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- Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai iā lākou?
- E hoʻāʻo e ʻike i ko lākou naʻau
- Pehea ka lanakila o ka makaʻu?
- Pehea e hoʻohui hou ai?
- 1. Hoʻolilo manawa manawa hoʻokahi me lākou i kēlā me kēia lā
- 2. Pāʻani pāʻani me lākou
- 3. Hoʻomanaʻo waha iā lākou ʻo wai lākou i kou mau maka
- 4. Hōʻike i ke aloha kino
He mana ko kāu ʻike i kāu keiki e hoʻololi i nā mea āpau. Ma ke ʻano he therapist, ʻo ka mea nui nui iaʻu e wehewehe i ka kuanaʻike o ka makua ke hana me kahi keiki kūpale a hoʻowalewale paha.
Hoʻomaka ka hoʻololi ʻana i ka hana ma mua o ka hana.
Ma kona aʻa ka manaʻo o ke keiki a me ka makua e pili ana i kēlā keiki. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, pono kahi SHIFT. Hiki i kēia kuanaʻike ke hoʻololi i ka mea "ʻoiaʻiʻo" i ka manawa me ke ʻano o ke keiki, i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo TRUTH o ke keiki i loko.
Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai iā lākou?
E hoʻokaʻawale iki i kēlā. 'Lelo maʻamau, ʻo nā keiki e hōʻike nei i ka lawena disruptive kūpilikiʻi pū kekahi me ka manaʻo hoʻokaʻawale i ko lākou mau mākua. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole ia he mea nui e hoʻopiʻi ai i nā mākua no kēia hoʻokaʻawale. ʻAuhau ia e noho paʻa naʻau i kahi keiki e hōʻino ana i kahi ʻohana.
ʻO ka maʻalahi maʻalahi e hemo i ka naʻau a haʻalele. Akā, kou nānā ʻana i kāu keiki, ʻoiai i loko o kā lākou manawa pōleʻele huhū huhū, pono e kūlike me ka hiʻona o ka mea āu i manaʻo ai e noho pū lākou.
Ke lilo ʻoe i kāu keiki, hohonu, lilo lākou i ka paʻa. Hoʻomaka lākou e lilo i mea āu e makaʻu ai e lilo lākou. Ke manaʻoʻiʻo ʻoe i ko lākou kumu, he kipi a aloha ʻole lākou, e ʻike ʻoe i kēlā mau hana e ukali koke nei.
E hoʻāʻo e ʻike i ko lākou naʻau
Pono nā keiki i ke ʻano, nā mea i manaʻo ʻia, a me nā hopena. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, akā, ʻaʻole kū wale ka hoʻowahāwahā no ka loaʻa ʻole o nā hopena, akā ma kahi o ka hanana a me ke aʻo i hoʻonoho ʻia ma mua o ka manawa maikaʻi me ke keiki.
ʻO kēia ka hopena i ka nele o ka hoʻopili, a no laila ʻoi aku ka hoʻokaʻawale o ka naʻau a me ka hoʻowahāwahā.
ʻO ka hana āu e ʻike ai i kāu keiki e hōʻike nei ʻaʻole ko lākou puʻuwai. ʻO ka hoʻowahāwahā a lākou e hōʻike ai iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole ia ka maoli a lākou e makemake ai e mālama iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole ʻelemakule loa kāu keiki a huhū ʻole paha e launa hou me ʻoe. He ʻoiaʻiʻo maoli kēia i ke ola.
Pili nā keiki a me nā mākua i kekahi me kekahi.
He pono i kūkulu ʻia i loko o kā mākou ʻano maoli. Makemake kāu keiki iā ʻoe. Pono kāu keiki iā ʻoe. Makemake kāu keiki e ʻike i kou aloha e mālama iā lākou, ʻoiai i ko lākou mau lā inaina loa a me ka kūpaʻa. ʻO kēia ke kuanaʻike o lākou e pono ai ʻoe ma ka makua e paʻa ai no ke ola aloha.
Ke hoʻomaka ʻoe e hilinaʻi i ka makaʻu, ua eo ʻoe i ke kaua no kāu pēpē.
Pehea ka lanakila o ka makaʻu?
