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- 8 aloha ʻole kāu wahine iā ʻoe
- 1. Manaʻo ʻoe he hāmau paha nā mea āpau i kēia mau lā?
- 2. Loaʻa iā ia kāna mau hoʻolālā ponoʻī
- 3. ʻAʻole ia i ʻōlelo hou i kēlā huaʻōlelo nui ʻekolu leka
- 4. E kū mai nā lula pilikino
- 5. Ka nānā nui ʻana i kona helehelena
- 6. Manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole makemake ʻoe
- 7. Ua hoʻonāukiuki paha ʻo ia iā ʻoe
- 8. ʻIke paha ʻoe i kāna hana nui e pili ana i ka noiʻi a me nā pepa?
- Ke makemake ʻo ia e hemo
- Aia kekahi mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e pili ana iā ia?
Lohi, hoʻomaka ʻoe i ka manaʻo e hele mamao aku kāu wahine, anuanu hoʻi.
Huikau ʻoe i ka mea i hana ʻia a inā paha e ʻike ʻo ia i kekahi kāne ʻē a i ʻole e hāʻule wale ana paha i ke aloha. ʻAʻole wale nā wahine i loaʻa kēia "instinc" hewa kekahi mea.
Hiki i nā kāne ke ʻike a manaʻo like pū kekahi.
He aha inā ʻoe e hoʻomaka i ka manaʻo he hewa kekahi? He aha inā inā makemake nā wahine e haʻalele iā ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki ke nānā hou ʻia? He aha kāu hana ma ia mea?
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8 aloha ʻole kāu wahine iā ʻoe
He paʻakikī nā manaʻo e hūnā, ʻo ia ke kumu ke hoʻomaka ʻoe e ʻike i nā ʻōuli āna e makemake ai e wāwahi i kāu male, ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke hōʻeha.
Hoʻomaka ʻoe e nīnau i kāu hoʻohiki, kāu ʻōlelo hoʻohiki, kou aloha, a iā ʻoe iho nō.
Ma mua o ko mākou noʻonoʻo ʻana pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kūʻē i kāu wahine a pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi i kona manaʻo a me kona puʻuwai, he mea kūpono ke ʻike mākou i nā ʻōuli ʻokoʻa a kāu wahine e makemake ai e haʻalele iā ʻoe..
Hiki i kekahi o nā hōʻailona ke maʻalea a hiki i kekahi ke maopopo loa. Pili paha kekahi i kāu hihia a ʻaʻole paha kekahi, akā ma ka hapanui, he mau hōʻailona kēia e ʻike ʻole ʻia.
1. Manaʻo ʻoe he hāmau paha nā mea āpau i kēia mau lā?
ʻAʻohe hoʻopaʻapaʻa hou, ʻaʻohe wahine hoʻohoka hou aʻe e kakali ana iā ʻoe ke hoʻi lohi ʻoe i ka home, ʻaʻohe "drama" a me "nagging" hoʻi.
ʻAe wale ʻo ia iā ʻoe. ʻOiai paha he ʻano akua kēia i kāna hana, hiki nō ke manaʻo he makemake ʻo ia i ka hemo a ua lawa.
Lawa paha kēia hōʻailona no ke kāne e noʻonoʻo ai e hoʻopunipuni paha kāna wahine a i ʻole e noʻonoʻo ana e haʻalele iā ia. ʻO ka wā e hoʻomaka ai kou ola wahine e omo a lilo i luhi.
He moekolohe maʻamau ia, ʻaʻohe aloha, a ʻaʻohe pilina.
ʻO kahi ʻike hakahaka kahi hōʻailona iā ia iho.
2. Loaʻa iā ia kāna mau hoʻolālā ponoʻī
Ma mua o ka nīnau mau ʻana o kāu wahine ma hea ʻoe a no ke aha ʻoe e lawe ʻole ai iā ia i kāu hoʻolālā, akā i kēia manawa, he hoʻolālā ponoʻī kāna me nā hoaaloha hou, ʻohana, a me nā hoa hana pū.
E ʻike pehea i huhū ai ʻo ia inā ʻoe e nīnau iā ia e pili ana.
Ala ʻulaʻula ma aneʻi, ʻo ia kekahi o nā kumu maopopo e haʻi ana iā ʻoe ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia i kāu ʻoihana.
3. ʻAʻole ia i ʻōlelo hou i kēlā huaʻōlelo nui ʻekolu leka
ʻIke loa ia ʻo kēia kekahi o nā hōʻailona ʻaʻole aloha hou kāu wahine iā ʻoe.
Hōʻike nui ka hapa nui o nā wahine e pili ana i ko lākou aloha a e kani pinepine e pili ana iā ia. Hiki ke hoʻololi koke i kēia hana i kahi mea e weliweli loa ai i kāu pili.
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4. E kū mai nā lula pilikino
Nā hōʻailona e makemake kāu wahine e haʻalele iā ʻoe e hoʻopili pū i nā hālāwai huna, nā lula pilikino, nā kelepona paʻa ʻia, a me nā kamepiula lawe lima.
