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- ʻAʻole pono lākou e hōʻoia i kekahi
- ʻAʻole lākou e ʻimi nei i ka hōʻoia o waho
- Paʻahana nui lākou i ka leʻaleʻa i kā lākou pilina
- ʻIke lākou ma mua o ka hakakā ʻana i ka lehulehu
- ʻAʻole lākou i kaukaʻi i ko lākou pilina no ko lākou hauʻoli
Aia nā pāpili kaiaulu i nā wahi āpau. Piliwai mākou ʻike nui ʻoe i ka poʻe i kau i kēlā me kēia kikoʻī hope loa o ko lākou ola ma ka pāpili kaiaulu. I kekahi manawa me he mea lā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i loko o kāu hānai me ka ʻole o ke ʻano o nā kikoʻī loa o ka nohona o kāu mau hoaaloha.
He mea kupaianaha ia - he ala maikaʻi loa ia e hoʻomau pū me ka poʻe āu e mālama nui ai - akā e haʻi pono kākou, hiki iā ia ke komo i kahi lole liʻiliʻi. A ʻaʻole ʻoi aku ma mua o ka wā e pili ana i nā kāne āu e ʻike ai ma ka pāpili kaiaulu.
Ua hoʻokau kekahi mau kāne i kahi kiʻi ʻōlinolino maikaʻi loa āu e noʻonoʻo ai inā hiki ke like maoli kā lāua pilina. A, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua luhi iki ʻoe i ka ʻike ʻana. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike iā ʻoe iho i kahi lili liʻiliʻi, ke makemake nei e like kou pilina.
E noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho inā ʻoe e kau i kahi mea hou aʻe. Maliʻa paha ua hoʻāʻo ʻoe, akā ʻano iki paha a me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i nā mea he nui e pili ana i kāu pili no ka honua e ʻike.
Eia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo: ʻo ka mea āu e ʻike ai ma ka pāpili ka mea e makemake ai ka pelaha e ʻike ʻoe. Makemake lākou e hōʻike i ko lākou pilina ma kekahi ʻano, no laila ua mālama ʻia kā lākou mau pou āpau e hōʻike i kēlā. Kaumaha
Eia kekahi o nā kumu kiʻekiʻe e kau liʻiliʻi ai nā kāne hauʻoli e pili ana i kā lākou pili ma ka pāpili kaiaulu.
ʻAʻole pono lākou e hōʻoia i kekahi
ʻAʻole pono nā kāne e hauʻoli e hōʻoia i kekahi ʻē aʻe - ka mea liʻiliʻi loa, iā lākou iho - hauʻoli lākou. ʻO nā kāne e kau mau nei e pili ana i ka hauʻoli o lākou e hoʻāʻo nei e hōʻoia iā lākou iho he ʻoluʻolu me kā lākou pili. Lana ko lākou manaʻo ma ka kaʻana like ʻana i nā ʻōlelo hoʻomākeʻaka, nā ʻoihana o ke aloha, a me nā pou e pili ana i ka hauʻoli o lākou, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo lākou.
ʻAʻole lākou e ʻimi nei i ka hōʻoia o waho
ʻO nā kāne ʻaʻole paʻa pono i kā lākou pilina e ʻimi pinepine no ka hōʻoia o waho. Lana ko lākou manaʻo ma ka kaʻana like ʻana i kēlā mau kiʻi ʻelua a me nā moʻolelo i ka hauʻoli, e nānā a hōʻoia ʻia lākou mai nā kumuwaiwai o waho.
ʻO nā makemake, nā puʻuwai, a me nā ʻōlelo e like me "aw, you guys" kahi mea e hoʻonui ai i ka ego no nā kāne a manaʻo ʻoluʻolu ʻole.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole pono nā kāne hauʻoli i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe e hōʻoia iā lākou. ʻO kā lākou hauʻoli iho ka hōʻoia a lākou e pono ai.
