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- 1. ʻAʻole ke ola o ke koleke ke ola maoli
- 2. He mau ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa paha ke ʻano
- 3. ʻO kekahi poʻe i aloha i kou pilina
- 4. Kūlike ʻole paha nā ʻoihana
- 5. He wahi nui ka Honua
- ʻO ka'ōlelo aʻo maikaʻi loa
ʻO ka mea maʻamau e mare i kēia lā he 40% ka makaʻu o ka haʻalele ʻana. Heʻuʻuku kēia ma mua o ka 50% i mahalo ʻia, akā aia kekahi mau kumu no kēia.
- Heʻuʻuku ka poʻe e male male ʻana i kēia manawa ma mua o nā makahiki i hala
- ʻO ka helu 50% he awelika - ʻo ka poʻe i ka lua o ka male he 60% + ka nui o ka male male; a me ke kolu o ka male, hoʻonui nā pākēneka i nā mea hou aʻe.
I nā mea āpau, paʻakikī e hoʻoholo i ka pākēneka maoli o ka nui o ka hemo, no ka mea, waiho ʻia nā loli he nui i kēlā me kēia ʻimi noiʻi. Akā ʻo ke kuhi kēia: he mea maoli ka hemo ʻana, a pinepine pinepine ia. No ke aha e hemo ai ka poʻe ke kumuhana o nā noiʻi ʻē aʻe.
ʻIke kekahi mau kāne i kekahi i kekahi ma ke koleke, a hoʻopau kēlā mau pilina i ka male, pinepine ma ka puka ʻana, inā ʻaʻole ma mua. Lilo lākou i ʻāpana o aloha koleke aloha moʻolelo - hālāwai ke keikikāne me ke kaikamahine, ke keikikāne a me ke kaʻana like o ke kaikamahine kulanui ke ola pu, ke keikikāne me ke kaikamahine i nā moʻolelo aloha nani e hoʻopaʻa, a laila male ke keikikāne a me ke kaikamahine.
Akā ʻo kēia mau male ʻana kekahi ʻāpana o ka helu helu, a hiki ke hoʻopau i ka hemo male.
ʻOiai ʻaʻole paha he kumuhana kupanaha kēia, aia kekahi mau kumu e male ʻole ai i ke aloha o ke koleke. Eia nā mea ʻelima e pono e noʻonoʻo.
1. ʻAʻole ke ola o ke koleke ke ola maoli
Aia kekahi mea idyllic a aloha hoʻi e pili ana i ke ola koleke i ka nui. Aia nā kamaliʻi iā lākou iho a loaʻa iā lākou ke kūʻokoʻa i loaʻa ʻole ma mua. Nui a pīhoihoi loa nā mea āpau. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pilina hou i kēia kaiapuni kahi mamao loa ia mai nā pilina i ka honua maoli o ka makua. Aia kahi idealism i hoʻonāukiuki ʻole ʻia e ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Hui ʻoe; hoʻopaʻa haʻawina ʻoe; ʻai pū ʻoe; hiamoe pū ʻoe; a ʻike ʻoe i nā ala e hoʻopau ai i kēlā mau hana kākau, e hana pū ana. Ke kū maoli ka maoli o ka makua, hiki i nā kāne ke ʻike ʻaʻole lākou e hana pū me ia ma ke ʻano like.
2. He mau ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa paha ke ʻano
ʻO ke kula nui, ma nā ʻano he nui, he mea kaulike nui. Akoakoa nā haumāna mai nā ʻano ʻokoʻa like ʻole me nā "ukana." I ka wā o ke koleke, ʻaʻole hōʻike nui ʻia kēia “ukana”. Akā i ka manawa ma waho o ke kula, ʻaʻole paha nā kāne e ʻokoʻa nā kāʻei, nā waiwai, a me nā mea nui.
3. ʻO kekahi poʻe i aloha i kou pilina
He kāne maikaʻi ʻoe. Kuhi ka poʻe āpau e male ʻoe ma hope. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke mālama, akā, hey, inā manaʻo nā mea ʻē aʻe he maikaʻi, pēlā nō ʻoe. Ke hoʻoneʻe ʻia mai kēlā "moʻomeheu," a i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka male, ʻokoʻa loa nā mea.
4. Kūlike ʻole paha nā ʻoihana
ʻOiai ʻoe e hoʻomākaukau ana no kahi ʻoihana, ke hana nei ʻoe i nā papa hana ma ka pā kula, malia paha he ʻoihana. Pēlā nō kou aloha. Ma hea e lawe ai kēlā mau ʻoihana iā ʻoe? Ke nānā nei paha kāu hoa i mua i ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i kahi "pūnana" me ʻolua i ka hale i kēlā me kēia ahiahi, e pāʻina ahiahi ana a me ka noho pū ʻana o ke ahiahi. Kuhi paha kāu ʻoihana e huakaʻi nui ʻoe. A ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e haʻalele i kēlā ʻoihana no kahi hana e mālama iā ʻoe i ka home.
5. He wahi nui ka Honua
Ke puka a puka a hoʻomaka i ke ola ma ke ʻano he mākua maoli, e ʻike ʻoe he nui nā kānaka ʻē aʻe a me nā hui o kēlā me kēia kanaka āu e kūlike ai a makemake e kaʻana i kahi ola kaiaulu. E lilo koke paha kou hoihoi i kēlā aloha mai ke koleke no ka makemake i nā lālā hou a ʻokoʻa o ka wahine ʻē aʻe āu e ʻike ai he pīhoihoi a pili hoʻi i kou ola.
ʻO ka'ōlelo aʻo maikaʻi loa
Inā ʻoe ma ke koleke a me ke aloha, he mea nani ia. Akā, he mea aʻoaʻo paha no ʻolua e puka kula a komo i ka honua maoli no kekahi manawa, e ʻike inā kūlia kou aloha i nā pilikia o ka wā makua. Nui nā makahiki e male. I kekahi manawa pale i ka hemo ka pale ʻana i ka male ma mua.