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- 1. ʻAʻole ia he makakoho i ke ola
- 2. ʻAʻole lākou makemake e wikiwiki no ka pono wale nō ia
- 3. ʻAʻole kūleʻa nā male āpau
- 4. ʻO ke aloha wale nō ka mea nui
- 5. Alakaʻi ka male i ka hilinaʻi
- 6. He paʻakikī e hilinaʻi i kekahi no ke koena o ke ola
- 7. ʻAʻole kumu maikaʻi loa e male ai
I ko mākou ulu ʻana, hiki mai kahi manawa i ko mākou ola ke male nā poʻe a puni mākou, nā hoa aloha a i ʻole nā kaikaina. ʻIke, ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho ma lalo o ke kukui inā ʻoe i ka laina a i ʻole hoʻokū i ke kumuhana o ka male no kekahi manawa. Noho mākou i kahi kaiāulu kahi ma hope o kekahi mau makahiki e manaʻo ʻia e male a hoʻomaka i kahi ʻohana. ʻO kēlā me kēia mea i ʻoi aʻe i kēlā mau makahiki e hāpai i nā kuʻemaka he nui.
ʻO ka poʻe a puni ʻoe e kihi iā ʻoe e ʻike i nā kumu no ka mākaukau ʻole e male. No lākou, inā ʻelemakule ʻoe ma mua o kekahi mau makahiki paʻakikī ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hoa kūpono. Kupanaha, ʻoiai i loko o nā ʻohana hou o kēia manawa, ka male ʻana ma hope o kekahi mau makahiki i manaʻo ʻia he mea kūpono e hana ai. Nui nā kumu no ke kumu makemake ʻole ka poʻe e male. E nānā i kekahi o lākou.
1. ʻAʻole ia he makakoho i ke ola
Wahi a kahi kanaka naʻauao i ka manawa hoʻokahi, 'He huakaʻi a kēlā me kēia. E hele lākou e kālai i ko lākou ala ponoʻī. ' ʻOiaʻiʻo! He mau moemoeā a me nā moemoeā kā kēlā me kēia kāne o kēia honua. Loaʻa iā lākou kekahi mau mea i manaʻo ʻia mai lākou iho. ʻO kekahi ma laila e makemake e hana i loko o ko lākou ola, ʻoiai he moemoeā kekahi e huakaʻi i ka honua.
Minamina, hoʻomaka mākou āpau i ka wehewehe ʻana pehea e ola ai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ko lākou ola a me ka hihia ʻole me ka ʻike ʻole i ko lākou ola.
Paha,ʻAʻole ʻo ka male ka mea nui a lākou i kēia manawa.
Loaʻa iā lākou ka papa inoa o kā lākou hana ponoʻī kahi i moemoeā ai lākou e hoʻokō i nā mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka male ʻana i kekahi mau makahiki. Ma kahi o ke koi ʻana i kekahi e male, he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo ʻoe i ka mea a lākou e manaʻo ai i ko lākou ola a kākoʻo iā lākou.
2. ʻAʻole lākou makemake e wikiwiki no ka pono wale nō ia
Aia kahi manawa e pono ai ka male. Kauoha ʻia e male a loaʻa nā keiki e kekahi mau makahiki. Eia naʻe, ua loli nā mea. Nui nā mea e hana nei i kēia manawa ʻaʻole makemake kekahi mau millennial e wikiwiki i ka male a hoʻomaka i kahi ʻohana, koke.
Makemake paha lākou e kūʻokoʻa, ʻimi i kā lākou ʻoihana, a ulu ʻoihana ʻoihana ma mua o ka lawe ʻana i ka kuleana o haʻi.
ʻO ka male ʻana i hoʻonohonoho ʻia a i ʻole ke kūlike ʻana ka mea o ka wā i hala. I kēia lā, pili hou i ke aloha. ʻO ka male ka hana nui i ke ola o kekahi. No laila, ʻaʻole makemake ka mea e male ʻole i kēia manawa e wikiwiki i kēia.
3. ʻAʻole kūleʻa nā male āpau
ʻO kekahi o nā kumu e male ʻole ai ka nui o nā male kūleʻa ʻole i ka nohona. E like me ka hōʻike, ʻo ka nui o ka male male ma USA ʻo 53% ma 2018. ʻO Belgian ka poʻo i ka papa inoa me 71%. ʻAʻole hoʻonohonoho kēia mau male male wikiwiki ʻana i ka laʻana kūpono i nā maka o ka hanauna ʻōpio. Iā lākou, ʻaʻole hua ka male a alakaʻi i ka ʻeha naʻau.
