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Hoʻomanaʻo i kēlā manaʻo nunui āu i loaʻa ai i ka hoʻomaka o kāu pili?
Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā mea āpau; nā makana liʻiliʻi, nā lā aloha, nā hana aloha, a me nā pā aloha. Loaʻa iā ʻoe ka mahalo a me ke aloha a pau o kāu hoa. Akā i kēia manawa, me ka manawa, manaʻo ʻoe ua pau nā aloha a me nā mahalo.
Hoʻomaka ʻoe e hoʻowahāwahā ʻia i ka pilina.
He mea paha kāu i hana ai? Kūhewa ʻoe i kāu hoa? A i ʻole he kumu ʻekolu? ʻO ka manawa pinepine, ʻo ka nele o ka mahalo ʻia i ka pilina ʻaʻole ia no ka hewa i loko ou a i ʻole kāu ipo.
I kekahi manawa, hiki i ke kumu ke lilo i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua hui pū ʻoe no ka lōʻihi o ka manawa o ka manawa o ka wahine i hoʻomaka ai ʻoe e lawe i nā mea me ka ʻike ʻole.
Manaʻo wale ʻoe e hana kekahi kanaka i kekahi mea. ʻAʻole ia no kou mahalo ʻole iā lākou. ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e hōʻike pinepine i kēlā mahalo. No laila, alakaʻi kēia i nā hakakā liʻiliʻi, nā paio, a me nā manaʻo kānalua e pili ana i kāu pili.
No laila, hōʻike i ka mahalo i kahi pilina he mea nui loa.
Ma nā ʻōniʻoniʻo liʻiliʻi āu e hana ai no kāu hoa, a i ʻole ʻoe e hoʻokani leo iā ia, e hōʻike ana i kāu mea nui ʻē aʻe ua mahalo ʻia lākou he kī i kahi pilina kūleʻa a hauʻoli hoʻi.
E makaʻala mau i nā "hae ʻulaʻula," kahi e hōʻailona ai ʻaʻole mahalo ʻoe i kāu wahine. Pākuʻi ʻia kēia mau mea:
- Ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa pinepine nei kāu hoa me ʻoe.
- ʻO nā paio ma luna paha o nā mea liʻiliʻi.
- Hoʻomaka lākou e lilo i mea noʻonoʻo.
- Hoʻonāukiuki maʻalahi lākou.
- Noho mālie lākou.
- ʻAʻole lākou e noi i kou manaʻo a ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo paha.
- Hoʻomaka lākou e hoʻokaʻawale iā lākou iho iā ʻoe.
- ʻAʻohe aloha hou.
- E hoʻomaka paha lākou i ka hihia.
ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻokūpaʻa ʻia ka mana o ka mahalo i ka pili.
E nānā i kekahi mau mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana no laila ke waiho nei i kou manaʻo ʻē aʻe i mahalo nui ʻia i kahi pilina.
Pehea e mahalo ai i kahi pilina a pehea e mahalo ai i kāu pakanā
- E hoʻomanaʻo e mahalo iā lākou no nā mea liʻiliʻi a lākou e hana ai.
- E ʻōlelo i nā hua liʻiliʻi o ka mahalo no kāu kāne a wahine paha.
- E hoʻouna iā lākou i nā leka a puni ka lā.
- Mahalo i kāu ipo aloha a ipo paha no ka hana a lākou e hana ai nāu.
- Nīnau ʻoe iā ʻoe iho pehea e mahalo ai i kāu kāne a wahine paha? E ʻike i nā hana liʻiliʻi a lākou e hana ai iā ʻoe i kāna ala ponoʻī.
- Mahalo i ka hana hou a kāu hoa hana.
- Mai lawe wale iā lākou a me kā lākou hana.
- E hoʻolālā i kahi huakaʻi momona a aloha hoʻi.
- E lawe mai i kekahi mea hana i ka hōʻike ʻana i kou mahalo.
- Hōʻike i ka mahalo i ka lehulehu a me kahi pilikino.
- E hoʻolālā i kahi ʻaina awakea pūʻiwa.