Paʻahana nui lākou i ka leʻaleʻa i kā lākou pilina
Ke ʻōlelo nei mākou ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e kaʻana i kahi selfie mai kēlā ʻahamele i ka pō nei, a i ʻole e kau i nā kiʻi o ka wā hoʻomaha āu i kiʻi ai? ʻAʻole nō! Leʻaleʻa ke kaʻanalike ʻana i nā manawa mai kou ola ma ka pāpili kaiaulu, a maʻamau ka hauʻoli i ka hana ʻana pēlā.
Eia nō naʻe, ke hauʻoli ʻoe i ka manawa me kāu meli, ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike i ka pono e kākau i kēlā me kēia manawa. Manaʻo paha ʻoe e kaʻana like i nā snap mau manawa, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe e kau i ke kikoʻī. Kūleʻa nui ʻoe e leʻaleʻa nei i ka manawa e lilo ai i ke kiʻi ʻana i nā kiʻi no Facebook.
ʻIke lākou ma mua o ka hakakā ʻana i ka lehulehu
ʻIke nā kāne hauʻoli i kekahi o nā mea huna i ka hauʻoli ke hoʻoponopono nei i kā lākou pilikia ma kahi pilikino. Ua hele mua ʻoe i kahi hanana kaiaulu me kahi mau kāne e hakakā ana? Wow, ʻaʻole weliweli wale kēlā? ʻAneʻane like ia me ka maikaʻi ʻole ma ka pāpili kaiaulu ke ʻike ʻoe iā lākou e kau nei i nā palapū kekahi i kekahi.
ʻIke nā kāne hauʻoli i ka loaʻa ʻole o nā wahi i nā hakakā ma ka pāpili kaiaulu. ʻAʻole loa lākou e noʻonoʻo i ka pono e kaʻana like i kā lākou hana keaka ma ka pāpaho kaiapuni no ka honua e ʻike ai. Hoʻoponopono lākou i ko lākou pilikia ma kahi pilikino.
ʻAʻole lākou i kaukaʻi i ko lākou pilina no ko lākou hauʻoli
ʻO nā kāne e kau nui nei e pili ana i kā lākou pili ma nā pāpili kaiaulu e hoʻohana pinepine ana iā ia ma ke ʻano he koʻokoʻo. Ma kahi o ka loaʻa ʻana o ko lākou hauʻoli i loko o lākou iho, keʻimi nei lākou i kā lākou hoa e hāʻawi iā ia na lākou. ʻO ka mahele like ʻana i ka pāpili kaiaulu kahi o kēlā.
ʻO nā kāne e hilinaʻi nei i kā lākou pili no kā lākou hauʻoli hauʻoli pinepine e hoʻomanaʻo iā lākou iho a me ka honua ʻoliʻoli lākou. ʻO ke kaʻanalike ʻana i nā kiʻi o ko lāua ola i kēlā me kēia lā ma ke ʻano he kāne he ala e hoʻoulu ai i nā manaʻo o ka hauʻoli. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohana i nā pou a me nā kiʻi e hāʻawi i ko lākou hilinaʻi iā lākou iho i mea hoʻonui a hōʻoia i ko lākou hauʻoli.
ʻIke nā kāne hauʻoli ʻo ke kī i ka pilina maikaʻi ke hauʻoli nei iā ʻoe iho ma mua a laila kaʻana like ʻana i kou hauʻoli me kāu hoa. ʻIke pū lākou ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokō i ka hauʻoli o loko me kahi pou media.
He mea maikaʻi ʻole ke kaʻanalike ʻana i nā kiʻi a me nā pou ma ka pāpili kaiaulu? Aʻole iki. He ala kaulana ka pāpili kaiaulu e launa pū me ka poʻe a mākou e mālama nui ai, a ke kaʻanalike iki ʻana i ko mākou ola kahi ala maikaʻi e hana ai. Akā, e like me ka hapa nui o nā mea ʻaʻole 100% olakino, he hihia ia o nā mea āpau i ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa.