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Makemake ʻoe e hemo i kāu hoa, akā ʻaʻohe lawa o ka waiwai e hoʻolimalima ai i loio nou iho? ʻAe, ʻaʻole pono mau i kahi loio e pili i ka hihia hemo.
Aia kekahi mau hihia no kēlā me kēia, ke pono ʻoe i kahi loio a ke hana ʻole ʻoe.
Inā kū ʻoe i ka pilikia - makemake wau i loio e faila no ka hemo a ʻaʻole paha? Hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i ka ʻatikala ma aneʻi.
No laila, i ka manawa hea ʻoe e makemake ai i loio? E nānā kākou!
I ka manawa hea e pono ai kahi loio?
I ka hapanui o nā hihia, pili ka loio i ka wā he keiki a kā lāua kāne i hiki ai i kahi ʻaelike like ke hana ʻia ma waena o nā hoa ʻelua. Eia kekahi, ke hoʻokaʻawale ʻia nā waiwai male, a laila koi ʻia kahi kaʻina kānāwai e ʻike pono i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka mahele kaulike a me ke kaulike o kēlā me kēia hoa.
Eia kekahi, i nā hihia like ʻole, ʻoiai ke ʻae like nā hoa i nā mea āpau, aia nō kekahi mau mea i ʻike ʻole ʻia. ʻO kahi laʻana, ke hele a keiki no ke kula kiʻekiʻe, ʻo wai ka mea e hāpai i kēlā mau lilo? A pehea e pili ana i ka hale - pehea e kaʻana like ai inā pono e neʻe hoʻokahi hoa?
Pono e mālama ʻia kēia mau hanana āpau e kahi loio hemo kūpono i lawa ka ʻike e pili ana i nā ʻōlelo a me nā kānāwai.
Eia hou, no ka haʻalele ʻana i ka haʻalele no ka hoʻopau ʻana, koi ʻia nā pepa he nui e nā hoa ʻelua. Hiki i kēia ke hana kūpono me ke alakaʻi a kahi loio. Nui nā mea āu e ʻike ʻole ai, akā ʻike ka loio. No laila, e kōkua nui kā lākou kōkua.
Eia hou, inā e kipaku nei ʻoe i kāu pakanā no ka mea hoʻomāinoino lākou iā ʻoe, a laila pono ʻoe i ke kōkua o kahi loio hoʻokaʻawale i mea e waiho ai i kahi male male. Eia kekahi, e hōʻoia i ka loaʻa ʻole o nā paio ma hope ma hope o ka hemo ʻana e pili ana i kekahi mea, e hana ka loio maikaʻi i ka mea maikaʻi no ka mea he lawa ko lākou ʻike e hoʻonā i nā ʻaelike ma waena o nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua.
Pono wau i kahi loio e faila i kahi hemo? ʻO ka pane 'ʻAe'.
I nā manawa hea ʻaʻole pono kahi loio?
ʻO ka mea nui, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e hana ʻia ke kaʻina hana hemo me ke kōkua o kahi loio hemo.
Eia nō naʻe, aia paha kekahi mau hoʻokoe inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e pili i nā kaʻina hoʻokolokolo āpau, hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio me kāu hoa a faila no ka hemo male. Hiki ke hana i kēia inā ʻaʻohe keiki a ka kāne a i ʻole ke manaʻo nei i kekahi i kekahi manawa koke.
I kēia hihia, ʻaʻole pono kahi loio.
ʻO ke kūlana ʻē aʻe inā ʻaʻole kaʻana like o ka waiwai a ka wahine e like me ka waiwai, ka hōʻaiʻē, ka ʻaiʻē, a pēlā aku. Eia kekahi, hiki iā ʻoe ke hele no ka hemo male maʻalahi ke ʻole ia lōʻihi loa mai kou male ʻana. He manawa pōkole paha e like me kekahi mau mahina.
No kēlā mau kūlana, hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i ka hemo me ka hoʻopiha ʻana i kekahi mau palapala i hiki ke kiʻi ʻia mai kahi hale hoʻokolokolo kokoke a i ʻole keʻena o ke kākau ʻōlelo.
Eia kekahi, aia kekahi mau ana e pono ai e noʻonoʻo piha ʻia ma mua o ka haʻalele ʻana i ka hemo me ka ʻole he loio e like, e kamaʻilio me kāu wahine e pili ana i nā pilikia e hiki mai ana e pili ana i kāu male, he aha e hana ai inā hoʻoholo kekahi o nā hoa e male. kekahi mea ʻē aʻe. Eia nō hoʻi, e hoʻokaʻawale i ka mea nāna e uku no nā hōʻaiʻē o kēia wā, ʻaiʻē a i ʻole nā mōlaki (inā aia kekahi) a i ʻole e hoʻokaʻawale like ia?
He mea nui nō hoʻi ʻoe e hoʻoholo inā paha e hoʻololi ka wahine i kāna inoa wahine i kona inoa mua.
Inā ʻoe i manaʻo he hemo male hewa ʻole ka hemo, ʻaʻole ia he mau kumu koʻikoʻi no ka hoʻopau ʻana i ka male, a ʻo ia wale nō ke koho maikaʻi e hoʻokaʻawale i nā ala a laila, ʻaʻole koi kahi loio. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana iā ʻoe iho ma ke kiʻi ʻana i nā palapala āpau i kau inoa ʻia a hāʻawi ʻia i ka hale hoʻokolokolo a i ke kākau ʻōlelo kūloko paha.
Pono wau i kahi loio e faila no ka haʻalele male?
ʻO nā mea āu i hoʻoholo ai e hana, pono ʻoe e ʻike i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi loio i mea maikaʻi no nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua. A, hiki iā ia ke pale i nā hōʻailona e alakaʻi i nā paio e hiki mai ana ma waena o nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua.