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- 1. Hana maikaʻi kelepona
- 2. Ua loli kāna mau leʻaleʻa a kamaʻilio paha
- 3. Kūleʻa a hoʻopiʻi paha ʻo ia
- 4. Ua pau kāna haʻi ʻana iā ʻoe i nā mea
- 5. Ua loli kona helehelena
- 6. Ua loli kou ola moekolohe
ʻO ka manaʻo o kāu wahine i ke ao iā ʻoe, no laila ke hoʻomaka ʻo ia e hōʻike i ke ʻano o waho o ke ʻano hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka e hopohopo aia kekahi mea ʻaʻole ia e haʻi iā ʻoe. He paʻakikī ke noʻonoʻo ʻo ke kanaka āu e aloha nui ai iā lākou ke kolohe ʻole paha, akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ka wahine ʻo ka wahine ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻole e like me ka maʻamau o ka male infidelity. Ua ʻike ʻia hoʻokahi noiʻi ua piʻi aʻe ka pākēneka o nā wahine hoʻopunipuni i 19%, kahi piʻi 9% mai nā makahiki 1990.
Me ka hoʻonui ʻia o ka pāpaho a me ka Pūnaewele, no nā mea ʻelua o ka puʻuwai a me ke kino, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻopunipuni ma mua o nā kāne a me nā wahine. Inā kānalua ʻoe i ka pāʻani hewa i kāu male ʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke pololei.
Eia nā hōʻailona haʻi ʻōlelo 6 e hoʻopunipuni paha kāu wahine
1. Hana maikaʻi kelepona
Ua hoʻomākaukau nā papaho pāʻoihana kaiaulu a me nā kolamu pūnaewele i ka hoʻomākaukau hoʻopunipuni, ke kamaʻilio wikiō ʻōlohelohe, a me ke komo ʻana i nā hana naʻau e like me ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻohuli ʻana i ke kelepona. ʻOiai ka hoihoi o ka wahine i kāna hāmeʻa akamai ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo hoʻopunipuni ʻo ia. Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka loli o ka lawena e pili ana i kāna kelepona paʻalima, papapihi a i ʻole nā hāmeʻa akamai ʻē aʻe he hōʻailona ikaika ia o ka wahine moekolohe ʻole.
I ka wā o ka pili mua a male paha, ua pane kāu wahine i kāu mau leka i loko o kekona. Ua hauʻoli ʻo ia i ke kāhea ʻana i kāna kāhea o ka ʻaina awakea e ʻōlelo wale ai i ke aloha, aloha i nā emoticons a me nā gif iā ʻoe a nānā iki ʻole i kāna kelepona ke hui pū ʻoe i ke kanaka. ʻO ʻoe wale nō kāna e kia ai.
I kēia manawa, ʻoi aku ka hoihoi o kāu wahine i kāna kelepona ma mua o ka wā ma mua. ʻO ia paha:
ʻO ka nānā ʻole ʻana i kāu mau leka uila - A i ʻole ka pane ʻole ʻana iā lākou me ka exuberance a i ʻole ke ohohia e like me ma mua. ʻO kēia no kekahi o nā kumu. Nui paha kāna hana, ua lilo kona hoihoi i kāu pili, a i ʻole ke hāʻawi nei iā ia i ka nānā i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe.
Ka hāmau ʻana i kāna kelepona - Inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hana i kēia, e lawe ma ke ʻano he hōʻailona maikaʻi ʻole. Hiki i kēia ke hōʻailona i kekahi mea hou e kāhea ana a me ke leka uila aʻaʻole makemakeʻo ia e liloʻoe i mea kānalua no ia.
Lawe i kāna kelepona i kahi lumi ʻokoʻa e pane - Inā he kelepona a i ʻole kekelē, ʻaʻole makemake kāu kāne e hōʻike inā lawe kelepona a i ʻole nā ʻatikala mai kahi kūpono ʻole. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe kokoke i kāna kelepona.
Loaʻa iā ia kāna kelepona me ia i nā manawa āpau - Inā makemake ʻole ʻo ia e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kāna huaʻōlelo, pale i kāna kelepona ʻana, a i ʻole ka huki ʻana i kāna kelepona i ka uila ke hele koke ia, aia paha kahi mea ma laila ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e ʻike ʻoe.
Pēlā nō, inā hele pū ke kelepona o kāu wahine me ia ma ke ʻano nui o ka huakaʻi, e like me ke kiʻi ʻana i ke aniani o ka wai a i ʻole e hele i ka lua. Inā hoʻomaʻamaʻa kāu kāne i hoʻokahi a ʻoi paha o kēia mau ʻano maʻamau a ʻaʻohe o lākou mea maʻamau nona, e lawe ia ma ke ʻano he hae ʻulaʻula uila o ka hana maikaʻi ʻole.
2. Ua loli kāna mau leʻaleʻa a kamaʻilio paha
I nā manawa he nui, hoʻohuli ʻia kā mākou ʻōlelo a me nā ʻano e ka poʻe a mākou e kau pū nei. Inā hoʻohana pinepine kāu wahine i nā huaʻōlelo a i ʻole slang a ʻaʻole maopopo iā ʻoe no hea ia e hele mai ana, malia paha ke hana nei ʻo ia i kahi pilina pili e ʻānai nei i kāna ʻōlelo a me kāna hana.
