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- Ke hele nei kāu male ma waena o nā "twos weliweli?"
- ʻIke i kāu makahiki 2 o kou male ʻana
- ʻAʻole holo ka manaʻo i ka nui
- ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā wale i nā pilikia
- E loaʻa nā kūlike ʻole kālā
- E hoʻokumu ka pūnaewele a me nā ʻano i nā pilikia
- E loaʻa nā hoʻowalewale
- Ke kūleʻa ʻana i nā pilikia a me ka paʻa ʻana
Mahalo nui! Aia ʻoe i kēia manawa i kāu makahiki 2 o ka male, a noho pū ʻoe.
ʻAʻole mākou e hoʻomākeʻaka ma aneʻi; ʻO kēlā me kēia makahiki o ka male ʻana he hōʻailona ia. No ka poʻe a pau i male, ʻae ʻoe he mea maoli kēia a inā ʻoe ma ka makahiki ʻelua o ka noho male ʻana, a laila ke hana nei ʻoe i kahi mea kūpono, akā he aha ka mea e hana maoli ai i ka makahiki ʻelua o ka male?
He aha nā mea i ʻike ʻia, nā pilikia, a me nā mea huna o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i kāu mau hoʻohiki i ka male?
Ke hele nei kāu male ma waena o nā "twos weliweli?"
He aha ka mea e like ai kahi kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi weliweli me ʻelua mau kāne i ka makahiki 2 o ka male? ʻ saidlelo ʻia kahi keiki ʻelua mau makahiki i ka ʻelua mau makahiki, a ʻo ia nō kekahi o nā ʻōlelo i hiki iā ʻoe ke wehewehe i ke ola ma hope o ka male ʻana.
He aha ka like o lākou? ʻO ka pane ka hoʻoponopono.
ʻOiai inā ua noho pū lāua ma kahi mau makahiki ma mua o ka male ʻana, aia nō, aia nō nā hakakā male e ʻike ʻia i nā makahiki mua o ka male.
ʻLelo paha ʻoe ua lawa ka noho pū ʻana i ka manawa e hoʻoponopono ai, akā mamao loa ka male ʻana mai ka noho pū ʻana. No ke aha la oukou e manao pela?
ʻO ka male kahi hui o ʻelua mau kānaka. No laila, ke male ʻoe, ʻike nā mea āpau iā ʻolua me he hoʻokahi. He aha ka pili o kēia me nā pilikia o ka male mua? Nā mea āpau.
E noʻonoʻo i kāu hoʻoholo āpau ma ke ʻano "mākou" a me "kā mākou". ʻAʻole ia nou iho akā ʻolua. Ma waho o kēia hoʻoponopono, hoʻomaka ʻoe e ʻike i ke kanaka maoli āu i male ai. Piliwi paha ʻaʻole paha, ʻo nā makahiki o ka noho pū ʻana ʻaʻole e maʻalahi ka hoʻoponopono.
Mai nā hana o kēlā me kēia lā i ka hoʻolālā kālā, mai ka pili wahine a ka lili, e hōʻike ka male iā ʻoe i ka paʻakikī e lilo i hoʻokahi me kāu wahine.
ʻAe, ʻaʻole maʻalahi, a hiki i nā pilikia o ka male i kekahi manawa ke luhi, keu hoʻi ke lilo ka pilikia a kaohi ʻole ʻia.
ʻOiai he maʻamau nā pilikia pilina 2 mau makahiki i ka male, aia kekahi mau hihia kahi e komo ai nā ʻike, a ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e male ana i ka mea hewa.
ʻO kēia kahi i komo ai ka male male i ka male mua. ʻO ka lapuwale i ka male ka mea maʻamau ma mua o kou manaʻo, a lana ka manaʻo, ʻaʻole i hiki mai kēia i kāu makahiki 2 o ka male.
ʻIke i kāu makahiki 2 o kou male ʻana
ʻAʻole ka hele ʻana i ka paka ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i ke ola male, a ʻo nā ʻohana a me nā hoa aloha paha āu e ʻike ai e haʻi like iā ʻoe.
I ka piko o kāu makahiki 2 o ka male, hoʻomaka ʻoe e ʻike i nā ʻike e pili ana i kāu hui ʻana, kahi e hiki ai ke haki a haki paha i kou pilina.
Pehea ʻoe e mālama ai i kāu mau makahiki o ka pilikia o ka male e hoʻoholo ai i kou ikaika i ka makahiki ʻelua, ʻekolu, a me ka hā o kou hui ʻana.
ʻAʻole holo ka manaʻo i ka nui
Hiki ke kaumaha a me ka haki male inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe hou i nā mea hōʻeha a me nā huhū i ka male ʻana no ka mea ʻaʻole kūlike kāu mau mea i ka mea āu i male ai.
