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- Ke hoʻokele nei i nā pilikia i ka male
- Hōʻike i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia
- E kamaʻilio kūkākūkā e pili ana i ke kālā, ka moekolohe, a me ka ʻohana
- Hiki ke kōkua i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka wā ma mua
Nīnau nā kāne he nui inā pono paha lākou e hana i kahi papahana hoʻomaʻamaʻa ma mua o ka male ʻana. ʻAne ʻane ka pane. ʻAʻole wale kahi helu holomua kiʻekiʻe aʻe no ka male inā ʻoe e komo i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka male ʻana, akā ʻike ka hapanui o nā kāne he kōkua pū kekahi me ke koʻikoʻi o ka male. E aʻo pinepine ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka male ma mua i ka hoʻoponopono maikaʻi ʻana i nā mea kūlike ʻole, pehea e kamaʻilio ai i nā ala e hana ai no kāu pilikino a e ʻike pono i kāu mau kumu no ka male ʻana. ʻO kēia nā kumu nui a pau e kau inoa, akā ʻaʻole kekahi o kēia nā mea nui e hoʻoholo ai. ʻO ke kumu kumu e hana ai i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka male ma mua o ka ʻike ʻole i ka mea āu e ʻike ʻole ai.
Ke hoʻokele nei i nā pilikia i ka male
He pilina maikaʻi paha kāu, inā ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻolālā e male. Eia nō naʻe, ʻokoʻa loa ka male ʻana mai ka pili a me ka noho ʻana. ʻAʻole mākou e aʻo ʻia pehea e male ai, a pehea e hoʻohui maikaʻi ai i ko mākou ola me haʻi. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe kekahi o ka poʻe pōmaikaʻi maoli i laila, ʻaʻole paha i loaʻa iā ʻoe nā hiʻohiʻona he nui loa o ka male e aʻo ai. Pili ka male i ka ulu mau a me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana iā ʻoe iho. He aha ka hana i nā ʻano pilina ʻē aʻe a i ʻole nā wahi ʻē aʻe o ke ola, ʻaʻole ia e ʻokiʻoki iā ia i ka male. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻae wale e hōʻole a hoʻāʻo paha e hōʻalo i nā hakakā. Manaʻo wau ua lohe ʻoe i ka hoʻopili ʻana he ʻāpana nui ia o ka male. Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi mau mea e hiki ʻole ai ke kuikahi. No laila, he mea nui ke aʻo ʻana pehea e hoʻokele ai i kēia mau mea āpau.
Paipai ʻia - Papa Mālama Mua
Hōʻike i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia
ʻO kekahi hiʻohiʻona nui e hōʻike i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia. He mau manaʻo ʻokoʻa loa kā mākou no kā mākou pakanā a me ko mākou ola ma hope o ka male ʻana. E ʻike paha ʻoe i kēlā mau mea i manaʻo ʻia, a i ʻole ʻaʻole ia he mea āu e noʻonoʻo noʻonoʻo ai. Ma nā ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, pono ʻoe e ʻike ua ʻike ʻoe a hōʻike i kēlā mau mea i manaʻo ʻia e hana ana ʻoe a me kāu hoa i nā pahuhopu like. ʻO nā mea i ʻike ʻole ʻole ʻia ke kumu nui o ka huhū i nā pilina. Inā manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka mea āu e makemake ai a pono ai mai kāu ipo a i ʻole kāu male ʻana, a laila hoʻohoka pinepine ʻia ʻoe. E huikau a hoʻohoka paha kēlā mea hōʻeha no kāu hoa pili inā ʻaʻole lākou e ʻike i ka waiho ʻana o lākou iā ʻoe i lalo. No laila, ua hoʻohoka ʻoe, pau kāu hoa i ka huikau, a laila hoʻomaka ka pōʻaiapuni o ka inaina e kūkulu. ʻAʻole kēia kahi ala maikaʻi e hoʻomaka ai ka male. Laki, hiki ke hōʻalo ʻia e ke aʻo ʻana e ʻike i kāu mau mea i manaʻo ai a pehea e kamaʻilio maikaʻi ai iā lākou.
E kamaʻilio kūkākūkā e pili ana i ke kālā, ka moekolohe, a me ka ʻohana
ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ka manaʻo o kāu hoa e pili ana i kekahi kumuhana. Nui a hewahewa nā wahi i hōʻalo ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i ke kamaʻilio ʻana. I kekahi manawa pale aku mākou i nā mea no ka makaʻu i ka mea a ka mea ʻē aʻe e hōʻike ai, akā ʻo ka hapanui o nā manawa mākou e hōʻalo ai i kēia mau wahi koʻikoʻi no ka mea ʻaʻole maopopo iā mākou pehea e hoʻomaka ai i ke kamaʻilio a haʻi paha i ko mākou manaʻo. ʻO ke kālā, ka moekolohe, a me ka ʻohana nā poʻomanaʻo e hōʻalo pinepine ʻia. Kahaha ka poʻe i ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i kēia mau kumuhana no nā kumu he nui. Ua aʻo ʻia ʻoe ʻaʻole polite e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke kālā, a i ʻole hoʻohilahila paha e pili ana i ka moekolohe i kou wā i hānai ʻia ai. ʻO nā kumu āpau, pono ʻoe e aʻo pehea e loaʻa ai kahi kamaʻilio ākea a me ka pololei me kāu hoa ma nā kumuhana āpau. E piʻi mai nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa i ka mālama ʻana i ke kālā. I kekahi manawa o kāu male, e ʻike ʻoe i nā pilikia a me nā loli i kāu ola wahine. E makemake ʻoe e noho ma ka ʻaoʻao like me nā keiki a i ʻole ʻaʻole, a he aha ka ʻano makua āu e hoʻohana ai. Inā ʻoe e ʻike pehea e kamaʻilio maikaʻi ai ma kēia mau kumuhana āpau, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomanawanui i nā mea āpau e kū mai ana.
Hiki ke kōkua i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma mua o ka wā ma mua
Hoʻoholo e lawe i ka anuu e aʻo e pili ana i ka mea āu e ʻike ʻole ai. Hoʻonohonoho ʻia nā papahana aʻo aʻoaʻo maikaʻi ma mua o ka kōkua ʻana iā ʻoe e aʻo hou e pili ana i kāu pakanā, a me kou launa ʻana, akā e aʻo hou e pili ana iā ʻoe iho. I mea e noho ai i kahi male olakino, pono ʻoe e ʻike ʻo wai ʻoe, he aha kāu e makemake ai, a pehea e loaʻa ai. Mai hele i loko o ka male me ka ʻole o nā pono hana a me ka ʻike i loaʻa; he mea nui loa ia.