Anter
- 1. Ka hauʻoli, ka mahalo, a me ka kūpaʻa
- 2. Hoʻomaka i kahi ʻohana
- 3. Ka ulu ʻana ma ke ʻano he ʻelua
- 4. Ke hana nei i nā pahuhopu maʻamau
- 5. Leʻaleʻa
- 6. Palekana
- 7. Hoʻopiha
ʻO ka male male kahi hana i ukali ʻia e ke kaiāulu no nā kenekulia i hala.
I kēia manawa, ua nui nā hoʻololi i nā manaʻoʻiʻo a me nā hana noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka hoʻokumu o ka male.
Ma mua, ua manaʻo ʻia he kūkaʻi kūpono ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine; ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia nā wahine i kahi hana e makemake i ka palekana kālā ʻoiai ua koho nā kāne i ka male no nā hoʻoilina a no laila, ʻo ka male ka pane kūpono i kēia mau pilikia ʻelua.
I kēia au hou, ua loli ke kumu o ka male. ʻImi ka poʻe i nā mea hou aʻe ma waho o ka male
ʻO kēlā me kēia mea āu e hana ai i ke ola e pono iā ʻoe e hoʻonohonoho i kahi pahuhopu a i ʻole he kumu. Pēlā nō ka male ʻana!
Aia kekahi mau haʻawina like ʻole e pili ana i ka wehewehe o ka male o kēia manawa, a me nā manaʻo male e pili ana i nā ʻano like ʻole e like me ka ʻike ponoʻī, koho wahine, etc.
Akā he aha ke kumu o ka male?
Ke male ʻana, pono ʻoe e ʻike pono i ka mea āu e makemake ai e ʻimi i waho o kēia pilina a ma kahi āu e makemake ai e ʻike.
ʻO ka hemahema i ho'ākāka ʻia, ʻae ʻia a i ʻole hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā pahuhopu male maikaʻi ʻole hiki ke hopena iā ʻoe i mua o ka pilikia e mālama ana i kāu pilina a lawe i ka holomua. Hele paha ʻoe i loko o kahi loop maikaʻi o nā nīnau e like me 'Pono ka male?'
Ma muli o ka male ma ka haʻahaʻa i kēia manawa, nui ka poʻe e nīnau he aha ke kiko o ka male a no ke aha ka mea nui o ka male.
Eia kekahi mau kiko e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ke kumu o ka male a me ke ʻano o ka male.
1. Ka hauʻoli, ka mahalo, a me ka kūpaʻa
ʻO ka poʻe i kaʻana like i nā hoihoi like ʻole ka mea i aloha a hoʻoholo e hoʻopaʻa iā lākou iho i ka paʻa o ka male.
He mea kūpono wale nō ka manaʻo o nā kāne e noʻonoʻo like nei e hui pū me ka maikaʻi. Ke ʻimi ʻolua ʻelua i nā pahuhopu like i ke ola, hana pū ʻolua i ka loaʻa ʻana iā lāua.
ʻIke ʻia nā kāne e kaʻana like i kahi pahuhopu ola like a hana i nā hana no ka loaʻa ʻana, hoʻomoe i ke kumu no kahi male kūleʻa. Kākoʻo kēlā mau kāne i kekahi i kekahi ma o nā mea āpau, mahalo, aloha kekahi i kekahi, a kaʻana like i ka pīhoihoi i nā hauʻoli maʻamau.
2. Hoʻomaka i kahi ʻohana
Makemake nā kāne he nui i nā keiki ma hope koke o ka male ʻana. He mea mau no ka loaʻa ʻana o nā keiki ma hope o ka male ʻana i nā kāne a noʻonoʻo ia mea he kumu nui o ka male ʻana. Kūpono loa kēia.
ʻIke ʻia nā keiki e like me ke ala e hoʻonui ai i ka laina ʻohana, i mua i nā kuʻuna ʻohana a me ka hoʻoilina o ka ʻohana. Hoʻokomo pū nā keiki i kahi kokoke i kekahi, a ulu wale ko lākou aloha kekahi i kekahi.
ʻOiai ʻo ia ka ʻāpana i nalowale i loko o kahi ʻohana piha, hāpai nā keiki i ka hōʻailona kūlana o ka wahine ma ke ʻano he ʻohana piha i manaʻo ʻia he hauʻoli a kūleʻa hoʻi ka male.
