Anter
- 1. Ka mālama ʻana i ke aloha i ola
- 2. Uoki i ka hana kala ʻana
- 3. ʻAʻole pono e hele i waho āpau!
- 4. Ke hana nei me kahi aloha liʻiliʻi
- 5. Ka mālama ʻana i kāu pakanā hauʻoli
ʻO ka manawa meli i loko o ka pilina aloha ka manawa e noho nui ai ka wahine a nānā i kekahi i kekahi. Huli lākou i kekahi i kekahi, ʻauʻau i kā lākou hoa me ke aloha, mahalo, hana manawa, a aha ʻole.
ʻO ia nā lā i hoʻohiki ʻia ai nā ʻōlelo hoʻohiki, kaʻana like ʻia nā moʻolelo hou a me nā palapala e hiki mai ana.
Hemolele nā mea āpau a hauʻoli hoʻi i ka honua.
Eia nō naʻe, i ka ulu ʻana o ka pilina, a hoʻomaka maoli ka poʻe e hōʻike iā lākou iho i mua o kekahi i kekahi, ʻike lākou e pili ana i ka ikaika a me nā nāwaliwali o kā lākou hoa, nā mea e hauʻoli ai lākou a me nā mea e hoʻokikina ai lākou.
I ka pōkole, ua maopopo ka pilikino o kā lāua hoa e like me ka lā, a hele ka mea pohihihi i ka puka.
1. Ka mālama ʻana i ke aloha i ola
Aia ia i loko o ke ʻano kanaka - nā mea āpau e lilo i ʻano liʻiliʻi loa i wānana ʻia; hoʻomaka mākou e lilo i ka hoihoi. ʻAʻole ia he mea maikaʻi ʻole i kēia mau manawa ma ka manamana wāwae; akā naʻe, i ka pili ʻana i nā pilina, he mea weliweli loa kēia.
E like me ko mākou mau makahiki, a lilo i mea wānana ʻia kā mākou hoa, hoʻomaka mākou e lawe i nā mea no ka ʻole. ʻAʻole mākou i ka manawa koke me kā mākou mau hoa, hoʻomaka mākou e lohi i ka wā e hoʻolauleʻa ai i ke aloha a mākou e kaʻana like ai i ke ola a mākou e kaʻana like ai, a hoʻopiʻi mākou āpau i ka manawa.
2. Uoki i ka hana kala ʻana
ʻLelo mākou ma muli o ka hoʻonui ʻia o ke kuleana, ʻaʻohe o mākou manawa hou. Inā he keiki a kā lāua, he kumu nui aʻe kēlā.
E haʻi ʻia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ia wale nō ka mea e kala ai.
Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa a me ka woo ʻana i kāu hoa pili i kou wā ʻōpio, kahi haumāna a i ʻole i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kāu ʻoihana, a i ʻole aia ʻoe i ka piko o kāu ʻoihana, a laila hiki iā ʻoe ke hana pēlā ma hope.
ʻO nā mea nui ka mea nui.
Mai kali no kēlā manawa kūikawā e hana i kahi mea nui. Inā lākou e aloha maoli, mahalo, a hoʻomana iā ʻoe, ʻo kēlā me kēia manawa e lilo pū kekahi a nui. Ma kahi o ka hele ʻana i waho nui, e helu i nā manawa liʻiliʻi.
Hiki i kahi rose hoʻokahi ke hana i nā mea kupanaha kahi e pau ʻole ai kahi lumi i piha i nā ʻaukā.
ʻO kahi memo aloha aloha pōkole nona i hāʻule ma kāna kelepona e ʻakaʻaka ai ia ma kahi o kahi ʻaina awakea aloha ma kahi hale ʻaina hōkū ʻelima i kekahi manawa.
3. ʻAʻole pono e hele i waho āpau!
ʻO ka hapanui o ka poʻe e hoʻāʻo a hele i waho āpau e noʻonoʻo nei he ʻano nui ke aloha, ʻoiai ke aloha a puni ʻoe. ʻO ʻoe, ʻo ka hoa pili, ʻike ʻike i kāu mea aloha.
