Anter
- 1. Hoʻomaopopo mākou i kekahi i kekahi
- 2. ʻO kā mākou hana wale nō ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka hana
- 3. He kua kā mākou i kekahi
- 4. Loaʻa hou kā mākou manawa
- 5. E lilo i hoʻokūkū
- 6. Wai hoʻopilikia kālā
- Nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pono no nā kāne e hana pū ana
Ke hoʻomaka ʻoe e aloha me kekahi, maʻalahi ka hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa me lākou.
He mea ʻole inā he 2am i ke kakahiaka. Nui loa ʻoe i ke aloha e maʻalahi ai ʻoe ma kahi mau hola o ka hiamoe i ka pō.
Minamina, ʻaʻole mau kēlā kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe. ʻOiai e pua paha kāu pili, pono nō e hoʻomau i kou ola o kēlā me kēia lā.
Pono nā kānaka āpau e hana a lawe i ka hapa nui o kou manawa, no laila ke waiho nei ka manawa liʻiliʻi no ka pilina. ʻO kahi ala e mālama ai i kēia hiki ke hana ma ka māla like me kāu hoa.
Ke noi nei ia i nā nīnau, he aha nā mea maikaʻi a me nā maikaʻi ʻole o ka hana pū ʻana me kāu mea ʻē aʻe nui?
ʻOiai ʻo kāu ipo kāu hoa hana, pono ʻoe e hoʻopili i ka maikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi ʻole o ka hana pū ʻana me kāu wahine a loaʻa ka pane i ka nīnau pili, "Hiki i nā kāne ma ka ʻoihana like ke kūkulu i kahi male kūleʻa?"
Eia nā 6 pros a me cons o ke kāne a me ka wahine e hana pū ana
1. Hoʻomaopopo mākou i kekahi i kekahi
Ke hoʻokaʻawale ʻoe i ka māla like me kāu hoa, hiki iā ʻoe ke wehe i nā hoʻopiʻi āpau a me nā nīnau.
Eia kekahi, hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻoia i kou kua i kāu kua.
I nā manawa he nui, ke ʻike ʻole ka poʻe pili e pili ana i ka ʻoihana a kekahi, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻonāukiuki e pili ana i ka manawa i lilo i ka hana. ʻAʻole lākou i ʻike e pili ana i nā koi o ka hana a hiki, no laila, e koi i nā koi kūpono ʻole a ka hoa ʻē aʻe.
2. ʻO kā mākou hana wale nō ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka hana
ʻOiai he piʻi aʻe i ka kaʻana like ʻana i ka māina o ka hana, aia kekahi mau drawbacks koʻikoʻi.
Ke kaʻana like ʻoe i kahi kahua o ka hana, lilo kāu mau kamaʻilio i mea kikowaena ma waena ona.
Ma hope o kekahi manawa, ʻo kāu hana wale nō ka mea e kamaʻilio ai a lilo ia i mea liʻiliʻi. ʻOiai inā e hoʻāʻo ʻoe e hōʻole iā ia, kokolo mau ka hana i ke kamaʻilio ʻana.
Lilo i ka paʻakikī e mālama i ka hana ma ka hana a kālele ana i nā mea ʻē aʻe inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana.
3. He kua kā mākou i kekahi
ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka ʻoihana like me ka nui o nā perks, keu hoʻi i ka pālua ʻana i kāu mau hoʻāʻo e hālāwai i ka palena palena manawa a i ʻole hoʻopau i kahi papahana. ʻO kekahi o nā perks ʻoi loa ka hiki ke hoʻololi i ka ukana ke maʻi kekahi.
Me ka nui ʻole o ka hana, hiki i kāu hoa ke lele i loko a ʻike pono i ka mea i manaʻo ʻia. I ka wā e hiki mai ana, ʻike pū ʻoe hiki iā ʻoe ke uku i ka ʻoluʻolu.