Pono nā mea i manaʻo ʻia i hiki ai iā mākou ke hoʻokō i kā mākou mau pahuhopu, akā ʻo ka nui loa o ia mea e alakaʻi pinepine ai i nā mea hōʻeha a hiki i kēia ke alakaʻi i ka hāʻule ʻana o ke aloha a me ka mahalo i kekahi i kekahi.
ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā wale i nā pilikia
Ma ke ʻano he kāne male, pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā wale i nā pilikia.
Inā luhi nui ʻoe e kūkākūkā, e loaʻa ka manawa e hana ai ma hope, akā mai hoʻowahāwahā iā ia. Ma hope o ka manawa, hiki i kēia ke kumu i ka huhū a me nā pilikia nui aʻe. Pono ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo i ka pili o 2 mau makahiki i hoʻopaʻa ʻia e ka male ʻo ia hoʻi ka mea e hoʻomaopopo ai e loaʻa nā kūlike ʻole, akā mai waiho ia mea e hōʻino i kāu male.
E loaʻa nā kūlike ʻole kālā
Inā ua lohe ʻoe ʻaʻole ke kālā ke kumu o ka hauʻoli, pololei ʻoe, akā inā ʻoe e ʻōlelo ʻaʻole pili kālā kēlā kālā iā ʻoe, no laila ʻaʻole ia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
He mea nui ke kālā, a aia kekahi mau manawa kahi āu e kūlike ʻole ai e pili ana. Paʻakī ka male ʻana a ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi ʻohana, i kekahi manawa, hiki iā ia ke uku iā ʻoe iho a me kāu male. Inā he wahine ʻole kāu e ʻike ʻole pehea e hoʻolālā kālā ai, hiki i kēia ke hana i kekahi mau pilikia kālā.
E hoʻokumu ka pūnaewele a me nā ʻano i nā pilikia
ʻO ka pāpili kaiaulu, ʻoiai he mea pono iā mākou, e hoʻokumu ʻia ia i kekahi mau pilikia nui i ka male.
Hoʻokahi mea e ʻike ai i kāu mau makahiki mua i ka male ʻana ma kekahi manawa, hiki i nā pūnaewele a me nā ʻano o nā hoaaloha a me nā hoa hana ke hana i kekahi mau pilikia ma waena o ʻolua a me kāu wahine.
ʻAʻohe mea maikaʻi ʻole, ʻōlelo kekahi i ko lākou pale ʻana i kā lākou hana leʻaleʻa i ka pāpili a i ʻole me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe akā he mau palena ko ka male ʻana, a ʻo kēia kekahi o nā kumu maʻamau e hemo ai nā kāne.
E loaʻa nā hoʻowalewale
ʻAʻole mākou e manaʻo e uhaʻi i kahi huʻa o kekahi ma aneʻi, akā e loaʻa mau ana nā hoʻowalewale.
E hoʻāʻo ke ola iā ʻoe pū kekahi.
Inā ʻoe i kou makahiki lua o ka male, a laila hōʻailona maikaʻi kēlā. He mea maʻamau ka hoʻowalewale ʻia, he poʻe kānaka kākou āpau, akā ʻo ka mea kūpono ʻole ke hāʻawi aku iā ia inā ʻike ʻoe he hewa ia. ʻO kekahi o nā kumu maʻamau o ka male ʻole ʻana ka male ʻole a ʻo kēia kahi ʻike e ʻike āpau.
Ke kūleʻa ʻana i nā pilikia a me ka paʻa ʻana
ʻO ka noho aloha ʻana ma hope o ka male ka pahuhopu o kēlā me kēia.
ʻO ka noho pū ʻana a hiki i ka hina ʻana o kou lauoho ka moe a kēlā me kēia kanaka akā i ke ola ʻana, hoʻomaka pū nā pilikia i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i kā mākou hoʻohiki.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, he ʻoiaʻiʻo nō ʻo nā makahiki he ʻumi o kā mākou hui ʻana ʻo ia nō nā makahiki paʻakikī loa o ka male, a ʻaʻole ia e hoʻonui. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kekahi, noho pū me lākou, ka hoʻololi ʻana i ko lākou mau manaʻoʻiʻo a me ka hana pū ʻana i ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki e hoʻāʻo iā ʻoe i nā ala āpau akā ʻike ʻoe i ke aha? ʻO ia ke kumu i kapa ʻia ai e ulu pū ʻana i ka wā ʻelemakule, e ulu ʻole ʻolua ʻelua ʻaʻole wale i ka makahiki akā i ka ʻike a me ka ʻike.
Ua lanakila ʻoe i nā pilikia a paʻa i kāu hoʻohiki no ka mea ʻaʻole aloha ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi, mahalo a mahalo ʻoe i kāu wahine ma ke ʻano he kanaka. No laila, inā ʻo ʻoe kekahi o kā lākou makahiki 2 o ka male ʻana - hauʻoli. He lōʻihi kou ala e hele ai, akā hoʻomaka ikaika ʻoe.