3. Ka ulu ʻana ma ke ʻano he ʻelua
ʻO ka manawa kūpono e ulu a hānai iā ʻoe iho me kāu pākahi kahi makana maikaʻi loa o ka male.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo a hoʻololi i kahi mana ʻoi aku o ʻoe iho, e lilo i mea āu e makemake mau ai. Hoʻonui ka ulu i nā palena o kāu wahi hōʻoluʻolu a hoʻokuʻi iā ʻoe i kāu palena e hoʻopuka i nā hiki i hiki iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he kanaka.
He mea maikaʻi kēia nāu e mālama i kāu male a ola.
ʻO kekahi o nā mea maikaʻi o ka male ʻana e aʻo ʻoe a me kāu hoa e hana pū kekahi me kekahi a ma kahi e kōkua kekahi i kekahi i ka hana i nā manawa paʻakikī.
I kou ulu ʻana, loaʻa iā ʻoe ka hoihoi nui o kāu hoa. E hoʻomaka ʻoe e hana i nā mea hou aʻe i ka ʻoluʻolu o kāu hoa, kū i ko lākou ʻaoʻao, a kākoʻo iā lākou i nā mea āpau me ka pale ʻana i kāu hoa mai nā mea e hōʻoluʻolu ʻole ai lākou.
4. Ke hana nei i nā pahuhopu maʻamau
ʻO ka male ʻana e hōʻoia iā ʻoe aia kekahi e aloha iā ʻoe.
ʻO ka manaʻo o ka hōʻoia ʻana he mea hoʻonui i ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho a paipai wale i ka hoʻolaʻa ma waena o nā kāne.
Ke aloha kekahi mau hoa ʻelua i kekahi i kekahi, mahalo pū kekahi i kekahi me kā lākou mea nui āpau i ka ulu ʻana i kā lākou kūpaʻa ma kahi o ka hoʻokuʻi ʻana i lalo.
Pono ka pilina e pili i ka hilinaʻi, ke aloha, a me ka mahalo, a ʻaʻohe wahi no ka hoʻokūkū a me ka inaina i manaʻo ʻia ʻo ia wale nō ka lae o ka male.
5. Leʻaleʻa
ʻO kekahi o nā kumu no ka male ʻana he makana hohonu o ka leʻaleʻa. Nui nā pono like ʻole o ka male ʻana. Eia naʻe, hiki i ka leʻaleʻa iā ʻoe iho i ka launa pū ke kumu nui o ka male.
ʻAʻole wale ia, ʻo kāu hoa kāu kumu o ka leʻaleʻa a me ka hauʻoli pū kekahi.
6. Palekana
ʻO kekahi o nā pōmaikaʻi o ka male ka pale ʻana o nā ʻohana i kekahi i kekahi. Aia kahi pale o nā pono o kekahi me kekahi, o ka home a me nā keiki.
ʻO Cumulative, pale ma nā pae he nui a me nā ʻano ʻokoʻa o ke ola e kūkulu i ke kumu o ka male. He lawelawe ia ma ke ʻano he keu pono o ka male ʻana.
7. Hoʻopiha
No ke aha e male ai?
ʻO ke kumu o ka male ʻana e alakaʻi iā mākou i ka hoʻokō a piha paha o ke ola. Ke male ʻoe, hele ʻoe i loko o kahi manawa nui o ke ola e alakaʻi iā ʻoe i kahi kūlana hauʻoli loa.
Inā ʻoe e manaʻo hoʻokahi i ka male ʻana, ʻo kēia kekahi o nā hōʻailona pono ʻoe e hana pū me ia e hana i kahi huakaʻi waiwai.
I loko o ke wikiō ma lalo, kūkākūkā ʻo Sharon Pope i ka hakakā ma ka male male. Hoʻoholo ke kūkā kamaʻilio inā hiki i ka wahine ke hoʻoponopono i kā lāua male a maikaʻi hou a i ʻole inā hiki i ka manawa e hoʻokuʻu aloha ai i ka male.
Lawe hope loa
ʻ saidlelo ʻia ʻo ka male ka mea e māʻona ai a kākoʻo i nā lālā o ka ʻohana ma nā ʻano like ʻole, ka naʻau, ka moekolohe, a me ka psychologically. Ua manaʻo ʻia ka male ʻana i kahi anuu nui i loko o ke ola o kekahi.
ʻO ke kumu o ka male ma luna aʻe e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ka pili o ka male a hoʻonohonoho i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia mai loko mai.