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- ʻAʻole maikaʻi ke hāʻawi pio i kāu wahine
- Ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka pilikia maoli
- Hoʻololi pū i nā hana i makemake ʻole ʻia
Loaʻa wau i kēia nīnau i nā manawa āpau - ua kala wau iā ia i nā manawa he nui, a no nā mea like, a ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke lawe hou. Āhea ka manawa e kāhea ai e haʻalele a faila wale no ka hemo a i ʻole i ka manawa hea e haʻalele ai i kāu male?
ʻĀ, ʻaʻole ka pane pōkole loa. ʻAʻole maikaʻi ke kāhea ʻana ia mea i kāu wahine a i ʻole nā mea nui ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka maikaʻi o ke kāhea ʻana iā quits ma kahi keiki a i ʻole pēpē.
No laila inā ʻoe e hakakā ana me ka manaʻo o ka manawa e haʻalele ai i kahi pilina? i ka manawa hea e haʻalele ai i kahi pilina? aiʻole he aha ka manawa kūpono e kāhea ai e haʻalele i kahi pilina? E kōkua mākou iā ʻoe e hoʻoponopono i kēlā mau manaʻo a pehea e hana ai me nā hōʻailona o ka hōʻihi ʻole i ka male.
ʻAʻole maikaʻi ke hāʻawi pio i kāu wahine
Ke hana hewa a mākou keiki, hāʻawi wale mākou iā lākou i kahi manawa kūpono e hana ai a mai hana hou i kekahi mea hewa a i ʻole e hāʻawi mākou iā lākou no ke keiki hānai? ʻAʻole, ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole! Hāʻawi wale mākou i kā mākou pēpē huluhulu i hoʻokahi kī ʻana i ka ʻeli ʻole ʻana i nā lua ma ka pā o hope ma mua o ka hemo ʻana iā lākou?
ʻAʻole, ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole! A laila no ke aha mākou, ma ke ʻano he kaiāulu, e manaʻo nei he maikaʻi ke hāʻawi aku i ke kanaka a mākou i koho ai, a no kekahi poʻe, ua koho ke Akua e hui pū me mākou, ʻaʻole pūlehu i ka maka maka?
ʻO kēia anei ka makahiki ʻoluʻolu koke e noho nei mākou i ka hoʻomau ʻana i ka manaʻo inā ʻaʻole wau makemake i kekahi mea i koʻu ola, ʻo kaʻu wale nō e hana ai ka hoʻopau ʻana a loaʻa kahi mea hou?
A ma muli paha o kekahi papahana i loko o mākou e haʻi iā mākou ua hōʻino ʻia kēia kanaka a inā noho wau me lākou, a laila ua ʻino pū wau. A i ʻole he manaʻoʻiʻo paha ʻaʻole lākou e loli a no laila pono mākou e haʻalele e hoʻopakele iā mākou iho a i kā mākou poʻe keiki paha?
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kēia mea ke ʻike nei mākou i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, keu hoʻi nā mea kokoke iā mākou, kēlā ʻano a me nā ʻano āu e makemake ʻole ai iā mākou iho.
ʻO wau, ʻaʻole loa e ʻōlelo ana he wahine hoʻopunipuni kekahi kāne a hoa paha o ka mea hoʻopunipuni, akā ʻo ka hihia maʻamau ka makemake o ka mea i hoʻopunipuni ʻia e haʻalele i ka pilina no ka mea ʻike lākou i ka hoa me ka hōʻino a manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke lilo. ke ʻano o ke kanaka a lākou e makemake maoli ai e noho pū, no laila pono lākou e haʻalele.
Ke ʻike nei lākou i kā lākou hoa i ka mea a lākou e ʻike maoli ai iā lākou iho, koho wale lākou e uhi iā ia a nānā ʻole a hōʻole paha iā lākou a hoʻopiʻi i kā lākou hoa pili.
No laila inā ʻoe e ʻike manawa e kāhea aku ai ma ka male a laila e nānā pono iā ʻoe iho a ʻike he aha ka mea e nīnau ai iā ʻoe i ka ikaika o kāu paʻa male.
Ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka pilikia maoli
"Ua pili wau i kahi hihia, a i kēia manawa makemake ʻo ia e hemo." Manaʻo lākou ʻo ka hihia ka hōʻailona no ka wā e kāhea ai e haʻalele ia i loko o kāu male inā ʻaʻole maoli ia.
