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- Hoʻopau nā hana Emotional i ka pilina e like me a pili kino
- Hele hewa kekahi poʻe ke ʻike lākou i kahi ʻole i kā lākou pili e noho nei
- Kūpono paha ʻoe a hilinaʻi paha ʻaʻole paha
- Pale iā lākou i kēlā me kēia ala
- He aha inā ʻoe ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe o ka pā
- Eia kekahi, e loiloi iā ʻoe iho i kāu hana i kōkua ai e hoʻokuke iā lākou i waho o ka puka
- Lawe hope loa - ke hele nei i kahi manawa
"Akā ʻaʻole au i moe kolohe me ia, ʻae ua kamaʻilio mākou, ʻae ua leka uila mākou ma hope o kou kua, akā ʻaʻole au i honi iā ia.
A ʻo kēia mau hihia naʻau, kahi i pili ʻole ai ke kino, e like me ka hōʻino ʻana i ka pilina a i ʻole ka male ʻana ma ke ʻano he kino.
Hoʻopau nā hana Emotional i ka pilina e like me a pili kino
Ma lalo, hāʻawi ʻo Dāvida i kāna ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka hōʻino o nā hana naʻau i nā pilina, a pehea e hoʻōla ai iā lākou i kēia manawa. "He mea maʻa mau ia no ka mea i hopu ʻia i kahi hana naʻau, e hele i ka pale. Me nā ʻōlelo e like me kēia: "Akā ʻaʻole wau i honi iā ia, ʻaʻole wau i moe me ia, no ke aha e huhū loa ʻoe?" A e huhū paha ka hoa o kēia wahine. E huhū ʻo ia. No ke aha mai? No ka mea ua haki ʻo ia i ka hilinaʻi. Ua kumakaia iā ia. A ʻo ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o kahi hihia naʻau a me kahi pili kino i kaʻu puke he ʻole.
No laila he aha ka manaʻo naʻau? Ke hele ʻoe ma hope o ke kua o kāu hoapili, a launa me kekahi lālā o ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, a ʻike ʻoe inā ʻike ʻo ia ke loaʻa nei kēia leka iā ʻoe e pilikia ana ʻoe - he hana naʻau kēlā.
Inā ʻoe e kamaʻilio me kekahi o ka wahine ʻē aʻe, akā inā kū kāu hoa ma laila ʻaʻole ʻoe e kaʻana like i ka ʻike like - he ʻano naʻau ia. Inā ʻoe e kamaʻilio me kekahi mai ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe ma hope o ka hope o kāu hoa a kaʻana like i ka ʻike e pili ana i ka hopena o kāu pilina, ʻaʻole hana kāu hoa i kāu mea e makemake ai. ʻO kēlā paha kēia mea he ʻano naʻau.
Hele hewa kekahi poʻe ke ʻike lākou i kahi ʻole i kā lākou pili e noho nei
A no ke aha e hele aku ai ka poʻe i nā lālā o ka wahine ʻē aʻe, ʻoiai ʻoe i ka pilina, e kaʻana like i ko lākou ʻeha, ko lākou mau moemoeā, ko lākou mau makemake a me nā mea hou aʻe. Maopopo loa ka pane. ʻIke lākou i kahi ʻole ma ka home. Manaʻo lākou ua nalowale kekahi mea. A ma kahi o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻōla i ka pilina, ma kahi o ka hele ʻana i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hana pono i nā mea āpau i mea e hoʻihoʻi ai i kou pilina i ke ʻano o ka wā ma mua, hele hewa mākou. Ua hele hewa i ka naʻau.
Kūpono paha ʻoe a hilinaʻi paha ʻaʻole paha
Ma nā makahiki i hala aku nei ua hana wau me nā kāne he nui kahi i hana ʻia ai kēia. A ʻo ka mea i hoʻopunipuni i ka naʻau, ma o ka pilina o ka naʻau, 99% o ka manawa pale i ke ʻano. Makemake lākou e hōʻoia i ke kumu a lākou i hiki ai i kekahi, ma kahi o kā lākou hoa. Akā ʻaʻohe mea hoʻāpono, ʻaʻole i loko o kaʻu puke. Kūpono paha ʻoe a hilinaʻi paha ʻaʻole paha.