4. Loaʻa hou kā mākou manawa
Hoʻopiʻi pinepine nā kāne ʻaʻole like i ka hana like e pili ana i ka manawa a lākou e hoʻokaʻawale ai ma muli o ka hana.
Ke hoʻokaʻawale ʻoe i kahi hana a hana no ka ʻoihana like, loaʻa iā ʻoe ka ʻoi o nā ao ʻelua. ʻO kahi hana āu e aloha ai a me kahi mea hiki iā ʻoe ke kaʻanalike aku.
Maikaʻi loa ia mau pō lōʻihi i ke keʻena inā hiki i kāu pakanā ke hui pū me ʻoe.
Lawe ʻo ia i ke kuʻi o ka wā ʻoi ka manawa a hāʻawi iā ia i kahi pilikanaka, a i kekahi manawa, aloha aloha.
5. E lilo i hoʻokūkū
Inā ʻo ʻoe a me kāu pākana he mau kanaka i alakaʻi ʻia i ka pahuhopu, hiki i ka hana ʻana i ka hana like ke lilo i hoʻokūkū olakino koʻikoʻi ʻole.
Hoʻomaka ʻoe e hoʻokūkū i kekahi i kekahi a ʻaʻole hiki ke pale ʻia e piʻi aʻe kekahi o ʻoe i ka alapiʻi ma mua o kekahi.
Ke hana ʻoe no ka hui like, hiki iā ʻoe ke lili kekahi i kekahi. E noʻonoʻo wale e pili ana i kēlā hoʻolauna a ʻolua e kī pū ana. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi, hiki iā ia ke alakaʻi i ka huhū a me nā vibe maikaʻi ʻole.
6. Wai hoʻopilikia kālā
ʻO ke kaʻanalike ʻana i ka māina like o ka hana hiki ke lilo i mea waiwai kālā ke kūpono ka mākeke.
Ke hoʻomaka nei nā mea e hele i ka hema, akā hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike iā ʻoe iho i kahi pilikia kālā inā pilikia nui kāu ʻoihana.
ʻAʻohe mea ʻē aʻe e hoʻi hou ai.E lilo paha ʻelua a ʻelua paha i kāu hana a loaʻa paha kahi ʻoki uku a ʻaʻohe ala i waho o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i nā ala ʻokoʻa o ka hana.
Nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pono no nā kāne e hana pū ana
Inā ʻoe e kaʻana like i ka hana like me kāu pakanā, hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i loko o ka pilina me ka maka o kou mau maka.
Eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me nā ʻāpana aʻoaʻo maikaʻi e kōkua ai i nā kāne a i ʻole nā kāne i ka pilina e hana pū, a mālama i kahi kaulike olakino hana-ola.
- Champion kekahi i kekahi ma o nā kiʻekiʻe ʻoihana a me nā haʻahaʻa
- Waiwai a prioritize i kou pili
- ʻIke e pono ʻoe waiho i nā hakakā e pili ana i ka hana ma kahi hana
- Haua a ke kaulike ma waena o ka hoʻolilo ʻana i ka liʻiliʻi a i ʻole ka nui o ka manawa
- E hana pū i kahi hana, ma waho o ka hana a me nā hana o ka hale
- Mālama i ke aloha, pili a me ka pili aloha e hoʻokūpaʻa i kou pilina a lanakila pū i nā hiccup ʻoihana
- Hoʻonohonoho a mālama nā palena i loko o kāu mau ʻoihana i wehewehe ʻia
ʻO ka mea nui, pono ʻoe e ʻike inā holo pono ka hoʻonohonoho no ʻolua.
ʻOkoʻa ka poʻe āpau a makemake kekahi poʻe e hana pū me kā lākou pakanā. ʻAʻole makemake nui nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i nā māina o ka hana.
Ma kēlā a me kēia ala, hiki iā ʻoe ke kaupaona i nā pono a me nā maikaʻi ʻole o ka hana pū ʻana me kāu wahine, ʻoiai e pili ana i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no nā kāne e hana pū ana a ʻike i nā mea e holo i ka hopena.