Anter
- 1. E ʻike i ke kumu ma o ka kamaʻilio maopopo ʻana
- 2. Hana i nā palena i ho'ākāka 'ia
- 3. E hoʻopaʻa i kāu mau kahawai kamaʻilio
- 4. E noho kamaʻilio me kāu loio ʻohana
- 5. E lawe i ke kuleana no kāu hoa hou
- Nā ʻano o ka palekana, nā hoa hana kiʻekiʻe
- E hoʻokau i kahi hoʻolālā i ka hana
ʻAʻole pono kekahi e hakakā me kā lākou wahine i kēia manawa a i ʻole ma mua no ke aloha o kā lākou keiki. A eia naʻe, ʻo kēia ka hihia no nā ʻohana he mau kaukani i kēlā me kēia lā. Inā ʻaʻole paʻa ka lima o kāu wahine a kāne a kāne ʻē paha, lawe paha lākou i kahi ʻanuʻu e hoʻopau hou ai i ka pilina makua-keiki me kāu poʻe keiki ma o ka wahaheʻe a i ʻole ka hana ʻē aʻe.
ʻO nā ʻano e hoʻohoihoi i kekahi i kēia lā ʻaʻole unuhi maikaʻi i ka makua. A loli ka poʻe i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, ʻaʻole mau no ka maikaʻi.
Inā ʻike ʻoe i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana o kāu hoa ma mua e sabotage i ka pilina makua a keiki me kāu mau keiki, eia kekahi mau ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke lawe e mālama iā ia.
Ke ala sabotage nā mākua i kā lākou keiki i ka wā e hiki mai ana a pehea e hoʻopau ai ia e mālama i ka pilina makua a keiki-
1. E ʻike i ke kumu ma o ka kamaʻilio maopopo ʻana
ʻO ka hana mua e nīnau i nā mea a ʻolua a me kāu kāne i hana ai ʻokoʻa i mea e hoʻoikaika ai i ka kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻana ma waena o nā ʻohana. E hoʻāʻo a nīnau i kāu ex i ka mea hiki iā ʻoe āpau ke hana e hana i kahi olakino olakino no nā keiki.
ʻO ke kūpono, e ʻae aku iā lākou i ka pili o ka makua a me ke keiki i ka sabotage ma nā ʻaoʻao a ʻeha i nā keiki. Pono paha e ʻimi i ke kōkua mai kahi loiloi ʻohana e uwao.
2. Hana i nā palena i ho'ākāka 'ia
Inā hōʻole kāu ex e hele mai i ka moku e hana ma ke ʻano he kime, a laila ua hiki i ka manawa e hana i kekahi mau palena paʻa e pale i ka sabotage pili makua a keiki. Mai hāʻule i ka hopena o kā lākou maʻamau e sabotage i ka pili makua-keiki.
Eia kekahi laʻana me ke kipa ʻana e kiʻi a haʻalele i nā wahi lehulehu wale, a pāpā ʻole i ka pili makua a me ke keiki e hoʻōki i ka hiki ʻana o ka makua i kou home.
Ma muli o ke kiʻekiʻe o ka naʻau, ʻoi aku paha ka maikaʻi o ke kamaʻilio pololei ʻana ma o ka leka a i ʻole ka leka uila (ʻaʻole e haʻi ʻia he palapala kāu o nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole inā kū ʻoe i ka ʻaha.
3. E hoʻopaʻa i kāu mau kahawai kamaʻilio
Hāʻawi ka ʻenehana i kahi lima kōkua, a aia kekahi mau polokalamu maikaʻi i waho e kōkua iā ʻoe i ke alahaka ʻana i ka hakahaka kamaʻilio a pili nui i ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana a me ke ola o kāu mau keiki.
4. E noho kamaʻilio me kāu loio ʻohana
E hoʻāʻo paha kāu makua a mea makua paha e hana ʻino i ka ʻōnaehana o ka ʻaha i ka wā a ma hope paha o kou hemo ʻana e hoʻopaʻi iā ʻoe. Hiki i kēia ke hōʻeha i ke kālā, ke ʻano, a me ke kahawai nui i kou manawa kaʻawale. I kēia kūlana, pono ʻoe i kahi loio ʻohana. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa i mua o ka ʻaha e kuhikuhi i nā hana kū kānāwai kūpono ʻole a lākou e hoʻohana nei a hoʻopau iā ia, a i ʻole ʻimi i ka hoʻihoʻi mai ka ʻaha.
5. E lawe i ke kuleana no kāu hoa hou
Inā loaʻa ka hoʻopaʻi ma mua o kahi ex i kāu hoa hou, ʻo kāu kuleana ia e pale iā lākou i ka mea hiki ke hiki, a ʻo ka hoʻopili ʻana i ke kānāwai inā pono, me ka pale ʻana i ka pilina makua a keiki.
Inā hōʻino mau kāu ex i kāu wahine hou, hoʻopau iā ia. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke ālai i nā pāpili kaiaulu, nā leka uila, a me nā helu kelepona ma ka ʻaoʻao o kāu hoa. Pono ʻoe, ma ke ʻano he makua bio, i ke kuleana o ka lawelawe ʻana i nā kamaʻilio āpau e pili ana i nā keiki me kāu ex. E kōkua kēia iā ʻoe e pale i kāu ex mai ka sabotaging i ka pilina makua a keiki.
