Anter
- 1. E hoʻolilo i nā pō lā i hana maʻamau i kēlā me kēia pule
- 2. Kahaha kekahi i kekahi me nā makana momona
- 3. E kamaʻilio lōʻihi a lōʻihi hoʻi
- 4. E hele i kahi huakaʻi huakaʻi
- 5. Eʻoi aku ka flirty a me ka pili
ʻAʻole ia he mea hūnā i ke aloha he ʻāpana hoʻohui ia o ka male e noho olakino, ʻoiai inā ua male ʻoe no 5 mau makahiki, malia paha 10 a i ʻole 50 mau makahiki piha. Ke aloha nei i kāu hoa a haʻi iā lākou ke aloha nei ʻoe iā lākou like ka mea e hauʻoli ai a hōʻike iā lākou he waiwai lākou. Mālama nā māhoe hauʻoli a māʻona hoʻi i kahi pilina olakino a ikaika hoʻi e lōʻihi ai ka lōʻihi.
Ua ʻōlelo ʻia ma lalo iho nei kekahi mau manaʻo aloha no nā kāne e pīpī i kou pilina a mālama e like me ka mea hou
1. E hoʻolilo i nā pō lā i hana maʻamau i kēlā me kēia pule
Kōkua nui ia i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i kāu male ma ke ʻano he aloha. He ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ka wā pili aloha i hoʻolilo ʻia e ka pālua ka mea aloha a piha piha i ka leʻaleʻa o kā lāua pili. Makemake nā kāne he nui i ka manawa e male ai i kēlā me kēia hoa e hana nui ana me ka hana, nā hana, nā mākua, a pēlā aku.
ʻO kahi ala maikaʻi e hoʻihoʻi i kēlā manawa ke hele nei i nā pō lā. E hele i waho no kahi ʻaina awakea a hele paha e ʻike i kahi hōʻike mele a i ʻole kuke paha ma ka home, ʻo ia paha kekahi mea inā ʻo ʻolua wale nō. E kamaʻilio e pili ana i kekahi i kekahi a i ʻole kamaʻilio ʻino a e hoʻohuli i kou nānā i kekahi i kekahi e like me ʻoe ma mua o ka male ʻana e hoʻā hou i ka lapalapa i loko o kāu male.
2. Kahaha kekahi i kekahi me nā makana momona
Manaʻo ʻia nā makana he hōʻailona maikaʻi loa no ka hōʻike ʻana i ka mahalo i kāu hoa. Hauʻoli mākou āpau i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā makana, a iā lākou e hele mai ai mai kahi mea a mākou e aloha ai, ʻaʻohe mea kānalua e aloha a makemake ʻia mākou. He mea nui e koho i kahi makana i hiki ʻole ke hoʻomanaʻo wale ʻia akā hiki nō hoʻi ke hoʻohana. Eia kekahi, ke hāʻawi nei i nā makana kūpono i kāu mea nui ʻē aʻe i kou ʻike e pili ana iā lākou, e mālama iā lākou a maopopo iā lākou.
3. E kamaʻilio lōʻihi a lōʻihi hoʻi
ʻO ke kamaʻilio ke kī i kahi male hauʻoli a kūleʻa hoʻi. Ma kahi o nā kamaʻilio maʻamau, ʻilikai e like me 'pehea kou lā?' aiʻole 'he aha kāu e makemake ai no kaʻaina awakea?' e hele i kahi mea hohonu. E nīnau iā lākou e pili ana i nā mea kikoʻī e hōʻike iā lākou e hoihoi maoli ʻoe.
E hoʻāʻo e wehe hou i kekahi i kekahi a loaʻa i nā kamaʻilio maoli a maikaʻi. ʻO kēia kekahi o nā manaʻo aloha maikaʻi loa no nā kāne, e kōkua ia e hoʻonui i ka hilinaʻi a me ka ʻike ma waena o ʻolua ʻoiai ke hoʻohui nei i ka waiwai nui a me ke aloha i kāu pilina.
4. E hele i kahi huakaʻi huakaʻi
ʻO ka hana ʻana i kahi mea hou a me ka mea hoʻomohala hoʻohui i ka leʻaleʻa a me ke aloha i kāu mau pilina. ʻO ka hoʻolimalima ʻana i kahi manawa maikaʻi a me ka leʻaleʻa ʻana i ka ʻoihana a kekahi me kahi ala maikaʻi loa i ke aloha a mālama i ka huna ahi i kāu pilina. E hoʻāʻo i nā leʻaleʻa, nā ʻike hou e like me ka skiing a i ʻole ke hoʻāʻo ʻana i kahi hale ʻaina hou ma ke kaona, hoʻolālā iā ia a hele pū e hana pū.
E hele no nā pīkino, nā hele wāwae lōʻihi, nā kalaiwa, ka hele wāwae a i ʻole ka hoʻomoana, e hoʻāʻo i kahi mea hou i kēlā me kēia manawa a i ʻole nā hanana kūikawā e like me nā lā hānau a me ka piha makahiki, e hoʻolālā i mua o ka manawa no nā huakaʻi huakaʻi i nā wahi exotic. ʻO kēia kahi ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻokokoke aku ai i kekahi i kekahi a hana i nā hoʻomanaʻo poina ʻole me ʻolua wale nō. Kōkua ia e haʻalele i nā keiki me kahi kahu hānai a haʻalele i nā kamaʻilio home āpau ma hope o kou pakele a hoʻomau i ka nānā iā ʻoe a me kāu wahine.
5. Eʻoi aku ka flirty a me ka pili
ʻO ka flirting kahi mea kūlohelohe i nā pilina he nui. Hoʻomaopopo ka Flirting i kāu hoa i ka nui o kou hoʻomana iā lākou a hauʻoli i ka noho pū ʻana me lākou, e hōʻoia ana iā lākou. E lele i waena o nā kamaʻilio a i ʻole kāu hana i ke ao holoʻokoʻa e like me ka hemo ʻana i kahi leka aloha saucy i kā lākou ʻeke. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana ia mea ma ke kiʻi ʻana i ka touchy a me ka maikaʻi. Ma ka hoʻopā ʻana iā ia, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo moekolohe. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomālamalama i ke aloha ma waena o ʻolua ma ka paʻa ʻana o ka lima o kekahi i ka wā i waho o ka lehulehu a i ʻole kahe ʻana i kou lima a puni iā ia a i ʻole hāʻawi iā lākou i kahi ʻono momona ma ka papalina i kēlā me kēia manawa.
ʻAʻole hiki i kēia ala ke hōʻike i kou aloha akā e koi i kāu hoa e like me kāu. ʻO kēlā ʻano kolohe e hoʻokokoke aku ai ʻolua a hoʻonui i ka pilina ma waena o ʻolua.
Panina hopena
Kūkulu kahi pilina ma ka hoʻolaʻa a me ka hoʻokō. ʻO ka noʻonoʻo a me ke aloha i kekahi i kekahi he mea nui ia e ola a ola hou ai kāu male. ʻO nā manaʻo aloha i haʻi ʻia aʻe nei no nā kāne e hoʻopaʻa i ke aloha ma waena o nā kāne a lawe i kā lāua male i ka kūleʻa.