Anter
- 1. Hoalohaloha
- 2. Ka kamaʻilio kūpono
- 3. Hilinaʻi a hilinaʻi hoʻi
- 4. Kākoʻo
- 5. E hakakā ʻoe, e kala aku a hoʻopoina i kekahi i kekahi
ʻO nā pilina olakino kahi ʻāpana kūpono o ke olakino a me ke ola kūleʻa. Hoʻonui ka pilina i ko mākou ola a hoʻohui i kā mākou leʻaleʻa o ke ola ʻana, akā ʻike mākou āpau ʻaʻohe pilina i kūpono.
He aha ka pilina olakino?
ʻO ka pilina olakino kahi pilina i hoʻopiha ʻia me ka hauʻoli, ka hauʻoli, a me ka mea nui - ke aloha. Hana ʻia nā kānaka e pili i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i kahi ala maikaʻi a hoʻomaikaʻi akā maikaʻi ʻole ʻaʻole pēlā ka hihia. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, i kekahi manawa, ʻae mākou i ke ʻano hewa o nā kānaka e komo i loko o ko mākou ola, a ʻaʻole maikaʻi, olakino, a maikaʻi ʻole ka pilina me lākou a ʻo ka hapanui, ʻaʻole hua pū kekahi.
Aia kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona o ke ʻano o ka pilina olakino-
1. Hoalohaloha
Ke noho ʻoe i kahi pilina olakino, ʻike ʻoe i kāu hoa me kāu hoa aloha. Hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi iā ia i kekahi mea e hoʻopilikia nei iā ʻoe. Ua noʻonoʻo ʻolua ʻelua e hoʻonā i nā pilikia e pili ana inā he hoa a i ʻole ka pilina ma ka laulā. ʻO nā hoa hana ma ke ʻano he hoaaloha a me ka launa aloha ikaika e paʻa ana ka mana. Aloha lākou i kekahi i kekahi a makemake maoli lākou i kekahi i kekahi e like me nā hoaaloha maikaʻi loa.Hauʻoli lākou i ka launa pū ʻana, ka hele ʻana i nā pikiniki, ke nānā pū ʻana i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni a hauʻoli pū i ka hana pū ʻana i nā mea.
2. Ka kamaʻilio kūpono
Aia ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina olakino ke hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike ākea i kou mau manaʻo a pale i ke kanu ʻana i ka ʻeha a i ʻole ka huhū. Hana pinepine ʻolua i nā kūlana me ka hoʻonele ʻole i ka manawa.
Loaʻa nā pilina olakino i nā pilina kamaʻilio maikaʻi a maikaʻi. Loaʻa nā pilina pilina maikaʻi ʻole i waena o nā hoa.
He hōʻailona ia aia ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina olakino inā ʻoe a me kāu pakanā e ʻōlelo i ka ʻōlelo like, ke kamaʻilio pū ʻana i ke ʻano, ke kamaʻilio kino ʻana a me ka ʻōlelo ʻana i ka naʻau - ʻo ia hoʻi ka hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi i kāu mau pono, makemake, kaumaha, a me nā mea i manaʻo ʻia me ka maikaʻi.
ʻAʻohe makaʻu kahi hoa, hilahila a makaʻu paha e pili ana i ka hōʻoia ʻana iā lākou iho inā koi ʻia.
3. Hilinaʻi a hilinaʻi hoʻi
ʻO ka hilinaʻi ka mea nui i ka pilina, no ka mea, me ka hilinaʻi ʻole, ʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa kahi pilina olakino. ʻO ka hilinaʻi ka mea nui i ka wā e hoʻoholo ai inā olakino a olakino ʻole paha kahi pilina. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hilinaʻi a hilinaʻi i kāu hoa, a hiki i kāu hoa ke hilinaʻi a hilinaʻi iā ʻoe.
E hāʻawi ʻolua i kekahi i kekahi i ke kumu e hilinaʻi ai kekahi i kekahi.
ʻO ka hilinaʻi ka wehewehe o ka pilina olakino. Makemake nā kāne i ka pilina e hilinaʻi a hilinaʻi kekahi i kekahi. Inā hiki i nā hoa i ka pilina ke hana i ka mea a lākou e ʻōlelo ai a ʻōlelo i kā lākou hana, hana ia i kahi lewa o ka hilinaʻi a me ka hilinaʻi ma o ka ʻike ʻana i kā lākou mau huaʻōlelo a me kā lākou hana i mea i kekahi hoa ʻē aʻe. Hiki i nā kāne a kaukaʻi ke hilinaʻi i kekahi i kekahi.
No laila, e kūkulu i ka hilinaʻi a me ka hilinaʻi i ka pilina, mai hūnā i kekahi i kekahi, mai hoʻopunipuni kekahi i kekahi a hana ka nui i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai a ʻōlelo i kāu hana i hana ʻole i kahi hoʻohiki āu i ʻike ai ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokō.
4. Kākoʻo
He hōʻailona maopopo ia aia ʻoe i kahi pilina olakino inā kākoʻo kāu hoa i kou ola pākahi ma waho o ka pilina. He mea nui ia i ka pilina olakino e kākoʻo ʻoe a me kāu hoa i nā pahuhopu a me nā moemoeā o ke ola.
Hana ka pilina i ka hana mau a koi aku iā ʻoe a me kāu pakanā i ka makemake a me ka hiki ke hana pū, kōkua i kekahi i kekahi e hoʻokō i kā lākou mau pahuhopu, e hana pū i nā manaʻo a ulu nui i ke aloha pū. Pono kāu hoa e aʻoaʻo, hana, kākoʻo a kōkua iā ʻoe e hōʻea i nā pahuhopu āu e makemake ai a me nā moemoeā āu e ʻimi nei i kou ola.
I kahi pilina olakino, ʻae kāu hoa iā ʻoe no wai ʻoe. ʻAe ʻo ia a kākoʻo i kou nohona, hoaaloha, a me kou ʻohana a ʻo ka mea nui, ke kākoʻo piha ʻo ia i kāu pahuhopu a me kou mau moemoeā.
5. E hakakā ʻoe, e kala aku a hoʻopoina i kekahi i kekahi
I loko o kahi pilina olakino, nā hakakā, nā ʻaelike, a me nā hakakā ʻaʻole ia he mea haʻihaʻi kūleʻa. Ma muli o kou kūlike ʻole a hoʻopaʻapaʻa paha me kāu hoa ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo no ka manawa kēia e wāwahi wale ai a neʻe i mua. Akā, ʻike ʻia ka hakakā he manawa kūpono e aʻo hou aʻe e pili ana i ka hoa ʻē aʻe a ulu pū i ke aloha a me ka launa.
E hoʻomanaʻo mau i ka mea kokoke iā ʻoe, ka mea āu e aloha ai a me ka mea aloha iā ʻoe, ʻoi aku paha ka hōʻeha iā ʻoe no ka mea ʻoi aku kona kokoke iā ʻoe ma mua o kekahi. ʻAʻohe mea maikaʻi e like me ʻoe. Inā ʻoe e ʻike a maopopo i kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo, e kala maʻalahi ʻoe i kēlā me kēia, i kā lākou mau hewa a me nā kūlike ʻole. ʻO ke kala ʻana a me ka hoʻopoina ʻana ʻo ia ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i nā lawehala a me nā ʻeha; hana ʻole ʻana i nā ʻōlelo hōʻino iā lākou i nā manawa āpau.