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- ʻOi aku ka moekolohe ma mua o ka hana kino wale nō
- ʻO ka pilina maoli ʻaʻole ʻelua mau kino e hui pū ʻia i ka moekolohe
- ʻO ka moekolohe kahi medium of intimacy wale nō
- ʻAʻole maikaʻi ka moekolohe ma ka pilina ma mua no ka pilina
- ʻOi aku ka pilina maoli ma mua o ka moekolohe
- E mae ana ka pīhoihoi mua i kekahi manawa i ka manawa
- No laila i ka manawa hea e pau ai ke aloha?
- Hoʻomanaʻo i nā manawa maikaʻi ke hele a huʻawa nā mea
Makemake nui mākou āpau i ka launa ʻana, a hiki ke ʻike ʻia ka pilina kino ma ke ʻano he pilina, ma ka liʻiliʻi no kekahi manawa. A ʻoiai ua wehewehe ʻia ka moekolohe ma ke ʻano he ʻano pilikino; me ka pili ʻole, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke ʻike maoli i nā mea a pau a ke Akua i manaʻo ai e ʻike.
Mai hōʻalo e hoʻomaopopo iā mākou, no ka manawa ʻo “Quickie” mākou. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻōlelo ka baibala i loko o ka puke o Kauka, "I kēlā me kēiamea, aia nō he manawa, a he manawa no kēlā me kēia kumu ma lalo o ka lani. No laila, inā ʻaʻole nui kou manawa, pono ʻoe e hana i kāu mea e hana ai.
ʻOi aku ka moekolohe ma mua o ka hana kino wale nō
ʻAʻole mākou makemake i ko mākou moekolohe e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i loko o kahi hana kino me ka pili ʻole a me ke aloha. No ka nui o kā mākou moekolohe, inā ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻomohala i ke aloha maoli a me ka pilina ma mua o ka moekolohe, a laila ʻaʻole ia ma hope o ka moekolohe.
ʻO ka pilina maoli ʻaʻole ʻelua mau kino e hui pū ʻia i ka moekolohe
Epeso 5:31 (HN) No kēia mea e haʻalele ai ke kāne i kona makuakāne a me kona makuahine, a e hoʻopili ʻia me kāna wahine, a lilo lāua ʻelua i ʻiʻo hoʻokahi.
ʻElua ka lilo ʻana i hoʻokahi ma mua o ka moekolohe kino wale nō. Ehia mau kāne male e moe kolohe, kaʻana like i ko lākou kino akā ʻaʻole i ko lākou puʻuwai. Ua male paha lākou, e hiamoe pū ana, e moekolohe, a ke manaʻo nei lākou wale nō.
No ke aha mai?
ʻO ka moekolohe kahi medium of intimacy wale nō
E like me ka hose kīhāpai ʻaʻole ke kumu wai, akā he hōʻike wale a kaʻa paha nona; no laila ʻaʻole ka moekolohe ke kumu o ka pilina, akā he hōʻike wale nō ia.
Inā ʻaʻohe wai i loko o ka waihona wai, a laila ʻaʻohe wai e puka mai ana mai ka kaukini hose kīhāpai.
Pēlā nō, inā ʻaʻohe aloha a pilina i loko o kā mākou puʻuwai, a laila ʻaʻohe mea e puka i waho o ka hana kino o ka moekolohe.
Nui nā kāne e komo i ka moekolohe ma mua o ka male ʻana no ka mea manaʻo lākou he hōʻike ia o ko lākou aloha kekahi i kekahi. Akā i ka hapanui o nā hihia, ʻaʻole lākou i ulu i kahi pilina pili. ʻOiai he mea ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki i ka hapa nui o kēia mau kāne ke hoʻomau i ka moekolohe akā maoli, keakea i ko lākou ulu ʻana i kahi pilina pili.
ʻAʻole maikaʻi ka moekolohe ma ka pilina ma mua no ka pilina
ʻOiai noho mau kēia mau kāne a male a male, ua lilo ke ʻano o ko lāua pilina i ke kino, a ua oki lākou kaʻana like ʻana i ka ʻike pili. Lilo lāua i kāne a i ʻole male e hele nei i ke ʻano o ke aloha akā ua lilo ka manaʻo o ke aloha; pili pili pili.
Me he mea lā, ʻo nā kāne a komo koke i ka pili moekolohe e ʻike paha i nā leʻaleʻa o ka moekolohe, akā ʻaʻole maʻa mau ka pilina maoli no ka mea hoʻopau lākou i ka kaʻana like ʻana i ka ʻike. Hoʻomaopopo ʻia ka pilina e ka hana kino o ka moekolohe.
ʻOi aku ka pilina maoli ma mua o ka moekolohe
ʻAe, ʻo ka moekolohe kahi ʻāpana o kahi ʻano pilina, akā ʻaʻole ia he pilina. Hiki i ka moekolohe ke lilo i pilina pili loa a nani hoʻi o ke aloha, akā ke wahaheʻe wale nei mākou iā mākou iho ke hana mākou me he mea lā ʻo ka wahine ke hōʻoia o ke aloha.
