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- He hōʻoiaʻiʻo anei ka male?
- Noho hoʻokahi - Loaʻa pū kekahi keu pono
- Nā kumu ʻaʻole e male
- 1. Ua hala ka lā male male
- 2. Hiki iā ʻoe ke noho pū - hana nā mea āpau
- 3. Pau ka male male male male
- 4. Hoʻokaumaha ka pipiʻi a pipiʻi hoʻi
- 5. E kūpaʻa me ka ʻole o ka palapala
- 6. Hiki iā ʻoe ke noho kūʻokoʻa
- 7. Hoʻokahi, ʻaʻole hoʻokahi
- ʻAʻole hōʻoia ka male ʻana wale nō i kahi ola hauʻoli mau loa nāu a me kāu hoa
Ua ʻike ka hapa nui o mākou i ka hana o nā kaʻao. E ʻike i kāu ʻuhane, e aloha ʻoe, e male, a e noho hauʻoli ma hope. ʻĀ, e kala mai i ka haki ʻana o nā huʻa nui akā ʻaʻole pēlā e hana ai i ke ola maoli.
He mea nui ka male ʻana a ʻaʻole ia he mea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻoholo maʻalahi me ka lana o ka manaʻo e holo pono nā mea āpau e like me kou makemake.
ʻO ke kaumaha, i kēia lā ʻoi aku ka nui o ka male ʻana e alakaʻi i ka hemo a ʻaʻole ia he mea hōʻoluʻolu nui e hauʻoli ai i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i nā kaula. ʻO ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i kēia mau lā he nui nā kumu e male ʻole ai a na wai e hōʻino iā lākou?
He hōʻoiaʻiʻo anei ka male?
He hōʻoiaʻiʻo ka male ʻana e hui pū ʻoe no ke ola āpau?
No ka poʻe i hilinaʻi paʻa he kapu a he mea nui ka male no kēlā me kēia pilina, maopopo maopopo ia a, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hilinaʻi maikaʻi i ka male. Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi poʻe e manaʻoʻiʻo ʻole i ka male hou a ʻoiai aia kekahi mau kumu e male ai kekahi, aia kekahi kumu kūpono like ʻole e ʻole.
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo - ka male ʻana ma ka haipule a i ʻole ma ka pepa ʻaʻole e hōʻoia i ka hana o ka hui ʻana o ʻelua mau kānaka. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki iā ia ke hāʻawi i ka wā paakiki i ka manawa e koho ai lākou e hoʻopau i ka pili.
ʻAʻole paʻa ka male ʻana i kahi hoʻohiki paʻa e pili mau ana ʻoe.
ʻO ia ka poʻe ʻelua e pili pū ana e hana pū no kā lāua pilina e hana ai, male a male ʻole paha.
Noho hoʻokahi - Loaʻa pū kekahi keu pono
ʻOiai ʻo ka hapa nui o ka poʻe e ʻōlelo i nā pōmaikaʻi like ʻole o ka male ʻana e like me ka loaʻa ʻana o nā kuleana kū kānāwai ma luna o nā waiwai āpau o kāu wahine, ke loaʻa pū kekahi nā pōmaikaʻi pū kekahi. E manaʻoʻiʻo paha ʻaʻole paha, hiki iā ia ke ʻoi aku i nā pōmaikaʻi i loaʻa i ka poʻe male.
Ma mua, he mea maikaʻi ka hui ʻana e ka male no ka mea, ʻo ʻoe, he ola ʻoi aku kou maikaʻi e pili ana i ke kūlana kālā. I kēia lā, kūʻokoʻa nā kāne a me nā wahine a hiki ke loaʻa kā lākou kālā ponoʻī no laila ke noʻonoʻo iki nei paha e pili ana i ka male.
ʻO ia ke kumu e hōʻike pinepine ʻia ai nā ʻaelike pre-nuptial.
E noʻonoʻo i kēia, ke male ʻoe, e laka ʻia ʻoe i lalo i ke kanaka hoʻokahi wale nō - no ka wā pau ʻole. He mea kupaianaha ia no kekahi akā no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole nui. No laila, inā he kanaka ʻoe e makemake e mālama i ko lākou kūʻokoʻa, ʻae, ʻaʻole no ʻoe ka male ʻana.
ʻAʻohe male i ka ʻaelike ʻaelike e hoʻopaʻa a palena paha iā ʻoe e hana i kāu makemake.
Nā kumu ʻaʻole e male
No laila, no kēlā mau kāne a me nā wahine e manaʻo ʻaʻole no lākou ka male, eia nā kumu kiʻekiʻe ʻaʻole e male.
