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- ʻO ka mahalo iā ʻoe iho ke ʻike nei iā ʻoe
- 1. Aloha a mahalo iā ʻoe iho
- 2. E aʻo e ʻōlelo ʻaʻole
- 3. E aʻo e hōʻeha ʻole i ka naʻau
- 4. Nā palena kau
- 5. ahonui
Ua noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe no ke aha wau e ʻoluʻolu ai ka lāhui? No ke aha e hele wāwae ai nā kānaka ma luna oʻu? No ke aha e lawe pono ai kaʻu pakanā iaʻu? No ke aha wau i loko o kahi pilina olakino?
ʻO ka mea mua, pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke haʻi pehea e mālama ai kekahi iā ʻoe?
ʻĀ, hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi i ka mālama ʻana o kekahi iā ʻoe e kou manaʻo. ʻO kahi laʻana, ke hāʻawi ʻia mai nā pua a i kahi makana paha mākou e hoʻomaka i ka hauʻoli, hauʻoli a hauʻoli paha. ʻIke paha ko mākou kino me ka pīhoihoi.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ke pili mākou i kahi pilina e waiho mau nei kekahi iā mākou ua kaumaha mākou, kaumaha, ʻeha, a waiwai ʻole paha. E hana paha ko mākou kino ma ka hoʻoluliluli ʻana, e nalowale ana ka makemake, a i ʻole me ke ʻano maikaʻi ʻole. ʻO kēia ke ʻano o ko mākou kino e haʻi iā mākou i kahi mea kūpono ʻole.
ʻO ka mahalo iā ʻoe iho ke ʻike nei iā ʻoe
No laila ʻo ka mea mua aʻu e ʻōlelo aku ai i kahi mea kūʻai aku e ʻimi nei i ka pane i nā nīnau i luna aʻe "mahalo a aloha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho?" ʻIke ʻoe, ʻike ka hoʻohanohano iā ʻoe iho. No laila ʻo wai ʻoe?
ʻO ʻoe anei kēia kanaka leʻaleʻa a pilikino? ʻO ʻoe kekahi e hoʻāʻo mau nei e ʻike i ko lākou wahi i ke ola? I ka manawa a mākou e ʻike ai a hilinaʻi hoʻi i ka poʻe a mākou hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaka e ʻike i nā mea e pono ai i kā mākou pili.
5 mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e aʻo ai i kāu hoa pehea ʻoe e mālama ai
1. Aloha a mahalo iā ʻoe iho
E ʻike ʻo wai ʻoe E ʻike i ke ʻano āu e aloha ai e pili ana iā ʻoe iho, e ʻike i kou kīnā ʻole a aloha pū i kēlā. ʻO ka nui o kou aloha iā ʻoe iho a me ka mālama ʻana iā ʻoe iho me ka mahalo i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e ukali.
2. E aʻo e ʻōlelo ʻaʻole
Maʻalahi kēia. ʻO ka mea aʻu e ʻōlelo ai ke aʻo wau e ʻōlelo ʻaʻole ʻo kekahi manawa ʻike mākou iā mākou iho i nā kūlana a mākou e ʻae mau ai.
Hiki i kēia ke hāʻawi i ka manaʻo i ka poʻe hiki iā lākou ke hele wāwae ma luna ou. ʻO ka ʻōlelo ʻana i ka ʻole, ʻo ia wale nō ke hoʻonoho nei ʻoe iā ʻoe iho ma mua. I kēia manawa, ʻaʻole au manaʻo inā aia kahi hoa i kahi hanana pilikia a kāhea iā ʻoe a hoʻohuli ʻoe iā lākou ma ka ʻōlelo ʻana ʻaʻole.
Maʻalahi, ke ʻōlelo nei wau aia kekahi mau manawa e pono ʻoe e hoʻokau iā ʻoe iho ma mua a ʻōlelo ʻaʻole. E aʻo kēia i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe he waiwai kou manawa a i ka huli ʻana, mahalo nui lākou iā ia.
3. E aʻo e hōʻeha ʻole i ka naʻau
Ke aʻo nei ka mahalo iā ʻoe iho e kamaʻilio i kahi ala ʻole a me ka hakakā ʻole.
He manaʻo nui wau he mana wale kā mākou i ka pehea a mākou e pane ai e hōʻoluʻolu i kā mākou hoa a hoʻopau i kahi kūlana. ʻO ka nui o ka haku mele a me ka liʻiliʻi o ka reactive ʻoi aku ka nui o ka mahalo iā ʻoe iho e kūkulu ai nou.
4. Nā palena kau
I ka manawa e aʻo ai ʻo wai ʻoe a he aha kāu makemake ma ka pili e hoʻomaka ai ʻoe e hoʻonohonoho i kāu mau kūlana.
ʻO kēia mau kūlana nā waiwai, nā manaʻoʻiʻo, a me nā mea āu e manaʻo ai no ʻoe iho i kēia pili. Hoʻonohonoho kēia mau palena i kēlā mau kūlana a me ka mahalo iā ʻoe iho. Aʻo ʻoe i ka poʻe pehea e mālama ai iā ʻoe me ka mea āu e hoʻomanawanui ai.
5. ahonui
ʻO ka mea hope loa, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻololi i kahi pō wale nō. E ahonui me ʻoe iho a me ke kaʻina o ke aloha ponoʻī a me ka mahalo. Lōʻihi ka manawa a aia nā kī iā ʻoe iho.