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- 1. E ʻike pono ma ka pūnaewele pili pono
- 2. Polani i kou ʻikepili, no laila, ʻumeʻume ka wahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana
- 3. Wehe, kamaʻilio ʻoiaʻiʻo ke kī
- 4. E hōʻoia i kou makemake i ke kanaka
- 5. E palekana a hoʻomanawanui
Ua ʻike anei ʻoe i hoʻokahi i loko o ʻekolu mau male i hoʻomaka i ko lākou pilina ma ka pūnaewele, ʻoiai lākou e hehi pono, pale i nā wai ʻino o ka pili aloha ʻana, a noho ʻia e nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili pūnaewele, ma ke ʻano he grail hemolele.
Ua hōʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi hou e pili ana i ka poʻe i hoʻomaka i ko lākou pilina ma ka pūnaewele iʻoi aku ke olakino, ka hauʻoli o ka male.
ʻAʻole paha e pau kēia mau male male i ka hemo a i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana paha ma mua o ka hui ʻana i kāu ipo ma waho pūnaewele.
ʻAʻole kuhi kēia mau ʻike pono ʻoe e hōʻoki i ka hui ʻana i ka poʻe ma ke kino a pili i nā kamepiula wale nō.
E hui hope ʻoe me kāu hoa. Akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke poloke i kāu pili pūnaewele no ka maʻalahi o ka loaʻa ʻana o kekahi e like me ʻoe ka noʻonoʻo male.
Hāʻawi nā pūnaewele punaewele he nui i nā blog manuahi nāu e heluhelu, e hāʻawi ana i ka ʻōlelo pili a me ka ʻōlelo aʻo a ka male. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e kau inoa no kahi ʻikepili e komo ai i kēia ʻikepili.
Pehea e lā ai ma ka pūnaewele a hana ia iā ʻoe
Hiki i kekahi ke hele ma ka pūnaewele a heluhelu ma o nā ʻatikala like ʻole. Eia nō naʻe, kū aʻe ka luʻuluʻu, ke loaʻa ʻoe i nā pane i nā nīnau e like me, pehea e lā ai ma ka pūnaewele a hana ia iā ʻoe.
Ke nānā nei paha ʻoe i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka launa pū ʻana a i ʻole nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo kūleʻa pūnaewele maikaʻi.
A laila noho me mākou as lawe mākou iā ʻoe i ke kōkua ʻana mai ka launa pūnaewele e hōʻalo ai i nā pilikia a me nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili pūnaewele e palapala ʻāina i ka honua weliweli o ka launa pūnaewele.
Eia kekahi o nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili aloha punaewele no nā kāne a me nā wahine e pili ana pehea e ʻike ai i kahi pilina koʻikoʻi a male paha me ka pili pūnaewele.
ʻO nā manaʻo pili pūnaewele no ka kūleʻa i ka pilina
1. E ʻike pono ma ka pūnaewele pili pono
Aia nā ʻano like ʻole o nā pūnaewele pili aloha ma aneʻi i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hewa aʻe a ʻike ʻole. ʻAʻole like nā pūnaewele hoʻolauna.
ʻO kekahi mau pūnaewele niche i hoʻolaʻa ʻia i kahi hui liʻiliʻi o ka poʻe i ka ʻano like o ka nohona.
Nā ʻē aʻe pūnaewele pūnaewele no ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hookup a me nā hoa aloha. A laila aia kekahi no nā ʻikepili manaʻo ʻoi aku ka makemake e hoʻopau i ke kuahu.
Ma mua o kou kau inoa ʻana no kekahi pūnaewele hoʻolauna, makemake ʻoe e noiʻi iā ia.
ʻAʻole makemake ʻoe e ʻimi nei i ke aloha ma kahi pūnaewele i manaʻo ʻia no nā hookup. E hōʻoia ʻo ia ke ʻano o ka pūnaewele hoʻolauna e mālama pono i nā pilina e like me ʻoe. Ke ʻike ʻoe i ka pūnaewele hoʻolauna āu e manaʻo ai e holo pono ka mea maikaʻi loa nāu, e kau inoa a hoʻomaka i ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi ʻikepili!
