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ʻOiai ʻaʻole ʻōlelo ʻia ka hapanui, ke nīnau maʻamau nei nā ʻōpio i nā nīnau ʻelua i nā manawa āpau. "Aloha au?" a "Hiki iaʻu ke hele i koʻu ala ponoʻī?" Hoʻokomo pinepine nā mākua i ka nānā nui ʻana i ka hapa nui o kā lākou ikehu i ka pane ʻana i ka nīnau ʻelua a mālama ʻole i ka mea mua. He mea maʻamau no nā ʻōpio e hoʻāʻo a pahu i nā palena i hoʻonohonoho ʻia e ko lākou mau mākua. Ke hoʻāʻo ʻia nā palena, hiki i ka paʻakikī ke hoʻomanaʻo i kēlā ʻo wai ʻo ʻoe he makua ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o He aha hana ʻoe ma ke ʻano he makua. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, he mea nui ʻaʻole e hoʻopili i ko mākou pono iā mākou iho i ka manaʻo e pili ana i kā mākou makua. Inā mākou e hana, a laila ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hāʻawi mau i ka pane i ka nīnau mua.
ʻO ka hapanui o nā ʻōpio ʻōpio e hakakā mau me nā pilikia nui ʻekolu. ʻO ka mea mua “maikaʻi wau i ka helehelena?” Pili pololei kēia i kā lākou waiwai ponoʻī. ʻO ka lua “ua lawa ka mākaukau a i ʻole hiki iaʻu ke kūleʻa i ke ola?” Pili pololei kēia i ko lākou ʻano mākaukau. ʻO ke kolu ʻo "komo wau i loko a makemake nā poʻe aloha iaʻu?" Pili pololei kēia i kahi ʻano o ka lilo. ʻO kēia nā pono mua ʻekolu o nā ʻōpio.
Hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻoluhi mai ke kōkua ʻana i kā lākou ʻōpio pane i kēia mau nīnau ma ka nānā nui ʻana i kā lākou hana. Ua haʻi wau i nā mākua he nui i nā makahiki he 10 mau makahiki mai kēia manawa ʻaʻole mea nui i ka nui o nā ipu lepo i waiho ʻia i ka poho a i ʻole hana ʻē aʻe i hana hewa ʻia. He aha ka mea e ʻike inā e ʻike ana kāu keiki makua me ke kanalua ʻole he aloha palena ʻole ʻia ʻo ia a he pilina kou. Pono mākou e hoʻomanaʻo ʻia ʻaʻohe manawa kūpono no ka hoʻomau hoʻomau ʻana inā ʻaʻole mākou e mālama i kahi pilina.
Pono e hoʻolohe
Nui nā pono a mākou āpau a ʻaʻole i ʻoi aku ka nui o ka nui ma mua o ko mākou mau makahiki ʻōpio. ʻO ka mua ka pono e lohe ʻia. ʻAʻole like ka lohe ʻia ʻana me ka ʻae ʻana me kāu ʻōpio. Ma ke ʻano he mākua, ʻike pinepine mākou i ka pono e hoʻoponopono i kā mākou ʻōpio ke kaʻana like lākou i nā mea a mākou i manaʻo ai he naʻaupō a hewa wale paha. Inā hana pinepine ʻia kēia, hoʻopau ia i ke kamaʻilio. Nui nā ʻōpio (ʻo ke keikikāne hoʻi) lilo i kamaʻilio ʻole. He paʻakikī ʻaʻole e hoʻāʻo a pry ʻike mai iā lākou. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi e hoʻomanaʻo mau i kāu ʻōpio aia loaʻa ʻoe.
Pono no ka hōʻoia
ʻO ka ʻelua ka hōʻoia ʻana. Ke hōʻoia nei kēia i kā lākou hana. Ke kali pinepine mākou e hōʻoia a hiki i ko lākou haku ʻana i kekahi mea, hana i ka papa a mākou i manaʻo ai he pono kāna e hana ai i hana ai. Paipai au i nā mākua e hāʻawi i ka hōʻoia no ka hoʻokokoke ʻana. Inā kūleʻa kahi ʻōpio i kahi mahele o ka hana, a laila hāʻawi i ka hōʻoia no kēlā ma mua o ke kali ʻana no ka kūleʻa holoʻokoʻa. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, ʻo ka poʻe hāʻawi i ka hōʻoia i kahi keiki a ʻōpio paha i lilo i poʻe i ʻoi aku ka mana nui. Lohe mākou i nā moʻolelo i nā manawa āpau pehea kahi kumu kūikawā, kumu a i ʻole kekahi mea mana i hana ai i kahi ʻano nui i loko o kahi ola ma o ka hōʻoia ʻana.
Pono e hoʻomaikaʻi ʻia
ʻO ke kolu o ka pono e hoʻopōmaikaʻi ʻia. ʻAʻole pono i kahi ʻōpio ke hana i kekahi mea. ʻO kēia ka ʻae ʻaelike ʻole i loiloi ʻole ʻia no "ʻo wai ʻoe." ʻO kēia ka ʻōlelo paʻa a "ʻo wai ʻoe e lilo ai, he aha kāu e hana ai a he aha hoʻi kou ʻano e aloha ai au iā ʻoe no ka mea he keiki ʻoe naʻu keiki kāne a kaikamahine paha." ʻAʻole hiki ke haʻi nui ʻia kēia leka.
Pono no ke aloha kino
ʻO ka ha o ka pono no ke aloha kino. Ua hōʻike ʻia nā ʻano noiʻi he nui ma hope o ka piha ʻana o nā makahiki he ʻehā o ka hapanui o nā mākua i kā lākou mau keiki ke koi aku ka pono iā ia, ʻo ia hoʻi ka ʻaʻahu ʻana a me ka wehe ʻana i ke kapa, komo i loko o ke kaʻa, aʻo. He mea nui ia i nā makahiki ʻōpio. Hiki iā ia ke hele a hilahila ʻole e hōʻike i ke aloha i ke kino i nā makahiki ʻōpio a ʻoi hoʻi no ka makuakāne a me kāna kaikamahine. He ʻano ʻokoʻa paha ia akā ʻaʻole e loli ka pono no ke aloha kino.
Pono e koho ʻia
Koho ʻia ka pono ʻelima. Makemake mākou āpau e koho ʻia no ka pilina e kekahi. Hoʻomanaʻo ka hapanui o mākou i ka hopohopo o ke kali ʻana e ʻike i ke ʻano o ke koho e koho ʻia ai no ka kinipōpō i ka wā hoʻomaha. ʻO ke koho ʻana he mea nui ia no ka poʻe ʻōpio. Ke hele a paʻakikī kahi ʻōpio i kāna / ʻo kāna mea paʻakikī loa ke aloha a leʻaleʻa paha ka manawa nui nui a lākou e ʻike ai ke koho nei ʻoe me lākou. Paipai wau i kahi makua e noho manawa me kēlā me kēia keiki a kā lāua mau keiki. Aia kahi laʻana nui o ke koʻikoʻi o ke koho ʻia i ka kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻo Forrest Gump. I ka lā mua o ke kula, ua koho ʻia ʻo Forrest e Jenny e noho me ia ma ke kaʻa ʻōhua ma hope o ka hoʻohuli ʻia ʻana e nā mea ʻē aʻe āpau. Mai ia lā i mua, ua aloha ʻo Forrest iā Jenny.
Hiki i ka hoʻokō ʻana i kēia mau pono ke hoʻopili iā mākou i kā mākou ʻōpio a kōkua iā lākou i ka hoʻomohala ʻana iā ʻoe iho, ka mākaukau a me ka lilo ʻana iā lākou.