi mau kāne o kēia lā i kēlā wahine me he wahine hauʻoli lā, he ala maikaʻi ʻole kēia o ka launa ʻana.
I kēia lā ua ʻae nā aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo ma ka kamaʻilio ʻana i hoʻokahi mea nui i kēlā me kēia pilina. I mea e kūleʻa ai ka male, pono i nā kāne e aʻo e kamaʻilio pū kekahi me kekahi ma ke ʻano pololei a pololei hoʻi. He kamaʻilio kūkākūkā paha ma waena o nā hoa like, kahi e hiki ai i nā mea ʻelua ke maopopo e pili ana i nā mea āpau a lākou e ʻike nei. A ʻo kēia kahi kiko e kuʻikuʻi ai ka mea kahiko a me nā ala hou.
No laila, e lilo i wahine maikaʻi i kāu kāne he like ia me 60 mau makahiki i hala. Pono ʻoe e mehana, hoʻomaopopo, a me ke aloha. Akā, ʻokoʻa ia i hoʻokahi ʻano koʻikoʻi, ʻo ia kou kuleana e loaʻa ke ʻano o ke kākoʻo a me ka hoihoi i kāu kāne. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ka launa pū ʻana ma nā pahuhopu like a me nā hihiʻo o ka wā e hiki mai ana, ʻaʻole ka pilina o ka hana.