ʻO ia kekahi o nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili pūnaewele koʻikoʻi e ola ai!
2. Polani i kou ʻikepili, no laila, ʻumeʻume ka wahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana
I ka pehea e kūleʻa ai i ka launa pūnaewele, ʻo kēia ʻāpana aʻoaʻo e like me ka manaʻo maʻamau i ka kanaka maʻamau, akā kahaha paha ʻoe i ka nui o ka poʻe e hele ʻole e hāhai.
I kekahi manawa, manaʻo mākou he kiʻi kā mākou e leʻaleʻa ai a nani hoʻi, akā ke hoʻopau nei e hoʻohālikelike iā mākou me he mea lā he ʻoi aku mākou ma mua o ka wahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
Akā ʻaʻole wale mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā kiʻi pili. Eia kekahi o nā poʻe kūpuna e kaʻana like ana i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili pūnaewele e kūleʻa ai i ka honua pili aloha.
- Kū i waho kāu bio mai nā koena o nā waihona ma kēia mau pūnaewele pili aloha. ʻOiai inā ʻoe i wae ai i nā kiʻi kūpono me kāu pili, pono kāu bio i kākoʻo pono i nā kiʻi.
- Hiki i ka poʻe ke haʻi ke makemake nui kekahi e kiʻi i kahi lā, a hiki ke hōʻike i kāu koho ʻana i nā kiʻi a me nā huaʻōlelo.
Eia nā lula ʻelua i koi ʻia no nā kāne a me nā wahine e hoʻopau i nā gaffes pili aloha.
- Mai hoʻokau i kahi pūʻulu o nā kiʻi kahi āu e ʻona a pāʻina nei.
- Mai kau i kahi pūpū o nā selfies make up. Inā ʻaʻa liʻiliʻi ʻoe a hōʻike i kou mauʻiʻo, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻokipa i kahi wahine. E hāʻawi ana ʻoe i kahi vibe moekolohe maʻamau.
Ma kahi, koho i nā kiʻi e hōʻike ana i kāu leʻaleʻa a makemake paha. Inā he kiʻi āu e pāʻani ana me nā holoholona a me nā keiki paha, e hoʻokomo pū i kēlā mau kiʻi. E hoʻonāukiuki lākou i kahi wahine manaʻo ʻohana inā makemake ʻoe i nā keiki i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
E pili ana i kāu meaola, e nānā he pōkole a pololei hoʻi ia, e ʻōlelo ana i kāu mea e makemake ai. E noho ka poʻe e makemake ana i ka moekolohe maʻamau ʻoiai e hōʻike ana nā mea e ʻimi nei i ka wahine i ka manawa ʻole.
E nānā pū kekahi:
3. Wehe, kamaʻilio ʻoiaʻiʻo ke kī
Ma kēlā me kēia blog ma kēlā me kēia pūnaewele hoʻolauna i loaʻa i kahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili pūnaewele, aia hoʻokahi mahele like.
ʻO ka wehe a me ka pololei e pili ana i kāu mea e makemake ai i kahi pilina e kōkua iā ʻoe i ka holo lōʻihi. E kōkua ia iā ʻoe e kanana i nā mea koʻikoʻi ʻole a kōkua iā ʻoe e pae i ke kanaka kūpono.
Ke noʻonoʻo nei ʻoe i ka hoʻolilo ʻana i ke koena o kou ola me hoʻokahi kanaka, a ʻo ʻolua pono e ʻike pono ke kaʻana like nei i nā waiwai like.
ʻAʻole ʻoe makemake e mōhai i kāu mau waiwai no ke kaula hao a puni kou manamana lima. Inā makemake ʻoe i kahi ʻohana, a ʻaʻole makemake kāu pili o kēia manawa, a laila ua hiki i ka manawa e neʻe ai.
ʻAʻole ʻoe makemake e hoʻonele i kou manawa e hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻololi i kekahi. E hoʻohoka a huhū wale nō ʻoe iā ʻoe iho.
