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- Nā pilikia i kū ʻia e nā kāne ma nā ʻohana i hui ʻia
- Lilo i makua hou
- Ka pilina ma waena o nā mākua kāne a me nā hoa hana mua
- Nā pilikia i kū i nā keiki i kahi ʻohana i hui ʻia
- Ka pilina ma waena o ke keiki a me ka stepparent
- Ka pilina ma waena o ke keiki a me nā keiki hānau
- Pehea e hiki ai i ke ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ke kōkua i loko o ka ʻohana i hui ʻia?
ʻO kahi ʻohana i hui ʻia kahi o nā kāne a ʻelua ma kahi male mua.
Ke hana hou kahi male hou i kahi ʻohana i hui ʻia e hāpai i nā pilikia nui he nui. ʻO ka hana ʻana i ke kuikahi ma waena o nā mākua a me kā lāua keiki he mea paʻakikī loa ia. Hoʻohana ʻia paha nā keiki i nā hana maʻamau a ka ʻohana a me nā kaila makua. ʻO ka hakakā a kipa paha ma waena o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i nā mākua hiki ke hana i ke koʻikoʻi.
Pēlā nō, hiki i nā kaikaina hou i kumu o ka paio kūpono.
He mau mahina paha ka hoʻololi ʻana o nā keiki i ka ʻohana hou. ʻO kekahi komplication hou i hoʻohui ʻia i mua o nā ʻohana ʻoiai ʻo kekahi mau keiki e noho nei i ka home, e kipa aku paha nā keiki ʻē aʻe e noho pū ana me ka makua maoli.
Nā pilikia i kū ʻia e nā kāne ma nā ʻohana i hui ʻia
He maʻa mau ke koʻikoʻi i loko o kahi hanana ʻohana i hoʻohui ʻia a ʻo nā makahiki mua paha ka ʻoi loa o ka paʻakikī. Lōʻihi ka manawa a me ke ahonui no nā ʻohana ʻelua e hoʻomaʻa ai i ka noho pū ʻana. Hiki i kēia ke hopena o nā kumu he nui kekahi o ia mau mea: ikaika a kūʻē paha i nā manaʻo, ʻano hoʻopaʻi ʻokoʻa a i ʻole nā ʻano mākua a me ka hoʻomohala ʻana i nā pilina hou.
He pilikia paha kēlā me kēia kanaka i ka ʻohana i hoʻohui ʻia i loko o kā lākou kuleana hou i ka ʻohana.
Pono kekahi a ʻelua paha mākua e aʻo i nā kaula o ka pehea e makua ai i nā keiki keiki ma ke ʻano he pilikia me nā keiki hānau hiki ke lawe i ka haunaele i ka pilina.
ʻO kekahi mau pilikia maʻamau a ka poʻe kāne e kū nei
Lilo i makua hou
ʻO kekahi mau mākua i komo i loko o kahi ʻohana i hui ʻia e lilo i kuleana o ka makua no ka manawa mua.
He mea paʻakikī loa ke kaulike pono i ka makua ʻana i kahi stepchild a makemake ʻia e lākou a hiki ke lilo i kumu nui o ke koʻikoʻi.
Ka pilina ma waena o nā mākua kāne a me nā hoa hana mua
Ma hope o ka hemo o ka poʻe makemake i ka neʻe a nānā nui i kā lākou mau hoa hou ʻo ia hoʻi ua oki ka kamaʻilio ʻana me kā lākou hoa. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole hiki i kēia ke pili pū nā keiki.
E hoʻomau ka makua hou i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kā lāua hoa pili inā wale nō e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā keiki.
Ua hoʻoweliweli ʻia kekahi mau hoa male e kēia kamaʻilio ʻana a kā lāua hoa me kā lāua ex ʻoiai i kekahi mau hihia ʻaʻole hauʻoli ka makua ʻole kamaʻāina i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻia ʻana o nā keiki e ka ʻohana makua.
Hiki i kēia mau hanana ke kumu o ka hoʻonui i ka haunaele i loko o kahi ʻohana i hui ʻia.
Nā pilikia i kū i nā keiki i kahi ʻohana i hui ʻia
ʻO nā keiki ka mea koʻikoʻi loa e kēia hoʻololi.
Ua hala lākou i kahi manawa paʻakikī i ka wā o ko lākou makua kāne hemo, a i kēia manawa pono lākou e hoʻololi i kahi makua hou a me nā lula hou. Hōʻike pinepine lākou i ko lākou huhū ma o ka huhū a me ka lawena.
Ka pilina ma waena o ke keiki a me ka stepparent
He paʻakikī nā keiki e hele i ka manawa me ko lākou mau manaʻo no kā lākou mākua.
Malia paha lākou e hilinaʻi iā lākou a hele mai paha e huhū iā lākou. Ke hakakā nei paha lākou me nā manaʻo o ka haʻalele ʻia e ko lākou makua ola ma hope o ka haʻalele ʻana o kā lākou makua. Manaʻo paha lākou e kumakaia nei lākou i ke aloha o ko lākou makua ola ma ka mālama ʻana i kā lākou makua hānau.
Ka pilina ma waena o ke keiki a me nā keiki hānau
Loaʻa i ka hoʻokūkū kaikaina kahi manaʻo hou i loko o kahi ʻohana i hui ʻia.
Manaʻo paha nā keiki e hoʻokūkū lākou no ka noho aliʻi a me ka nānā i ka hanana ʻohana hou.
Hiki paha iā lākou ke hopohopo ʻole no ka mea hopohopo lākou e hoʻomaka ka makemake o ko lākou makua ola i kā lākou mau papa hele wāwae.
Pehea e hiki ai i ke ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ke kōkua i loko o ka ʻohana i hui ʻia?
Kūpono nā ʻohana hui āpau i nā pilikia ke hoʻomaka lākou e noho pū.
ʻO ka mea nui pehea ʻoe e hoʻoponopono ai i kēia mau pilikia. ʻO ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i kou huhū a huhū paha e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka ʻoluʻolu o kēia manawa.
Hiki i kekahi mau ʻohana ke hoʻoponopono i kēia mau pilikia ma kā lākou iho ʻoiai koi kekahi i ke kōkua ʻoihana. Kōkua ʻia ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ʻohana huikau i nā ʻohana e aʻo pehea e noho ai ma ke ʻano he ʻohana hoʻokahi aloha.
Aʻo ia iā ʻoe pehea e hana ai i nā pilikia a me nā ʻeha e ulu nei i mua o kou ʻohana.
ʻO kahi keu pono maikaʻi loa o ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ʻohana i hoʻohui ʻia ke komo ʻana i kahi kanaka hilinaʻi e kū ʻole a kū ʻole i nā ʻaoʻao.
He mea hōʻoluʻolu pinepine ke kamaʻilio me kekahi mea pili ʻole i ka ʻohana. Paipai pū ʻia ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ʻohana huikau i ka launa pono i waena o nā lālā o ka ʻohana. Kōkua kēia i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā pilikia ʻohana i hui ʻia me ke kōkua o ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻana.
ʻO ka poʻe he nui i hele i loko o ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ʻohana i hui ʻia me ka ʻae ʻo ia ka mea ʻoi loa i hōʻuluʻulu i ko lākou ʻohana.