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- 1. E kiʻi i ka ʻike, e aʻo iā ʻoe iho
- 2. E aʻo e kamaʻilio
- 3. E hana i ka manawa nona
- 4. Mai wānana nui
- 5. Mahalo i kēlā kino no ka mea paʻakikī ka hāpai ʻana i ke kino wahine
ʻO nā wahine nā mea aloha akā pohihihi loa. ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi ke koi wiwo ʻole e hoʻomaopopo piha i kā mākou mau wahine, ʻoiai me nā PhDs i ka wahine psychology a i ʻole ka pilina. Akā, no kekahi kumu, aia hoʻokahi mea i pili i ka hake nui o nā wahine pehea e ʻoluʻolu ai i ka wahine, ma loko a ma waho hoʻi o ka lumi moe.
A i kēia lā, e nānā mākou i nā mea ʻelima a nā kāne e haku ai i kā lākou ʻimi e hoʻohauʻoli ai i kā lākou mau wahine e pili ana i ke ola.
Ke hoʻomaka nei mai loko o nā pā o ka lumi moe, e ʻike ana i ka leʻaleʻa i kāu wahine e koi ai i ka moekolohe e hoʻomohala i kahi huikau o ka ʻike a me ka ʻike i ka makemake o nā wahine.
ʻOiai ʻaʻohe hoʻokahi ʻeke kūpono a pau o nā hāʻina pehea e ʻoluʻolu ai i nā wahine, nā manaʻo ma lalo i ka ʻoluʻolu e hōʻoluʻolu i kāu wahine e kōkua iā ʻoe i ka ʻike ʻana i kāu wahine a hoʻohauʻoli a hauʻoli hoʻi iā ia.
1. E kiʻi i ka ʻike, e aʻo iā ʻoe iho
E hoʻolohe, mai hoʻopunipuni- ʻaʻole hānau ʻia nā ipo nui akā hana ʻia.
ʻO ka hiki ke hōʻoluʻolu i ka wahine i ka moena he mākau e like me nā mākau ʻē aʻe āu e loaʻa ai i ke ola. E aʻo ʻoe ia. A pono ka manawa, ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa a me ka ʻike. Inā ʻoe e manaʻo e hiki i ka moekolohe maikaʻi ʻole, ua lilo ʻoe.
Pono ʻoe e aʻo iā ʻoe iho e pili ana i ka moekolohe wahine, e pili ana i nā wahi e like me ke olakino, nā ʻano moekolohe, ka moekolohe a me nā mea hou aʻe.
E hoʻomaka i kāu moekolohe wahine, e ʻike i kekahi o nā puke i makemake nui ʻia, nā makasina a i ʻole nā puke e heluhelu ana. ʻO Big Kickstarter ʻo Big Bang Na Nerve. E hoʻolauna iā ʻoe i nā mea āpau i ka wahine.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke heluhelu i nā blog a me nā paʻi e aʻo hou aʻe e pili ana i nā kumuhana like ʻole e pili ana i ka moekolohe a hoʻomākaukau pono iā ʻoe iho.
2. E aʻo e kamaʻilio
Inā ʻoe e ʻimi ana e kūkulu i kahi nohona wahine maikaʻi a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi, pono ʻoe e aʻo e hoʻopono a kamaʻilio ākea me kāu wahine.
Pono ʻoe e ʻike pono i ka ʻike o kāu wahine i kāu mau moekolohe a me nā makemake āpau, a i ka manawa like e nīnau e pili ana iā ia.
E hāʻawi i nā manaʻo e pili ana i kāna mau makemake a mahalo i kāu wahine.
E wehe a kūkākūkā i nā pilikia moekolohe me kāu hoa me ka makaʻu ʻole. Holo ka hapa nui o ka poʻe mai ka kamaʻilio ʻana i nā pilikia pili wahine, akā ʻo ia ka mea maikaʻi e hana ai me kāu hoa. Kamaʻilio!
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka nui o kāu kamaʻilio e pili ana iā ia, ʻo ka nui o ka manawa e aʻo ai e pili ana i kāu hoa a hauʻoli i ka moekolohe maikaʻi. E hoʻomōhala i kou mākau kamaʻilio kolohe.