Ua hana pū wau me nā kāne he nui e kū ana i ka moekolohe a me nā wahaheʻe a me nā hoʻopunipuni e pili pū ana me ia, a hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo me ke kānalua ʻole inā e kamaʻilio ʻia ka pilikia o ka hihia, kū ka moe kolohe, kū ka wahaheʻe; hoʻi ke kuko a ma hope o kekahi mau hana, hoʻi ka hilinaʻi.
Ua haki anei ʻoe i kahi iwi? Hōʻike mai ka ʻepekema ʻepekema iā mākou i ke kaʻina o ka hoʻōla ʻana i ka haki i kēlā iwi ke kumu o ka ikaika o ka wahi o ka haki. ʻO ka hihia like ia me kahi pilina pili loa. Maʻalahi paha? ʻAʻole akā pono anei? MAOLE LOA!
ʻO kekahi o nā mea mua a mākou e hana ai i ka wā e hele mai ai kahi mau kāne me nā pilikia hilinaʻi ke ʻike nei i kahi i loaʻa ai ke aʻa o ka pilikia-he aha ka mea a lākou i hoʻoholo ai i kekahi manawa i ka wā i hala. lawelawe iā lākou?
Ke hoʻopau mākou i nā hana i hoʻohana ʻia e lanakila ai i kēia pilikia, hiki i ka wahine ke hoʻomaka e hoʻi i kā lākou kuleana maoli i ka pilina a kālele ana i ka hālāwai ʻana me nā pono o kekahi me kekahi ma nā ʻano maikaʻi a me ka hauʻoli ma kahi o nā ʻeha a me nā hana ʻino.
Ma mua o ka wikiwiki ʻana e ʻike pehea e ʻike ai i ka manawa e haʻalele ai i kahi pilina aiʻole i ka wā hea e haʻalele ai i ka male, pono ʻoe e ʻike i ka pilikia e pili ana, a laila e noʻonoʻo pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hana me kēlā pilikia.
Hoʻololi pū i nā hana i makemake ʻole ʻia
E like me ka hana ʻana o nā mākua me nā keiki e hoʻololi i nā lawena i makemake ʻole ʻia, pono mākou nā hoa e hana pū kekahi me kekahi e loli i nā hana i makemake ʻole ʻia e ke kūkulu ʻana i nā mea i makemake ʻia e lākou. Inā he wahine hoʻopunipuni, he ʻaneʻane mau ia no ka mea ʻaʻole manaʻo nui ʻo ia i ka hoa ʻē aʻe.
Hiki i kēia no nā kumu he lehulehu e like me nā makuahōnōwai kāne a me ka launa ʻana o ka ʻohana, nā keiki ʻōpio, kahi ʻoihana, nā hoaaloha, kahi hoihoi ʻē aʻe a me nā leʻaleʻa, a me nā kumu ʻē aʻe ʻē aʻe.
Ke hele maoli ʻoe me ʻoe a ʻike i ke aʻa o ka pilikia i loko ou, ua lako ʻoe me ka ʻike a me ka mana e hoʻohuli i nā mea a hoʻi i kahi i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o (hoʻomanaʻo i ka iwi haʻi).
ʻO ka hōʻino ʻana i kekahi kanaka no kou kūlana, ʻoiai ʻo ia kou hoa pili, e like me ka inu ʻana i ka lāʻau make a ke manaʻo nei e make kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe.
He disempowering loa ia a hiki wale nō ke alakaʻi i ka huhū, kūkākūkā a me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana no ka mea ke hāʻawi nei ʻoe i ka mana i kekahi e hoʻoholo i kou hauʻoli, a ʻaʻole holo pono kēlā.
Pono ʻoe e lilo i kāu ʻāpana i ka pilina, i nā pilikia, a i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana, a ke hana kēlā me kēia hoa i kēia, a laila hoʻomaka ka hoʻōla maoli.
Inā hōʻole kekahi a ʻelua paha o nā hoa e lawe i ke kuleana no kā lākou ʻāpana i ka hihia, a laila hiki iā lākou ke hemo, akā ʻaʻole loa lākou e pili i kahi hauʻoli maoli, pili paʻa no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou i hoʻoponopono i ka pilikia maoli.
E hana hou lākou i nā ʻano like, e ʻumeʻume i nā pilikia like, a kū i ke kūlana like, me nā hoa like ʻole. E hoʻomanaʻo i ka ʻike ʻana pehea e hoʻopili ai i kahi pilina i ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ka ʻike ʻana i ka manawa e haʻalele ai i ka wā hea e haʻalele ai i ka male.
He aha kāu pilikia pili pili loa?