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- Ke hiki mai ka pilikia - mākaukau paha ʻoe?
- He huakaʻi i luna a i lalo
- Ke kūleʻa ʻana i nā pilikia a me nā haʻawina e hiki iā mākou ke aʻo
- Pilikia kino
- Pilikia kālā
- Pilikia ʻuhane
ʻO nā kāne i male ʻia ua ʻike lākou ʻaʻole he mea hoʻomakeʻaka ke ola male. E mākaukau e paʻi pū i nā puʻupuʻu o ke ala i kou ola a he maʻamau ke hoʻonāwaliwali a hoʻohoka ʻia paha i kekahi manawa.
ʻO ka lanakila ʻana i ka pilikia i loko o kāu male he mea paʻakikī ia e kū i kēlā me kēia. ʻOiai ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o kahi mau pilikia me nā ʻano o ka mahalo ʻana i kekahi i kekahi, ke hoʻolohe nei, ke lawe nei i ka manawa e hana ai i kāu mau hemahema aia kekahi mau pilikia e pono ai ka hoʻoikaika hou.
E hoʻomaopopo kākou i nā pilikia maʻamau āu e kū ai i kāu pilina a me nā haʻawina e pili pū ana.
Ke hiki mai ka pilikia - mākaukau paha ʻoe?
Ke hiki mai ka pilikia - ke kuʻi ʻia kāu male me kahi pilikia nui, ma hea ʻoe e hoʻomaka ai e hoʻoponopono? Pehea ʻoe e mākaukau ai ke kū ʻana i nā pilikia?
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻonohonoho i ko mākou noʻonoʻo no ka mea e hiki mai ana, hiki iā mākou ke kūkākūkā pehea mākou e alo ai i nā pilikia a me pehea e hiki ai iā mākou ke hoʻoikaika i ko mākou pilina ma mua akā ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke lilo i 100% mākaukau. Kahaha paha ʻoe i ka ʻike ʻana i nā hoʻokolohua i hiki i kou ola a pehea e hiki ai iā ia ke hoʻāʻo iā ʻoe a me kou makemake.
Ke kū nei ʻoe me kāu mau makaʻu ʻoi loa, ka huli ʻole o nā hanana a i ʻole ka ʻike ʻehaʻeha ʻaʻole maikaʻi loa kāu ola male e like me kāu i manaʻo ai, pehea ʻoe e hana ai me ia? E hāʻawi paha ʻoe i ka hakakā a hakakā paha?
He huakaʻi i luna a i lalo
E lawe ka male iā ʻoe i nā mea hoʻomanaʻo hauʻoli loa a me nā hoʻāʻo paʻakikī loa. He aha ka mea e hoʻohuli ai i kahi male i ka male male ʻaʻole ia he mea like me nā kāne ʻē aʻe.
Loaʻa nā male haki ma kahi o nā pilikia, nā hoʻāʻo a me ka hana ʻole i ka pilikia. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka hana ʻana no laila ke hāʻawi wale nei kekahi mau kāne, akā ʻaʻole kekahi. ʻO ia ke kumu no ka hoʻokahuli ʻana i ka pilikia i ka male ʻana ʻaʻole e hoʻoikaika iā mākou; e aʻo ia iā mākou i nā haʻawina waiwai nui ʻaʻole wale ma nā pilina akā me ke ola ponoʻī.
Ke kūleʻa ʻana i nā pilikia a me nā haʻawina e hiki iā mākou ke aʻo
Ma lalo ʻoe e ʻike ai i kahi papa inoa o nā pilikia maʻamau a nā kāne a me nā ʻohana maʻamau e alo ai; Loaʻa nā haʻawina a me nā ʻāpana aʻoaʻo a kēlā me kēia ʻāpana i hiki iā mākou āpau ke aʻo mai.
Pilikia kino
ʻO ke kīnā kino i hoʻokumu ʻia e kahi pōpilikia kekahi hiʻohiʻona o ka mea a mākou e kapa nei he pilikia kino. ʻAʻohe mea e manaʻo e hopu ʻia i kahi ulia a i ʻole ʻeha ʻia mai ke kīnā o ke kino mai ia mea. Hiki i kēia ʻano pilikia ke loaʻa ka hopena maikaʻi i loko o kāu male. ʻO kāu wahine i hiki i kēia manawa ke ʻehaʻeha mai ke kaumaha, aloha pilikino a hōʻike pū i nā hōʻailona o ka huhū ma muli o ke kīnā o ke kino i kū mai. ʻAʻole maʻalahi nā hoʻoponopono ʻana o ʻolua a hiki i kekahi manawa ke lawe iā ʻoe i ka lihi o ka hāʻawi ʻana.
Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kaohi i ka mea i hiki i kou ola, kaohi i ka mea hiki iā ʻoe. E neʻe a ʻae i ka mea i loaʻa iā ʻoe a i ʻole i kāu wahine.
E kūkākūkā a hana i kēlā me kēia paʻakikī āu e loaʻa ai, ʻaʻole ʻoe e haʻalele i kāu wahine. E hōʻoia iā lākou e hiki ana ʻoe i laila a hui pū ʻoe hiki ke neʻe i mua.
E aʻo e ʻoi aku ka ikaika o kou aloha ma mua o nā hemahema o ke kino a me ke kīnā ʻole. ʻO kēlā me kēia mea hoʻololi koke i kēia pilikia e hiki ke hoʻoluliluli iā ʻoe akā ʻaʻole e haki iā ʻoe. E aʻo e ʻae i nā mea hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke kaohi a aʻo e hoʻomaʻa pū.
Pilikia kālā
ʻO nā pilikia pili kālā paha kekahi o nā kumu maʻamau e alakaʻi ai ka poʻe male i ka male male no ka mea i kaʻoiaʻiʻo āpau, ke ʻaʻa ʻia ʻoe i ke kālā, hoʻopilikia ʻia nā mea āpau ke loaʻa nā keiki a nui nā pila e uku. ʻO ka mea paʻakikī loa kēia ke makemake ʻoe a hoʻāʻo e ola i kahi ʻano nohona kūpono ʻole i kāu loaʻa kālā. ʻO kēia kahi e komo ai ka pilikia maoli.
Aʻo e hoʻopilikia. ʻAʻohe ala pōkole i ka kūleʻa a hiki i ka waiwai. E ola i ka nohona i hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa a ma kahi o ka hakakā ʻana i kekahi i kekahi, no ke aha e hoʻopaʻa ʻole ai i ka hoʻokō e kōkua i kekahi i kekahi?
E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻaʻole kou ola a ʻaʻole wale e puni i ke kālā. Nui nā mea hou aʻe e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke mahalo no ka mea ʻaʻole ka nānā ʻana i nā pilikia kālā.
Hana pū ʻole i kekahi i kekahi, i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻokō i kāu mau pahuhopu i ke ola.
Pilikia ʻuhane
ʻO kahi mea e maopopo ai ka paʻa ʻana o ka naʻau i mea nui i kāu ola male a me kou ʻohana. Ua ʻike paha mākou i nā hihia hemo he nui e pili ana i ka paʻa ʻole o ka naʻau a hele mai kēia ma ke ʻano he kumu kaumaha loa e haʻalele ai i kāu male. Ke kūleʻa ʻole ke kanaka ma muli o nā kumu he nui e like me ka lili nui, ka palekana ʻole, ka huhū a me kēlā ʻano o ka ʻole - hiki i ka paʻakikī ke kaohi a lawa koke, hiki ke ulu aʻe i kahi hana luku i hiki ke hoʻopili ʻaʻole wale i kāu male ʻana akā ʻo kāu hana.
ʻImi kōkua. ʻO kaʻae ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e pono ai ʻoe i ke kōkua ʻaʻole ia he hōʻailona o ka nāwaliwali, akā he hōʻailona e makemake ʻoe e lawe i ke keʻehi e pono ai e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.
E ʻae i ka poʻe e kōkua iā ʻoe a mai ʻae iā ʻoe e noho i nā manaʻo āu e ʻike ai e huikau wale nō.
E aʻo e hilinaʻi a aʻo e wehe i kou puʻuwai i ka poʻe aloha iā ʻoe. E wehe i ka mea e hoʻopilikia nei iā ʻoe a ʻo ka mea nui loa, e aʻo e hoʻolohe a ʻae i ke kōkua. ʻAʻole i hānau ʻia ka naʻauao a ikaika hoʻi; ma o nā makahiki o ka ʻike i lilo ai lākou i ʻano like i kēia manawa.
ʻO ka lanakila ʻana i ka pilikia i loko o kāu male ʻana he huakaʻi ia e hāʻawi iā mākou i nā ala pōkole he nui i ke kūʻokoʻa a i ʻole e pakele i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo akā ʻaʻole like ka male male. ʻO ka male ka huakaʻi lōʻihi o nā ala huʻihuʻi i hiki i kekahi manawa ke mehameha a me ke kaumaha ʻole akā ʻike ʻoe i ka mea e hiki ai ke hoʻomanawanui? ʻO ia kēlā kanaka āu e noho pū ai, ʻo kēlā kanaka āu i male ai makemake e lawe i ka huakaʻi like me ʻoe. E aʻo mai kāu mau pilikia a hoʻohana i kēia mau haʻawina e hana ma nā pilikia ʻē aʻe e kū aʻe a i ka hopena he hapalua maikaʻi kāu wahine ma waena o ka mānoanoa a lahilahi paha.