Anter
- I kekahi kakahiaka, ua ala au a ua hoʻokaʻawale wau.
- Kūkulu ʻia ke kanaka 'kūkulu' ia i pālua.
- Palapala
- He "I" ʻoe ma mua o kou "we,"
Hiki ke wikiwiki a huhū ke ola! Hoʻopiha ʻia me nā mea kupaianaha loa, nā manawa wrenching puʻuwai e hiki ai ke lawe i kou hanu, a me ka hustle o kēlā lā i kēia lā. Ma waenakonu o nā mea āpau, he mau manawa e hoʻohui ai i kahi a mākou e ʻike ai i ke kumu o kēlā me kēia, leʻaleʻa, a me kēlā mau mea a mākou e kapa nei he kā mākou iho. Ua male a male ʻole paha, ke ulu a makua, hoʻololi hou ke ola a me nā ʻike i kā mākou kanaka, a me kā mākou pilina me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
I kekahi kakahiaka, ua ala au a ua hoʻokaʻawale wau.
Hoʻokaʻawale mai iaʻu iho, koʻu kaiapuni, a me kaʻu kāne. Ua ʻike wau iaʻu iho e pili ana i kaʻu mau keiki, ka mea a lākou e hana nei i kēlā me kēia manawa, pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke hoʻokō i kā lākou mau pono, a me nā pono o ko lākou kaiāulu kula a me nā hana extracurricular, eia nō naʻe i ka hopena o ka lā ke kau wau i koʻu poʻo, manaʻo wau. .. ʻo wai kēia kanaka ma koʻu ʻaoʻao, a ʻo wai wau? Ma ke ʻano he therapist, e hana pū ana me nā kāne, pono wau e ʻike pehea e hana ai i kēia, a ʻike pehea e hana maikaʻi ai, ʻeā? Hewa.
He kanaka kākou a pau, a hemo ka pilina ma waena o nā pilina, ka male, nā keiki e ulu ana, hana, a e hana ana i manawa no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻo "I," a me "We," ua hana maikaʻi maoli mākou, nalowale . No wai kēia hewa? ʻAʻohe mea! ʻO ia ka waenakonu o ke ola, ka ʻāpana paʻakikī, kahi e hana nui ai kēlā me kēia o mākou e mālama i ko mākou poʻo i hiki ke kiʻekiʻe, a e hoʻomau i ka hoʻouku ʻana i ka mauna. ʻO ke kuahiwi o nā kuleana, nā manaʻo, a me nā hana he nui, a me kēlā mau lā o "e hele kāua i ka ʻaina awakea," e lilo i mau lā e hiamoe ana, e hiamoe ana ma ka moena ke pau nā keiki i kahi moe. ʻO kēia ka manawa i ke ola kahi wahine a kāne paha, makemake nui mākou e pili hou i kā mākou iho a me nā makemake, a me nā kumu a mākou i koho ai kekahi i kekahi, akā i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo kēia paha ka hope ma ka papa inoa o "to dos."
Kūkulu ʻia ke kanaka 'kūkulu' ia i pālua.
Kūpono mākou e hoʻohui me kahi mea ʻē aʻe, manaʻo mākou e loaʻa kahi hoa, e ʻike i ke ola me nā mea āpau e lawe mai ai, a hiki iā mākou ke hoʻohui i kahi ala i manaʻo ʻole ʻia a kākoʻo ʻia. ʻAʻole kēia he ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā naʻe a me ka "manaʻo e," hānai ʻia mākou a hānai ʻole ʻia paha i ka wā e ulu ana, huli i kahi hana luhi, kahi papa inoa i nā manawa i hoʻohui ʻia i kēlā me kēia lā. ʻO ka mea hoʻomanaʻo, he kanaka wau ma mua !!
