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- ʻAʻole ʻoe he pani
- Mai hoʻokaʻawale loa iā ʻoe iho
- Mai ahonui
- Mai poina he ʻohana ʻoe
- ʻO ka noʻonoʻo ka kī
ʻO ka male kekahi o nā mea paʻa loa i hiki ke noho ma waena o nā kānaka ʻelua, akā ʻaʻole kūʻokoʻa ia i nā pilikia. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua like ka male ʻana me ka pae ʻana i ka pāʻani. Hoʻonui mau nā pilikia i ka paʻakikī!
Inā ʻoe e lilo i ʻāpana o kahi ʻohana i hui ʻia a i ʻole ma mua o ka mākaukau loa. E hoʻoneʻe ʻia ʻoe mai ka newbie a i ka pae loea i ka emo o ka maka. Mākaukau no ka hoʻokipa maikaʻi ʻole ʻana inā paha he ʻōpio a ʻōpio paha kāu keiki keiki.
Mai ke kuanaʻike o nā keiki, ʻo ʻoe nō paha ke kumu i hele aku ai ko lākou makuahine a makua paha. ʻO ʻoe ka malihini e makaʻala ai lākou. ʻAʻole lākou e hilinaʻi koke iā ʻoe a hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo i kahi anuanu a i ʻole tantrums. Ke lana wale nei ka manaʻo no ka mea ʻoi loa akā ke manaʻo nei i ka mea ʻoi loa.
Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole hiki i nā mea ke noho e like me kēia, ʻeā?
ʻO ʻoe ke mākua kuleana i kēia pilina a pono ʻoe e hoʻoponopono i nā mea! akā manaʻo paha ʻoe ua nalowale e like me nā keiki. Mai hopohopo, i kēia lā aia mākou i kekahi mau ala i hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ola i kou ola maikaʻi loa me kāu poʻe keiki hānau.
ʻAʻole ʻoe he pani
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻike ʻoe i kēlā, akā ʻaʻole ʻike nā keiki.
Pono ʻoe e hōʻike iā lākou i ka mua a me ka mea nui, ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike iā ʻoe iho ma ke ʻano he pani o ko lākou makua. E kākoʻo iā lākou i nā ala maʻalea e hoʻomaopopo ai iā lākou ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e lawe i kahi o kekahi.
E nānā no nā mea hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻokumu i kahi pilina hou me kāu keiki hānau. Hōʻalo pono i nā kuleana o nā mākua e like me ke aʻo ʻana a me ka nū ʻana. Waiho maikaʻi ʻia ia i nā mākua olaola. Inā ʻaʻole e mākaukau e hoʻolohe i nā mea e like me "ʻAʻole ʻoe koʻu māmā / makua!"
Mai hoʻokaʻawale loa iā ʻoe iho
ʻOiai ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e lawe i ka kuleana o kahi makua, akā ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale iā ʻoe iho.
E noʻonoʻo wale ʻoe iā ʻoe iho he kahu. Mālama i nā mea e pono ai ke mālama. ʻO nā mea pono e pono ai.
Hana iā lākou e like me ka home e like mau ana ko lākou home.
Inā ʻoe he kuke maikaʻi, a laila laki ʻoe no ka mea ʻaʻohe ala ʻoi aku i ka puʻuwai a laila ka ʻōpū. Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe, mai hāʻawi wale. Nui nā ala ʻē aʻe e wehe i ka puʻuwai paʻa.
ʻOluʻolu wale ʻoe e hana ai. E hoʻokokoke aku iā ʻoe iho. Mai noʻonoʻo iā lākou me he mea lā ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke kamaʻilio me ʻoe a mihi paha lākou i ka wehe ʻana iā ʻoe. E hāmama mau i nā manaʻo, e hoʻokomo i kāu keiki keiki i nā kamaʻilio a me nā kūkā kamaʻilio. E ʻike maikaʻi iā lākou.
ʻO ka mea nui loa, e hoʻomau i kahi ʻano hoʻomākeʻaka.
Hoʻohui wale ka ʻoluʻolu a me ka ʻoluʻolu i ka mea hoihoi o kekahi. E ʻike koke ana nā keiki he! ʻAʻole maikaʻi ʻole ʻoe, a inā ʻaʻole ʻoe he makua a laila hiki ke lilo i hoa aloha.
Mai ahonui
Hoʻopaʻa ka hoʻomanawanui ʻole e hōʻino i kāu pāʻani.
E mālama pono ʻaʻole ʻoe e hōʻino i kāu hana nui. He mea waiwai nui ka hilinaʻi. He paʻakikī no nā mākua e hilinaʻi maʻalahi kekahi i kekahi. I ke kūlana e kū ai ke keiki i nā loli nui, hiki iā ia ke makaʻala loa i ke keiki.
Lawe i kahi hamo kuʻekuʻe koʻikoʻi e hoʻomohala i ke ʻano o ka hilinaʻi i loaʻa i ka ʻohana. Eia naʻe, inā lilo kou ahonui ʻoe e lawe koke ʻia i ka pae 0.
Mai poina he ʻohana ʻoe
Hiki ke maʻalahi ke huhū i nā hanana e like me kēia, akā ʻo kēia kahi mea āu e poina ʻole ai. ʻOhana ka ʻohana o kāu keiki hānau ma mua o kāu wahine. Mai mālama iā lākou ma ke ʻano he ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa.Hana iā lākou e like me kāu e mālama ai i kāu poʻe keiki ponoʻī.
Mai hoʻāʻo e hoʻokaʻawale iā lākou mai ko lākou mau mākua a mai hōʻano maikaʻi ʻole iā lākou i mua o kāu wahine ma ke ʻano he ala e hoʻomaha ai i kou huhū. ʻO ia paha ka kuhi hewa nui loa āu e hana ai.
I ka hopena o ka lā, he keiki wale nō lākou. Pono lākou i ke aloha, mālama, a me ka nānā. I kēia manawa ʻo ʻoe kekahi o ka ʻohana e hāʻawi ana iā lākou i kēia mau kuleana āpau hoʻi. ʻOiai ʻaʻole paha e hoʻopaʻi koke ʻia kāu mau hoʻoikaika ʻana.
ʻO ka noʻonoʻo ka kī
ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana me ka loaʻa ʻole o nā manawa kūpono o ka loaʻa ʻana he hana paʻakikī loa ia.
Eia naʻe, mai poina e hana ana ʻoe i kēia no ka hauʻoli o kou ʻohana. Inā paʻakikī ka paʻakikī o nā mea, e hoʻokomo wale iā ʻoe iho i nā kāmaʻa o kāu keiki wāwae.
ʻAʻole lākou i noi no kekahi o kēia, hauʻoli paha lākou i nā mea i ke ʻano o lākou. Inā hāʻawi lākou iā ʻoe i kahi manawa paʻakikī, liʻiliʻi paha lākou e hoʻomaopopo i ke kūlana. No laila, ʻo ka mea āu e pono ai e noʻonoʻo pono iā lākou. E ʻoluʻolu a e uku ʻia ʻoe.