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- He aha kekahi mau mea maikaʻi o ka male ʻana i ka wahine ʻōpio?
- He aha kekahi mau mea maikaʻi ʻole o ka male ʻana i ka wahine ʻōpio?
Ua hālāwai ʻoe i ke aloha i kou ola. ʻO ia nā mea āpau āu i moeʻuhane mau ai i kahi hoa: ola, nani, akamai, hoʻomākeʻaka a, ʻo ka mea nui loa, nānā ʻo ia iā ʻoe me ke aloha a me ka mahalo.
He ʻōpio ʻo ia ma mua o kou.
I kēia lā, straddling i ka hoʻokaʻawale makahiki ʻaʻole hāpai i nā kuʻemaka he nui. Ua maʻa ke kaiāulu i ka ʻike ʻana i nā kāne makua e hoʻokipa ana a male i nā wahine ʻōpio a hiki i kā lākou kaikamahine. ʻO Donald Trump lāua ʻo Melania, ʻo Tom Cruise lāua ʻo Katie Holmes, ʻo Catherine Zeta-Jones lāua ʻo Michael Douglas. No ke aloha a no ka palekana kālā paha, a i ʻole ʻelua, i kēia mau lā ʻo Mei - Kekemapa.
He aha kekahi mau mea maikaʻi o ka male ʻana i ka wahine ʻōpio?
1. ʻO ke keu pono: kāna vim a me kona ikaika
ʻO kona ikehu a me kona kuko i ke ola, ma nā mea āpau, e hoʻoili ʻia iā ʻoe, ke kāne makua. He hopena maikaʻi kēia i kou olakino a me kou olakino. ʻAʻole ʻoluʻolu kāu wahine ʻōpio e noho a puni ma ka home binge-e nānā ana i nā moʻo hou o Netflix. E kiʻi ʻo ia iā ʻoe i waho a mai kou noho lima a hoʻi i waho i ka honua. Ma mua, ua hala kāu mau hopena pule i ka mall-hele wāwae me kāu poʻe seniors-Only. I kēia manawa, makemake ʻo ia e hele pū ʻoe ma Coachella me ia, a no ke aha e puke ʻole ai i kahi huakaʻi i ka Himalayas? ʻO kona hoihoi e ʻimi a ʻike i ka honua nei he maʻi lele ia, ke ʻike nei a ʻike i nā mea me nā maka hou.
2. ʻoluʻolu ʻo ia
E lili ʻoe i kāu mau hoa āpau (kāu mau hoa kāne kāne, ma ka liʻiliʻi!) A mahalo iā lākou. ʻO kāu libido, kahi āu i manaʻo ai he moe lōʻihi, ua ala aʻe a ke ʻike hou nei ʻoe i ke ʻano o 14 mau makahiki.
3. E mālama ʻoe i nā loina hou
I ka wā i loaʻa iā ʻoe ka hang o ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi kamepiula, hele mai kēia wahine. I kēia manawa ke kau nei ʻoe i ka tweet, instagraming a me Snapchatting. Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ola kamepiula i 100 mau manawa ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ke ola āu e noho nei ma mua o kou hālāwai ʻana me kāu wahine. ʻAʻole hiki i kāu mau keiki — heck, kāu moʻopuna — ke manaʻoʻiʻo ʻole pehea ʻoe i nā ʻenehana hou. Ke mālama nei ʻoe i kou lolo a hana pū me ʻoe e haku i ka mea hou loa i nā polokalamu a me ka polokalamu ʻo 21st.
4. He manawa kūpono kāu e lilo ai i makuakāne
Me kahi wahine ʻōpio momona, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ka makuakāne (hou, inā he keiki kāu). Hiki i kēia manawa kūpono ke makua pū ke lilo i ola ola a me ka ʻike hohonu. E lilo i makua kāne i ka makahiki hope hiki ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi manawa kūpono e noho ʻōpio a ʻeleu.
He aha kekahi mau mea maikaʻi ʻole o ka male ʻana i ka wahine ʻōpio?
1. E luhi paha ʻo ia me ʻoe
Sure, hāʻawi ʻoe i ka palekana kālā. Akā i kekahi manawa pono ʻoe e hiamoe ma mua o kāna makemake. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke holo i kēlā marathon āna e hoʻokūkū nei, a ʻaʻohe ou hoihoi i ka mālama ʻana me nā Kardashians. Hopohopo paha ʻoe ʻaʻole hauʻoli ʻo ia i ka hana ʻana i kekahi o kēia mau hana ikaika iā ia iho, a hopohopo paha ʻaʻole ʻo ia iho. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi iā ia i ka mea e hiki i ke kāne o kāna mau makahiki.