Noho au ma waho o kaʻu mau mea kūʻai aku, a nīnau, "he aha ka mea i hui pū ai iā ʻoe," "He aha nā kipa huli." A "ma hea ʻoe e makemake ai ..." ʻO kēia kahi nīnau i hoʻoili ʻia no ka mea e noʻonoʻo, hoʻomanaʻo, a ke noho nei, a ʻo kēlā mau ʻāpana āpau e lawe i ka manawa, ka ikaika, a me ka naʻau. A pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke pane i kēlā inā ʻaʻohe oʻu manawa no kekahi o kēlā mau mea.
He mea kupaianaha mākou āpau ma ke ʻano he kanaka, a me ka hana pū ʻana me kekahi mea ʻē aʻe "manaʻo," e hoʻokūhāhā ai iā mākou, ʻo mākou pū kekahi. ʻO ka ʻāpana poina iā mākou, eia nō naʻe ka ʻāpana nui loa, ka ʻāpana inā ʻike maoli mākou ia mea, manaʻo iā mākou iho me ka hua ʻole. ʻO wai wau? a ma hea wau e hoʻomaka ai?
Palapala
ʻO ke kamaʻilio kahi mea a ka hapanui o mākou e manaʻo nei he maikaʻi kā mākou, a ke iho mai ia, ke hana nei mākou i ka liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi, ke kamaʻilio maʻamau a i ʻole ke kamaʻilio ʻana e nānā ai. Pehea kou lā? Pehea nā keiki? He aha no ka ʻaina awakea? Hoʻomaka mākou e nalo i nā manawa kūpono, a me ke kamaʻilio hohonu ʻana me ka maikaʻi e hiki ai iā mākou ke nānā wale me mākou iho, akā me kā mākou hoa, a me ke ʻano e hoʻoulu ai i ka naʻau, ke noho nei i kēia manawa, a me ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ka pilina me ka ʻole. ʻO mākou wale nō akā nā mea a mākou e makemake nui ai e pili. I ka manawa hea kou manawa hope e noho ʻaoʻao ai mai kāu hoa aku, a kamaʻilio maoli e pili ana i kāu mea e makemake ai, ʻo wai ʻoe, ʻo wai mākou? a pehea ʻoe i hoʻololi ʻole ai ma ke ʻano he mau kanaka ma kahi o ka manawa, akā ma ke ʻano he kāne me ka ʻole e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā keiki, ka hana, a me ka hoʻolālā papaʻaina. He paʻakikī, a ʻoluʻolu ʻole paha, akā he mea nui ia no ka pili a me ka ulu ʻana.
He "I" ʻoe ma mua o kou "we,"
Ke lawe nei i ka manawa e hoʻomaopopo ai i kēia inā he nui aku ka manawa ma mua o kou makemake, ʻaʻole ia he pōmaikaʻi wale nō, he mea nui ia. I ka manawa hea ka manawa hope loa, ua nānā ʻoe i loko o ke aniani iā ʻoe iho, a nīnau aku "ʻo wai wau i kēia manawa, kēia kanaka kupaianaha ua nalowale wau no kekahi manawa, akā ke hana nei wau e kamaʻilio pono i nā pono, nā makemake, a makemake e, ma ke ʻano hāpai iaʻu i mua, e lilo i mea maikaʻi loa iaʻu i hiki ke lilo i ka launa pū a me ka ʻohana. E noho maoli, a kamaʻilio kūpono i nā mea e hoʻohui, hoʻohui hou, a hana i ka ulu mau ʻana, pono i kekahi e noho manawa e noho i ka ʻoluʻolu ʻole o ka loli, a hāmama i ka lawe ʻana i kahi pilikia ʻo wau, ʻokoʻa mākou.
Ke lawe nei i ka manawa e kū a hoʻomaopopo pehea ka kamaʻilio ʻana, ka noʻonoʻo ʻana, a ke noho nei i kēia manawa, hiki i aneʻi a i kēia manawa ke hoʻololi i kēlā mau nīnau i pane no kahi mea hou, kahi "mākou."