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- Nā hopena noʻonoʻo a me ka naʻau
- Nā hopena o ka infidelity i ka hoa kumakaia
- Ke kūkulu hou ʻana i ka male ma hope o ka moekolohe ʻole
Hiki i ka infidelity ke hōʻino i nā pilina ikaika loa, ʻo ia kekahi o nā mea keakea nui e hoʻopili ai i ka male a hōʻeha i ka naʻau a me ka noʻonoʻo. Hiki ke wehewehe ʻia ka infidelity ma ke ʻano he hoʻokahi a ʻelua paha mau kāne i male ʻia a i ʻole i kahi pili lōʻihi lōʻihi e lilo i manaʻo a i pili kino paha me kekahi ma waho o ka pilina, kahi e alakaʻi ai i ka moe kolohe a i ʻole ke aloha ʻole. Nānā ʻole i ke ʻano, hoʻolalelale ka manaʻo i ka ʻeha, hoʻomaloka, kaumaha, nalo, huhū, kumakaia, hewa, kaumaha, a i kekahi manawa huhū, a paʻakikī loa kēia mau manaʻo e noho pū, mālama, a lanakila.
Ke hiki ʻole ka infidelity, pau ka hilinaʻi ʻole i ka pilina. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, paʻakikī e nānā i ke alo o ka maka, paʻakikī i ka lumi like me ia, a paʻakikī loa e kamaʻilio me ka noʻonoʻo ʻole i ka mea i hana ʻia, a me ka ʻōlelo ʻole iā ʻoe iho, "pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo aloha ʻoe iaʻu a hana i kēia iaʻu. "
Nā hopena noʻonoʻo a me ka naʻau
He paʻakikī loa ka infidelity, huikau ia, hopena maikaʻi ʻole i ke olakino a me ka noʻonoʻo o ke kanaka, a hiki ke alakaʻi i ke kaumaha, a me ka hopohopo. ʻO nā kāne i ʻike i ka moekolohe ʻole i kā lāua male male ʻana e hele ana i waena o nā manawa he nui a me nā lalo i ka wā e hoʻāʻo ana e hoʻihoʻi a neʻe paha i mua o ia, hōʻike ka hoa ʻeha i ka huhū, nāukiuki, nā ʻeha, nā ʻeha, a me nā huikau, a he manawa paʻakikī e pili ana i nā manaʻo kumakaia.
Nā hopena o ka infidelity i ka hoa kumakaia
Hoʻokumu ka infidelity i kahi hopena weliweli loa i ka male, a haʻalele i kahi kanaka e nīnau ana i kā lākou waiwai, waiwai, olakino, a hoʻopili i ko lākou manaʻo pilikino. Ua haʻalele a haʻalele ʻia ka hoa ʻeha, a hoʻomaka ʻo ia e nīnau i nā mea āpau e pili ana i ka pilina, kā lāua hoa, a haʻohaʻo inā he wahaheʻe ka pilina holoʻokoʻa. I ka wā he infidelity, kaumaha a luuluu ka hoa ʻehaʻeha, uē nui, manaʻo he hewa kā lākou, a hoʻopiʻi kekahi manawa iā lākou iho no ka hana pono ʻole a kā lākou hoa.
Ke kūkulu hou ʻana i ka male ma hope o ka moekolohe ʻole
ʻOiai he luku nui ka mālama ʻole a hiki ke hōʻeha i nā mea nui, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo no ka pau ʻana o ka male. Inā ua ʻike ʻoe i ka moekolohe ʻole i kāu pili, hiki ke kūkulu hou, ʻōlelo hou, a hui hou me kekahi. Eia naʻe, pono ʻoe e hoʻoholo inā makemake ʻoe e noho i ka pilina a inā he waiwai ia e mālama ai. Inā hoʻoholo ʻoe a me kāu hoa makemake ʻoe e kūkulu hou i kou pilina, hōʻoia hou i ka pilina a me kekahi i kekahi, a hui hou kekahi me kekahi, pono paha ʻoe e hana i kekahi mau koho paʻakikī, e hana i kekahi mau hoʻoholo a ʻae ʻole paha ʻoe. a pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo a ʻae i kēia mau mea;
- Pono e hoʻopau koke i ka hoʻopunipuni inā makemake ʻoe e hana ʻoiaʻiʻo i ka male.
- ʻO nā kamaʻilio āpau ma o ke kelepona, leka uila ʻana, nā leka uila, nā pāhana kaiaulu a me ka pili kino ʻana me ke kanaka e pono ke kū koke.
- Pono e hoʻokūpaʻa i nā kuleana a me nā palena i ka pilina.
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- Lōʻihi ka manawa i ka mālama ʻana a hana pū me nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole, nā manaʻo, a me nā naʻau, a me nā kiʻi hou e ʻike ai kāu hoa.
- ʻAʻole kūleʻa ke kala ʻana a ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e poina i kāu ipo i ka mea i hana ʻia.
Kahi mea hou aʻe,
- Inā ʻo ʻoe ka mea i hoʻopunipuni, pono ʻoe e kūkākūkā i ka mea i hana ʻoiaʻiʻo me ka ʻole, a pane i nā nīnau a kāu hoa e pili ana i ka moekolohe.
- E ʻimi i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo mai ka mea lapaʻau nāna i loea i ka hana pū ʻana me nā kāne i hoʻopilikia ʻia e ka infidelity.
ʻAʻole maʻalahi e hoʻihoʻi mai ka moe kolohe, a ʻaʻole hiki ʻole. E loaʻa ka hoʻōla a me ka ulu ʻana i kāu male inā koho ʻoe e noho a ola hou mai ka moe kolohe ʻole, a inā hoʻoholo ʻoe ʻo ka noho pū ka mea āu e makemake ai, e hoʻomanaʻo he mea nui ia ʻolua e hoʻōla a kūkulu hou i ka hilinaʻi.