Nā ʻano o ka palekana, nā hoa hana kiʻekiʻe
Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai inā he kūlana kou ma kou mau lima e koi koke ana i ka nānā? E noʻonoʻo i nā papa inoa aʻe e hoʻokaʻawale ana ma waena o nā pilina co-makua hana a hana ʻole.
- Flexible
- Mahalo
- Kaulike
- Kālele ana i ka naʻau pono o nā keiki
- Kākoʻo
- Palekana
- Mahalo i nā palena
- Ke kaina kamaʻilio kūpono a me ka noʻonoʻo pono
- Ka mahalo i nā hoa hou a me nā mākua kāne
Ka hopena o ka hōʻike ʻana i kēia mau ʻano i kou ola makua ʻana? Loaʻa i nā keiki e lawelawe maikaʻi i ka loli, kūpaʻa i ka naʻau a loaʻa ka wiwo ʻole e lawe i nā pilikia. ʻAʻohe o lākou, akā he nui nā mākua i ko lākou ola e mālama iā lākou a hāʻawi i nā kumu waiwai nui: kālā, manawa, alakaʻi, a ma mua o nā mea āpau, ALOHA.
He hopena pololei kēia i ko lākou olakino a me ke olakino ʻelua: ʻo nā keiki e hana nei i kēia ʻano kaiapuni e hoʻomohala i nā ʻōnaehana pale paʻa paʻa a paʻa i nā kaila hoʻopili. Hana kēia i ka pilina makua-keiki olakino ma waena o ʻolua a me kāu keiki.
ʻO nā ʻano o nā mākua hana haʻahaʻa, hopohopo nui a sabotaging
- Kūpono
- Hoʻohaʻahaʻa a narcissistic paha
- Pumps nā keiki no ka ʻike e pili ana i kahi ex a me kā lākou hoa
- Manaʻo mau o ka paʻa ʻole a me ka weliweli (hoʻoweliweli kino)
- "Hele wāwae ka home" i nā hua moa "e hōʻalo i nā paio
- Palupalu
- ʻAʻole uku i ke kākoʻo / alimony keiki i ka manawa (a i ʻole)
- Kūlike ʻole me ke kipa ʻana
- Mālama i nā mea pāʻani o ke keiki, nā lole, etc.
- ʻŌnaehana ʻaha hōʻino
- Hoʻohana i nā keiki e launa pū
- Nā huhū a me nā huhū e pili ana i kahi ex me nā keiki
ʻO ka hopena kūpono o nā keiki e noho nei me nā mākua ʻona? E ʻeha paha lākou i nā ʻehaʻeha hohonu i ko lākou ola a hiki i ka hopohopo mau.
Eia kekahi, ua hōʻike ʻia nā noiʻi ua ʻike mua ʻia kēia mau keiki i ka hōʻalo a loaʻa paha i nā pilikia i ka hoʻokō ʻana i ke ola aloha. E hoʻopili ʻia ko lākou ʻōnaehana pale e ka hopohopo mau a me ka paʻa ʻole.
ʻO ka hope loa, e kū mai kekahi o nā hopena ʻelua: maluhia paha lākou e lawe i nā pilikia kūpono, a i ʻole koho ʻia e lawe i nā pilikia kūpono ʻole e hiki ai ke hoʻopakele i nā hopena pōʻino.
E hoʻokau i kahi hoʻolālā i ka hana
E hoʻomanaʻo: hiki iā ʻoe ke kaohi wale i nā mea e holo nei i kou ʻohana. Ke hana nei i ka mea ʻoi loa hiki iā ʻoe ke hana a mālama i kahi palekana, wahi kōkua no kāu poʻe ʻōpio i kahi kūlana paʻakikī. E hoʻomanaʻo i ka ulu ʻana o kāu mau keiki a maopopo leʻa aia ʻoe ma laila no lākou. ʻOiai ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi i ka mea e hana ai i ka hale o kāu ex, hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i kāu mau hana i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi nohona olakino.
Inā ke hana nei ka makuakāne o kāu keiki i ka hiki iā ia ke ʻōlelo hōʻino iā ʻoe a hoʻokaʻawale iā ʻoe mai kāu mau keiki, mai hakakā i ke ahi me ke ahi, e hakakā i ke ahi me ka wai.
E aʻo i kāu poʻe keiki i ka waiwai o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, a pehea e nānā ai i nā hōʻike e hoʻoholo ai i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka wahaheʻe. Ke hele lākou i lalo, piʻi kiʻekiʻe ʻoe.
E hana i ka hana like i ka mālama ʻana i kahi kū mau, kū mau i nā ola o kāu mau keiki. ʻO ka laina lalo MAI MAKAʻU. ʻAi aku ʻoe i kāu poʻe keiki e hōʻike iā lākou a manaʻo ua kaua aku ʻoe i kāu darndest e loaʻa kahi pilina maikaʻi, a ke hana nei ʻoe i nā mea āpau e hiki ai ke hana i kahi maikaʻi loa o kahi kūlana maikaʻi ʻole.