ʻLelo ka makaʻu iā ʻoe ʻaʻole mālama kāu keiki, a ʻaʻole lākou makemake a makemake hou i kou aloha a aloha.
Uwē ʻo ia wale nō ke ala e ʻike ai i kahi loli ʻoi aku nā lula, ʻoi aku ka hoʻopaʻi, a me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i ka naʻau e hoʻopakele i kou puʻuwai ponoʻī mai ka ʻeha a me ka hōʻole ʻia. Ke wahaheʻe nei ka makaʻu iā ʻoe. Nānā ʻole i ka mea i manaʻo ʻoiaʻiʻo i kēia manawa (ʻoiai ke kīloi ʻana o kāu keiki i ka huhū o ka honua a wana ka maka iā ʻoe mai kēlā ʻaoʻao o ka lumi)
Loaʻa mau iā lākou. E hana mau lākou. ʻO ʻoe nō ka mea e hoʻomau i ka hoʻopili hou ʻana, me ka ʻeha a lākou e hoʻokumu ai.
Pehea e hoʻohui hou ai?
I mea e launa hou ai me kāu keiki, koho i nā hana e hōʻike ai i ka hoihoi iā lākou -
1. Hoʻolilo manawa manawa hoʻokahi me lākou i kēlā me kēia lā
ʻOiai he ʻumikūmālima wale nō mau minuke i ka pō, e hoʻolaʻa iā ʻoe iho i kēlā manawa. I kēlā mau minuke he ʻumikūmālima, kū nā mea āpau āpau. Loaʻa iā lākou kou nānā pono ʻole.
Hōʻike kēia iā lākou i ka waiwai o lākou iā ʻoe, a ke manaʻo lākou he waiwai lākou, hana lākou pēlā.
2. Pāʻani pāʻani me lākou
- Pāʻani i kahi pāʻani papa
- Hakakā
- Hele wāwae
- Hīmeni pū
- Kūkulu i kahi pale pale ma ka lumi
Inā he paʻakikī e hoʻoikaika kino, e hele i ke kino i ka wā maʻamau, i nā hana o kēlā me kēia lā. ʻO kahi laʻana, e noho kokoke iā lākou ke nānā nei ʻoe i ke kīwī ma kahi o kahi noho ʻē aʻe.
3. Hoʻomanaʻo waha iā lākou ʻo wai lākou i kou mau maka
Pono lākou e hoʻolohe, akā kōkua pū kēia i mea hoʻomanaʻo iā ʻoe he ʻoiaʻiʻo! E haʻi iā lākou ua aloha ʻia a kū hoʻokahi lākou. Hoʻomaopopo iā lākou he mea nui ia iā ʻoe. Hoʻomaikaʻi iā lākou. E hoʻomaikaʻi iā lākou i kēlā me kēia manawa ke hana lākou i kahi mea maikaʻi.
Pono pono nā keiki i ka nānā. Inā ʻo ka manawa wale nō āu e ʻōlelo nei iā lākou e hoʻoponopono i kā lākou hana maikaʻi ʻole, pōloli lākou i ka naʻau. Hoʻoholo i ko lākou mau pepeiao me nā ʻano maikaʻi a me ke ʻano pilikino maikaʻi.
4. Hōʻike i ke aloha kino
ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o kēia me nā keiki ʻōpio, akā pinepine e like me ka mea e pono ai me nā ʻōpio. Hoʻomaopopo iā lākou i kā lākou waiwai me ka hoʻopā e like me nā ʻapo, nā honi, nā ʻiʻo ʻana, nā paʻi ma ke kua, e paʻa ana nā lima, e noho ana ma o lākou lā, a i ʻole nā ʻūlū kua i ka wā hiamoe.
ʻAʻole e hoʻoponopono koke kēia mau hana i kā lākou hana, akā ʻo lākou nā palaka hale e hiki ai i nā ʻano hana hoʻololi ʻē aʻe ke pono loa. ʻO kāu ʻike iā lākou e hoʻohālikelike ai pehea lākou e ʻike ai iā lākou iho.
Paʻa i ka ʻike he maikaʻi lākou, waiwai lākou, a makemake mau lākou iā ʻoe. Paʻa i ka lana.