ʻOiai paha e like paha kēia me ka wahine e pili ana i ka wahine, ʻo ia kekahi o nā hōʻailona ke hoʻolālā nei kāu wahine i ka hemo. Ke hui malū nei paha ʻo ia i kahi loio a ke hoʻolālā nei ʻo ia i ka haʻalele ʻana iā ʻoe.
5. Ka nānā nui ʻana i kona helehelena
Maikaʻi mau i ka ʻike ʻana i ka nānā ʻana o kāu wahine iā ia iho a i ʻole i kēlā kiʻi ulu pua ʻole. Kūʻai ʻo ia i nā lole hou a moekolohe, mea ʻala, a kipa pinepine aku i ka spa. ʻOiai he mea pīhoihoi paha kēia inā hoʻi e hoʻihoʻi ia i kāu mea hoihoi iā ia, a laila ʻo ia ka nūhou maikaʻi.
Eia nō naʻe, he hōʻailona ia i ka manawa e makemake ai kāu wahine e hemo a ke hoʻomākaukau nei no kahi ola hou me ka ʻole o ʻoe.
6. Manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole makemake ʻoe
ʻO nā hōʻailona hōʻailona e makemake ana kāu wahine e haʻalele iā ʻoe e hoʻopili pū i kēlā manaʻo maʻamau i ka makemake ʻole ʻia.
Loaʻa iā ʻoe kēlā manaʻo, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke wehewehe i ka manawa ma mua akā maopopo iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole nīnau hou kāu wahine e pili ana i kou lā a i ʻole ke ʻano maikaʻi nei ʻoe.
ʻAʻole ʻo ia e noʻonoʻo hou i kāu mau lā nui a me nā mea āpau āna i hana ai-ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hana hou.
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7. Ua hoʻonāukiuki paha ʻo ia iā ʻoe
ʻO kekahi kumu maopopo loa ke huhū mau ʻia kāu wahine me ʻoe. ʻO nā mea āpau āu e hana ai a me nā mea āpau āu e hana ʻole ai he pilikia.
Ua huhū wale ʻo ia i ka ʻike ʻana iā ʻoe. ʻIke loa, aia kekahi mea e hana nei. E makaʻala!
8. ʻIke paha ʻoe i kāna hana nui e pili ana i ka noiʻi a me nā pepa?
Pehea e pili ana i ka heluhelu ʻana i ka pō?
Ke hoʻomaopopo nei i kekahi mea, ke hana nui a me ke kāhea ʻana. Ke hōʻike nei paha ʻo ia i nā hōʻailona makemake ʻo ia e hemo.
Ke makemake ʻo ia e hemo
ʻO nā hōʻailona a kāu ipo e makemake ai e haki he ʻano ʻokoʻa loa ia i ka wā e makemake ai kāu wahine ma waho o ka pilina.
I ka male ʻana, ʻo nā hōʻailona a kāu wahine e makemake ai e haʻalele iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole ia e hoʻopili wale i ka pilina akā ʻo kāu kālā, waiwai, a ʻo ka mea nui loa kāu mau keiki.
ʻO nā hōʻailona a kāu wahine e makemake ai i kahi hemo e hoʻomaka paha ma ke ʻano he hints a hiki i kou hiki ʻole ke hōʻole akā e ʻike ʻoi aku ka ikaika a me ka pololei. No laila, pehea inā makemake maoli ʻo ia e hemo hemo? Pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke lawe i kēia?
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Aia kekahi mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e pili ana iā ia?
He aha e hana ai ke haʻalele kāu wahine iā ʻoe?
He aha kāu e hana ai inā hoʻoholo kāu wahine e hoʻopau i kou pili? ʻO ka mea mua, ʻo ka manawa kēia e noʻonoʻo ai ʻaʻole wale i kou kū ma ke ʻano he kāne akā ma ke ʻano he kanaka. Mai laila mai, pono ʻoe e kamaʻilio me ia a hiki i ke kiko nui no ke aha ʻo ia e pono ai e hoʻopau i kāu male ʻana ke loaʻa nā keiki.
Ma kahi o ka hū ʻana, ʻo kēia ka manawa e hakakā ai no kou aloha. Inā ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻopono me ʻoe a he mau hoʻomaikaʻi kāu e noʻonoʻo ai, a laila hoʻopili.
Aia a pau ka male male, loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa kūpono e lanakila hou i kāu wahine.
ʻO ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā hōʻailona a kāu wahine e makemake ai e haʻalele iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole ia he mea e hoʻonāwaliwali ai iā ʻoe a i ʻole e hōʻike ai iā ʻoe ʻaʻole ʻoe e pono hou i kāna aloha, akā he mea wehe maka e hoʻomaka ʻoe e nānā i nā mea i hana ʻia a me nā mea hiki iā ʻoe. e hana hou e hoʻoponopono i kāu male.
I nā hanana i hoʻohālikelike ʻia ia i nā ʻokoʻa hiki ʻole ke hoʻopili ʻia, a laila maliʻa paha e koho ʻoe no kahi hemo male ʻole.