Ke nānā nei i kēia mau mea, maopopo leʻa iā lākou e noʻonoʻo i ka male ʻana i ka mea āu e aloha ai ʻaʻole ia e hōʻoia e alakaʻi i kahi ola kūleʻa a hauʻoli.
ʻO ia ke kumu a lākou e hōʻole ai e male.
4. ʻO ke aloha wale nō ka mea nui
Nui ka millennial e hoʻopaʻapaʻa he mea nui ke aloha a ʻaʻole ʻo ka launa kīwila. Hiki iā mākou ke ʻōlelo e pili ana i ka palekana a me ka ʻae ʻana i ka nohona, akā me ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā manawa, ke loli pū nei hoʻi nā mea.
I kēia lā, makemake nā mea aloha e noho pū i kahi noho ma mua o ka hoʻolaha ʻana i ko lākou pilina i ka honua ma ka male ʻana o kekahi i kekahi.
Ke hoʻololi ʻia nei ke kānāwai e kūlike me ka noʻonoʻo o ka lehulehu i kēia manawa. Kākoʻo nā kānāwai i nā pilina ola a ke pale nei i nā mea ʻelua. Ke noho maluhia nei nā kānaka a like me ka male ma ka pilina ola. Eia kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona o ka loli ʻana o nā manawa.
5. Alakaʻi ka male i ka hilinaʻi
ʻO ka male ʻana e pili ana i ka hoʻokaʻawale like ʻana i nā kuleana. E hina ia inā lawe kekahi i ke kuleana nui loa. I kēia lā, makemake ka poʻe he nui i ke ola me ke kuleana ʻole. ʻAʻole lākou makemake i ka hilinaʻi o kēlā me kēia ʻano.
No ka poʻe me ia ʻano noʻonoʻo, ʻaʻohe mea o ka male akā he hīnaʻi ia e lawe i ko lākou kūʻokoʻa a hoʻopaʻa iā lākou i ka hale me nā kuleana he nui i makemake ʻole ʻia.
ʻO lākou ka poʻe e makemake e ola i kā lākou ʻōlelo ponoʻī. No laila, pale lākou i ka male ma kēlā me kēia kumu kūʻai.
6. He paʻakikī e hilinaʻi i kekahi no ke koena o ke ola
Aia kekahi poʻe i hoʻopunipuni ʻia i ka nui a paʻakikī lākou e hilinaʻi i kekahi. He mau hoaaloha kā lākou e launa pū akā inā pili i ka hoʻolilo ʻana i ko lākou ola āpau me kekahi, hoʻi hope lākou.
ʻO ka hilinaʻi kekahi o nā pou o ke ola male kūleʻa. Ke hilinaʻi ʻole, ʻaʻohe nīnau no ke aloha.
7. ʻAʻole kumu maikaʻi loa e male ai
No ke aha e male ai ka poʻe? Makemake lākou no ia. Makemake lākou ia. Makemake maoli lākou e mare. I ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni 'ʻAʻole wale ʻo ia iā ʻoe', ʻO Bet (Jennifer Aniston) kahi pilina ola me kāna ipo Neil (Ben Affleck). ʻOiai makemake ʻo ia i ka male, ʻaʻole ʻo Neil i pili iā ia. I ka hopena ke manaʻo maoli ʻo ia e like me, noi ʻo ia iā Bet. Ua kū ka hanana like ma 'ʻO ka moekolohe a me ke kūlanakauhale ' kahi a John ‘Mr. ʻAʻole makemake ʻo Big 'i kahi male mare nui a loaʻa i nā wāwae anuanu ma mua pono o ka male.
ʻAʻole pono e male kekahi ma muli wale nō o ka manawa kūpono a i ʻole nā poʻe e kokoke ana iā ʻoe e ʻōlelo ana a makemake paha kou ʻohana.
Akā, pono e male kekahi inā he kumu a manaʻoʻiʻo paha lākou i kēia pili aloha.
ʻO ka papa inoa ma luna aʻe kekahi mau kumu maʻamau ʻaʻole e male i kēlā millennial a me nā poʻe he nui e noho nei. ʻAʻole pono e hoʻokau ʻia ka male ma luna o kekahi. He wā ola ia a me ka manaʻo e pono like.