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- 1. Mai ʻōlelo ʻoe inā nīnau kāu wahine iā ʻoe inā momona ʻo ia
- 2. Mai hoʻohālikelike i ka mākau culinary a kou makuahine a me kāu wahine
- 3. Mai ʻōlelo i kāu wahine e "noho mālie" a i ʻole "keu nui aʻe"
- 4. Mai hōʻole e ʻike ʻoe i kekahi hoa wahine a hoa hana ʻoluʻolu paha
- 5. Mai hoʻohana i kēia paio- “ʻO ia ka manawa o ka mahina”
- 6. Mai ʻōlelo iki i kāu wahine e pili ana i ka nagging
- 7. Mai haʻi iki i kekahi mea e pili ana i kāu ipo aloha i hala
E kū ana kahi wahine i mua o ke aniani. Ke nānā nei i kāna ʻōpū ʻōpuʻu iki, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia i kāna kāne, "Ua loaʻa iaʻu ka nui o ke kaumaha, haʻahaʻa wau. Maliʻa paha he hoʻomaikaʻi hiki ke hōʻoluʻolu iaʻu ”. Pane maila kāna kāne, "Maikaʻi loa, he maka maikaʻi kāu."
I kēlā pō ua hiamoe ke kāne ma ka moe.
Pono nā kāne kāne he nui e hoʻolilo i nā pō he nui ma waho o ko lākou lumi moe i ka moe. A laila haʻohaʻo lākou i ka mea i hoʻokali mālie ai kā lākou mau wahine i kekona!
ʻIke nā kāne i nā wahine paʻakikī loa a ʻaʻohe mea hiki ke hana e pili ana i kēlā. ʻAʻole hiki i nā kāne ke hoʻomaopopo i ka manaʻo o nā wahine. Akā, ma ka liʻiliʻi hiki iā lākou ke ukali i kekahi mau lula honua e hiki ke kōkua iā lākou e pale i ka hakakā me kā lākou wahine.
Eia nā mea 7 ʻaʻole pono nā kāne e ʻōlelo i kā lākou wahine.
1. Mai ʻōlelo ʻoe inā nīnau kāu wahine iā ʻoe inā momona ʻo ia
Wahine: Nānā momona paha wau?
Kāne: Aʻole!
ʻO ka pane mau loa NO!
ʻOiai ua loaʻa iā ia nā oodles o ke kaupaona,
ʻOiai inā ʻōlelo ʻo ia iā ʻoe e hoʻopono,
ʻOiai inā haʻi ʻo ia iā ʻoe ʻaʻole e huhū inā ʻoe e ʻae,
Mai hōʻole e nānā momona ʻo ia!
Inā nīnau ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kēia nīnau, ʻo ia hoʻi ke ʻano iki nei iā ia iho a pono ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e hoʻonui i kona hilinaʻi a hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia.
2. Mai hoʻohālikelike i ka mākau culinary a kou makuahine a me kāu wahine
Ua ʻōlelo ʻoe i kekahi mea e like me kēia i kāu wahine, "E ka meli, ua hoʻomoʻa ʻoe i nā kuki kupaianaha, aneane maikaʻi e like me koʻu makuahine, a ʻono paha ka lasagna, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka papa hana a koʻu makuahine"? Kuhi hewa nui! E noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe ke hoʻomaikaʻi nei ʻoe i kāu wahine, akā ke huhū nei ʻoe iā ia.
ʻO ia kāu wahine, ʻaʻole kou makuahine. ʻAʻole makemake ʻo ia i kou makuahine a i ʻole hoʻohālikelike ʻia iā ia. No laila, i kēlā me kēia manawa kuke ʻo ia i kahi mea maikaʻi (a maikaʻi ʻole paha) nāu, mahalo, ʻoluʻolu a hauʻoli, akā mai hoʻāʻo e hoʻohālikelike iā ia i kou makuahine.
3. Mai ʻōlelo i kāu wahine e "noho mālie" a i ʻole "keu nui aʻe"
Ke huhū kāu wahine iā ʻoe no ka hoʻopoina ʻana i kekahi mea a hana hewa paha, ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa e hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e haʻi iā ia e hoʻomālie a haʻi iā ia ke hana nui nei ʻo ia. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e hōʻoluʻolu, e huhū wale nō ia. E kala wale a kali no ka hala o ka ʻino!
4. Mai hōʻole e ʻike ʻoe i kekahi hoa wahine a hoa hana ʻoluʻolu paha
No nā makahiki he nui āu i male ai i kāu wahine, mai ʻae e ʻike he nani kāu hoa aloha / hoa / hoa pili. Manaʻo paha ʻoe ua hala ka pili o ka lili ʻōpio i kou pilina akā ʻaʻole ia e hana (ʻaʻole ia he mea maikaʻi ʻole). Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hana pū me ka huhū passive a kāu wahine a me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa hāmau, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻae i ka ʻono o kekahi wahine ʻē aʻe iā ʻoe.
5. Mai hoʻohana i kēia paio- “ʻO ia ka manawa o ka mahina”
Hoʻohana nā kāne i kēia huaʻōlelo ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa nei lākou me kā lākou hoa. He mea maʻalahi ʻole kēia e ʻōlelo a ʻaʻole e haʻi ʻia i ka sexist loa. He kāne noʻonoʻo kāu wahine a ʻaʻole ia e hakakā me ʻoe inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hana hewa.
6. Mai ʻōlelo iki i kāu wahine e pili ana i ka nagging
ʻAʻohe kumu o ka namunamu e pili ana i ka nagging. Hoʻomaʻamaʻa wale ʻo ia ke hoʻopoina ʻoe i kekahi mea a hana hewa paha ʻoe. A ʻo ka namunamu e pili ana i kāna nūnē ʻana ʻaʻole ia e hoʻokū, e hoʻonāukiuki wale nō ia iā ia. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi e ʻae wale i kāu kuhihewa a hoʻāʻo e hoʻoponopono iā ia, i ʻole e hoʻohoka hou iā ʻoe.
7. Mai haʻi iki i kekahi mea e pili ana i kāu ipo aloha i hala
Ua kamaʻilio paha ʻoe e pili ana i kāu mau ex i ka hoʻomaka o kāu pili. No laila aia ka pōpoki i waho o ka ʻeke, akā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e piʻo hou me ia. E hoʻāʻo e ʻaʻole e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāu ipo aloha i kau wahine. ʻAʻole kōkua ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i kāu ex. E hōʻeha wale ʻoe iā ia a huhū hoʻi i ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i kāu ipo / mau.
Inā hōʻole ʻoe i ka ʻōlelo ʻana i kēia mau mea 7, e loaʻa nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa liʻiliʻi me kāu wahine a me kahi noho maluhia o ka noho male.