Pēlā nō, inā ua kiʻi ʻo ia i nā leʻaleʻa hou me he mea lā mai ka polū, e like me nā haʻuki, jogging, a hana paha i kēia mea he hōʻailona paha ia e pili kokoke i kahi mea hou.
3. Kūleʻa a hoʻopiʻi paha ʻo ia
He hopena kanaka maoli ia e lilo i mea pale a i ʻole wehewehe pono ʻana i kekahi iā ʻoe iho inā ʻoe e hana nei i kahi mea pono ʻole. No laila, inā he mau nīnau e like me "He aha kāu i hana ai i kēia lā?" a i ʻole “Aia ʻoe i hea?” ke ʻākoakoa nei i nā pane ʻenemi, hoʻopiʻi, a pale pale paha, he hōʻailona paha kāu wahine e hana nei i kahi mea āu e ʻae ʻole ai.
Pēlā nō, hoʻopiʻi pinepine nā mea hoʻopunipuni i kā lākou mau wahine hewa ʻole o ka ʻaihue. He hana multi-functional kēia o ka pale no ka mea kūpaʻa ʻole. ʻO ka mea mua, ʻike paha ʻo ia i ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻopunipuni a noʻonoʻo inā ʻoe e hana like iā ia. ʻO ka lua, waiho ia iā ʻoe i kahi kūlana pale ma kahi o ka hoʻouka ʻana a hoʻolālā i kekahi hewa i manaʻo ʻia ma kahi ʻē. ʻO ke kolu, ma ka hana ʻana i kēia ua hana ʻo ia i kahi ʻano hoʻopunipuni o ka palekana e pili ana i ka nui o kona waiwai i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
4. Ua pau kāna haʻi ʻana iā ʻoe i nā mea
Māhele nā kāne olakino i ko lākou ola, manaʻo, a me nā manaʻo me kekahi. ʻO kāu wahine paha kekahi, inā ʻaʻole kāu hoaaloha ʻoi loa a ʻo ʻoe ia. Inā ua oki ʻo ia i ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā mea me ʻoe a i ʻole ʻano ʻano mamao loa a hoihoi ʻole paha i ka hoʻonui ʻana i kāna mau manaʻo, hewa maoli kekahi.
Eia kekahi, inā e hana hou nei ʻo ia i nā moʻolelo a i ʻole ua poina paha iā ia kāna mea i haʻi a haʻi ʻole ai iā ʻoe, he hōʻailona paha ia e pilikia ana ʻo ia i ka mālama ʻana i kāna mau mea aloha aloha.
5. Ua loli kona helehelena
He mea kupanaha ke hoʻomaka kāu hoa e mālama iā lākou iho, aloha i ko lākou kino, a ʻo ia ka mana ʻoi loa o kā lākou iho hiki iā lākou. Akā, inā ua hoʻomaka kāu wahine e hana i kahi mea ʻole a nānā nui ʻia i kona helehelena, he hōʻailona paha ia e hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻohiwahiwa i kahi mea hou.
6. Ua loli kou ola moekolohe
ʻO kekahi o nā hōʻailona Telltale o ka wahine infidelity kahi hoʻololi nui i kāu ola wahine. ʻO kekahi o nā hōʻailona maopopo loa āna e hoʻopunipuni nei inā ʻo ia ka libido olakino hoʻokahi i hoʻoliʻiliʻi a ʻaʻohe ona hoihoi hou i ka moekolohe a hana paha i kekahi ʻano pilina (e like me ka honi ʻana a me ka paʻa lima ʻana) me ʻoe.
Hoʻohui ka pilina i nā kāne ma o ka nāwaliwali like, aloha a me ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana o oxytocin. Inā ke alualu nei kāu wahine i kahi pilina aloha me kekahi, ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e kaʻana like i kēia mau manawa me ʻoe.
E like me ka nalo ʻana o nā huaʻōlelo, nā huaʻōlelo, a me nā leʻaleʻa, pēlā nō nā hana moekolohe a me nā hana. Inā ke ola nei kou ola wahine a maikaʻi akā akā he makemake nui kāu wahine no ka hoʻokolohua a i ʻole he ʻano hana hou āna e ʻike ai ma mua, he hōʻailona paha ia e aʻo ana i kēia mau mea mai kahi ma waho o ka male.
Huaʻōlelo hope loa
Hoʻohuoi paha ʻoe i ka hoʻopunipuni ʻole o kāu wahine? Inā ua hoʻololi ʻo ia i kona helehelena, maʻalahi ka pale ʻana, pani ʻia, a i ʻole ʻokoʻa kāna libido, hiki paha iā ia ke hoʻopunipuni. Inā manaʻo ʻoe he hoʻopunipuni kāu hoa, e kamaʻilio pū me ia e pili ana i ia. A hoʻomanaʻo, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e noho me kahi mea hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke hilinaʻi.