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- 1. He manaʻo kona e pili ana i nā mea āpau
- He aha ka manaʻo:
- He aha e hana ai:
- 2. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e hoʻāʻo e pili
- He aha ka manaʻo:
- He aha e hana ai:
- 3. Hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e kāohi
- He aha ka manaʻo:
- He aha e hana ai:
- 4. ʻIke ʻo ia i ke kuleana i nā mea
- He aha ka manaʻo:
- He aha e hana ai:
- 5. ʻAʻole ʻo ia makemake e aloha iā ʻoe
- He aha ka manaʻo:
- He aha e hana ai:
- Mai pau ka manaʻolana
Inā ʻoe i ʻike i ka makahiki 2005 Monster-In-Law, a laila pono ʻoe e ʻike ʻo ka makaʻu nui loa o ka wahine mare e pili ana i ka makuahōnōwai wahine e inaina mai nei iā ʻoe. Inā maopopo ʻole kāna huhū a ʻaʻole paha, hiki i nā makuahōnōwai wahine ke hele mai i nā ʻano like ʻole. ʻO kēlā me kēia ala, hiki i kahi pilina maikaʻi ʻole me kēia wahine koʻikoʻi nui ke hōʻino maoli i kāu pilina me kāu hoa.
Eia pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kahi makuahōnōwai wahine e hiki mai ana nāna e hoʻolei i kahi malu kī haʻahaʻa:
1. He manaʻo kona e pili ana i nā mea āpau
Pehea e ʻike ai:
- Ke hana ʻoe i kekahi mea, pono ʻo ia e hoʻoponopono i ke ala āu e hana ai i nā mea.
- Hoʻopaʻi ʻo ia iā ʻoe i ka lehulehu.
He aha ka manaʻo:
ʻAʻole wale kēia he mahalo ʻole, akā hōʻike ia i ka hilinaʻi ʻole o kou makuahōnōwai wahine i kāu hoʻoholo, he hae ʻulaʻula nui ia. Ke hoʻomaka ʻo ia e excoriate iā ʻoe, e hoʻāʻo e mālama i kahi poʻo pae e pili ana i kahi o kēlā mau loiloi i kūpono maoli a aia ma muli o ke kuhi ʻana a i ʻole nā kumu ʻē aʻe i pili ʻole iā ʻoe. Inā hoʻopaʻi ʻo ia iā ʻoe i ka lehulehu, lilo kēia ʻano o ke aka i hōʻike pono loa ʻia o ka mana i manaʻo ʻia e kīkē iā ʻoe i kekahi mau kuʻi a hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā ʻoe.
He aha e hana ai:
He hōʻailona nui kēia o ka hōʻihi ʻole, a inā aia nā mea ma kēia wahi, maikaʻi ke kiʻi aku i kāu hoa a pale iā ʻoe. Mai hoʻowahāwahā i ka mana o kāu hoa e haʻi ana i kona makuahine i kāna hana ʻana he kūpono ʻole a mahalo ʻole. Inā mahalo ʻo ia i ke komo a kāna keiki kāne a kaikamahine paha, e hoʻi ʻo ia i hope a e noʻonoʻo hou i kāna hana.
2. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e hoʻāʻo e pili
Pehea e ʻike ai:
- Hōʻalo kou makuahōnōwai wahine i ka hoʻolilo manawa ʻana me ʻoe.
- ʻAʻole makemake ʻo ia e hoʻāʻo e ʻike iā ʻoe.
He aha ka manaʻo:
ʻOiai he mea maikaʻi ke loaʻa ka makuahōnōwai wahine lima ʻole, hiki i kēia mamao ʻana ke lilo i hōʻole e hōʻoia i ke koʻikoʻi o ʻoe a me kāu hoa e pili ana kekahi i kekahi. ʻO ka mālama ʻana iā ia iho i ka paia ʻo ia paha kāna ala e pale aku ai i kahi hoʻopili e ulu ai ma waena o ʻolua, a he mea nō ia e kiaʻi ʻia.
He aha e hana ai:
ʻOiai paha he pīhoihoi paha ia, e hoʻāʻo e hoʻoikaika e pili ana i ke kiʻi ʻana i kou makuahōnōwai wahine. Inā hoʻoikaika ʻoe e ʻike iā ia, e hoʻi paha ʻo ia i hope. E nīnau i kāu hoa no ka ʻike, e like me nā leʻaleʻa a kou makuahōnōwai wahine, a ʻike inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻonohonoho i kahi hana hoʻopaʻa kahi e ʻoluʻolu ai ʻo ia e wehe iā ʻoe. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hoʻokomo iā ia i kāu hoʻolālā male ma ke ʻano he hōʻike o ke kuʻikahi.
3. Hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e kāohi
Pehea e ʻike ai:
- ʻAʻole ʻike kou makuahōnōwai wahine i nā palena.
- Hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e hana i nā ʻaoʻao o kāu pili.
He aha ka manaʻo:
Ke hana nei paha kou makuahūnōwai pēlā no ka mea ua ʻike ʻo ia i kona wahi ʻo ia ka wahine nui i kāna keikikāne a i ʻole ke kaikamahine a kou kaikamahine i pani ʻia e ʻoe. Ma muli o kēia, hoʻāʻo paha ʻo ia e hoʻoikaika i kāna ʻano ma o kāu pākana a i ʻole hoʻāʻo e hoʻonohonoho i nā hanana kahi e pau ai kou ʻano e like me ke kāne maikaʻi ʻole i ka hoʻāʻo e hoʻokuke iā ʻolua ʻelua.
He aha e hana ai:
ʻO ka mea mua, ʻike ʻoe a me kāu pakanā pehea kāna e holo nei i kou ola a kuhikuhi i kahi kūpono ʻole. Ma hope wale nō o ko ʻolua manaʻo ʻana i kēia ʻāpana i hiki iā ʻoe a me kāu hoa ke hoʻomaka e hana i kahi hoʻolālā pāʻani pehea e haʻi ai i kou makuahōnōwai wahine e hoʻi i hope iki. ʻO ka hōʻike ʻana i mua i ka hui pū ʻana me ia e hana pū kekahi i nā mea kupanaha.
4. ʻIke ʻo ia i ke kuleana i nā mea
Pehea e ʻike ai:
- E huhū wale kou makuahōnōwai wahine inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hoʻokomo iā ia i kekahi mea.
- Kiola ʻo ia i nā tantrums inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e mahalo i kahi kūpono.
He aha ka manaʻo:
Ma ke ʻano he makuahine o kāu hoapili, manaʻo paha ia he kiʻekiʻe kona kūlana i ka ʻohana. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, inā ʻaʻole nona, ʻaʻole e noho kāu pakanā! Ma muli o kēia, manaʻo paha ʻo ia e mahalo mau ʻia kāna mau makemake, ʻoiai ʻoi aku ka nui o kona ʻike i ke ola a manaʻo ʻo ia ua ʻoi aku kāna ʻike i kāna keiki ma mua o kekahi.
He aha e hana ai:
Hiki i kēia ʻano makuahōnōwai wahine ke makaʻu loa e hana pū. Eia nō naʻe, pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i kahi ʻāpana nalowale i kēia mau mea āpau kāu kūlana i ka ʻohana. ʻO ka mea hope loa, ʻo ʻoe ka mea a kāu hoa i koho ai e lilo i ke koena o kona ola me ̶ a ʻo ia ka mea nui loa. No laila ke kamaʻilio pū ʻoe me kou makuahōnōwai wahine, e hoʻāʻo e hōʻike iā ia e mahalo nei iā ia, akā e kū hoʻi iā ʻoe iho inā pono. Pono i kāu hoapapa kou kua inā loaʻa ʻole i kou makuahōnōwai wahine ka lima.
5. ʻAʻole ʻo ia makemake e aloha iā ʻoe
Pehea e ʻike ai:
- ʻAʻole nō i hoʻāʻo kou makuahōnōwai wahine e hoʻoliʻiliʻi i kona manaʻo e pili ana iā ʻoe, ʻoiai ma hope o ka maopopo ʻana o kāu hoapili he aloha ʻo ia iā ʻoe a e noho ʻoe.
He aha ka manaʻo:
ʻO nā manaʻo mua he paʻakikī paʻakikī e hoʻololi. Eia nō naʻe, pono ʻo ia e hilinaʻi i ka hoʻokolokolo a kāna keiki kāne a kaikamahine paha a ʻae iā ʻoe i loko o ka ʻohana. No laila, inā koho ʻo ia e noho ʻawaʻawa, hōʻike ia i ka makuwahine o kou makuahōnōwai wahine i mua o kona mau manaʻo e pili ana i kāu pili ma mua o ka hauʻoli o kāna keiki kāne a kaikamahine paha.
He aha e hana ai:
ʻO ka ʻāpana o ke kuleana e hōʻike i ka nui o kou manaʻo iā ia e moe me kāu hoa. Eia nō naʻe, inā ua hana kāu hoa i nā mea āpau i hiki iā ia ke hoʻāʻo e hōʻoia i kona makuahine, a laila ʻaʻohe mea hou aʻe āu e noi ai. Lana ka manaʻo, hiki i kou makuahōnōwai wahine ke ʻike nona iho pehea e hōʻino ai kāna mau hana i kāna keiki kāne a kaikamahine paha, kahi mea āna i ʻōlelo ai he aloha.
Mai pau ka manaʻolana
ʻO kou pilina me kou makuahōnōwai wahine e hiki ke hele a palupalu i kēia manawa, akā mai haʻalele i ka manaʻolana. ʻO ka hapanui o ka manawa, hoʻolapalapa nā hopohopo o kou makuahōnōwai wahine i ka manaʻo inā mahalo ʻia ʻo ia. No laila, inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻoia iā ia ʻaʻole i kahi makaʻu kāna keiki kāne a kaikamahine paha ka puʻuwai, kōkua nui ia. ʻOiai paʻakikī ia, inā ʻoe e manaʻo ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo kāu pakanā ka mea, he mea pono paha e hoʻāʻo i kāu mea ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi i loaʻa iā ʻoe nā hoʻomaikaʻi o ka wahine koʻikoʻi ʻē aʻe i ke ola o kāu hoa.
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