Ke nānā nei ʻo Romance.
O kahi laʻana -
Inā he hālāwai nui kāna e kū mai ana e hoʻonāukiuki iā ia i waho, e waiho iā ia i kekahi mau ʻōlelo hoʻoikaika a aloha hoʻi nona i ka lā. A i ʻole, inā ma waho o ke kaona ʻoihana kekahi o kāu ʻoihana, a laila ʻelua mau lono aloha kakahiaka maikaʻi a me nā leka pō aloha maikaʻi e hoʻohālikelike ai ka mamao.
ʻAʻohe ʻepekema rocket e pili ana.
ʻAʻole paʻakikī ka mea huna ma hope o nā pilina lōʻihi. pono ka hana, ahonui, ʻoluʻolu, a me ka nānā.
ʻOiai ʻo ka haunaele a me nā piʻi a me lalo kahi ʻāpana a me nā ʻāpana o kekahi pilina, ʻo ka mea nui ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a hoʻokau.
Hoʻomaopopo i ka mea ʻoi aku ka nui, kou ego a i ʻole ke kanaka āu e aloha ai?
4. Ke hana nei me kahi aloha liʻiliʻi
Kūpilikiʻi ka poʻe i nā manawa āpau.
Inā manaʻo ʻoe ua hele ʻoe i waho o ka laina i kou ola aloha, ʻaʻole lōʻihi e hana. ʻO ka mea a ka poʻe loea e ʻōlelo maʻamau ai e pili ana i kekahi pilina, ma ka platonic a me ke aloha, ʻo ia wale nō e pili ana i ka nānā ʻana a me ke kamaʻilio ʻana.
ʻAʻole pono i kāu kamaʻilio pū ʻana i nā kamaʻilio koʻikoʻi o ka naʻau. ʻOiai ke koʻikoʻi o ka pilina aloha, i kekahi manawa pono wale kahi e hoʻomoe i lalo a hoʻouna i nā leka aloha aloha.
ʻ saylelo pinepine ka poʻe loea o Romance i nā memo aloha liʻiliʻi a i ʻole nā leka aloha i ke ala e hele ai. I kēia manawa, hiki i kekahi ke lilo i mea hana inā makemake lākou.
ʻAʻole manaʻo nā memo aloha e pili ana ʻoe i nā leka uila aloha. Eia kekahi mau mea i hiki iā ʻoe ke hana -
- E waiho i ka ʻōlelo aloha aloha no ka wahine ma ke aniani o ka lua me kona lipstick, i ka mahu a me ka hanu, a i ʻole me ke kopa.
- Kahi pua rose hoʻokahi me kahi hua aloha.
- E kiʻi i kāu kāne i ke kiʻi a i ʻole i ka lima lima i kālai ʻia me kahi leka aloha e like me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana iā ʻoe.
- E hoʻomau i kou nānā i kāu wahine ke hele i waho i ka lehulehu a hāwanawana iā ia i nā mea momona.
- Mai hele i ka ʻaina awakea a i ʻole ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ma ke ʻano he papa kuhikuhi; e noi iā ia i kahi lā kūpono.
ʻOiai ʻo ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina lōʻihi a male paha ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hele hou i nā lā. ʻOiai, he kanaka like like ia.
5. Ka mālama ʻana i kāu pakanā hauʻoli
ʻO kahi o ka nānā a me ke aloha e pua ai kāu hoa.
ʻO kahi mau leka aloha kakahiaka aloha nona ma aneʻi a me kahi leka liʻiliʻi aloha no kāu wahine ma laila ʻaʻole e lawe i kēlā manawa ma waho o kāu kalena, akā e hōʻike ia i kāu wahine he mea nui ia nāu a me kou ola.
Ma nā mea āpau, hiki i nā leka aloha a i ʻole ka berena a me ka bata i kēlā me kēia pili pili aloha.