3. E hana i ka manawa nona
ʻOiai maikaʻi maikaʻi ʻole, pono ʻoe e hoʻohui pū me kāu hoa. E hana i ka manawa a leʻaleʻa i ka hoʻopili ʻana me kāu kāne i ka moekolohe. E kūkulu i ka mea i kakali a waiho i ka hopena ke hiki mai ka manawa no ka moekolohe maoli.
ʻAʻole hiki ke wikiwiki a leʻaleʻa i ka maikaʻi, ka lōʻihi lōʻihi. ʻAʻole koe inā makemake ʻoe i kāu mau moekolohe e wikiwiki, he manaʻo weliweli.
ʻO ka mea ʻoi loa e pili ana i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ka manawa kūpono no ka moekolohe me kāu hoa ʻo ia ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa kūpono e aʻo ai i kāu hoa, mai ka foreplay e hoʻokau i ka moekolohe. Loaʻa ka manawa kūpono no ka moekolohe ʻana e ʻae iā ʻoe e aʻo i kekahi mau mea e pili ana i kāu wahine me ka ʻole o ka nīnau. A pēlā nō ka wahine.
Hoʻomaopopo pū ka hana ʻana i ka manawa i kāu wahine e hoihoi i ka pili me ia a hoʻohana ʻole iā ia no kāu kōkua pilikino.
4. Mai wānana nui
E kiʻi i kahi hanana i loko o ka lumi moe.
He mea pepehi kanaka ka Predictability i nā pilina he nui. ʻAʻole hiki i kāu hoa ke koho i nā neʻe o kou lumi moe, i kēlā me kēia lā.
Spice i kou moekolohe ola me kekahi makakū. E lawe mai i mau mea pāʻani inā ʻoluʻolu ʻolua iā ia. E nānā pū i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni kikoʻī a hana i nā hana keaka.
E hoʻāʻo i nā kūlana moekolohe hou āu e leʻaleʻa wale nei. Hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe i ka moekolohe i nā wahi hou e like me ka lumi kuke, ka lua, ma ka wahi moe, a pēlā aku.
ʻO ka huakaʻi pehea e ʻoluʻolu ai i ka wahine ʻaʻole pau. Hiki iā ʻoe ke pelu i nā lula i ke ala āu e makemake ai me kāu hoa a ʻimi i kāu hana ʻelua.
5. Mahalo i kēlā kino no ka mea paʻakikī ka hāpai ʻana i ke kino wahine
E hoʻolohe, inā he mea kēia āu i mālama ʻole ai no ka manawa lōʻihi, ʻo ka manawa kēia i hoʻi hou ʻoe i kou manaʻo no hoʻokahi manawa. ʻO ke kaomi a nā wahine e pili ana i ka mālama ʻana i ke kino kūpono he nui loa. Mahalo i kāu wahine no kēlā kino nani ke manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole ia.
Mai nā ʻōpū palahalaha i nā puʻupuʻu perky a me nā kīkō nani, nā kuleana i nā wahine i ke ʻano nui i ka leʻaleʻa i ka moekolohe me kā lākou hoa. Inā no ke kumu a lākou e manaʻo ai ʻaʻole mahalo ʻoe i ko lākou kino, ʻo ia ke ʻano o ka hilinaʻi a me ka hōʻoluʻolu i hele i ka hale.
E hoʻāʻo e hoʻohui i kekahi mau mea mahalo i kāna mau manawa palupalu e like me ke kiʻi ʻana i kāna ʻūhā i lalo i ka manamana wāwae, a i ʻole ʻoe ke lawe nei i kona kapa.
Inā pāʻani ʻolua i ka moekolohe, a laila e haʻi aku iā ia ke honi ʻino ia i lalo.
Hiki ke pau ʻole ka papa inoa i ke ʻano o nā wahine akā ʻo kēia mau hacks he 5 e pili ana i ka leʻaleʻa e hele maoli ai ka wahine i ke ala hou ʻana i kāu mau kau ipo. Mai makaʻu e hoʻonui i ke kiʻekiʻe o ka manaʻo.