Pale iā lākou i kēlā me kēia ala
No laila inā ʻo ʻoe kekahi i kēia manawa e heluhelu nei i kēia mea i loko o kahi ʻano naʻau e hana ana kēia: kāohi. I kēia manawa. E hoʻouna i kahi leka a i ʻole kahi leka uila i ke kanaka āu e kaʻana like nei i kahi ʻikepili he nui loa a haʻi iā lākou ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio hou me lākou. ʻAʻole ma ke ʻano he hoa aloha. ʻAʻole ma ke ʻano he ipo aloha. No ka mea ke hoʻopunipuni maoli nei ʻoe i kāu hoa ma o kēia ʻano leka.
A inā ʻaʻole makemake lākou e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe? Pale iā lākou. Pale iā lākou i kēlā me kēia ala. A laila, komo i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo. Na ʻoe ma ka mua, a hoʻāʻo e ʻike i nā kumu āu i ʻauwana ai, e kumakaia ana i kāu hoa. He aha nā pono e hoʻokō ʻole ʻia? He aha nā mea hoʻonāukiuki i loaʻa iā ʻoe? He aha nā huhū āu e hoʻomaʻemaʻe ai?
He aha inā ʻoe ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe o ka pā
Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kēia iho, paipai wau iā ʻoe e hana koke. Inā pono ʻoe e hoʻopili i kāu pakanā me he mea lā i hopu ʻia ʻoe i kahi hihia naʻau, e hoʻokomo pū i kāu pakanā i ka honua o ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pū kekahi. A he aha inā ʻo ʻoe ka hoa i haʻalele ʻia, pehea inā ʻo ʻoe ka hoa i ʻike i kāu ipo e hoʻopunipuni nei i ka naʻau?
Pono ʻoe e lilo i ʻelua i ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ʻānō. ʻAʻole wau he mea aloha nui i nā ʻōlelo aʻo a nā kāne ʻē aʻe ma mua o hoʻokahi kau, kahi aʻu e hana pū ai me nā kāne, akā makemake wau e hana pū me kēlā me kēia kanaka i hiki iaʻu ke kōkua iā lākou e kiʻi i ke kumu o ke kumu a lākou i hoʻopunipuni ai i ka naʻau, a i ʻole Aia ʻoe ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka pā, pehea e kala ai i kahi hoa i hoʻopunipuni i ka naʻau.
Eia kekahi, e loiloi iā ʻoe iho i kāu hana i kōkua ai e hoʻokuke iā lākou i waho o ka puka
Inā ʻo kāu hoa ka mea nāna i hoʻopunipuni, aia iā ʻoe nā kuleana āpau o ka honua e haʻi iā lākou e hoʻouna i kahi leka uila a i ʻole leka e hoʻopau ana i ka pilina aloha me kēia kanaka, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike e ʻike ua hoʻouna ʻia, a pāpā lākou iā lākou nā pāpili kaiaulu āpau, ka leka a me ka leka uila. ʻAe, he kuleana kou e hana ia ma ke ʻano he hoa i hoʻopunipuni ʻia i ka naʻau. Akā, iā ʻoe nō ke kuleana e ʻike i kāu mea e hana nei i ka pilina i kōkua paha e hoʻokuke iā lākou i waho o ka puka.
ʻIke wau ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e heluhelu i kēlā, akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Kākaʻikahi wale nō, i loko o nā makahiki 28 i hala iho nei i kaʻu hana ma ke ʻano he kākāʻōlelo a me ka mea aʻo i ke ola, ua ʻike wau i kahi hihia naʻau i kū ʻia, a aia ke kuleana piha i ka mea nāna i hoʻopunipuni. Loaʻa ka hana maʻamau i ka pilina, nā kumu, a i ʻole kōkua i kumu, kekahi o nā hoa e nānā ma waho o ka pilina no ka hōʻoluʻolu. Hana nā pae i luna. 100% o ka manawa. Akā pono ʻolua e hoʻohaʻahaʻa, e nānā i nā kumu i hiki ai kēia, i mea e hoʻōla a neʻe ai.
Lawe hope loa - ke hele nei i kahi manawa
ʻAʻole ia he mea maʻalahi e like me ka hoʻōki ʻana i ke kamaʻilio e hoʻōla i kou pilina. Pono ʻoe e hōʻoki i ke kamaʻilio a hoʻōla i ka pilina ma ka manawa like i hiki ke hala i mau mahina i mea e loaʻa ai ka hilinaʻi o kāu hoa. E hoʻomaka kākou i kēia manawa.