4. E hōʻoia i kou makemake i ke kanaka
Ma ke ʻano he alakaʻi i ka launa pūnaewele ʻana, ua ʻōlelo kekahi ma laila ma laila ua hoʻomaka nā pilina maikaʻi loa ma ke ʻano he hoa aloha.
Ke hele ʻoe e ʻimi i kāu wahine pono, ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e kiʻi wale i ka male ʻana. Makemake ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ka lā luuluu loa ma hope o ka male ʻana. He mea ʻole ʻoe i ke aloha me kāu pilina o kēia manawa, e hiki mai ana nā lā kahi e manaʻo ai e mae ana kāu pilina.
Ke kū kēlā, makemake anei ʻoe i kēlā kanaka?
ʻO ka male ʻana i kekahi kanaka ke ʻano o ke aʻo ʻana e pili ana i kā lākou ʻano maʻamau.
ʻO kāu kaomi ʻana he freak a i ʻole ka hōkū hiki i hope o Hoarders?
ʻO nā ʻano maikaʻi āu e makemake ʻole ai i kēia manawa e ʻānai iā ʻoe i ka wā e hiki mai ana. No laila inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo hiki iā ʻoe ke mālama i nā ʻano maikaʻi ʻole, malia paha pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka neʻe ʻana i kahi kanaka aʻe. ʻO ia kekahi o nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili pūnaewele e hoʻomanaʻo.
A ʻo ka hopena, e nīnau iā ʻoe iho i kēia nīnau.
E ʻelele wau inā makemake kaʻu wahine e hiki mai ana iaʻu?
ʻAʻole pili ka male i ka pāʻina. He a ka hoʻokō no ke koena o kou ola. Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke elope no lākou, e noʻonoʻo hou i kāu mea mua. ʻO ia ka mea nui e pono ai o nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili pūnaewele.
5. E palekana a hoʻomanawanui
E kūpono i ka pili pūnaewele.
ʻO nā manawa kūpono, ʻaʻole ʻoe e kuʻi a male i ke kanaka mua āu e kamaʻilio ai ma kahi pūnaewele pili. ʻO ia paha kāu koho ʻelima a ʻumi paha. ʻAʻohe mea hewa iā ʻoe inā manaʻo ʻoe ke hoʻolōʻihi ʻia nei iā ʻoe e ʻike i kekahi ma ka pūnaewele ma mua o ka maʻamau.
No laila ʻo nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili pūnaewele maikaʻi loa e hoʻopili i kēia. Pono ʻoe e kanana ma waena o nā rana he nui ma mua o kou ʻike ʻana i kāu keiki aliʻi a i ʻole ke kamāliʻiwahine.
Hoʻopili kēia piko me ka piko kamaʻilio. ʻO ia ke kumu no ke ala pololei a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ke ala maikaʻi loa e hele ai ke kamaʻilio ʻoe me nā kāne ma ka pūnaewele. Inā ʻaʻole koʻikoʻi kekahi e like me ʻoe, neʻe lākou i mua. E ʻuhane paha lākou iā ʻoe, a i ʻole ʻoluʻolu paha lākou e kū mua me ʻoe.
Inā kū kēlā, pono ʻoe e ʻae iā ia a neʻe i ka wahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
ʻO kahi ʻōlelo ma nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me ka loaʻa ʻana o kekahi e pono e hui me IRL
Me ka nui a keu aku o ka poʻe e ʻike i nā male kūleʻa me ka pili pūnaewele, hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa nā hopena like, akā naʻe, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻoki. E hoʻohana i ka noʻonoʻo pono o ka noʻonoʻo, a ma hope o kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pili pūnaewele maikaʻi.
ʻOiai ʻoe akamai a palekana hoʻi e pili ana i kēia mau hoa hiki, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike iā ʻoe iho i kahi kanaka kūikawā i ka manawa ʻole.
He mea paʻakikī ʻoe e loaʻa ai kekahi, e hoʻomanawanui. Ke kūpono ka manawa, ʻike ʻoe i kekahi e mahalo i nā mea like me ʻoe.
E hauʻoli ʻoe i kou kali ʻana ke loaʻa iā ʻoe kāu wahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana.