Anter
- Aloha ke keiki ʻīlio
- Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻano hoʻomākeʻaka e pili ana i kahi mea āu e ʻike ai
- He aha ka hana a ke kumu hoʻohālikelike Freudian me ke kanaka āu e makemake ai?
- No laila he aha ke ʻano o ka manaʻo i kekahi?
- ʻAe kāu superego
- No laila ma hope o ka haʻawina psyche, he aha ke ʻano o ka manaʻo i kekahi?
Hoʻomaka mākou i ka haki ʻana i ke kula mua, ʻike mākou āpau i ka manaʻo. ʻO ko lākou alo e hoʻomālamalama i ko mākou lā, makemake mākou e ʻike iā lākou i nā manawa āpau, a lili mākou inā lākou e nānā i kekahi.
Hele mākou i loko o ko mākou wā ʻōpio ʻōpio hou ʻole e pili ana i kēia manaʻo. Lilo mākou i mea pilikino a makemake e hana i kahi pilina pili loa me kēlā kanaka. Hele pū mākou i ka wā ʻōpio i ka manawa like a pīhoihoi e pili ana i ka moekolohe. Huikau nā poʻe he nui i kēlā mau manaʻo me ke kuko.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i ka mea e hana ai, ua hele mākou āpau i ke kula kiʻekiʻe.
Ke hele a makua, ke manaʻo nei kekahi o mākou e "butterflies i loko o kā mākou ʻōpū" e pili ana i kekahi kanaka, akā he aha ka manaʻo maoli?
Aloha ke keiki ʻīlio
ʻIke mākou āpau i kahi ʻano hoihoi i kekahi. ʻO kēlā kanaka uʻi ma ke kīwī, ke kaikamahine uʻi i ka hale kūʻai kope, kēlā haku wela a kuleana hoʻi, a me kēlā hoanoho kolohe. Hana ʻia ʻoiai he malihini loa ia a mākou i ʻike ai ma ke kaʻa ʻōhua.
No ke aha mākou e manaʻo ai i kahi mea ʻano ʻē ke hālāwai mākou i kēlā poʻe?
ʻO ka mua, he kūlohelohe ia.
Loaʻa ka aloha i kēlā me kēia. He mea wale ia no ka pehea a mākou e pane aku ai iā ia, a i ko mākou ulu ʻana i ka makahiki, ʻike hou mākou e pili ana i nā loina o ke kaiāulu.
Alakaʻi kēlā mau loina iā mākou pehea mākou e pane ai. Akā ʻo kā mākou koho inā makemake mākou e hāhai iā ia. Kuhi ka hapanui o mākou i kā mākou iho o nā kumumanaʻo alakaʻi a mākou e ukali ai ma muli o ka mea a mākou i aʻo ai a ʻike.
No laila ma muli o kā mākou kumumanaʻo, he aha kēlā mea ʻumeʻume? ʻO ke aloha a kuko paha?
ʻAʻole ia.
Ke haʻi wale nei ʻoe ka lolo i kēia kanaka inā kāu ʻano. ʻAʻohe mea hou aʻe, ʻaʻohe mea liʻiliʻi. Ua hoʻopā mākou i ke kumuhana o nā alakaʻi alakaʻi no ka mea ʻo ia ka mea e haʻi iā ʻoe i kāu mea e hana aʻe ai. Hana kekahi poʻe i ka mea ʻole, hele kekahi no ia mea, ʻoiai aia kekahi poʻe e hana nei i kahi mea kūpono ʻole.
No laila, he mea makehewa ka pipiʻi ma kahi malihini kolohe. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e loaʻa iā ʻoe iho e ʻike i ke kanaka.
Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻano hoʻomākeʻaka e pili ana i kahi mea āu e ʻike ai
Aia kēia i nā mea like he haneli. Wahi a Freud, ua mahele ʻia kā mākou psyche i ka id, ka ego, a me ka superego.
Id -ʻO ka id ka mea impulsive a instinctive o kā mākou psyche. ʻO ia nā hoʻokele kumu ikaika a mākou i loaʻa ma ke ʻano he meaola. ʻO ia ka mea i loko o ko mākou manaʻo e makemake ai e ʻai, e hānau, e hoʻomalu, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe e pono ai ke ola.
Ego - Ke kumu hoʻoholo hoʻoholo.
Superego - Mahele o kā mākou psyche e haʻi iā mākou e hāhai i nā loina a me nā loina o ke kaiāulu.
He aha ka hana a ke kumu hoʻohālikelike Freudian me ke kanaka āu e makemake ai?
Maʻalahi, hiki i kēlā kanaka ke kapu (Kou ʻohana, kou kaikuahine o kou Kaikamahine, He wahine i hauʻoli me ka wahine, ke kāne like, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe) a i ʻole he kūpaʻa ʻoe i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe, a ʻo ka hapa nui o nā loina o ka nohona kaiāulu e ʻōlelo ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ma mua o hoʻokahi hoa pili.
ʻO ka manaʻo hoʻomākeʻaka wale nō ia o kāu Id e haʻi aku nei iā ʻoe, makemake ʻoe i ke kanaka, na kāu superego e haʻi aku iā ʻoe i nā ʻano morale āu e ukali ai, aʻo kou ego ke hoʻoholo āu e hoʻoholo ai.
ʻAʻole manaʻo ka id, makemake wale ia. He moʻolelo ʻokoʻa nā mea āpau āpau. Nānā ʻole pehea ʻoe e hoihoi ai, pili ia i ka hana a kāu ego e hōʻike ai i kou ʻano maoli.
No laila he aha ke ʻano o ka manaʻo i kekahi?
ʻO ia hoʻi makemake ʻoe e pili i kahi pilina pili loa me ke kanaka, inā paha ʻoe he moʻolelo ʻokoʻa.
ʻO ia paha hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i kanaka hanohano, papa, a i ʻole kekahi me kahi fetish ʻano ʻē. Aia ia i kāu koho ʻana e hoʻoholo ai.
ʻAe kāu superego
He aha ke ʻano o ka manaʻo i kekahi a ʻae pū kāu superego me ʻoe?
E noʻonoʻo ʻoe ʻaʻohe āu fetish ʻē e kāohi i kāu superego. A laila manaʻo ia ua loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi hoa pili. ʻAʻole mākou e ʻōlelo he aloha ia i kēia manawa, akā ua hui maoli ʻoe me kekahi āu e aloha ai.
ʻAʻole ʻoe i aloha i kekahi mea ke ʻole ʻoe e hāʻawi i ke ola iā ʻoe. Hiki iā ia ke kanaka, keiki, a manaʻo paha.
Pono ka hoʻomohala ʻana a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i kāu mea paʻa e aloha ai. He mau haneli kāne ma ka honua i hoʻomaka me ka ʻole o nā kupu leʻaleʻa, akā ua pau pū lāua no ka manawa lōʻihi.
No laila e hoʻonui i kāu paʻa me ke kanaka, ʻo ia paha kāu ʻano i kēia manawa, akā hoʻololi nā mea ke ʻike ʻoe i kekahi. E hoʻomaikaʻi paha lākou a i ʻole huli lākou no ka mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.
No laila ma hope o ka haʻawina psyche, he aha ke ʻano o ka manaʻo i kekahi?
He mea ʻole loa ia. Aia a hana ʻoe i kekahi mea e pili ana. Ua hoʻohana ka mea kākau kumu i nā butterflies i loko o ka metaphor no ka mea e like me nā butterflies, hele mai kēlā mau manaʻo a hele aku, he mau manawa lele lākou.
ʻOi aku ka mana o ke aloha, hiki iā ia ke puni i kahi kanaka a ʻike ʻia e hoʻokau i ka poʻe e hana i nā mea pupule.
Inā hoʻomau ʻoe e launa me ke kanaka a kūkulu i kāu paʻa, a laila i kekahi lā e aloha paha ʻoe. ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke ʻōlelo e aloha ke kanaka iā ʻoe, ʻoiai ke hana pū nei kāu mau psyches e hana i ka mea maikaʻi loa, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e pānaʻi ka ʻaoʻao ʻē i kāu mau hana.
ʻOiai ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻowahāwahā a pale iā ʻoe, loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi manawa.
No laila he aha ke ʻano o ka manaʻo i kekahi? He manaʻo paha he mea ʻole ia a hiki i ka wā e hana ai wau i kekahi mea e pili ana? Ae.
ʻO kāu e noʻonoʻo ai a manaʻo ai, ʻo kāu wale nō ia.
ʻO ka mea āu e ʻōlelo a hana ai paha na ka honua e hoʻokolokolo. Aia wale ʻoe ke ʻōlelo a hana paha i nā mea e ʻike ai i kou mau manaʻo a me kou mau manaʻo, a laila aia ke ʻano.
He mea ʻole inā ʻike ʻoe i ka huhū, huhū, huhū, inaina, aloha, aloha, ʻiʻini, aloha, hoʻomana, a i ʻole kuko.
Aia a kau ʻia i kāu hana e kāu ego. ʻO kou mau manaʻo pilikino wale nō ia. E akahele, no ka mea maikaʻi kāu mau manaʻo (no ʻoe). ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo e pane maikaʻi nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
Akā ke hana ʻole i kekahi mea e hōʻoia i kou mau manaʻo e alakaʻi i ka ʻole. No laila e kamaʻilio me kāu id a me kāu superego. A laila koho pololei.