1. Ua hala ka lā male male
Ke noho nei mākou i kahi honua kahi mea nui ʻole ka male. ʻAe wale mākou e ʻae i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kēia lā a kū i ka noho ʻana me ka lana o ka manaʻo me ka ʻole o ka male, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻohana hauʻoli a hui pū paha.
I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki iā ʻoe ke pili, noho pū a hauʻoli me ka ʻole o ka kuleana e male.
2. Hiki iā ʻoe ke noho pū - hana nā mea āpau
E nīnau paha ka poʻe he nui iā ʻoe i ka wā e male ana ʻoe a i ʻole ʻelemakule paha ʻoe a pono ʻoe e male koke. ʻO kēia wale nō ka stigma pili kaiaulu e pono ai i kēlā me kēia mea e kamaʻilio me nā makahiki male akā ʻaʻole pono mākou e hahai i kēia pono.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke noho pū, mahalo, aloha, a kākoʻo kekahi i kekahi inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i male. ʻAʻole e hoʻololi kēlā pepa i nā ʻano o ke kanaka, ʻeā?
3. Pau ka male male male male
Ehia mau kāne male āu e ʻike ai i ka hopena me ka male male? Pehea lākou i kēia manawa?
ʻO ka hapa nui o nā male a mākou i ʻike ai ma ka honua o nā mea kaulana i ka hopena o ka hemo a me ka pinepine ma mua o ka ʻole, ʻaʻole ia he kūkākūkā maluhia a kau ʻia ka hopena i nā keiki.
4. Hoʻokaumaha ka pipiʻi a pipiʻi hoʻi
Inā kamaʻāina ʻoe i ka male male, e ʻike ʻoe i ke koʻikoʻi a me ke kumu kūʻai. ʻO nā uku a ka loio, nā hoʻoponopono, nā pilikia kālā, nā hoʻāʻo, a me nā mea he nui hou aku e hoʻopau iā ʻoe i ke kālā, ka naʻau, a me ke kino hoʻi.
Inā ʻoe i ʻike mua i ka male male, ʻike ʻoe i ka ninini kālā ʻana. Makemake maoli ʻoe e hele i loko o kēia? Makemake ʻoe i kāu poʻe keiki e ʻike pehea e hiki ai i kahi male male ʻole ke hōʻino i ko lākou hauʻoli? No ke aha e hoʻolilo ai i mau kālā he mau tausani e hoʻopau wale i ka male a haki ka puʻuwai o kāu mau keiki?
5. E kūpaʻa me ka ʻole o ka palapala
ʻO wai e ʻōlelo ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke noho i ke aloha a kūpaʻa inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e male? Hana ke ʻano o ka male ʻana i kou mau manaʻo i hohonu a paʻa i kāu kūpaʻa?
ʻO kou manaʻo ponoʻī ia, me ka hana ikaika a me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana, ulu kou a aloha i kāu hoa a hānai, ʻaʻohe pili o ka male me ia.
6. Hiki iā ʻoe ke noho kūʻokoʻa
ʻO ka noho ʻana ma waho o nā palena o ka male hiki ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ke kūʻokoʻa hou aʻe ʻaʻole wale me kāu mau hoaaloha akā me ka pehea e hoʻoholo ai no ʻoe iho.
Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi manaʻo e pili ana i kāu lawelawe ʻana i kāu kālā, kou mau hoaaloha a me kou ʻohana a ʻoia hoʻi ke ʻano o kou ola ʻana i kāu nohona pili kanaka.
7. Hoʻokahi, ʻaʻole hoʻokahi
E ʻōlelo kekahi inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e male, e ʻelemakule ʻoe me ka mehameha. ʻAʻole maoli kēia. ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo e hele mehameha ʻoe no ke koena o kou ola no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e nakinaki i nā kaula.
I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, nui a hewahewa nā pilina e holo pono inā ʻaʻole male nā hoa.
ʻAʻole hōʻoia ka male ʻana wale nō i kahi ola hauʻoli mau loa nāu a me kāu hoa
Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kāu mau kumu ponoʻī ʻaʻole e male a makemake wale ʻoe e mālama i kou kūʻokoʻa ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻohe ou manaʻo maoli no kāu hoa a ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻolālā e noho i ka pilina.
Hoʻopaʻa paʻa ʻia kekahi poʻe e ʻike i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai a me ka mea a lākou e makemake ʻole ai i ke ola. ʻO ka male ʻana no hoʻokahi ʻaʻole e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ʻoe i kahi hauʻoli mau, ʻo ʻoe a me kāu pakanā e hana i ka pilina e hana ai ʻaʻole mau loa ia akā no ke ola holoʻokoʻa.