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- 1. Ike aloha ʻia ʻo ia
- 2. Pono ʻo ia e hilinaʻi iā ʻoe
- 3. Ka palekana i ka wā e hiki mai ana
- 4. Nā kamaʻilio
- 5. ʻOi aku ka 'ʻae' a ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi 'ʻaʻole'
- 6. Kaʻana like i nā kuleana o ka hale
- 7. E aloha
- 8. ʻOi aku ke olakino olakino
- 9. Kākoʻo mai ke kāne
ʻIke mākou he ʻokoʻa nā kāne a me nā wahine, a pēlā nō kā lākou mau mea i manaʻo ai kekahi i kekahi ke pili lākou.
ʻO ka hapa nui o nā kāne e hakakā me ka mea a nā wahine e makemake ai i ka launa. He paʻakikī loa e hoʻomaopopo. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole pono i nā kāne ke noʻonoʻo e kūlike ka manaʻo o nā wahine me kā lākou. ʻAʻole loa ia. Aia ma lalo nā mea a nā wahine e makemake ai i kā lākou kāne.
1. Ike aloha ʻia ʻo ia
Hōʻike a hōʻike maʻalahi nā wahine i ko lākou aloha a mālama i nā kāne.
Eia nō naʻe, paʻakikī ka paʻakikī o ke kāne e kaʻana like i ko lākou mau manaʻo, a laila hoʻoholo ka wahine i ka pane ʻole ʻana o nā kāne i ko lākou aloha. Makemake nā wahine e aloha ʻia.
Nui nā ʻano like ʻole e hiki ai i nā kāne ke hōʻike i ko lākou aloha i nā wahine. Hiki paha iā ia ke ʻōlelo 'aloha wau iā ʻoe' i kēlā me kēia lā a i ʻole lawe mai iā lākou i kekahi mau makana i kēlā me kēia manawa a i ʻole kekahi mau ʻaina aloha.
E kōkua kēia mau hōʻailona liʻiliʻi i nā kāne e hōʻike i ko lākou aloha i kā lākou wahine a neʻe maikaʻi nā mea.
2. Pono ʻo ia e hilinaʻi iā ʻoe
Loaʻa iā mākou āpau kekahi mea minamina i hala aku nei i hōʻole ai mākou e kaʻana like me ka poʻe a puni. Hōʻalo nā kāne i ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i ko lākou wā i hala a manaʻo ʻia ʻaʻohe kiko o ke kūkā ʻana i kēia.
Eia nō naʻe, ke hoʻomaka nei nā wahine e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ia mea, nānā paha lākou i ka kamaʻilio a hoʻololi paha i ke kumuhana. ʻO kēia, i ka hopena, e hoʻolilo iā lākou i kānalua i kā lākou mau kāne, i hiki ai ke alakaʻi i nā pilikia like ʻole. No laila, pono nā kāne e ʻōlelo e pili ana i ko lākou wā i hala a e hilinaʻi lākou i kā lākou mau wahine. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻo ka hilinaʻi kekahi o nā mea nui a nā wahine e makemake ai mai kā lākou kāne.
3. Ka palekana i ka wā e hiki mai ana
ʻO ka palekana o ka wā e hiki mai a me ke kālā kekahi mea nui a ka wahine e makemake ai mai ke kāne. Maopopo ia, i kēia lā, ke hana nei nā kāne a me nā wahine a kūʻokoʻa.
ʻOiai ʻo ia, makemake nā wahine i kā lākou kāne e hāʻawi iā lākou i ka palekana i ka wā e hiki mai ana, ke kālā a me ka naʻau. He paʻakikī loa i nā wahine e kākoʻo i kā lākou mau kāne ke hōʻole ʻole lākou e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i ko lākou wā e hiki mai ana a ʻaʻohe mea e hiki mai ana i kā lākou pūnana aloha, he aha.
4. Nā kamaʻilio
Ke haʻohaʻo nei pehea e hōʻoluʻolu ai i kāu wahine?
ʻĀ, noho pū me lākou a kamaʻilio maoli. Makemake nā wahine e lilo i kahi manawa maikaʻi me kā lākou kāne. Kūleʻa nā kāne me nā mea he nui i ko lākou ola a manaʻoʻiʻo ma ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka hōʻoluʻolu ola ke hoʻokō nei lākou i kā lākou mau kuleana i kā lākou wahine.