2. E luhi paha ʻoe me ia
ʻOiai he mea kupaianaha paha kēia iā ʻoe i kēia manawa, i ka wā e hiki mai ana, e luhi paha ʻoe me kāu wahine ʻōpio. ʻAʻole like kāu mau moʻomeheu kaʻanalike. ʻAno ʻokoʻa kāu ʻono mele. Aia ʻo ia ma kāna iPhone i nā manawa āpau a ʻaʻohe ona makemake e heluhelu i kahi puke kino. ʻAʻohe paha ona manaʻo pehea e hoʻolālā kālā ai i kāna kālā. Hiki i kona ʻano makua ʻole ke lilo i mea hoʻonāukiuki. Makemake paha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e ake nui ana i kekahi o kāu hanauna āu e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻomanaʻo e pili ana i "nā lā maikaʻi maikaʻi" a me ke ʻano o ka ʻohi ʻana i ka pepa Sābati a hana pū i ka māmala kea.
3. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻoluʻolu ʻole me ka ʻike o ka poʻe ʻē aʻe i kou pili
Ke nānā nei ka poʻe iā ʻolua a noʻonoʻo inā ʻo kāu kaikamahine ia? Manaʻo lākou ʻo ʻoe wale nō me ia no ka mea ʻōpio ʻo ia i ka ʻōpio a me ka nānā kamahaʻo? Makau anei ʻoe manaʻo lākou ʻo ʻoe kāna makua kō, ʻo ia wale nō me kāu kālā?
4. Hōʻike ka poʻe ʻōpio i ka hoʻoweliweli
ʻOiai ʻike ʻoe e aloha ana kāu wahine iā ʻoe, he leo liʻiliʻi mau kou i kou poʻo e haʻi ana iā ʻoe i kekahi lā e hoʻopunipuni ʻo ia iā ʻoe me kekahi mea i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, me ka ikaika hou aʻe, ʻaʻole i hina ka lauoho a nona ka ʻeono. Hiki ke 'ike' ia kahi pack abs ma o kona t-shirt paʻa. No ka manawa mua i kou ola, palekana ʻole ʻoe e pili ana i kou hiki ke mālama i kāu wahine i ka hauʻoli. ʻIke ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e lili, a ke hoʻopili nei kēia i kou pilina.
5. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi wahine ʻōpio e hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe
Makemake ʻoe i wahine wahine ʻōpio i hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo ʻōpio. Akā ʻoiaʻiʻo, hana ʻoe i ʻelemakule. Kahiko maoli. I ka wā o ka pili mua ʻana, ua pīhaʻu kona ʻano kiʻekiʻe a me kona ʻano bubbly iā ʻoe, a he mea maʻalahi ke hoʻomau pū me ia ke holo ʻoe i ka adrenaline rush. Ua hana hou ʻo ia iā ʻoe e ʻōpio, a aloha ʻoe i kēlā manaʻo. Akā i kēia manawa ua hala kekahi manawa a ʻaʻole hiki ke aloalo ʻia nā ʻōuli i hiki ʻole ke ʻelemakule. Hele aku ʻoe me kāna mau hoaaloha a ʻike ʻoe ʻo ʻoe wale nō i ka hui e hoʻomanaʻo i hea ʻoe i ka wā i kī ʻia ai ʻo JFK, no ka mea ʻaʻole hānau ʻia kāna mau hoaaloha i kēlā manawa. I kēia manawa, ke hoʻolālā nei kāu mau hoa aloha i kā lākou uku hoʻomaha, namunamu e pili ana i ka uku ʻana i nā uku o ke koleke a kā lākou keiki, a me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana e pili ana i ka hoʻokomo ʻana i nā lauoho implants. Hiki iā ʻoe ʻo ka male ʻana i ka wahine ʻōpio ʻaʻole i hana i ka uaki e hoʻi i hope. ʻO ka noho ʻana me kahi wahine ʻōpio i hoʻomaopopo maoli iā ʻoe ʻaʻole ʻoe, i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, make ʻole.
Ma ke ʻano holoʻokoʻa, me ka nānā ʻole i ka ʻokoʻa o nā makahiki, like nā pilina āpau. Inā hoʻokumu ʻia kou pilina ma ke aloha, ka hilinaʻi a me ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻana, e like ʻoe me kāu wahine ʻōpio e like me nā kāne ʻoliʻoli ʻē aʻe. E hauʻoli kekahi i kekahi; ʻo ia ka mea nui loa.