- Hana i kahi huakaʻi hele me lākou.
- E nānā i nā mea liʻiliʻi a lākou e hana ai.
- Lawe mai i nā pua a me nā kokoleka. ʻAʻole hiki ʻole i kēia ke minoʻaka i ka maka o kāu wahine a wahine paha. E nā lede, hana like nō paha ʻoe pēlā. Aloha kekahi mau kāne i kēia nānā pū kekahi.
- Malaila mau no lakou.
- Kākoʻo iā lākou i ko lākou mau manawa paʻakikī.
- Hoʻolauleʻa i ko lākou mau manawa maikaʻi.
- Mai hoʻopaʻa i ka ukiuki.
- ʻO ke kamaʻilio ke kī.
Hiki ke pau ʻole ka papa inoa. Akā, hōʻike kēia mau hana i ka mana o ka mahalo i ka pilina a laila e alakaʻi ana i hoʻokahi manaʻo i waiwai i loko o kahi pilina.
ʻOi aku ka leo o nā wahine ke mahalo i kā lākou mau hoa
He mea maʻalahi paha kāu mahalo i kāu kāne iā ʻoe, ʻoiai ʻo ia e hakakā nei me nā huaʻōlelo.
Pono ʻoe e ʻae i kēlā ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻAʻole leo nui kekahi mau kāne me ko lākou mana mahalo i nā pilina. Ma hea e maʻalahi ai nā ʻōlelo mahalo no ke kāne iā ʻoe, e ʻumeʻume ana paha ʻo ia. No laila, he aha kāu e hana ai?
Pehea e mahalo ai kāu kāne iā ʻoe?
Kāohi i nā mea āu e hana ai nona. ʻO kahi laʻana, no hoʻokahi manawa e hao iā ia i kona pālule iho. ʻO kēia e hoʻomaopopo iā ia ʻoiai ʻoiai kahi hana liʻiliʻi, hana ʻoe ia nona, a i kēia manawa ʻaʻole ʻoe i hana ia pehea ka hopena iā ia.
E paulele iā ʻoe iho. E komo i nā kapa komo, e hoʻokau i kou lauoho a me nā kui. Hele paha ʻoe i kahi lā spa. E kiʻi i kēlā kukuna!
Lawe i ka manawa no ʻoe iho.
E kia i ka mea āu e makemake ai e hana ma mua o nā hana maʻamau. E hoʻomaopopo kēia i kāu kāne i ka nui o kāu hana i kēlā me kēia lā, no laila ke alakaʻi nei iā ia e mahalo nui iā ʻoe.
Pāʻani ikaika e kiʻi. Dodge i kēlā mau hoʻopā aloha a honi. Flirt me ia me ka hoʻokuʻu ʻole iā ia e hoʻopā iā ʻoe. Eia kekahi, e hana i kou hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho.
Waiho iā ia inā makemake ʻo ia iā ia. Mai hoʻomau pinepine iā ia e pili ana i ia. I kāna manawa ponoʻī, e haʻi maoli ʻo ia iā ʻoe i nā mea āpau e hoʻopilikia iā ia. ʻO kēia ka mea e mahalo nui iā ʻoe i kou hoʻomaopopo ʻana iā ia.
Mai kāhili i kāna mau hoʻomaikaʻi ʻoiai paha he mea hoʻohenehene paha ia. ʻO ia paha kāna ala e hōʻike ai iā ʻoe e aloha.
ʻAʻole ia he mea hūnā he mea nui ka mana o ka mahalo i ka pilina. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kāhili i ke aloha, ka mahalo, a me ka mahalo ma lalo o ke kapeta. Hele pū nā mea ʻekolu i ka lima, e alakaʻi ana i ka hilinaʻi like a me ka mahalo.
Me ka ʻole o ka mahalo i ka pilina, ʻaʻole hauʻoli ka pilina a paʻa ikaika paha.
No laila, he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo nā hoa ʻelua i ka mana o ka mahalo i ka pilina a nānā i nā ala e hoʻonui ai iā ia i nā ala nui a me nā liʻiliʻi.