Eia nō naʻe, makemake nā wahine i kā lākou mau kāne e noho manawa me lākou a kamaʻilio. Noho no kekahi manawa me kā lākou mau wahine, e kamaʻilio ana nā kāne things makemake nā wahine i kā lākou kāne.
5. ʻOi aku ka 'ʻae' a ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi 'ʻaʻole'
ʻAʻohe wahine e makemake e huli i lalo i kēlā me kēia lā. Inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i nā ala e mālama ai i kāu wahine, e hoʻomaka me ka ʻōlelo pinepine ʻana.
He ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole kūpono ia ʻōlelo makapō wale nō ʻae, akā pale i ka ʻōlelo pinepine ʻana ʻole. ʻO kēia kahi o nā pane maikaʻi loa i ka pehea e loaʻa ai kāu wahine i ke ʻano. E hauʻoli nō kāu wahine a he pua nō ke aloha ma waena o ʻolua.
6. Kaʻana like i nā kuleana o ka hale
Pehea e ʻoluʻolu ai i kāu wahine?
ʻĀ, e hoʻomaka i ka lawe i nā kuleana o ka hale. ʻO kēia kahi mea nui a nā wahine e makemake ai i kā lākou kāne. Makemake lākou i kā lākou kāne e hoihoi i ka hana home a kōkua iā lākou i nā ala āpau. E hoihoi i ka hale kūʻai, a me nā hana o ka hale a hoʻolilo pū i kekahi manawa me nā keiki.
E hauʻoli ka wahine i kēia mau ʻōuli liʻiliʻi.
7. E aloha
ʻOkoʻa ka wehewehe ʻana o ke aloha no nā kāne a me nā wahine. ʻO ka mea e pono ai ka wahine mai ke kāne ke aloha. Ke pili i loko o ka pilina, manaʻo nā wahine e aloha i kā lākou kāne.
Makemake lākou i kā lākou kāne e lawe iā lākou i waho no kekahi mau lā ʻaina awakea, hoʻolilo i kekahi manawa pilikino, hele i ka lā hoʻomaha a hoʻomanaʻo i nā lā nui. ʻO kēia nā mea maʻamau a nā wahine e makemake ai i kā lākou kāne.
8. ʻOi aku ke olakino olakino
ʻO ka mālama ponoʻī kekahi mea e makemake ai nā wahine mai kā lākou kāne. He ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole mālama iki nā kāne i ka mālama pilikino. ʻAno lākou e ʻai i kekahi mea a hōʻole hoʻi e hāhai i ka papaʻai olakino. Inā makemake ʻoe i kāu wahine e aloha iā ʻoe a mālama iā ʻoe, a laila e hoʻomaka i ka mālama ʻana i ke olakino. Makemake nā wahine iā ia.
9. Kākoʻo mai ke kāne
ʻO nā mea nui a nā wahine e makemake ai i kā lākou kāne i kā lākou kākoʻo. Kākoʻo kēlā me kēia wahine i kā lākou kāne, i ka maikaʻi a i ka maikaʻi ʻole hoʻi. Kū lākou ma hope ona ʻaʻole mea.
Pēlā nō, manaʻo lākou e kākoʻo kā lākou kāne iā lākou, i nā mea āpau a lākou e hana ai. Manaʻo lākou i kā lākou kāne a me ko lākou ʻohana i ko lākou ola a makemake ʻole e hana i kekahi mea a lākou e ʻae ʻole ai. No laila, ʻo kā lākou kāne makemake e kū kokoke iā lākou, ke kāhea ka manawa iā ia.
ʻOkoʻa nā mea i manaʻo ʻia e nā wahine a me nā kāne.
ʻOiai ʻoluʻolu nā kāne me ka hale maʻemaʻe a me nā meaʻai maikaʻi, makemake nā wahine i kā lākou kāne e hōʻike i ko lākou aloha a mālama, kākoʻo iā lākou a komo i nā hana o ka home. ʻO ka papa inoa ma luna kekahi mau mea e makemake ai nā wahine i kā lākou kāne. E hāhai iā ia no ke ola hauʻoli.