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- ʻO wai nā narcissists?
- No ke aha he mea ʻawaʻawa loa nā narcissists?
- He narcissist hoʻomāinoino kāu wahine a pākahi paha?
- Pehea e pakele ai i kahi narcissist?
Ke noʻonoʻo nei paha ʻoe pehea ka mea i loaʻa ʻole i ka hana ʻino narcissistic hiki ʻole ke ʻike iā ia a holo aku, ʻaʻole e nānā i hope. Akā, e hōʻike mākou iā ʻoe i kēia ʻatikala, he poʻe manipulative nui nā narcissists, a makemake lākou e ʻike i nā hoa like e kūpono e hoʻomanawanui. I ke kumu, hiki i kekahi ke lilo i mea hōʻeha ʻia i ka hana hoʻomāinoino. Akā, aia kekahi mau ʻike ola e hoʻonāwaliwali i kekahi o mākou i ka noho ʻana i kahi wahi olakino no ka lōʻihi loa. No laila, pehea e ʻike ai i ka hoʻomāinoino narcissistic a ʻohiʻohi i ka wiwo ʻole e holo aku ai.
ʻO wai nā narcissists?
ʻO Narcissism kahi manawa psychological hoʻohana ʻole ʻia. Minamina, manaʻo ka nui o ka poʻe ʻike lākou i ka mea narcissist, a holo lākou i ka lepili ʻana i kekahi me he hoʻokahi lā. ʻAneʻane like kēia ʻino me ka ʻike ʻole ʻana i kahi narcissist ke hoʻomaka lākou e hoʻomalu i kou ola. Nui nā mea e maopopo ai e pili ana i ka narcissism ma ke ʻano he maʻi a me ke ʻano pilikino (a ma ʻō aku), a hiki iā ʻoe ke heluhelu i kēia puke e loaʻa i ka manaʻo paʻa, no ka laʻana.
Eia nō naʻe, i ka pōkole, hiki ke ʻike ʻia ka narcissism ma ke ʻano he hoʻomau, me ka "wale" a me ka pīhoihoi ʻana iā ia iho ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, a me ka maʻi psychiatric piha ma kekahi ʻaoʻao.
A ʻaʻole nā mea Narcissist āpau he poʻe hana hoʻomāinoino, ʻoiai lākou ʻaneʻane paʻakikī loa e lawelawe i nā pilina kanaka.
No nā kikoʻī hou aʻe e pili ana i ka maʻi pilikino narcissistic, e nānā i kēia ʻatikala. I loko o ia mea, wehewehe mākou i ke kikoʻī pehea ka psychiatry o kēia manawa a me ka noʻonoʻo e ʻike ai i ka narcissism. E like me kāu e heluhelu ai ma laila, aia kekahi mea e like me ke ʻano pilikino narcissistic.
He kūlana olakino noʻonoʻo ia i manaʻo ʻia he paʻakikī a hiki ʻole paha ke mālama. He maʻi ola ia o ke kanaka i hiki ke kāohi ʻia i kahi nui (inā he mea āpau) inā makemake ke kanaka e ana i ka manaʻo o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a me nā pono. ʻAʻole hiki ke hana maʻamau.
No ke aha he mea ʻawaʻawa loa nā narcissists?
No nā narcissists, pili i ka kaohi. Pono lākou e kaohi i kēlā me kēia kikoʻī o ko lākou ola, a me nā mea āpau e pili iā lākou (a i ka noʻonoʻo o ka narcissist, ʻike nā mea āpau iā lākou). ʻO kēia no ka mea pili lākou i ka mālama ʻana i ke kiʻi idealized o lākou iho, a i ʻole a pupule paha lākou. ʻO ia ke kumu a lākou e hana pupule ai i nā mea āpau a puni lākou.
Ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, ʻaʻole hoihoi iki kahi narcissist i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai. ʻAno a mamao aku lākou, ʻoiai, inā kū pololei ke kahua, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohālikelike e pīhoihoi nui ʻia e nā mea āpau āu e ʻōlelo ai - inā e kākoʻo ana i kā lākou kiʻi ponoʻī. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ikaika loa lākou i ka wā e pili ana i kā lākou mau pono a e hele i kou alo a me kou ʻuhane e kiʻi wale i ka hōʻoia e pono ai.
E hoʻopololei lākou iā ʻoe i ke kūpaʻa loa iā lākou a ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe. Ke loaʻa ʻoe iā lākou i loko o kā lākou pūnaewele, ʻo ia hoʻi ka hana maʻamau ʻana iā ʻoe e aloha aloha iā lākou a haʻalele i kāu mau makemake āpau, nā leʻaleʻa, nā makemake, nā hoaaloha, a me ka ʻohana hiki iā lākou ke lilo i ke ʻano (a i kekahi manawa hōʻino kino).
He narcissist hoʻomāinoino kāu wahine a pākahi paha?
Inā ʻoe e haʻohaʻo nei, ʻo lākou paha. Inā ʻaʻole maopopo iā ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke heluhelu e pili ana i kekahi o nā hōʻailona o narcissists i ka pilina ma aneʻi. I ka manaʻo nui, pili ia iā lākou āpau, a pili mau ia iā lākou.
ʻAʻole lākou e hilahila ma mua o ka hōʻeha ʻana iā ʻoe no ka maʻalahi e kaohi.
ʻAʻole lākou e ʻae iā ʻoe e hoʻohewa iā lākou a e huhū lākou i ka mea liʻiliʻi inā ʻaʻole ia e like me ko lākou makemake.
ʻO kā lākou ʻano hana hoʻomāinoino he paʻakikī loa ke kāpae ʻana no ka mea hiki iā lākou ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo loa.
Pono lākou e hōʻoia iā lākou iho i kā lākou waiwai ponoʻī (ʻoiai hoʻowahāwahā maoli lākou iā lākou iho, akā ʻaʻole lākou e ʻae iā ia). Koi lākou iā ʻoe e "kaulike" maikaʻi e like me kā lākou no ka mea ke manaʻo nei lākou iā ʻoe he hoʻolōʻihi a lākou iho. ʻAʻole ma ke ala maikaʻi. E hōʻole lākou iā ʻoe i kēlā me kēia pono, hoʻokaʻawale iā ʻoe mai nā mea āpau, a mālama iā ʻoe ma laila e ʻoluʻolu wale ai i nā kuhihewa o ko lākou ʻano nui.
Pehea e pakele ai i kahi narcissist?
ʻO ka mea mua, e alo alo i nā nūhou maikaʻi ʻole - paʻakikī paha e hana pēlā! Akā, ʻo ka nūhou maikaʻi - i kahi kiko.
ʻO ka lua ua lilo ko lākou hoihoi iā ʻoe a neʻe i kahi mea ʻē aʻe (iā lākou, ʻo ia nō ʻoe), e noa ʻoe.
Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻohe palekana kahi narcissist. ʻO kēia ke kumu e pili ai lākou i kekahi a ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke haʻalele.
E ʻoluʻolu kahi narcissist i kahi kaʻina hana hoʻokaumaha hoʻomāinoino no ka mea he pae kūpono kēia no ka hoʻokani ʻana i nā kuleana a pau a lākou e ʻike ai i ka leʻaleʻa i kēlā manawa. ʻO kēia ke kumu e pono ai ʻoe e hoʻopuni iā ʻoe iho me ke kākoʻo, mai ka ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha a mai nā loea. E hoʻomākaukau no kahi hakakā lōʻihi, a ʻo ke kihi maikaʻi loa - e noʻonoʻo i nā ala e manaʻoʻiʻo ai ua lanakila lākou. A laila holo!