Nui loa nā kāne e koi i ka moekolohe ma ke ʻano he hōʻoiaʻiʻo o ke aloha; he nui nā wahine i hāʻawi i ka moekolohe me ka lana o ke aloha.
Noho mākou i kahi honua i piha i nā mea hoʻohana kahi e hana ʻino ai kekahi i kekahi i mea e hōʻemi ai i ka ʻeha o ka noho hoʻokahi. A ʻoi loa ka nui o ka poʻe e hoʻohana i ka moekolohe ma ke ʻano he ala e hoʻokō ai i ko lākou pono ponoʻī ma mua o ke ʻano he expression no ka pono o kā lākou hoa.
I loko o kā mākou puke "Aloha mua, aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo, aloha maikaʻi", kūkākūkā mākou pehea ke aloha i kēlā manawa, ʻaʻole. ʻO ka mea i lilo i ka pilina aloha a pilina loa hoʻi i hoʻēmi ʻia i kēlā me kēia kanaka e hele wale nei i nā ʻano o ke aloha i ka ʻoi loa, a i ʻole ke ʻano ʻenemi kūpilikiʻi a hōʻino hoʻi a i ʻole ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.
Ma kahi o ke ao holoʻokoʻa, hoʻomaka kēia mau pilina me kahi maʻamau o kahi elation mua, hauʻoli, hauʻoli, hauʻoli, hauʻoli, a me ka hauʻoli. ʻIke lākou i kahi ʻano ʻoluʻolu a me ka naʻau o ka euphoria ke lilo lākou i mea ʻoi aku ka pili.
E mae ana ka pīhoihoi mua i kekahi manawa i ka manawa
ʻO ka mea like ʻaneʻane maʻamau me kā mākou mau pilina, ʻo ia ma kekahi manawa kēlā mau manaʻo mua o ka hauʻoli, hauʻoli, euphoria, pīhoihoi, hauʻoli, hauʻoli, a me ka hauʻoli ʻaʻole i laila.
ʻO ka hapanui o nā kāne he moʻolelo nui e pili ana i ko lākou hui mua ʻana a aloha aloha akā ʻaʻole hiki i ka manawa maʻamau ke kikoʻī i ka wā i hoʻomaka ai lākou e hāʻule i ke aloha. Hoʻomaopopo paha lākou i nā manaʻo like ʻole i hoʻohoka ʻia ai lākou a ʻeha paha lākou, akā ʻo ka manawa i hoʻomaka ai ke aloha e mae wale ʻo ia ka maʻalahi.
Hōʻike 2: 4 (MN) Eia naʻe kekahi mea aʻu i kūʻē ai iā ʻoe no ka mea ua haʻalele ʻoe i kou aloha mua.
No laila i ka manawa hea e pau ai ke aloha?
ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka moekolohe; no ka mea he nui nā kāne e hoʻomau i ka moekolohe kino ʻoiai ua hala ko lākou aloha kekahi i kekahi.
Pau ke aloha ke kū mākou i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i ka ʻike pili i kekahi me kekahi, a i ka wā mākou e haʻalele ai i ka hana i nā mea pili a mākou e hana ai me kekahi.
Hōʻike 2: 5 (MFF) No laila, mai hea ʻoe i hāʻule ai, a mihi, a hana i nā hana mua; a i ʻole, e hele koke aku au i ou lā, a e lawe aku i kou ipukukui, mai kona wahi aku, ke mihi ʻole ʻoe.
ʻO kā ke Akua makemake iā mākou e hana, ʻo ia ka hoʻomanaʻo a me ka mihi. Ke noi aku mākou i nā kāne e haʻi mai iā mākou e pili ana i ka wā a lākou i hui mua ai, ko lākou lā mua, i ka wā i aloha mua ai lākou, a me ka lā a lākou i male ai - ʻakaʻaka mau lākou i ko lākou hoʻomanaʻo ʻana me nā mea aloha aloha o ka wā i hala. ʻOiai inā he mau minuke i hala aku nei i ka wā o ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo, aia lākou i nā ʻāʻī o kekahi. Ua ʻōlelo mai kekahi, “Ua hāʻawi mai ke Akua iā mākou i mea hoʻomanaʻo e hoʻomanaʻo ai mākou i ka pilau a me ka nani o nā rosa i Kēkēmapa.
Hoʻomanaʻo i nā manawa maikaʻi ke hele a huʻawa nā mea
Ke hiki mākou i ke kau o Kekemapa (ʻoʻoleʻa, lokoʻino, luuluu, a ʻino hoʻi) o kā mākou pilina, pono mākou e hoʻomanaʻo i nā manawa i ka wā e "Piʻi Roses" nā mea āpau!
I kēia manawa ua hoʻomanaʻo mākou i ke ʻano o nā mea, no ke aha mākou i hui pū ai, ke kumu a me nā moeʻuhane a mākou e hoʻohana ai - ʻo kēia ka manawa e mihi. ʻO ia, hoʻi a hoʻi i ka hana i nā mea a mākou e hoʻohana ai e hana ke hauʻoli mākou.